Jannes

From a regular persons POV that can kind of seem surreal - they have enough money to buy everything they could possibly want and could live a super rewarding life with that money but instead they keep on grinding. But a regular person never was in a billionaires shoes, never got a proper taste of power, wasn't exposed to the environment and people a billionaire is everyday, hasn't made the same subtle changes in their lense of looking at reality which justifies their extreme wealth as normal, isnt in their trance. And I mean it's also very counterintuitive to give up wealth and power, I feel like billionaires who spent large amounts of their wealth aren't praised enough. It takes massive amounts of development to do that. Also only a select few make it as a billionaire. People who dont have a grind mentality wouldnt have made it in the first place. It took and still takes time for me to realize that billionaires will keep on grinding to expand their wealth. But that realization is key for every member of society to collectively pressure the wealthy for wealth distribution.

Yes you are right he likely downplayed the situation but I dont think that "he kicked a dog for fun" is the truth either.

It's unfair to not tell the whole story. If at the end you still think he should be shamed for it thats fair but tell the whole story. From your half story it sounds like he just wanted to kick the dog for fun. I think there are different degrees of anxiety, other mental illnesses could be at play and no situation is completely comparable to the other - It could have been a very unlucky situation, where the worst possible reality that could have happened happened by chance. He could have had a really bad day not ruining it by doing paper work in another parallel reality for example. I dont think that excuses the situation but it makes it more reasonable and the person more human like. That he feels sorry for what he has done, did other posts writing about being ashamed for voting for trump seems to suggest that he has conscientiousness. Thats my take on it you can disagree of course.

This is real self actualization at play here, I love it. Let gettoefl be your north star! Well except maybe dont offer them that you can look after their house (and dog).

Thats not the whole story. He had an anxiety attack for example. Here is the whole story:

I could develop a poison in secret that would hurt all of humanity and on the surface dont get any karma backlash. Thats hard to swallow. But I think in the bigger picture it does hurt oneself in ways that aren't directly obvious. To your example first - well your response is a bit of a karma backlash already. You probably tend to distance yourself from them because of it, so thats bad for them I assume. How you do one thing is how you do everything else, when they do this sort of thing it probably means that they also behave in unconscious behavior in other areas of life where karma backlash is inescapable. And it's kinda true that it hurts them spiritually. The unconscious state they put themself in hurts themselves too because they are so far away from anything holy.

Good ol JP teaching us about the importance of abstinence.

I have such a friend. "I will fuck everything."

Men and women are a little different and I think some men if they had all the sexual possibilities in the world would take full advantage of it - I remember a JP clip where he speaks about a story of a very attractive guy on tinder who had sex with a thousand girls or so.. But men are emotional beings too. When they are extremely attractive they sometimes dont get emotional support because sadness is of course a best overcome with sex (lol). In a Healthy Gamer clip a very attractive guy said that he sometimes has sex with a women just so that she is willing to talk to him about emotions.

What the fuck!?

I know that a good chunk of what I write in this journal is complete BS and I am fine with that even though the goal always is to be truthful. It's about experimenting with thoughts and a journey. If I pressured myself to be correct all the time I wouldnt have fun doing this journal.

Looking back at it this comment it didnt make much sense. Theoretically it seemed like I might have had a point but in actuality I pretty much dont see any metaphysical beauty in this picture, I just see non metaphysical non beauty. It tells me something very important about the state of my mind though: My mind is lost in concepts. I put them over my direct experience.

Agreed. You can't talk things out with your neighbors anymore so you need to defend yourself on equal grounds.

This is so funny. She seems like quite the personality.

Can relate. On meds I also had less problems socializing but all the social shit I went through I processed made me angry as well and I got colder, not hugging much any more and so forth. I also realized that I didn't make bad social decisions they were all good, I just lacked a little self-righteousness.

Oh interesting, what was his medication before quitting? Yes people with inattentive adhd can mirror the energy of the other person, which makes them more calm.

Damn I didnt read the thread concentrated. I can relate to this so much. On the other hand it could be a helpful phase to get your material meets met IF you can get out of it and find yourself afterwards.

Catching the devil You cant ultimately grasp the devil because you are it. You are the devil. And all you are doing is deviling. Trying to grasp what the devil is itself deviling. Like a finger that tries to point to itself. But it can only point away from itself.

I haven't done therapy either. But I know there are just some things that help and where therapist might help you with: If you have people who put you at ease for example or a body double who helps with studying or even finding your LP so you develop a hyper focus on that and get shit done.

I did have the same fear and have the same fear going forward. I did take medikinet and it did change my personality quite a lot. Now that I didnt take it for quite a while my old personality came back quite a lot. But not completely. It helped me to work through experiences which were very emotionally charged in that I was just able to regulate the emotions that were connected to the experiences and then let these experiences go. It felt pretty unlovely though, it all happened unconsciously. I would have rather worked through that consciously. Like I feel changed without an experience that caused the change. In general I feel a little healthier and more practical but it's the way I got here that doesnt sit right with me. Have you tried therapy? At least in Germany medication are usually only described after "natural" healing methods are tried out.

No this!: Don't be fooled, women can be pigs too.

This becomes a new science.

@Infinite Tsukuyomi I would be too afraid to show pictures of me in underwear. It feels like a certain status commitment, in the end I care more about relationship then much sex. And I have a regular package, I dont know if this is something you can market. I asked chatgpt for more subtle ways to show of your meat, its hilarious: Yes, there are ways to subtly highlight your physique and hint at what you’re bringing to the table without being as overt as posing in underwear. Here are some more reserved but still effective ways to showcase yourself on Tinder: 1. Well-Fitted Pants or Shorts • A good pair of grey sweatpants (the classic) or well-fitted jeans can subtly showcase your shape without being over-the-top. • Athletic shorts with a slight bulge in a natural pose (like sitting casually) can also do the trick. 2. Swimwear Shots • A beach or pool pic in swim trunks is a socially acceptable way to show some skin. • The key is to look natural—walking, standing confidently, or coming out of the water. 3. Gym or Sports Pics • A post-workout mirror selfie in fitted shorts can showcase both physique and a natural outline. • Playing a sport (e.g., basketball, running) in compression shorts or fitted joggers works too. 4. Sitting Poses • A relaxed seated pose with legs spread slightly apart (not exaggerated) can naturally emphasize your package. • Something like sitting on a ledge or steps in casual wear. 5. Slight Shadow or Lighting Tricks • Soft lighting or shadow placement can enhance certain features without making it seem staged. • A photo where the light hits from the side can subtly create a shape. 6. A Towel Shot (Post-Shower, But Classy) • A post-shower mirror selfie wrapped in a towel can be suggestive while leaving a bit to the imagination. • Keeping it casual (e.g., brushing teeth or looking at your phone) makes it feel effortless. 7. Low-Key Bedroom Shot • Sitting or lying in bed with sheets draped over your lower body can give a relaxed, intimate vibe without going full thirst-trap. • Boxers peeking out from under sheets can work too.

Small biodegradable garbage bags (if you separate your waste) because: they fill up quicker and so you never built up a lot of fruit/ vegetable juice that would need cleaning and you can throw the whole bag away. Women's baggy jeans. Women jeans fit and look better then mens jeans on men. Womens jeans sometimes have many details though like smaller bags or feminine cut which looks a little weird on men. If you get a baggy jeans it's naturally a manly style. So you get a women's jeans with manly style. I felt very smart for this one. Joe Nimble Addict shoe. It's a great all around shoe, it has elements of a barefoot shoe like a wider toe box and a flat sole but its not a complete barefoot shoe as the sole is still 10mm. The shoe doesnt look like a "health shoe" at all. Cardigan which dont fully close. There are some which are intentionally cut in a way that they dont cover your whole chest. It's great to have it at home hanging over a chair and put on when it's a little colder.

Yeah probably it was an emotional comment. But my point was that there need to be mechanisms that punish behavior like this. That he gets a thread on this forum for doing dumb shit just proves my point that bad behavior benefits him as he gets more famous for it.