Windappreciator

You guys have pathetic problems. @StarStruck if you're 21 and above your problem is that you're an unappealing narcissist.

Dread. Horrifying, panic inducing dread. Where I walk around and don't know what to do about it. Without anything to point to as a cause. I am not as tough as I think I am. There is a specific type of fear everyone responds to, sitting in our core of being a human. One that we will feel when our actual death is about to happen. That is a driving force for the personality masks we take on and show off to others as strengths. It's not. It's a twist out of fear of this specific fear that we spin on ourselves, has become almost un-noticeable anymore. Very early in your child stage you were maybe able to intuite into it, but you have forgotten through all the distractions disguised as responsibilities others expect you to mirror back. This specific fear, is your fear for inauthenticity. The more inauthentic you are, the more you have spun for yourself stories to cover it as strengths.

The Wolf is not a hero. It is not strength, leadership or beauty. The wolf is not a manipulator or abuser. The wolf is not perseverance. The wolf is not climbing the ranks alone. The wolf is not success in groups or alone. It does not stand for any of it. You are not the wolf. The deer's grace and peacefulness and wickedness came with a denial. One that was forgotten by the deer for the deer to be a deer. The wolf is not a natural predator keeping the ecosystem at balance. It is an inevitable manifestation of the deer's denial, chasing it like your shadow chases you. With its kills, bringing the deer into a whole again. That is why it was made that predators die when prey ceases to exist.

Let's not derail this thread into sociology, you guys. I think puporing has important emotional work ahead, with which we will all support her.

Yes, just be aware they will probably diminish your feelings or gruesomely rationalize. If so, that doesn't matter. Your authentic expression is of importance even if their minds cannot grasp it. I really wish you the best.

@Corpus I have to agree with Leo. By experience.

Leo will tell you to get out of there.

You don't, it's ok to be affected by this. Your parents probably never allowed you to feel like a normal human being with yourself, that's why it affects you. There is a lack of a barrier in you. Express yourself deeply honestly whenever they make you uncomfortable, really watch and let out all the hidden and insecure, unpleasant feelings i front of them especially. You will realize after a while in heart, not just with your mind, their words are a waste of time.

Crazy..

@flowboy If you don't question yourself about a possible higher level or better approach you could have taken, you will hardly learn and grow yourself. You might further suffering out of self imposed positive ignorance.

@flowboy Consider that you think you're not taking the mind too seriously is a delusion. Consider that your approach to life has ignored opportunities to further well-being and growth, simply because you think you are unshaken by mistakes and stay in positivity.

Comprehensive

I see.

@Leo Gura Whatever Leokovski. What makes you think our selfishness cap is predetermined like that. You said yourself god gave it's will to its creation. Do we not have an actual choice to develop out of this? Why would the form 'humanity' be preferred over any other of the species that could have a chance?

@Leo Gura I don't know what makes you think humanity has a special place and not that some other species could rise from our failure and face the challenge.

Why not romantic?

@nuwu how long has that been going for, you're longing to be destroyed or being hollow long?

@Leo Gura I suppose christ wasn't healthy then for helping those needy and sick people.

@nuwu wait.. monica?

You want to do it If you desire to do it, then do it. That is the right decision then. We all wish you success for it.

I identified your train of thought. Birds of a feather flock together. He will probably react intuitively similarly like you would in that situation.

I don't understand the question. None here knows his psyche sufficiently enough to help you with the right approach for this. If it were me, just ask me. If he thinks asking straight is a reason to not like you, I don't know if he is the right one then? I am not even sure being this cautious with a person you love means you are to move together with eachother. But I am glad you found that feeling in somemone.

Why Leo, why? Why throw wood.