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@CARDOZZOok. Thank you.

Me when being angry or suffering due to other people's actions, words etc. And also me thinking myself as insufficient or inadequate.

@CARDOZZO yeah it could. I have watched it more than 1 time. 😂👍However, the problem with me is that I become jealous and angry when I see a couple.(which is immaturity on my part). Also I am pissed off and girls of my batch in college because they called me brother and then they went into a relationship with someone else.(yet another sign of immaturity) How can I work through these ?And lastly my college grades are not high enough so I fear weather I will be selected for PhD abroad in decent colleges. (I am from India by the way)

@Agrande haha . A tragic humor.

@Agrande you are right but he has already taken a long break.And also yeah he will die one day and we all will so why not make the most of it.

@CARDOZZO I have applied Leo's as well as teachings of other people like Mark Manson, Ryan holiday and they have produced some results but soley Leo's videos have produced good results. So I want to further self actualize.

@CARDOZZO yes. How to be positive in general or as promised- the ultimate guide to success ?

@lostingenosmaze I think that we must rethink our approach. I posted it on Sunday thinking that it would remind @Leo Gura to shoot a video 😂

I love you @Leo Gura even tough I was hurt by you . Happy Diwali to you.

@sholomar but ego contraction and expansion can also be a nondual thing. And also failure and success are also full circle. Thank you.

By the way it's going to be the end of the year - will your courses come in December . And which episodes of your must I watch in order to deal with failure in life in general ?

Any suggestions are appreciated.

@ted73104 absolutely. @HMD so not knowing is the real truth as Leo said in his videos?

@ted73104 thank you. Replied to @HMD but didn't wanted to make you seem that I don't care about you by not replying to you.

@HMD Eating junk food , walking back and forth too much/ wasting my time. However, in regard to upcoming events I always have been surprised when I admit to myself that I don't know what will happen in the future.

Any suggestions

Confidence has got nothing to do with what we will achieve but it has everything to do with our comfort with what we lack. I learned this from Mark Manson. https://markmanson.net/how-to-be-confident

Hi, I am a 22 year old college student in India. I am ok at studies. Most of my friends are in a relationship whereas I am not and I am suffering due to it. Girls reject me and go to someone else which make me suffer more. Also I get extremely jealous when I see a couple.I am pissed off at girls of my batch who call me brother but it no longer affects me.So what's the solution to my problem ? Is optimism is or responsibility for improving the situation or Not knowing ? Please help.

@NoSelfSelf I am doing self development from 2017 with no girlfriend since childhood upto till date. Thank you for your help.

And guys how do I fix my jealousy if girls are getting into relationships by earlier rejecting me and calling me brother? Lot of people in my college are finding relationships and I am among the few who are single.

@NoSelfSelf How can I fix my neediness ? Which coaches do you recommend. By the way I contemplated now that will getting a girl make me happy in long term ? To which the answer was no.

@Leo Gura any idea ?

Ya but guys I am a student and I am not allowed to go to bars and clubs as my father don't want me to go there. However, I am better than I know is the truth - this is a good perspective .

@itsadistraction ya that seems to me a good advice but by the way I would prefer to lowering my standards and how can I do it ? Also in case of asking out I said a girl I love you over a text. She gave me a rude reply and the next day her male friend gave me a threat call. Now she is with someone else and I am jealous that she has found somebody and I have not. She also abused me , bullied me after I complained the matter to a senior.

@Majed I tried and cold approached 50 + girls in my campus. However, cold approach doesn't work in India. I was kicked out of a campus while cold approaching a girl. I don't know what to do .