Sugarcoat

I check this place everyday too

I don’t judge myself if that’s what you mean

I understand their perspective so there’s not too much arguing

Mix I guess

I do those things you mentioned. It’s not that they think I spend too much time here, they are not just fans of these kinds of places in general im contemplating removing that part of the post as maybe it’s too personal

I don’t find it offensive or triggering, I think I understand what they mean. That’s why I wrote “it’s interesting” at the end . I don’t have a problem with people’s judgements about this stuff

Yea. You seem to fit in the category of someone who “has a life” at least my impression, not so weird to me. But still yea I agree being into this stuff is uncommon

You know everything here

Agreed

We will see🤓

I usually just check the forum without reading that much or writing that much myself I don’t see it as a problem, my problems don’t have to do with this

We’re all one they say

Maybe it’s one of my family members hiding behind the account 😂😂

Yes

Why

I agree but many people wouldn’t I think. Some seem to be so attached to their idea of normal and are lowkey scared of things outside of it

There’s still a difference here and let’s say mainstream Tik tok

Ok I don’t know either honestly

Isn’t that the same as non dual no self tho? Because some non dual speakers like jim Newman for example speak how there are no objects, nothing is happening, no reality that everything is just apparent

I don’t know what would be more radical than no self non dual awakening

Maybe it’s possible to “reach” such a thing. That would be like total non dual awakening permanent no self I guess

One thing to realize this conceptually and another to live by it. You still want to live so will keep being “enslaved” by your needs. The body will eventually die maybe no death in absolute sense but maybe that’s just an idea and it’s not really seen because you still identified with the body

So there’s no sense of self for you anymore? It’s very relevant I’d say. Maybe absolutely there’s no difference but when I sense myself as existing it’s very obvious the veil is still here . That’s why when I listen to non dual speakers like that guy I can sense how it’s different for me and them because I still have a sense of self that veils what they’re “pointing” to

I think it’s quite obvious for oneself when the sense of self is there vs not , and in this case it seems to still be there so what’s the difference before and after this talk

All seeking is bound to fail sooner or later I feel. What we long for is the end of seeking and we think it can be found in objects (can be other people). I heard some non dual speakers put it that way and it fits my experience