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@NoSelfSelf Ok thanks. So you mean to say that persistence is important as it is part of The growth mindset ?

Persistent in talking to different girls.

@NoSelfSelf But what about persistence ? Is it bullshit or has some value? I generated this mindset via a self mastery worksheet .

@NoSelfSelf But claude tells me a different story . Even though I would agree to you about redirection.

@Leo Gura Being single rather than having a superficial connection is great and also we must seek meaningful connections not surface level connections likes of which happen in my college. Few girls show interest in me while majority of girls reject me and then start dating other guys. However, I have recognized this as an opportunity for finding a meaningful relationship by a course in which growth mindset was taught. All thanks to genuine and deep personal development journey which began by watching your channel since 2017 . I also follow other self- improvement teachers . Also , secondly I have realised that when I ask myself for the girls who rejected me - Do I really like them ? The answer is always no . A question - Is doing personal development and simultaneously trying to find a relationship better than not doing personal development and just going from one relationship to another ? Also could you make a video only addressing the inner game or the part 1 of your 3 part series was enough.

Hi , a comment from an Indian here. What looking at your breakthrough reminds me of looking every problem as an opportunity by developing a growth mindset. Even though your path is different but difficulties have presented you with beautiful opportunities and will be present in the future for you too. Best of luck .

@The Renaissance Man Thanks. I have been a self-improvement writer through medium partners program since November 22 this year.

So I have been writing since November 22 through medium partner program and I have seen growth on The medium.

@Spiritual Warrior Yeah I must also do the same as I have a lot of resentment towards girls. I lost many girls whom I wanted to be in a relationship with. They started dating other guys. It hurted me very badly.

@Razard86 I have also followed him since years and bought all his books , read it . It was awesome.

I would like you to publish a video on solitude if . you are comfortable. By the way what is the difference between the above two ? Is Solopsism more spiritual concept and Solitude more personal development oriented ?

@Carl-Richard That's great dude.

As soon as I began writing on The medium I have been getting insights out of nowhere . Has anyone here experienced a similar thing ?

@Sugarcoat True.

Best of luck @Leo Gura .

@NoSelfSelf Congratulations.

@Princess Arabia From nowhere to somewhere . Haha 😂.

Thanks @Yimpa

@Leo Gura I have questioned my assumptions for an year. But later I got distracted by falsehood but again I started questioning assumptions and I have been experiencing surprises in my life. Also as a writer when I started writing for medium I am experiencing more insights than questioning. Even though questioning is important

Here is the link to my story. https://medium.com/@rishabhritvik5/when-improving-yourself-starts-backfiring-and-how-to-make-the-counterintuitive-move-e4294190a4dc

@Leo Gura Ok , so here is the information. I questioned myself earlier -What are all the ways I am wrong ? I wrote all these in my diary. - That everyone is happy except me -Those who are in a relationship are in a state of bliss - That I cannot overcome adversity in the future -That being present has no practical application -That more effort produces better outcomes -That I am not fooling myself -That I am completely honest -That no improvement is possible in the present condition So these are the things that I came up with when I contemplated the above question . And finally I want to ask you about the power of Intention in improving anything in life ?

Hey , @Leo Gura I watched and contemplated your episode - The psychology of being wrong multiple times and here are the answers to how will my behaviour change going forward ? Even though I am asking you that itself implies that I am wrong. But could you provide feedback on my answers ? Question - How will my behaviour change going forward ? Answers -I will focus on myself -When I will see somebody I will think that I don't know that person and assume that that person is equally happy in life as me. - I will be present and regard anything except that as an illusion -Whenever I will see a couple I will re-direct my focus and attention to myself and assume that their life is either normal or worse than me -I will adopt the mindset in social situations that I am not less than anyone. Please provide feedback. And others are welcome too.

Hey , @Leo Gura could you make the forum premium or could would you prefer to keep it open as anybody , preferably a troll can come and cause disruption in self actualization , which is mostly our aim here . And finally a question : What are the benefits of journaling ( writing about your day and whatever comes to your mind ) with a pen and diary ?

@Leo Gura Can the things you teach be applied to succeed in a science career or succeed in becoming a scientist ?

Acceptance is the thing that we all struggle with. I discovered a method of meditating which is very powerful for building one's self acceptance capacity. Sitting in a meditative posture and accepting everything in your experience. I recently did this and I was smiling during my meditation for most of the time. The length can vary from 5-20 minutes but not more than that as it can make you tired of smiling. 😂