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@Princess Arabia Whatever you may label it. But this is the conclusion I drew from doing a self-improvement worksheet based on CBT. I am not loved by anyone and nobody loves me are both extreme thinking. You don't know me, I don't know you and everyone. I was writing for helping others and sharing the conclusion I came to.

@Princess Arabia 👍. I don't need to prove who exists in my world. Thank you.

@Princess Arabia Yup . I said it.

Okay so by this you mean that only I have to face reality while not all other struggling males ? And also isn't it a reality that all men are loved regardless of the fact weather they have a partner or not ? I asked Claude Ai to rate this perspective out of 10 and it rated it 9/10.

@EternalForest I have felt that sting and moved on, also I have found some women do liked me. Even though they were few.

@Norbert Somogyi Thanks for the feedback.

This is a great post . Also @Carl-Richard one can apply growth mindset by Carol dweck .

@Whitney Edwards ok. Yeah it's not an overnight process as for me I am doing self-development since 8 years.

Congratulations. @Whitney Edwards by the way how many years have been on self improvement journey. And I also want to ask weather Emotional intelligence book by Daniel Goleman is a practical book on emotional mastery ? I have it .

@integral Best thing is to walk away from those who don't respect you.

@Leo Gura I talked to him over discord and I told that I was reading a popular self-help book. He told that all those books are garbage and find someone else to help me. Secondly, his approach to game felt narcissistic with only focus on oneself. Dear Leo I respect you , even though I have been hurt by you occassionally in the past but I was wondering why you didn't take him down as a mod.

But I despite being mentally ill don't live on street but rather in my hostel and sometimes I go home to meet my parents. I don't do drugs but am on medication prescribed by my doctor. 😁

No. I have tried acceptance. Incidents from my life - When I am suffering I try accepting my suffering and it paradoxically stops the suffering . I have tried it more than 25 times and as per my experience even though positive thinking is important but acceptance is a more advanced way to overcome suffering.

Realized answers are of high quality , are love connected whereas thrust upon answers are of non- acceptance of what is . - Which is force. Love contemplating with both of you . Let's continue. As per the list - Because it is not understanding and to understand is to love.

Thanks. I am contemplating while writing the answers.

As per last question. Answer - Because teachings must be realized not thrust upon. If one realized the teaching them it would be brute force memorization not learning.

@gambler If Leo beats us while we memorize his stuff then there would be no learning but rather forcing the teachings on us. It is true but people are at different levels of development, some people realize the teachings earlier in life while some a little later in life.

@RendHeaven Because something forced is not authentic. As per truth - It's either accepted or forced by nature onto us.

@Leo Gura Answer - Because a teaching forced is no teaching at all. Teaching must be learned not thrust upon.

@Vynce Yeah , I proved that by moving on .

@Leo Gura I wanted to ask that in life there is a huge quantity of perspective from the people around us . Like in my situation some people bullied me , abused me and called me childish, inferior. They said - You never had a girlfriend and never will get a girlfriend. - Is this kind of perspective negative , false, inaccurate ? What's the difference between a limiting belief and a high quality perspective ? Also as per one of my previous question . Is taking action with full attention to present moment on what I am doing or action with being hopeful for the future is better way to act ? Sorry for disturbing you.

@Leo Gura Is the perspective that you will not be able to do this and negative ones are low quality perspective ? Aren't high quality perspective more nuanced and at the same time hopeful ,positive ?

I know it might be absurd to ask but as we learnt from you and your videos what did you learnt from us in return ?

@Sugarcoat Growth mindset . Reframing the adversity.

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