Federico del pueblo

@Javfly33 Amazing. Man I really have to get into psychedelics soon. Seems like they can be super powerful. Keep it up buddy ????

@somegirl "Accessing infinite love through fapping" by 6 times New York Times bestselling author somegirl (PhD), foreword written by Dr. Leo Gura (renowned fapping expert)

@Javfly33 @Javfly33 How's it going bro? Are you experiencing urges again? Just asking because if you need some loving kick in the ass there's probably gonna be some people here who will happily give it to you (no offense, it's just love ok?). For some people a bit of negative social motivation can be helpful

Wow, I didn't know you were that kind of girl I keep learning new things about our members here ?

And have you read all of them???!! ?

Seriously? ?

@Knowledge Hoarder I'm starting to understand why you're a knowledge hoarder ?

Yes, he faps. LOL.

I had to contemplate this a little bit more. If each life is like a replay (like a movie), would you agree though that it's not like a static movie, but more of a dynamic movie? Because you have to admit this: when God is watching (or shall we say doing...) the Federico movie it is affecting how the justfortoday movie will play out. Like everything seems to be entangled in a way. Federico's actions (which are god's actions) during god's lifetime as Federico affect the movie that God 'will' watch/do once God decides to watch/do justfortoday's movie or will they not? This is what's so mind boggling for me. But then also there isn't even time, right? So between God's experience as Federico and God's experience as justfortoday there isn't even any time passing and still the two experiences aren't happening simultaneously?! ? Crazy stuff right here

Thanks man. That's a nice analogy! God must be an absolute genius to pull that off ?

Why does it seem like we're both having this conscious experience simultaneously? Like there is one pov of Federico and one of justfortoday. I'm writing this comment, you're writing the answer. You have a pov with which you read the comment, but so do I (at least from my pov ?). Can this paradox be explained or is any explanation of it pointless because we're trying to explain the infinite with some finite method?

When I sleep at night and I'm fully unconscious, is there still anything that exists? Or will it just get created once I wake up?

Whatever is the truth of the moment. "You seemed like a cool girl, so I wanted to say hi" Canned openers: "You look like cool people, so I wanted to come by for a moment" "Hey, you guys look like fun together" "Excuse me, you just look really intriguing, so I wanted to say hi" "Hey, I'm [name], I wanted to meet you, you seemed cute/fun" "You look like trouble in the most adorable way (I've seen this evening)" "You guys look really adorable together" "You guys look really adorable together, you...(the girl you like) look a little bit like trouble....but I'll deal with it" "That was just the most dismissive look you gave me there....so I had to come and talk to you" (pretending like you know them) "Hi girls, sorry I'm late. I missed the bus..." (Then keep pretending, play with it) "Hey, you're the cutest girl in a red dress I've seen in the last 5 minutes :P" Also be aware of how your mind might trick you. If you're anxious you'll get thoughts like "but I don't know...this opener seems weird in this situation" "nah...this opener doesn't fit right now" "nah... that's not a good opener" and so on. Your mind will do anything to stop you from doing the feared thing. Also it is much more about the delivery than the exact content of the line. If you want to use a very cocky opener ("which on of you girls thinks she could handle all of this (pointing with your thumbs to yourself)") but you seem shy and insecure it doesn't work. This doesn't mean that the opener doesn't work, your delivery didn't work. And also keep in mind that you're not trying to seduce them with your opener. The goal of the opener is to get past the opener. It doesn't have to be amazing. What you do after the opener and how you calibrate is much more important.

@Lincisman As you already concluded yourself, you'll build your confidence in both ways. Doing pick up will build this very specific kind of confidence, like becoming more confident at approaching and then flirting etc. All other things, like your LP, interests/hobbies will build your base level of confidence and make you feel like you have value to offer. There are certain traps though. Don't think your life has to be absolutely amazing for you to be confident with women. This can happen if you compare yourself to other guys to much and spend to much time on Instagram or similar apps/social media. So don't create a limiting belief that you always must have tons of cool things going for you, you don't. If you become better at the game itself this creates a new type of value too. If you're loose and fun and positive people enjoy being around you because they can let go and absorb your good energy.

I'm no expert on that matter. But I would say it will still require one hard training session (including all muscle groups) per week to maintain a certain physique, training to or close to failure. But if you had a really elite physique it probably would still take more. There's no reason for the body to maintain a lot of muscle mass if you're not using it = sending the signal to your body that your muscles are required in that quantity.

Haha, somegirl has a new crush ??

Sometimes women do make the first move. But it's rare. Like for every 100 approaches I've done, 1 girl approached me. Or girls will make an effort to make it extra easy for you to talk to them, like standing extra close, making eye contact or smiling. I think it comes down more to confidence and your energy than just looks. You can be good looking but also look "unapproachable" in a way. If you are positive and seem social and like good energy, like you're having fun etc, girls sometimes will open you. Anyway you can't afford relying on girls approaching you, so just approach them instead

Existence does exist. You are existence, so you exist.

Interesting!

Currently I'm just avoiding sleeping on my left side (where the shoulder pain is). I sleep on my back too, but only sleeping on my back seems hard. Like at some the urge to turn on the side becomes too big. Can you sleep only on your back? @Arcangelo ? I'll be strong. @Asayake Thanks for the info.

Yeah, I've done that. I've released some anger. It didn't help with the shoulder issue, but it's good to reduce overall anger levels

@Javfly33 @Javfly33 Yeah definitely the feelings of unworthiness and inferiority etc are linked to the addiction behaviour. It seems like a cycle, in which the addictive behaviour perpuates the negative emotions that are the root cause of the behaviour, wouldn't you say? Anyway, just keep doing the work, you're on your way.

@Medhansh Thanks! I'll look it up.

@mysticalninja Thanks for the info. Yes, I sound impatient because I am at this point ? Though, it's two weeks until the doctor's appointment, but it was in December when I injured myself, so it's been over two months. And since in the beginning it felt like "no big deal" I didn't even consider a doctor and thought it would probably vanish rather quickly, but it didn't

With ear plugs sleepers will soon be dominating the world ?