Sugarcoat

Interesting . That’s unique indeed : ) When you say “ having sex with someone below your standard” what do you mean? I mean what is the reason for having sex with someone? You must be attracted to them right? So if you’re attracted to someone then they aren’t “below your standard” , because then your “standard” is just some idea you have and isn’t actually what you actually are attracted to. Or you mean having sex with someone simply because of being horny and not even attracted to them?

I agree. And also requiring “unconditional love” from someone is in a sense just another form of conditional love

maybe seeing humor in it could help?

I see I see i feel op is in a different situation tho also considering his age but different perspectives can have something to them for sure

Thanks for helping me keep up with society ??

You confirmed my suspicions , i thought how could one write so elegantly something’s off

@Salvijus hmm idk. I lowkey feel like “putting your awareness” on something is just your mind enhancing something. You can’t move or direct awareness. That’s mental activity not activity of awareness. Things can move change adjust grow decrease but awareness itself is just unchanged

Yea but what does controlling your life start with?

That’s a hard question to answer i believe this desire to control others comes from your own sense of helplessness in being able to get what you want regarding something id say you can either when this control freak appears, notice your own sense of helplessness, get a little panicky about in the sense of “I need to get my shit together” and redirect this control freak towards yourself and use the negativity as fuel or you could just go along with this desire to control and let it play itself out, all the frustration and the behaviors and it might reveal something to you

Maybe you just need a break from it all and go spend some time in solitude

Is it working for you ? ?

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I’ve been wondering about this. Does awareness ever “increase” or is it just that something else “decreases “ and unravels so it’s more apparent ? but yes there’s always more deepening . It’s so unpredictable and unexpected and genius

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sometimes there is just something in us that wants to engage. And instead of pondering what it’s about why bla bla just follow it’s stream and see where it takes you as it probably will still be there no matter what conclusions you come to about it

The mind that says it has repressed feelings is lowkey the same mind that is covering it all up by making a bunch of noise and not letting energy move freely through you emotions etc

I feel that. Honestly I’m at this point where yes I can sense this depression but it’s not really suffering in ~that ~ way so I’m doing perfectly fine, it’s actually quite mystical . It has already been there but it’s more that other things have cleared themselves out so it’s more apparent. So my awareness of it is actually a result of a “deepening” in a sense . At least from my point of view but maybe I’m missing something

Thanks ?? I haven’t felt drawn to seek one out yet but who knows that might change although I don’t suspect it will

I can see the similarity yea

That doesn’t really explain todays mass spread religion to me…or am I missing something So for example let’s say someone met Jesus . His “energy” from his state of consciousness and the way he explain things might be so profound that the person listening can’t help but believe in it. That is understandable. Or let’s say someone reads a religious book thoroughly. So much wisdom from these conscious people in it that they can’t help but believe which makes sense to me but the average religious person hasn’t done either of those. They just hear from their surroundings growing up, other “unconscious people” and a little bit religious text. So there must be something else making them believe it so certainly. Or are people just like sponges who absorb everything from their surrounding?

You gave me an answer ??

Beautiful. Intuition doesn’t need to shout to be heard

What says your inner authority is right, sounds like two authorities to me??

I’m curious how he dealt with that

Those minds are so fascinating I don’t understand