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@Hojo thank you, great advise.

I want to know what lays in my near future. Like within a year from now. Mostly, I am interested in the areas of personal growth (including but not limited to spirituality), career, and romantic relationships.

I've been on a second date with this girl, and it went really well in general. The talking felt natural and smooth, moments of silence weren't uncomfortable, she initiated a lot of discussions. But I still am not sure if she is into me romantically or if she sees me as a friend. And I don't know how to properly break this barier of physical touch. Do I just take a risk and grab her hand? Do I ask her about it? Important note is that she is from my work place, so I am afraid of being too bold with her.

Exactly.

@cetusthats because your mom doesnt count

Good tip, thanks

@Sincerity at worst I will friendzone her and use her to build up my social circle to make myself more attractive to other girls. So its a win/win I guess.

Haha

I mostly just enjoy them for fun and out of curiosity. Like personality tests and such.

@Schizophonia, yo, what did you write? I am curious.

@Stickyou are the second person who has drawn lovers for me today, interesting... I woildn't say I feel confused, at least not in the present moment. I resonate with lovers and hermit description the most, I think. I knew it! I am so dead, haha

Bruh

@Stickgreat writing, but I want an actual readinggg

Ehh, okay, thank you.

So now they've lost your respect and you will never play it?

@Mada_if I were a girl, I would totally date you. Or if you were a girl... Btw, I have herpes on my lips and I am yet to have my first kiss. Funny

Thank you guys for your valuable advise. @Hojo @Sincerity @eliasvelez @eliasvelez @Spiral I like the idea of shoulder touching. And also open communication as the ice breaker. In general, I think that the root cause solution is for me to graw some ball and just chill and be myself. And I am kind of getting there because I am tired of pretending. I DONT KNOW, MAN! This is so dumb The first "meeting" was me texting her: "hey, do you want to go to a movie together? and she said yes. The second "meeting" was me texting her: "I would really love to go to a climbing gym together". And she also said yes. I've never explicitly said: "Hey, lets go on a date". If it's any indicator, her responses were always really enthusiastic. Like: "Ooo, I really wanted to see this movie" Or "Ooo, I am ready to go to a climbing gym on any day". But idk, maybe she is just a cheerful person like that. Also, yesterday after climbing we sat there and chatted for like 1+ hour, while drinking coffee. Which made me think that she actually enjoyed the meeting.

I cant do it anymore.

@NewKidOnTheBlockdifferent people have different passions and interests in life.

@Emerald thank you

@Leo Gura +1 for the release

@Leo Gura unrelated but, do I understand correctly that if a girl agrees to go with you on a first date, then you are attractive enough for her looks wise, and it's just up to your game at that point?

I think he seriously overestimates how fast the progress will be with his claims about the future, But I think some surgeries can help you look a lot better if you happen to be the right person. Like if your teeth are all yellow and crooked, getting them straight and pearly white will make you look a lot better. I think I would look, maybe not a lot, but noticeably better if I removed my acne scars. I know for sure that I definitely look better now that I've had lasik surgery and don't need to wear glasses.

I actually wanted to avoid watching the full interview because I didn't want it to impact my mental health negatively, but then I've changed my mind. I have to say, it takes real mental effort to not get depressed when hearing all this.

Uhh, my heart is going to break. She is so nice but I am afraid that she is not attracted to me romantically. How could she be...