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Google says so What do you mean Scandinavians are becoming masculinized less quickly?

I’ve heard men get more feminine in older years because of more estrogen or something so kinda the opposite of what you say Are people becoming masculinized?

How is impulsiveness a feminine trait? We have the stereotypical young guy being impulsive doing drugs driving too fast whatever maybe reckless is a better word but you see the picture I’m painting here. Couldn’t come up with more examples but a young male was my first thought. Also I think I’ve encountered equally amount very talkative men and women

Yours was good too

Haven’t noticed that but ok

Yea

I don’t know honestly

My mom has painless periods yes Me and my friends haven’t really talked about our periods

Ok I see👌🏻

Bet

It doesn’t feel like I’m pretending though ?

Are you directly “conscious” of this or just saying it because it sounds good?

Yea

You’re right it wouldn’t be so blank then

You always have so much to say. I’m impressed by it. I’m the opposite my mind is blank a lot when I try to come with replies

I will read it It was interesting. I don’t have anything in particular to add

I don’t know if I agree. Regardless it’s very difficult to appreciate pain in one’s life that I find for myself.

Mindset can only take you so far. It doesn’t change the raw physicality of it. Things take time. We avoid pain at all costs.

Maybe

He probably started talking about non duality out the blue in several occasions and it wasn’t met positively that’s why he says that

Yea it’s fine 👍🏻I usually don’t keep convos going this much

I think we see a little bit of this phenomena. In the past when sexism was worse the majority of focus was on major issues like rights to vote for women. When the bigger issues get resolved, then the focus moves to more “smaller” issues and so on. I can imagine if all sexism disappeared, that people would start thinking of things as sexist that weren’t previously thought of, as you said, becuase they’ve so strongly identified themselves as victims and men as perpetrators. So it becomes like a self fulfilling prophecy

If it exists it does prove something. Sounds like one of your assumptions If we look on societal level we all depend on each other because we all do different work isn’t it so? Some traits might be defined as masculine by some for example providing at home so in those cases a woman having a job and being independent might be seen as masculine. But as our society is becoming more equal the definitions are changing so that is nowadays seen as something anyone regardless of gender can do so not particularly masculine If that attractive guy is awkward and shy he will still struggle with women that’s my guess Yea most people but it’s still more common to see a woman being the more attractive one than vice versa. Well that is good at least

For many women period means cramping, mood swings, pms, and other negative symptoms. There’s not so much to appreciate about it experientially. For me I feel neutral about my period because I’m lucky to have zero cramps and no pms/mood swings. But if I had those things I could definitely see myself disliking it. It would be difficult to look past those negative aspects to find appreciation for it, one wishes that biology would have found a way to keep a woman fertile without all that suffering.