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What does compatibility mean for you?

Is this real, lol?

Probably much less then a thousand. Depends on what you mean by "meet" as well. Actually approaching someone and asking out on a date? I think you could do it under a hundred, especially if they are no cold approaches. I think it is important to remember that in the end, it is very luck based. It just depends on when you will meet the right person. She could be the 100s girl you approach or she could be literally the first. It is equally as likely. Also, remember that if someone agrees to go on a date with you, this suggests that you are already physically attractive enough for them. Maybe with some exceptions. So if she rejects you after a date it was probably either because your social skills sucked or you just didn't match personality-wise. At least that's my current opinion.

Do you think you might have gotten more out of it if you bought it for the full price and have done it multiple times over a longer period?

Does anyone here have experience with it. Does it actually help?

Where do I go?

I've basically conditioned myself that going on a date is something hard, and challenging, and scary. A hustle, necessary means to an end of getting sex / a girlfriend. Like I should put in this hard work of going on dates to receive a reward in the future. But this is so wrong! I am going to be spending time with a cute girl. We will eat together, talk, hold hands, hug, maybe something more. Isn't this amazing? I couldn't have hoped for this even a month ago. I have already won. This is it. Even if that is all there is to it and it doesn't go anywhere. Why can't I just feel the sense of achievement and excitement about it? I already have put in the work and got myself a date. This IS the reward. I should be happy and just enjoy it for what it is.

@Never_give_up just want to share my experience. I have never had a girlfiriend and I am 25. Recently , I've decided that it is time to finally start working on it seriously. And a lot has changed just from this intention to work on it. I've discovered dating opportunities that were never there before or so I thought. I went to a dating workshop and didn't get a date but had a good time with women there. I went to another dating event and got a date. All of a sudden I discovered that there is a girl at work who agreed to go on a date with me. I also signed up to acting classes and have already walked two girls from there home. Not a date but feels nice. Especially yesterday, because we had a nice vibe and I even got a hug. Notice how I didn't even have to go hardcore and start going to clubs and approach 20 women a day like pickup suggests, or anything like that. Just got somewhat more intentional and proactive.

No way its such an issue that you wouldnt be able to get a taller girlfriend

@eliasvelezok, thank you

@Rishabh Rthanks She is from my work and is super cute!

Guess who is going to a movie with a new girl this Sunday

@Jowblobnot sure what you mean by kundalini, but interesting story nonetheless. I didn't get a chance to get into the whole energy thing yet.

Or is all beauty relative and is coming from an observer? If I say that someone is beautiful, is that the truth or am I just describing my own experience: you are evoking a sense of beauty in me?

72 kg of pure sand. Isn't she beautiful

Did you see any actual changes in your own life. Regarding anxiety, did not knowing what to do not help you with it?

Thank you. It's hard for me to not masturbate for so long, but ok. What do you mean by mimicking body movement? Won't holding eye contact for such a long time make her uncomfortable? The same with being silent. I try to, but I can't. I've been telling myself that I should just go out and enjoy the date, however it will go. But as soon as I left the house, I've started sweating hard.

I've been enjoying my company for 25 years of being alone. Doesn't help much, tbh.

@Yimpano, fuck me

@Yimpa everything. My dating life, my relationships, my career, how much money I make, how I behave around people, what I do in my free time, how I feel about myself, my personality, how other people see me and what they think about me.

@Rishabh R i am tired of trying to act positive. Fuck me and my life

lol, nice troll. Maybe you should leave this forum then.

@Rishabh R I don't feel fulfilled, I am not very happy overall, and I don't have much self-respect

Like what?

The date was meh... I didn't embarrass myself and nothing horrible happened, but I couldn't really build any connection between us. We talked but it felt very awkward, forced, and robotic. Basically a dry exchange of facts and opinions with a pinch of fake niceness. I watched this video before going And that's how I wanted the date to go. Deep, intimate, heartfelt conversations and real emotional connection. But I couldn't get anywhere near that. There was also no physical contact aside from a hug at the beginning and the end and no romantic vibes at all. Zero flirting, zero intimacy, zero sexual tension. And the moments of silence were awkward and uncomfortable. To be honest I also didn't really feel attracted to her, but that doesn't change the fact that I am really bad at this. Mostly, I feel disappointed. I feel like I didn't really push myself and didn't make any progress.