Sugarcoat

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  1. Wait until he tells you to contemplate it too, I can feel it coming
  2. Maybe that should be your signature then 😁
  3. Oh thanks. I hope those problems you talked about before (anger etc) is better for you nowadays
  4. Its totally okay, you were respectful and now showing openness so thats what matters
  5. A predator is gonna chose a child regardless of clothes, but I still agree that there are some styles that are inappropriate for children, regardless of outside consequences
  6. You using that word sounds off tbh, teens wearing crop tops and makeup is not "slutty"
  7. Ok i see, but yea it must be the styling and makeup, is my guess
  8. Simply makeup sometimes, style, and not knowing age of those people you wrote that "you saw across the street" when you were young, so that comparison isn't accurate
  9. Yea I dont get the vibe of you "needing to be better" or whatever, it has felt genuine to me, but as you say its not like you're perfect obviously, someone like Jesus wasn't either , is my impression.
  10. Once again, I did not say that (and the rest you wrote that was you building on this point). Read literally what I wrote. This too, you're answering things I didn't even say . basically I didn't mean those emotions can't happen but just not to significant degree like normal person
  11. Sometimes you guys focus so much on someone's language use. You hear me say "someone enlightened" so you think im ascribing enlightenment as some trait someone possesses, when it's just actually simple language use. To me it means "absence of a sense of self", but you're not picking up on that meaning behind what I say. Nowhere did I say "enlightenment is a realization that occurs in your mind". lol. Thats like you guys's repetitive jargon in this forum You say "enlightment is the absolute truth", but I dont think it captures it. Someone walking around and feeling like they exist as a self, that is absolute truth, but enlightment means the sense of self is not there. Its different This definition im sharing is my interpretation yes but its also the way its defined if you look it up and it seems to be what some of these people describe Also I can add, I am not fully sure either ofc, because maybe im reading someone's writings and they're talking about no-self but im still picking up on some sense of a person from them, so maybe there can be some kind of sense of self but without sense of boundaries or something (I dont know how that would work tho just expressing here).
  12. If someone genuinely believes and feels that they experience what they're saying, if theyre being defensive etc it might not feel to them like they are "defending a fasade" for its own sake but rather just defending what they actually believe , something like that came to my mind
  13. I also experience it in the style you describe (I would say), except im not enlightened, so its possible to be very "open" such that things flow internally, so it allows for that natural tendency of body/brain to heal itself etc to , transform itself into more natural effortless state . Some might think its fancy words, but its just that suffering (in the common way) consumes energy and its tense, so your body/brain etc naturally won't maintain it for long, unless something is "keeping it at bay" (seems like its the ego that does) . So I can relate to how that process for me was definitely related to losing a lot of the ego (never all of it tho like you seem to have arrived at). So no envy is not really a problem for me, in significant way. But I asked about that feeling because I assumed someone enlightened wouldn't have them to significant degree, so I was "testing the waters"
  14. @Natasha Tori Maru it seem they gain a lot of stimulation going back and forth with each other, those two in particular for some reason, it’s like they actually love each other and are connecting πŸ˜‚
  15. Is that the stock market πŸ˜‚ Well I dont have the feel for those numbers, but yea you could be one of those hyper responders.They mention great metabolism, maybe its a good sign if the body absorbs it well, but then adjustments are needed to accommodate for that
  16. i remember yea, so it applies
  17. If you're having a lot of cravings (based on you mentioning the articifical sweeteners) then it could be sign something is lacking, so you could experiment with that, rather than trying to decide beforehand
  18. I understand, maybe I should've picked up on it : )
  19. Im curious about what you're seeing because ive been thinking stuff too
  20. Hmm interesting, doesn't seem excessive to me. But yea I think I heard somewhere about "cholesterol hyper responders". You might have already heard about it but just a thought that came
  21. @Judy2 Did you see how our responses timed there πŸ˜‚
  22. How much were you eating of that? Sounds like it would need very large amounts if its gonna cause significant enough rise of LDL to be bad for you
  23. You seem to find what I wrote wholesome (based on the emoji) while I was actually implicitly calling people basic hehehe.
  24. And they wanna bang those dudes too. But they try to gaslight themselves by saying stuff like "men are trash" to try to protect themselves from "toxic" guys but they can't help themselves but to be attracted to them still Buhu hormones