Rishabh R

@Husseinisdoingfine I was in this condition only once in my university due to a threat that I recieved from a senior but otherwise I have enjoyed and am enjoying my studies. In my 12th grade I decided to pursue biological sciences instead of math and all which was against my parents desire for me and my decision proved to be a blessing for me. It could be you also @Husseinisdoingfine as you can move forward.

@Leo Gura As a request could you do videos on survival and shadow work ?

@Leo Gura you are right that Game works. I have had a few girlfriends in the past but that doesn't matter ,so is for everyone else. I realized multiple times that I can get a girlfriend. Yesterday I warm approached (approach through social circle) 5 girls and 2 of them were good interactions while 3 of them were ok. I also discovered that connecting with girls by vulnerability lead to some of the memorable interactions. Thank you. @SageMind you can do it by being vulnerable , persistent and reframe rejections as opportunities for becoming a stronger man and finding a girl suitable for you.

@Leo Gura does being single and trying to get a relationship grows you ? Does being single grows you? How does one cure jealousy when you see others around you in a relationship while when you try on girls you get rejected ?

I have approached 100 girls in my college with no acceptance but only positives are that I realised that I can get a girlfriend, it doesn't matter wether I had a girlfriend in the past or not. And yes putting effort/taking action matters. So could you all answer the above question ?

Guys, today I talked to that girl who said me to sit beside her once and it went ok.

Today in my class , I talked to 5 girls and one of the girls called me to sit beside herself and we talked a little bit .Also a boy threatened me but that is his insecurity. But realizing this fact is more important than this threat. So the key for single guys is Optimism + Action.

@NoSelfSelf yeah like now I am feeling ok. A section of it consists of self awareness which is asking oneself questions. Thanks again.

I approached the girl whom I liked and asked her how the exam went . She said something by making a hand gesture like she doesn't know. However, it hurted me for a little while afterwards but afterwards it became ok . Thanks to Game and self help .

Thanks @NoSelfSelf so first I must value myself as enough .

Ok yeah I remembered that we talked about specific problem for which I think that I am on antidepressants for more than 5 years but I am responsible for it. Could you teach me game ? You said that the other book that I was reading is garbage but I found immense value in it such as which can I apply right now which is self questioning and also I realised ( sorry I am not joking ) but I am experiencing some moments of happiness as I accept my negative emotions , negative thoughts and the experience .

HOw is game different from pickup ?

@NoSelfSelf ok. We even connected on discord - were you teaching game or something else. Just asking.

@NoSelfSelf so what must I do instead?

@NoSelfSelf I expected her to talk to me in a normal manner but she was shy and that's ok as nobody talks to a stranger in an open manner and I have done cold approach before. I am also jealous of guys and girls in my class having relationships as there were some girls in my class whom I liked, I approached them , complemented them but they first rejected me and then started dating someone other guys. I am suffering but that is ok as it will lead to something positive as time has proved to me again and again that negative situations lead to positive outcomes. It doesn't affect me when I am rejected by girls but I am affected when I see others around me having relationships.

I tried to talk to her again. She saw me and then nodded her head to the question I asked her about the college. I won't make a move on her again as she is not interested.

@Human Mint yeah I know but you too have an ego.

@NoSelfSelf I agree with you.😂

@Princess Arabia ok then I will see what happens in the future as I don't know the future or it's not rejection as I could be wrong here

@Princess Arabia I have already told that . By the way why are you acting out.

Yeah I do like I talked to other girls after this incident.

@NoSelfSelf sorry but I didn't understood. Maybe you are talking about stop viewing it as rejection right ? I reframed this incident using a growth mindset worksheet (from another self help course which I took long ago which is more than 1 year )- This rejection is an opportunity with another beautiful girl and it means that I am not yet fulfilling my potential of having an amazing girlfriend in life.

What a joke 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 as I have dealt with worse in the past and I have overcame more worse rejections.

@integral or I can talk to other girls ?

@Sugarcoat she didn't properly talked to me and while I was looking at her she looked at me and turned her face quickly. But that's ok atleast I tried.