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This book is crucial for understanding pleasure and happiness. Also, it explains what dopamine ''detox" is actually about. It got me motivated to take cold showers and excercise.

This just came out. https://youtu.be/ye9OkJih3-U

To me they seem a bit contradictory. Which is more important?

I'm an introvert with some dating experience who wants to start approaching and socializing. I wasnt sure of the ethical side of cold approach so I turned to Reddit.(Exredpill sub) They disagreed saying its weird and not okay to do, unethical. Now I feel guilty and uneasy around this subject. Victim mindset is coming back. I'm hoping to get some advice knowing this is probably the sanest forum on the internet.

It's on the core concepts page. Is there a video about it?

This should be very important in all areas of life

I know it's hard in the digital age to socialize and deal with women face to face but there is a trend among young men such as myself (23M) to subconsciously blame women for their lack of success with them. You dont have to be an incel to do that. The MANOSPHERE as a whole did way more damage to guys psyche than did any good. Of course your looks matter, but you still NEED to initiate with women, such as everywhere else in the biological kingdom. It would seem obvious, but I see a lot of ,,blaming the opposite sex" type of content on this forum. I know it can be hard out here, but there exist a ton of below average looking men who still date and stuff just because they initiate and socialize. You have to take responsibility just like Leo says. These ,,pills" got me to pretty dark places even though I had success with women and I'm decent looking.

YES!

It would help a lot of young men.