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Acceptance seems important to me yes, its. twisted how it works. Understood

how? True thats why I combine it with intuition and personal experience Thats cool Breathing exercises seem very powerful ive thought about doing it

that’s great. Maybe you write in your journal and I can’t remember but what helped you sleep would you say? and what do you mean by “well surrounded”

That’s cool you’ve been able to identify what diets work better or worse for you. I haven’t noticed much in myself, I seem to tolerate most food very well. Experimentation is so important to find out what works for you, rather than just going with the science, although the science is still very valuable. Joe dispenza seems cool, he seems to have done incredible work. I’m open to those things

I’m fine how are you? I’ll tell you how it goes

You’re strong

I will switch to this med in march I’ll see how it compares to olanzipine

I can see your points. For now Europe is good for me. But the intrigue for America is still there for me. They have it all, the good and the ugly, and if you’re good financially you can live well there , and chose safer areas, better food etc, that would be ideal

Our minds in this modern world with instant gratification and easily accessible pleasure and dopamine are not used to doing long focused tasks. Or meditating and “doing nothing”. So it’s natural for let’s say frustration to arise. Try to view it like a wave, it will come but it will eventually pass, you just have to get through it, surf that wave, tolerate it, let it be. Your brain is struggling to stay focused and present because it’s not used to it yet. But with consistent practice it probably will get used to it and the frustration will subside.

US feels for me like the center of the world. They have everything, and if you manage to get yourself into a decent position financially and build a security for yourself you can live a pretty good life there. Plus it seems more sociable.

Primosten a lot, krk (a lot when I was younger), I’ve been to Zagreb twice, I’ve been a little to split, been to kaštela once , been to Rijeka once or twice , been to otocac (when we visited plitvice) can’t remember more

Didn’t know as I pretty much only go to the Adriatic part. That’s cool you’ve traveled so much I’m not allowed to travel alone. Yea considering how expensive it can be you really wanna feel like it’s worth it. You could really sit down and make a list of the pros and cons or something . I know we can be a bit reluctant to leave the safety of Europe , it’s a big step. I’m personally drawn to America too so I’d say go for it , try it out. But have comprehensive planning. You’ve already traveled so much so you probably know how to deal with it

I don’t know how too much to comment really but yea it’s word choice difference, science is at least trying

You have the possibility of coming back to Croatia right? Studying in America doesn’t mean you’re forced to stay there forever. You could for example visit Croatia to enjoy the vacation aspect of it, that’s what I do, as I live in Sweden and love Swedens system but go to Croatia during the summers.

It’s interesting when science and spirituality connect

thanks It’s not really a struggle between them, I just oscillate between the two.

I don’t think it’s particularly healthy to be obsessed with someone. Either you’re exceptional and have exceptional impact or she just has an immature /insecure mind

Okay I see. It can be hard when people are so different from you, but amongst all those people it gotta be someone who shares something with you. Then it’s about keep looking and eventually you might find them

Thanks

I understand how hard it can be to find like minded people. If that’s not a criteria for you then you could find something to connect over with different type of people unlike you. That’s how I try to think, there’s always something to connect over even if the person is different. I try to be open towards the possibility always. But it takes two to tango so if the other doesn’t show interest in engagement in friendship then one has to eventually back of from attempts. So I know it can be hard. I wonder how it will be for me in uni. Maybe it differs from country to country too some cultures are more sociable like I live in Sweden and it’s not the most sociable country … But I’d suggest not giving up, not pushing it with people who don’t show interest back but keep showing interest (if it’s there) and eventually someone might reciprocate

If it was hard in college it’s gonna be even harder outside of it. Why was it hard in college? I am going to uni this autumn and I believe I will struggle too because I’m quite quiet and can be a little awkward although I’ve overcame my shyness. I’m open to the possibility of making new friends but it’s not a need I have, I’m fine if I end up alone too. But I understand you aren’t because the average person is wired for relationships.

Wow yes

Thats why I wrote a post a few years ago “spirituality fell away spontaneously “ because I saw how it was my own mental construct and it dissolved. Although now I could hypnotically practice spirituality without it being a mental construct but it took a lot of unraveling of mental constructs to get to that point

That could probably bring about a change

My intuition says the best way to stay protected is to stay incredibly grounded in yourself