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Yea I see I have also spilled my guts out on this forum but I was just curious how it works in his mind because for me it was like energetic attraction to this place but it doesn’t seem to be the same for him like it’s coming from a different place

Absolutely I agree . yea it makes sense why you would be attracted to this place, I’m just curious how it works for these people who write this hateful stuff, what’s it they’re drawn to about this stuff . Like they feel they’re outside society or something, which they are in a way but it’s a different way if I’m making sense… lol

why are you attracted to this forum?

Love a man of purpose ❤️

Wholesome ???

You should be glad women like your authentic self ❤️ must be hard to be nice when you’re monster inside ?

Yea you’re def gonna be lone if you do that

What are you able to do then?

There are women who are into that you could probably find one if you ever consider engaging that desire

I like how you included exact threads that’s funny to me ?

Sometimes it can be soothing for the mind to just pour all your focus on one thing you’re working on (flow state) as it takes it off of something else that’s hurting you , and at the same time is productive and moving you towards something better. win win It can create a cleansing effect

I don’t think there’s should or shouldn’t feel for yourself what you wanna focus on

I’ve yet to see someone swimming after drowning

I stumbled across this quote today and it has been replaying in my head since. Just fabulous In short I see it as related to the internal world. Otherwise I think it can speak for itself. just wanted to share?

Or at least becoming more and more aligned with it if that makes sense

Whaaat swimming is marvelous . But I guess some fears can be just biological . I’m glad to share ?

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Struck me so deep aah

Hahaha love it. Yea so much depth baked into it

I can definitely relate to the memory part. I believe it connects to the slowing down of one’s perception of time, which for me happened when I became less and less attached to the mind. And also perhaps we have an idea of how memories are “supposed” to feel, based on how people in our surroundings talk about their past, in a way where it seems they feel it’s very “real”. don’t know what you mean with it looking like pictures in a mirror, but I can say I’m familiar with the world looking “flat” and 2D almost, lacking depth to it like animation.

I’ve never been a spiritual seeker so don’t know who you’re talking to although understandable you’d get that impression , would agree nonetheless

Yes absolutely mostly in the past. I feel we sense ourselves differently at different times and situations so sometiems I feel my own “vibe” for example like an energy , sometimes I’m just walking around like a body without no one in it, sometiems I feel more contracted or whatever or open and expansive , like an open field. so it depends but i get it what you say, can’t pin point it exactly ?

The ultimate hack

Yea. It’s tricky and can take years to un-wire. Many layers to it. Not impossible to calm it down though. Those thoughts can reflect something you lack but it’s not always obvious what that is. The content of the thought doesn’t always directly reflect what you want/lack. Id say this is a very individual path and all these different fantasies you might have about different things you seem to desire can have their own unique contexts to them