Jannes

No this!: Don't be fooled, women can be pigs too.

This becomes a new science.

@Infinite Tsukuyomi I would be too afraid to show pictures of me in underwear. It feels like a certain status commitment, in the end I care more about relationship then much sex. And I have a regular package, I dont know if this is something you can market. I asked chatgpt for more subtle ways to show of your meat, its hilarious: Yes, there are ways to subtly highlight your physique and hint at what you’re bringing to the table without being as overt as posing in underwear. Here are some more reserved but still effective ways to showcase yourself on Tinder: 1. Well-Fitted Pants or Shorts • A good pair of grey sweatpants (the classic) or well-fitted jeans can subtly showcase your shape without being over-the-top. • Athletic shorts with a slight bulge in a natural pose (like sitting casually) can also do the trick. 2. Swimwear Shots • A beach or pool pic in swim trunks is a socially acceptable way to show some skin. • The key is to look natural—walking, standing confidently, or coming out of the water. 3. Gym or Sports Pics • A post-workout mirror selfie in fitted shorts can showcase both physique and a natural outline. • Playing a sport (e.g., basketball, running) in compression shorts or fitted joggers works too. 4. Sitting Poses • A relaxed seated pose with legs spread slightly apart (not exaggerated) can naturally emphasize your package. • Something like sitting on a ledge or steps in casual wear. 5. Slight Shadow or Lighting Tricks • Soft lighting or shadow placement can enhance certain features without making it seem staged. • A photo where the light hits from the side can subtly create a shape. 6. A Towel Shot (Post-Shower, But Classy) • A post-shower mirror selfie wrapped in a towel can be suggestive while leaving a bit to the imagination. • Keeping it casual (e.g., brushing teeth or looking at your phone) makes it feel effortless. 7. Low-Key Bedroom Shot • Sitting or lying in bed with sheets draped over your lower body can give a relaxed, intimate vibe without going full thirst-trap. • Boxers peeking out from under sheets can work too.

Small biodegradable garbage bags (if you separate your waste) because: they fill up quicker and so you never built up a lot of fruit/ vegetable juice that would need cleaning and you can throw the whole bag away. Women's baggy jeans. Women jeans fit and look better then mens jeans on men. Womens jeans sometimes have many details though like smaller bags or feminine cut which looks a little weird on men. If you get a baggy jeans it's naturally a manly style. So you get a women's jeans with manly style. I felt very smart for this one. Joe Nimble Addict shoe. It's a great all around shoe, it has elements of a barefoot shoe like a wider toe box and a flat sole but its not a complete barefoot shoe as the sole is still 10mm. The shoe doesnt look like a "health shoe" at all. Cardigan which dont fully close. There are some which are intentionally cut in a way that they dont cover your whole chest. It's great to have it at home hanging over a chair and put on when it's a little colder.

Yeah probably it was an emotional comment. But my point was that there need to be mechanisms that punish behavior like this. That he gets a thread on this forum for doing dumb shit just proves my point that bad behavior benefits him as he gets more famous for it.

I doubt that. The rest I agree with.

The last few days I wasn't very productive. I have holidays (from school) but exams phase so I really should get shit now but I didnt. I need social support for emotion regulation and hopefully body doubles for studying. I tried getting shit done on my own for years with no success with few phases of working with other people where magic happened when I finally got something done. But finding the right people is difficult for me, there is basically no one I know that I would like to have that close to me. It's a pretty difficult situation.

Had my weekly ADHD self help group session today. I learn something new every time. Apparently keto diet can help with adhd symptoms, I might try that out. What's very interesting is that although people with adhd have very similar symptoms oftentimes it doesnt make them similar people at all. Some are more, some are less intelligent. Some have interests there and others there. For example many people with adhd struggle with attention span, especially if the task at hand isnt interesting so most adhd people would struggle with hard science for example. But if a person with adhd is interested in that, that person can get a hyper focus on this subject and competly nail it. I can develop a hyper focus. When I was a teenager I sometimes pissed myself when playing video games because I had such a hyper focus at the task at hand my system didnt have enough resources to even maintain basic bodily functions. I always thought that what kept me from achieving much wasn't my lack of intelligence or talent but interest. If I would just find the one thing I am very passionate about I would be great at it. Thats very likely the case. What is that though wtf!? It's in the direction of selflessness, great character, creativity, understanding .. it's not something easily tangible.

@NewKidOnTheBlock Then you just waste your vote which could be used against trump by voting democrats.

@Shodburrito Do you feel better now that you opened up and shared it?

I abandoned the belief that girls are physically attracted to guys in a significant way. Maybe it's different on tinder because looks are all there is. Well it takes a match to make a date. I dont think women would swipe right if they weren't interested, the guy can show off his matches to other people so the girls invest status.

Yes but it's against everything you have been told. Like it's usually about being charming and funny and when that goes right girls become emotionally open for sex. He just straight up shows off his meat wtf. But I am no attracting doctor btw. I see this as a learning opportunity. Maybe I am too uptight.

@Raze The button in the middle of the tinder apps makes two things visible, who likes you and what the top picks are.

I feel like people like this only adopt their behavior when serious punishments are on the line. He doesnt need to go to jail for this right? - he just becomes more popular. So it's a net win for him. I dont think it much more complicated then that. For that reason he should go to jail though.

Yeah thats what I mean. You explained it better though.

@Daniel Balan When we dont know the subject that is being talked about we tend to rely on secondary indicators which would indicate/ make it more likely that what is being said is valid. Indicators like a good ability to articulate oneself, confidence, ... basically what you talk about. You said It yourself, you need to think critically about what is being said. When you catch somebody lying you have to put all what is being said into question. And I also think with experience you won't get persuaded as easily. When you study human behavior by observing other people you can kind develop a good enough bullshit detector to see that trump isnt authentic, even if you dont know much about politics.

Sesame Street is brilliant at times.

Probably just for attention. Kanye does a lot for attention. Or the site got hacked.

Because a small company doesnt have enough power to be that unethical. When they get bigger they have a growing potential to do so.

But you would adapt relatively quickly to a 30m yacht because it's super non essential. Yeah I see the status games. If everyone very wealthy just lost their wealth at the same time and they would all downgrade at the same time reality probably wouldnt change at all for these people, because differences are just in comparison, it takes a lot of shrinking until differences are actually felt. I am living a minimalist lifestyle gotcha! Well there are degrees of luxury. I dont see a smartphone as luxury. I think a 60m yacht, a golden watch, exotic alcohol for thousands of dollars, ... all that is luxury and there are many degrees between it. A Mercedes isnt pure luxury but it's beyond comfortable survival for sure.

I don't think companies or the boss of a company has the goal to be the most ethical. I see it rather that small companies dont have the power to be very unethical and when they finally have the power to act unethical they will. Yes but people have to be aware of it so that a government can image that will.

that makes sense.

Yes because downgrading from a regular Joes lifestyle actually has an impact on your life. Like you cant go out as much, you feel a bit like an outcast in society, you cant invite people to your place, you worry about paying the bills, your place probably really isnt as nice. But after a certain amount of wealth you dont become much happier. I have a graph for you. Downgrading from a 60 meter super yacht to a 30 meter super yacht doesnt actually make a difference. I agree. Yes we agree here. I disagree. Life isnt about survival but luxury is survival. Luxury is about climbing on the mountain and flexing on everyone that you are above them. A minority of billionaires give away their money but there are a few.

Well managing a big company can be fulfilling when it is helping the world. But you raise a crucial point, when you have a big company other peoples survival depend on your survival. I mean one could make the company more ethical but I guess there is a tradeoff. If you become too ethical it becomes unsustainable and you go bankrupt and at that point you cant provide any value at all anymore. But some people built a giant (unethical) company through a cut throat mentality and end up with absurd amount of wealth they have no real plan with other then expanding. Thats where I see an imbalance due to greed.

No they could put their money in projects that benefit mankind. That would likely be very rewarding. Money is potential power. If you have an absurd amount of wealth people will let you know that through kissing your ass and so forth. And if you are the boss of a giant company you will feel that power more directly. I am not sure how their mind work but I dont think they could be as productive if they were miserable.