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@Inliytened1 Read this man . I pasted this after copying it from forum guidelines .Read the point title hate speech ,racism , Sexism . What’s NOT Allowed: Self-promotion Coming here to start your teaching/coaching/guru business by leeching off this audience Multiple accounts. (If you are caught opening multiple accounts, both will be banned). Posting in any language other than English Sharing copyrighted material, including sharing of files, videos, music, etc. to which you do not have copyrights. Discussing group-buys or sharing of self-help products or courses. Discussing torrenting, warez, or cracks SPAM, including but not limited to: affiliate links, mass marketing, clandestine promotion, SEO, promotional PM Harvesting member contact information Links to pornography, graphic violence, religious/political propaganda, etc. Hacking the forum Viruses or malware of any kind Recruiting members for chat-groups outside of this forum, including Skype, Discord, chatrooms, etc. Starting new spiritual communities, private groups, or cults Mass messaging or abuse of the PM system PMing members with pitches or promotions or recruiting PMing members to share copyrighted material or do "group buys" of self-help products Duplicate-posting: posting the same thread in multiple locations Posting AI-generate content like text, images, or video without disclosing that it was sourced from AI Posting Deepfakes without disclosure Verbal abuse Verbally abusing moderators or administrators Threatening or blackmailing other members, moderators, or administrators Hijacking threads Hijacking the community, mass manipulation of the community, sabotaging the community, leeching off the community Excessive or repetitive creating of new threads or replies Hate speech: racism, sexism, homophobic slurs, threats, harassment, or excessive profanity Ganging up on other members, starting factions that splinter the community Sharing private logins to Actualized.org products or services with other users Reproducing or posting content from Actualized.org paid products Calling members names like: stupid, idiot, moron, asshole, retard, etc. Trash-talking, trolling, chronic criticism, blaming, and finger-pointing Political activism (this is NOT a political forum) Religious activism or dogmatic promotion of any religious belief system Threads about which religion is the best Debates about whether enlightenment is real. (If you doubt enlightenment this forum isn't for you.) Conspiracy theories (like Illuminati, Reptilians, 9/11 inside job, Flat Earth, Jews running the world, pedophilia rumors, etc) Spreading rumors and gossip Asking how to source drugs, psychedelics, or prescription pharmaceuticals Attempts to undermine or damage Actualized.org, staff, or employees Excessive thread bumping ALL-CAPS messages Impersonating Moderators, Administrators, Leo, or Actualized.org staff Threads about Actualized.org billing issues, refund request, bugs, or technical support. (Contact tech support for that.) Using images of Leo or the Actualized.org logo for your profile picture Offensive, grotesque, dirty, or sexual profile images or usernames Posting personal information such as address, phone number, or email Doxxing

@Inliytened1 Nope I'm not talking about that. You can talk about it privately , with your romantic partner , with your guy friend but not here in public . The forum is a casual chat room not a casual sex room.

Man , there are ladies on this forum too. Don't generalise your intimacy .

@Inliytened1 I hate to break it to you but regardless of the fact weather @Leo Gura is pro pickup or anti pickup . I have observed it in a huge number of guys. Guy reads pickup theory - then approaches a lot of women - then get's laid/relationship/sex whatever from the woman. Then breakups with her and again back to 0 still suffering like he will remain single his whole life. Again back to where he started .

@Leo Gura Sorry Leo if it goes against the forum guidelines if my comments feel off . @Mellowmarsh Yup vulnerability also includes apologizing when necessary . @yetineti I hope so. 😂

@Mellowmarsh Thanks for the appreciation .

@Yimpa 😊

Anyways you guys are from different backgrounds ,different life circumstances and different results . I hope that you all make the most of your lives. Love you - people who took time to interact with me in a kind manner . ❤️

@Inliytened1 I think that we all are equal and are as good ,as bad as each other. Nobody is superior ,nobody is inferior - if someone thinks it based on his external results then that person is deluding himself .

@yetineti Ok thank you. I just honestly felt a little bit hurt from the fact that I attacked him a bit. Yup vulnerability is important. I just wanted to know his perspective and that's it . After all vulnerability is honestly expressing oneself despite feeling initial fear. And I can tell you right now that by typing this message to you on phone I am feeling nervousness but acting despite it .- Also I have noticed this is the single bottleneck that has the potential to improve my results. By the way @yetineti have you read Models by Mark Manson. I assume you have read it. I respect you too. ❤️

@LordFall Ok but how do you overcome your approach anxiety ? I mean what I have found is that taking action despite anxiety surprises me about my potential. I mean one day at work - basically I am into science work and all. So I expressed myself honestly to a girl aka being vulnerable . She scolded me and told me to focus on work. Later the next day she initiated a conversation with me about my career plans , we had multiple joyful conversations . And also like earlier I wasn't practicing vulnerability , I mean I was obsessed ,needy and desperate for getting laid . Which was outcome dependent goal and my results with women sucked more than now ( honestly ) despite approaching .Lately I have been getting increased engagement from females. So could you explain that ? As per work I will be joining at a new workplace. And what I have noticed is that wherever I go some women reject me while some women are receptive to me . 😅

@yetineti Ok but let's just understand this theory and if that fits then ok otherwise we will use another theory . That's all. I stood up for myself and that's enough , we don't need to attack each other. I mean let's create a healthy space on this forum . I don't know about @LordFall personally but we can still learn something from his advice and theory . Let's see.

@LordFall Ok sorry if I misunderstood you but I mean even though I have never been in a relationship expressing myself honestly to women even though I have anxiety has improved my results a bit . It's good that you pointed something in me. Maybe I must try something different besides vulnerability . So what methods are you using , I'm curious and sorry if you felt bad .

@yetineti Welcome I have even had a physical confrontation with a narcissist in the past and I had beaten the hell out of him. Even my super senior can't save him . I discovered that the narcissist who was a college senior if mine acted realistically towards others but was kind to himself . I mean he was a hypocrit.

@LordFall Oh really a lot of assumptions . People like you obsessed over getting laid and treating others immaturely is a sign of foolishness . I know you don't give a F-- because you are indeed a narcissist and as per your narcissism only immature women will like you . That doesn't generate results it generates hatred . Also remember one thing. And it matters what I have been through . If you don't appreciate don't comment on my posts. I am better off without you and people like you.

@LordFall Isn't life already brutal and trying to make it easy leads to a more harder life rather than accepting the discomfort of life then taking action anyway. You don't know me personally dude ,leave apart the challenges I have faced and currently face . A part of training is also to challenge your own assumptions about people so that your advice doesn't add to someone else's distress . You can lead the horse to the pond but you can't make it drink water if you kick it you can't even lead it to the pond it will rebel. Try this - Before being harsh on anyone and making any judgement remind yourself that you don't know what the other person has been through . Sorry dude I hate your way of talking . You are practicing pseudo -skepticism.

@Inliytened1 Ok . 👍

@Inliytened1 He is good but at times he is brutal. Ok great you two get along after a bit of standoff.

@Inliytened1 Ok 😂.

@Inliytened1 Sorry I didn't understood your full message .

Yup me . I have done more than 60 cold approaches in the past 3 years. Even few women have approached me .

Man I mean I must be underestimating my happiness by comparing to the excitement of other couples after they get into a relationship. 😉Gotta take a happiness test quiz.

If that's the case then I apologize to @Natasha Tori Maru even if I didn't create the thread.

How's your experience of singlehood compared to your relationship experience. I mean mentally.

@LordFall Nope I don't want to fall for toxic ideologies .