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Im so struck by this thanks will definitely 🙏🏻

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You don’t have a c*nt so then it’s not a problem 🤣🤣🤣

I feel like if you’re bothered by someone seemingly thinking highly of themselves it might be that you yourself have qualities about yourself that you feel are great but you’re not “owning” /embodying it and expressing outwardly so it’s an insecurity in you

It’s goes very deep , with enough awareness one might notice the dynamic playing out in oneself

I don’t know. Im asking because I’ve noticed this trend in some stories where it seems to me some women do things (even heard stories of them having sex) with men when they’re not even into it because it would be uncomfortable to cut it off or something, and in these particular cases it not even being the men putting pressure or something, which is crazy to me but I guess I’d have to ask women ..

Why did it end with a kiss if she wasn’t into you

Fair enough

Hahaha this forum is like some energy source I swear

No you can’t change I relate to your suffering

Mm u do u

Your desire to change others is distracting you from going deeper yourself

??

yea for sure, the mind that turns to itself is one type of genius just like the math genius but there seems to be a correlation like quite a bit of the major geniuses were quite “mystic” themselves, if I am not wrong , so this turning inward thing is major

A mind that turns to itself

This post mostly reveals how desires work for you and now you trying to apply it to others

All in one ??

It’s like they not even interacting with the woman in front of them , but rather some generalized idea of “women” (the women they want lol) in their head lol. Like hmmmm how does this woman in front of me fit into my category of women in my head ??

You consider that “having your shit together” ?

Yea so I feel like thinking you wanna connect with her is kinda misguided you actually first and foremost wanna break through that wall in you to get in touch with yourself deeper, like a more authentic confident you that maybe you can sense somewhere under that fear so when I asked what’s the sad part I meant that maybe you feel the sad part is missing out on her, but that actually when insecurity arises it’s showing you exactly where your problem is kinda so it’s a positive thing you are aware of it, first step to resolving it. But then it’s like hmmm how, well people function different but a lot of people stay the same for a long time, and don’t conquer their insecurities for a looong time , which is the goal , so perhaps next time it happens for you , switch it up inside you, see that moment as an opportunity to beat that fear. So using that other person to beat your fears, so it doesn’t really matter what they think of you, as long as some of that insecurity dissolves it’s a win, first priority, isn’t it so? Isn’t everything else secondary?

what’s the sad part?

Then you two have something to vibe over

Find a girl who only drinks water ?

Regardless of social code or anything else, doesn’t it feel weird for you personally that you would deal with someone drunk? You can’t really know their state for sure . For me, I don’t like alcohol either and go so far that if a drunk person flirts with me, even if i hypothetically would be interested back I would feel a responsibility and not want to engage a person in such state

nice nice Yimpa