Rishabh R

Contemplation : -Increasing my understanding -Making me know life -Making me see a situation unbiased -Making me interesting -Aligning me with truth

@Thought Art I have a diary in which I write my insights.

-More emphasis on updated knowledge -No access to previous knowledge -Unholistic revelation of thing -Discarding of previous dimension -Unacknowledgement of other dimension of life -Overestimating one dimension -Underestimating other dimensions of life -Ungreatful of previous experiences -It is different from understanding the sutuation

Ya it's a great book I have read this book and heard the summary of Manson's second book. Also I am currently reading models.

I was contemplating that - How do I overcome heartbreaks ?and following answers came to my mind . - They are not as special as I think -It will be ok -They have chosen the wrong guy over me -It is not me it is their short mindeness -By moving on - By ignoring them -By recognising that I am attached to many people I hope the message was delivered.

Yeah @Roy that's true cause in the midst of heartbreak we assume that it is the last person whom I got attracted to which is an illusion.

-Understanding -Change in form -To go through evolution -To move forward -To pass from evolution -To experience different perspectives

So there was this girl whom I liked and I proposed her on telegram by saying - I love you. She first said - Are you crazy man.I said - I like you . She asked why? I said cuz you're beautiful. She then said shut up . And then said I will slap you in the face . I said- please reply . She said - that's the reply . Next day I got a threat call from her friend. After an year I told about her to my classmates even a senior. Then I had a conversation with her on WhatsApp where she abused me but I didn't abuse her cause it's my authenticity not to abuse. I told her friend who threatened me that I was hurt by him . He told me to stop crying (I don't know why he told me this cause I wasn't crying ). Then I came to know that that guy's girlfriend was laughing at me saying that how fearful am I how juvenile am I . When my college opened I saw her making a guy her best friend.And this memory is lingering in my mind even though time has passed. Maybe I need to move. After watching Leo's how to get laid series I daily talk to atleast 2-3 girls.So how do I deal with this situation?- Maybe I need to contemplate it . Anyways thank you @Leo Gura for your life transfoing content even though I am feeling bad right now .Also I have a question that must I be an optimist that good days and good girls are coming in the future ?

Hey @Leo Gura and guys I contemplated that how do I deal with this situation? .She was hurt by me .That situation is no longer true . I have attracted many girls after her .Stop thinking about it .People act according to their emotions .That is only in my head .There are other better girls

Thank you guys

Ya I watched it. Thank you . Basically we must operate on implicit understanding in life .

If we accumulate large amounts of fictions then it lowers our productivity as we would be stuck in dreaming instead of taking action.

As we go through life the fiction makes our life productive as to act we have to make sense of the world in short time but accumulating more fiction decreases productivity as it is easy to be stuck in thinking that our fantasy is real. And after death our fiction in mind ends as death is end of identity. Any thought guys ?

Answers : -By questioning -By focussing on positive and also taking into account the negative that I have to work upon -By recognising my mistakes -By moving forward no matter what -By recognising that I can live the best life possible -By commuting that I will live the best life possible from now onwards -By getting rejected Any thought guys ?

As I am learning attraction and dating I am going through consistent heartbreaks to the point that I fear going out . I am single and haven't had a girlfriend but my friends do which makes me deeply jealous. Any ideas to deal with this situation of mine ?

@NoSelfSelf Is there any book for it ?Or must I write my limiting beliefs about dating down in my commonplace journal or diary and question them. By the way thank you for your help.

@NoSelfSelf So what can I talk about? Even Leo said in his three part series of how to get laid that it doesn't matter what I say what matters is my congruency.Even he said that I need to believe in myself in the last part of his series that if you don't believe you can then it becomes your reality - so is there any book or video which would help me to overcome my limiting beliefs ?

@NoSelfSelf I sometimes complement them , sometimes talk to them about the classes. I usually begin the conversation by saying what's going on. I mostly talk to them about mundane stuffs.

@NoSelfSelf I approach them ,they approach me a few times but many of them call me bhai (brother). I also feel jealous of girls who are in a relationship. Like my mind tells me that everyone is getting committed and here I am single.

In class, on my college campus.

Every girl that I try on turns out that she is already committed.

Yeah I mean struggling to get a girlfriend and seeing others in relationships.

Hi @Leo Gura and everybody. So I was in my college hostel and was suffering due to the fact that others are in a relationship and I am not - then I had an insight -- Everything in life will not be settled and that is good. Also the process of settling things is better than things settled. I wrote it down in my diary of insights. So guys any thoughts on this

Hi @Leo Gura your videos have really changed my life. Back in 2017 when I started following you I started meditating ,contemplating. Your videos are really good pointers for questions to contemplate,understanding etc. By the way Leo do you have some epistemology questions to contemplate? And do you plan to release more epistemology videos in the future?And also what questions must I contemplate in the domain of success, personal life to excel in them? Also sorry for a little trouble #SaveShwetabhGangwar- I know that there are a number of Indian youtube audience are present. If you all can them please help this youtuber - Shwetabh Gangwar.

@Leo Gura how are you and all.Haven't posted for a while now .How to find out that if a girl has a boyfriend as it is so confusing on the surface to know ? Feeling that it is impossible to get a girlfriend (although I must keep my feelings aside and be persistent in the game).