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@Leo Gura ok thank you and there I must approach. And also before approaching a girl I must see around if she is there alone or not?

@Raze yeah you are right. I am in India and cold approach here is seen like stalking.

@Leo Gura Is there any other option since I remain in my campus after coming from the classes to study in my hostel. By the way sorry for making excuses.

@Leo Gura I have approached girls but when I approach a random girl then that girl becomes insecure and their boyfriends become angry. I fear that will I land in trouble if I approach a senior girl. I now approach known girls.

@Schizophonia how ?

@mr_engineer I am already working to improve my life by studying for exams, reading philosophy or self help books,doing therapy etc.

@NoSelfSelf hope is the key which inspires action.

@NoSelfSelf the solution is to stop caring and move forward. You could also talk about that in a respectful manner and also hope to find a better person is one of the key aspects of inner game. So don't demotivate me.

So, guys are these experiences valuable ? Will they contribute to something good in the future like finding a good relationship / girl who doesn't treat me badly and loves me for who I am ?

@bebotalk Nobody is inherently evil or an enemy. Even tough I feel the same way but I don't go around hurting women like this. @Thought Art as for this guy forgive me if I am being a hypocrite but I hurt women who have hurt me in the past and generally don't hurt women I need to stop demonizing beautiful women which I need to work on. And also there is an avoidance of truth mechanism going on. You did excellent job by posting that video. The truth being avoided here is: Beautiful women are also human, beutiful women suffer in their life too.

@Leo Gura even tough there are many degrees of seeing reality will CBT help in seeing the situation more objectively when one is faced with suffering? Also like can creating one's own life philosophy like - I WILL PERCEVERE THROUGH IT help in overcoming challenges ? Also Leo you wanted to come in podcasts to make yourself familiar with public so can you come in Cole Hastings podcast as I can request him ? .

@Leo Gura is therapy like self directed Cognitive Behavioral therapy seeing the reality accurately?

Hey, Leo hope that you are doing well. Any courses, videos coming as you told that your course will be realising soon in 2023 but 2024 is going to be halfway complete The mind course and The Awakening course. And also you apologized to us once for your mistreatment of us -so are you making progress on that. And finally how is your health?

Congrats to you @Thought Art too. I didn't knew that you were so good.

@Antor8188 congratulations. You and other successful guys show us that there is a way out.

@Asia P I also remember that in my school days I used to love a girl and got my heart broken . But now I now I no longer love her. Also I realised that I didn't love her back then. It was just infatuation and I took the right decision to move from one sided love. Your situation is different but I don't think that you must leave a 5 year relationship for just another guy whom you met online cuz your relationship is bound to grow and it is already growing since 5 years which is a good thing. Thank you.

Your avoidance of truth was a good episode even tough I watched that episode for multiple of times I still like it. The only question is how do I act in alignment with truth in every situation or see the truth before acting on it ?

@Leo Gura ok that's normal but one has got to take action despite that . By the way are you returning to YouTube or is it only this cuz you once told that you're best work is yet to come. Also I discovered is that the best way to succeed is to think and act.

@Leo Gura searched . The challenges of making bold life changes. By the way I was asking you because I was getting confused with the overwhelming amount of the videos of yours.

@Leo Gura yeah I must ask the further questions Why do I don't value truth and keep questioning it deeper. However, I also care about success. So what's you're best video for success for people who are in college ?

@Leo Gura Contemplated : Do I love truth ? Sadly the answers was no. What does that even mean ? I don't know .

@Leo Gura How do I cultivate deep respect and love for truth ? By contemplation. For example when I become jealous of seeing couples in my college campus I must introspect and see that I could also get a girlfriend and it doesn't matter. Also by contemplating the questions given in that episode will it give me directions ?

@Leo Gura so going into every situation I must be introspective and face or do what I don't want to ? Is this the way ?

I had a classmate to whom I flirted . She sometimes treated me badly and sometimes good . At the last day of our contact she said to me that study don't do these things. After that I never saw her again . This incident gave me suffering . Was she my girlfriend? How can I move on from the past ? This incident has also happened to me a couple of times before?

@NoSelfSelf She was laughing and said that it's not that beautiful. Even tough I liked her dress and she seemed beautiful. I also said once to her that you didn't come to the class- she asked me why ? I told that I missed her then she along with group of her friends said ooooo smiling.