BlackLeopard

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  1. Hi @RickyFitts it's resolved, thanks for asking. Took a while, but that's not really in the way anymore.
  2. Thank you for your advice @Strangeloop Not rushing is what I have been doing these past months. It is great. But, you know, money isn't endless. At some point, I need to find a place to settle and I need to find a way to make money that is not going back to my past job...
  3. Hi everyone, I am new here. I found this forums while I was googlin' trying to find a few answers. A brief summary, so you know what I mean: I had what form the outside looked like a great life: Great job with great salary, own apartment.... bla bla bla. But I wasn't happy and I got depressed. Starting therapy, I discovered I had been dragging my depression for ages and bit after that it turned out that I had serious childhood trauma that I was not aware of (I know, super cliché). The thing is, this trauma has been what has shape most of my life and made me be a person that wasn't really me. Anyway, after all of this and a long time of being depressed and wishing to go back in time and live my life again, I decided to do a re-start. To find out my authentic self, who I am, what I want etc. I quit my job, I rented my apartment, packed everything and moved to Bali (Bali because it is warm and it is affordable). This has been an amazing journey, I have learned a lot about myself and I am finally healing. However, now time is passing by quickly and I don't know what the next step is. I keep hoping the path will unfold itself, but somehow it doesn't. I try meditations to visualize the future, open your third eye, open your intuition.... But even when I am supposed to visualize my dream life in the future, I only see blank. I think I don't even know what I want my life to look like and I don't know how to move out of this spot. Any advice?
  4. This would be a great example of why many women just give up. Seriously. @Girzo is looking at this like you are going to buy a car. Your assets will rise and her attractiveness will diminish? If you look at it like this, I wish you good luck. Either you end up alone or, best case, you end up with a gold digger who is empty inside. A real relationship, despite what dear @Girzo is painting here, is about two people who connect on a deeper level. The complement each other. They become each other's "person". It's the one who you can tell you just killed someone and their answer will be "ok, I will get the shovel". It has nothing to do with your assets your her attractiveness. To be honest, @AdamR95, I understand this is bothering you, but you are analyzing this too much. Like this is a business with a perfect website, perfect product and perfect marketing and yet you don't get why you are not getting any sales. Relax. Concentrate on something different. Travel. Enjoy life, enjoy your friends, enjoy casual dating. Your person will appear sooner or later. Not to sound patronizing, but 25 is a very young age. Most people find their "soul mate" in their thirties. Some even later. There is someone out there for you. Chances are she will appear when you least expect it. Just enjoy life as a single man as long as you can. Once you find her, your life will change and you will have lived this part of life to the max with no regrets.