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What lifestyle means? - Set of principles that guide your life - Expressing your personality through living life - Special way to play life - Structured one helps you achieve your dreams - Experience you offer for people that know you - The art anyone can create from their life - Should be aligned with who you are - Tells lot about owners intentions - Good one gives feeling of meaning - Well crafted one builds ground and trust - Makes you feel unique - Inspires others and oneself - More sustainable and meta solution for bare habits - Changes based on your goals - Is personal for everyone so it shouldn't be copied - If is stuck your whole life feels stuck - Product of the integration process of intellectual knowledge and understanding - Limits and determines your possibilities in life - Even small changes have huge impact - It is easy to identify with your lifestyle therefore to get development stuck

Subskills of being social (about 40min) - Being able to relax your body - Having fluid mind enough to see the perspectives of others - Finding people interesting - Incredible storytelling talents - Skill of making conversations of any words - Recognizing humor in day to day things - Good emotion reading skills - Skill to hype people up - Skill of lightening mood progressively and reducing tension among people - An eye to help shy people to join conversations - Skill to make people feel good of themself - Understanding the weaknesses and strenghts of a specific environments - Progressively building respect between people - Having good awareness in general - Drama preventation skills - Good emotion handling skills - Having good, positive and energizing mood - Good mix of being relatable, but still unique - Knowing how to categorize people - Showing somehow that you don't judge others - Skill to be hypnotized by the conversations

@integral Awakening is an experiential insight. Therefore if you saw new aspect of reality or deepened some old one, you could call it an awakening. The whole game of having awakenings, intellectual insights or learning something new in general is only for you. You decide what counts as awakening for you and what doesn't. If you didn't already see, I'll tell you that everything that spirituality is, is personal introspection to the core of you and the experience occuring. It is 100% internal game and you gotta navigate in it by yourself and make the rules, not ask them from others. -joNi-

@SQAAD I guess before I continue answering to you, you could explain in detail why necessarily the WHOLE system needs to be changed and what that practically would mean to you.

@Socrates It's not a limiting belief, but just experimentation based on a trial and error. Go take psychedelics and make yourself to have wings permanently and take a picture of them for me. After that go teach Leo to cure his disease and we'll all be happy.

@SQAAD When you chat with Leo he is talking in very different level than you about changing oneself. He is trying to make a point about changing the whole system you're using to think things from. I am 22 yo and I already see how that probably never will change for me, but its's just more nuance on top of what already exists. Of course in the level you are speaking you can be changed man in a month and next time in a next month if you do things correctly and that should be your aim.

@Loving Radiance I am not sure if that was question meant to be answered by me or contemplation question for SQAAD. I'll answer to that anyways. There are some key aspects in life lived fully based on your dreams and personality and here's a list. 1. You feel like an artist, because you are literally crafting your life and living it in very unique way that smells like perfume made from you. 2. There's no comparison to other people, because you have so unique lifestyle and "game of life" that the only competitor possible is you. 3. You gain heightened trust to life and yourself, because you take the position of deciding whenever something is working or not. 4. Everything seems to come together and chaos basically disappears from your life. That is because everything is so well structured. 5. Your confidence skyrockets, because you know you do well and that's more that enough. 6. You realize always deeper how sacred and special your mind, body and life are. 7. There cannot be lack of motivation, because what you're meant to do and what you want to do collapses into one plan. 8. Life becomes exploration adventure of how you can grow yourself today. Literally EVERYTHING becomes a practise. 9. You are a master and the best at what you do in a whole earth. You JUST cannot be beaten in your field. 10. Everything you do is meaningful because that's how you designed it in the first place. The list could be more expansive, but 10 somehow felt good for a now.

@SQAAD First I'll throw different perspective to @Someone here's suggestion. I wouldn't advice reducing or stopping spiritual practices, but just use them to generate energy to change one's life materially if you wish to put it that way. With higher consciousness you'll make higher consciousness decisions and those will carry your stage orage cleaning job even higher dimensions you ever thought before. Also there's deep connection between general self-help and spirituality that many people don't see properly. It's easier to change lifestyle when you work on your "karma" or traditionally called "trauma" using spiritual methods. Also it's so much easier to meditate when you know you've done what you must've done for the day or a week. It gives you extra peace of mind. Fastest and best method to adjust one's personality or life as a whole happens by deeply contemplating one's philosophy and how that manifests in actuality in day to day life. What type of person you'd wish to be? How that person would value things, how that person would make decisions and from what observation angle? Answering those questions will set you a goal of a person you're aiming to unleash from inside. Now you have a plan and that gives you stability and motivation. Next thing is to really master self-integrity and start doing what needs to be done. It should be non-negotiable to always consider and do the best move on the board or otherwise there's no point in anything. -joNi-

@Buck Edwards Now you have lots of lessons to reflect back on and integrate them to grow to awesome person with huge life experience. Winning is not an action, but mental decision and lifestyle. Others had a headstart, but you'll outrun them in long-term, trust me -joNi-

@manuel bon This forum is focused on building stable, sustainable and healthy solutions for life. If you somehow have NEED to take basically amphetamine to get things done then aim to do just while you search for healthier alternatives. Is your diet, sleep schedule, water intake, physical exercise routine, muscle stretching in under control. How about life direction and hot desire for some area where you can express yourself through the lifestyle that you consider as an art. Have you watched all Leo Gura's videos already. How about Frank Yang? There are so many different self-help methods and boy decides to take speed? Sidenote: If you really still wanna go that route then I'll support you on that, but at least remember that you've been warned. My whole support <3 -joNi-

@manuel bon How many different things have you tried before deciding to take modafinil or something similar just to get things done. How other people get things done, how millionaires got their wealth and how spiritual monks attained their enlightenment. I strongly suggest you not going to that route, because you can find alternative solutions that are also long-term solutions and that is how you should measure your success anyways, on the long-term. If you still think you somehow need extra clarity boost then start microdosing magical truffles that are legal where you live and you'll be so much better with that path. Also begin to meditate daily and make cold showers a way to wake you up if needed. -joNi-

@Butters Build a daily habit of letting go muscle tension in your body and expecially around that area. Basically always when you remember it, do it. While you wait somewhere etc. Also breathe to that area to boost effects. Tell me how it works. -joNi-

@AndylizedAAY You don't necessary need to speak about topics taugh here to other people. Just casually outline things you've personally benefitted from spirituality. If they seem interested they'll ask more about your hobby if they don't then just change topic and try again later or wait until they face challenging moment of life and explain how spirituality could act as a tool to get over it.

@Eva First of all I don't want to start any big arguments anywhere, but funnily Tate just is the manly energy you want your son to have. Talk to him about things you know and guide him there and try not to lose connection with him, because he follows someone you don't like personally. You could even use Tate as your advantage in guiding your son. "Tate would ace dem tests at school and wouldn't be lazy" or that "Tate would respect his parents" and so on and so forth. Maybe introduce Leo's channel and make those 2 very good duo. Also these things are so deep that it'd be hard to say even 0,01 % what I want so if you may we could have voice conv about parenting in general Much support regardless <3 -joNi-

@Michael569 Thanks for seeing what I was pointing and by any means I wasn't trying to attack your view or anything. Just little friendly reminder, because I perceive we are a spiritual team here in the forum and we should remind others if we see weird behaviour to keep all of us growing. It's like dem boys really will let you know if you're BSing yourself to keep you in a right track.

@Michael569 I could answer to most of user's responses here, but because you're a mod I decided to answer to you. I think we could be more supportive to the opener and not invalidate his sucess. It would be like telling to person who started to go to gym hyped that we'll see if this even works after you show me your gains in 3 months. I almost feel the vibe reading people's messages here that they hope he'll end up miserable just to make some point about tinder in general. This should be high quality forum and I expect more of the people here. @Husseinisdoingfine Also GJ man, keep the grinding going in other aspects of your life too and thanks for encouraging people to try new possibilities in their life <3 -joNi-

@tesseract 369 That's literally the only thing you need to know. It would be like asking how to get better at doing squats. There really isn't any other way than to do squats or easier variations of 'em. People tend to beat around the bush, because they are seeking for some indirect ways to solve the problem present. Even if you'd find one it would be INDIRECT which means that it'll be unnecessary slow. In life you've got so many things to do and practice so you've gotta learn the correct attitude to go 'bout them. Do what you've gotta do and move on. Much support for yo <3 -joNi-

@krockerman Learn a principle that you do whatever you need in order to have the life you want. When there's correct intention and you're sure of what you do, you can't be shamed from it, because you simply don't care. Who told you that it would be immoral to have sex with 18 yo girl or even have relationship with them. It is well known fact that girls prefer older boys anyways. Only way you could be a creep is if you'd somehow be a creep. It depends on how good you socially are and not from the age you have. Being too direct in wrong way in the beginning is what makes it creep and that is what older men don't seem to get, because they start to talk about sex in the first sentence with new people.

@Emotionalmosquito You missed the point. Of course it was overexaggerated, but the point was that no normal human being gets ACCIDENTLY multiple reports. If that would happen to you or anyone else I would highly recommend becoming more socially aware during next social interactions, because that's JUST not a thing to happen by an accident. But even that wasn't the whole point. It was just to tell you to reconsider what you should and shouldn't do at least in early meetings with new people. That sentence tells enough of your REAL social life experience. Yeah could happen randomly sometimes and would be a thing to laugh with your whole friend group, but multiple girls doing it for "no reason at all" just isn't reality, sir. But here's the point that if sexy girl touches guy it isn't harassing at least I wouldn't take it like that . I get your point what you're trying to say, but in reality we're living right now, accept the rules of the game and play your best move according to it. You need to be sensitive and nuanced with these things. It ain't black and white as any other social/moral thing. Hope that this cleared some of those misunderstandings.

@Actualising Edit your post to be more expansive and keep in mind that not everyone knows what you're refering with "massive action" so include some video link or other explanation to it too. I am saying this JUST, because otherwise you'll not get good answer if not at all and thread locked on top of all that. -joNi- <3

@Emotionalmosquito Why on earth would you use that opener instead of almost anything else. Friendly tip, any controversial thing in social situations isn't really seen as cool and rather weird, creepy and offensive. Also if many women report you then prolly you belong to jail . I suggest you building your social circle, going parties and meeting people that way. You get healthier more holistic understanding of socializing that way anyway. I mean if you still wanna do "cold approaching" then just stick with something more down to earth.

@Blackhawk Is everything against you or you against everything? When dancing you could say that the music forces you go to with the pace of it or on the other hand you could say that it teaches you the mood needed for deepening the self-expression. The friction between tires and street isn't for making moving harder for vehicles, but IS actually an essential component in getting into movement in the first place. Beautiful rain doesn't ruin your majestic day, but rather clears air for you to breathe easier. Sexy girl isn't Universe making jokes on you, but instead trying to motivate you of life's incredible amount of possibilities. It is the perspective you choose as you can hopefully see. Your life only changes after you change your attitude for it. You can moan as much as you desire or you can start strategizing your behaviour according to your dreams of future. I am not as cold as you might pick right now. The point solely is to show how the essence of something is in the process of perceiving it instead of in the perceived thing itself. Why are you even trying to prove to yourself, to me or to other readers that life is COMPLETELY, UTTERLY and FULLY against your ass. You could use all that time to produce plan for you to hit new personal records in this game of life. Better diet? More meditation? More push-ups maybe? Self-respect is the key. Would you watch your friend, partner or family member go through hellish depression. Would you lend a helping hand and guide them towards CRUSHING VICORY!! I guess your answer so why in the GOD DAMN HELL you don't do it for yourself? Aren't you worthy person in your eye. COMPLETE human trash? No you fucking aren't and if you think otherwise you don't see the beauty and potentiality inside yourself that you have. Start doing things that make you see yourself in better light. Become a champ of your life. You're a HERO @Blackhawk . Trust me <3 With love -joNi-

@Florian If you REALLY microdose then you can go normally. Just find the correct dose which doesn't put you on extreme tripping. Try it with full day off and then see it for yourself. These really aren't things you should ask from anyone else, but from yourself. Bite the bullet and experiement it for yourself. Many people don't have patience to start low and really work up in period of let's say like couple months. Do big lifestyle change and become healthier and use psychedelics only as an enhancer for your growth. Work your foundation level and don't rely solely on external help of psychedelics. Correct attitude is the key here as everywhere else in life. -joNi-

@Osaid Wrong, I am. Wanna throw hands 'bout it, boy?

@Rishabh R As long as you mean trusting universe/your own lead to win the situation with the word "hope" then it helps and a lot, but If you mean wishing then the whole thing is made to fail.