Rishabh R

Could you all explain what happened to me. When I woke up today I was having thoughts of resentment due to past. But then I slept again in the morning and when I woke up again in the noon I was not experiencing any thoughts, my mind was balnk.I concluded from it that I don't need to think positive to feel happy.

Today I ordered - What the Buddha taught . Excited for the book. It would be my 10th book that I would be reading .

Waiting for your return . And also please do a video of how to be positive in general . Also during suffering is it better to accept and embrace one's suffering or being optimistic is better ? Both work but the former path seems better to me. Thank you.

By the way @Leo Gura What is your perspective on it ? Thank you @Hojo and @Princess Arabia.

@James123 Thanks.

@Candle haha. Thank you guys @WelcometoReality and @Javfly33.

7 and half hours at night.

@Candle Then how could be it when I woke from night's sleep , I was resentful while when I slept again for few hours which is total more than 8 hours I didn't experienced any thoughts and life was flowing smoothly.

@Basman I won't risk STDs. Also I am not subscribing to a model of success but rather I was talking about Models by Mark Manson.

Situation - I was angry due to girls rejecting me and dating other guys. Mindset--These rejections were meant to be persisted through which I did. They were the natural part of the process of becoming an attractive man. Action step- Keep moving forward no matter how hard it gets. I asked claude regarding this prompt for inner game and outer game. Now it's turn for you all. And @Leo Gura how to improve your inner game if you feel resentment against girls due to past rejections without psychedelics ?

@EternalForest Yeah , I have thought it sometimes.

@Kairos Thank you.

@Kairos I have female friends and also your advice is great. I have read Models by Mark Manson again and again and it helps me for this issue .

@Candle Biotechnology engineering.

@Kairos I am 24 year old student who will be completing my masters in the next 4-6 months . As per the above topic I don't like those girls either and rejection is the way of screening them away from my life.

Life is like a full circle. You return where you start but stronger and more mature.

Another book which is missing in the pic is Models by Mark Manson. Sorry but forgot to tell you all that it took a little bit more than a year.

@El Rizzidente Are you abusing me dude ? Also from earlier responses I got the point to be persistent in game but I don't like your response. Kindly ignore the rest due to error made by me in submitting the response.

@Leo Gura and people of actualized.org . Post your perspective that enhances one's inner game .

@Human Mint I am mostly silent in social environments. Great advice .

@Leo Gura Also the thinking that I cannot get a high quality girlfriend is also an illusion, right ? Yeah humans have fallen into the trap of maya since time immemorial. And Leo what about those girls who bullied me , treated me badly for showing my romantic interests and then later accepted other guys.

@Leo Gura My fantasies about dating and relationship can be 100% false or more because I don't have any experience with dating girls. I have only talked to more than 80 girls till 24 years of age and I am single.

Situation - X Perspective -Y Action step- Z Rate this perspective and action step out of 10 for truthfulness, authentic confidence , future chances of success by combining them . I have done them for real life situations.

4) Just practice recognizing when you don't have any experience on a topic. That alone is a game-changer vs what most people do. AND also practicing not-knowing about what your experience would be in the future. Great @Leo Gura.

Thanks atleast I have helped someone.