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Fundamentally you've got to do a lot of things that scare you. Or things that are difficult. Pushing yourself is how you develop a strong personality. In normie terms, any time anyone has ever told you that something would 'build character' what they mean is it will make your personality stronger

What? Read this again, it just sounds silly. Of course talking sexually with a girl will make her think you want to fuck her Of course, but usually you’ve still gotta flirt skilfully to make that happen rather than just ramming explicit sex topics into a conversation. You’ve had this explained at least 5 different ways to you in this thread already but you keep generating excuses It’s not a logical issue. It’s an emotional one. You can’t solve this with logic and thinking, really. It is the way it is, you just have to accept it and work with it If you wanna talk about sexual stuff with girls early on you have to do it playfully in order to not create way too much tension and awkwardness

What dude? It feels like you're being overly pedantic here, you know what I meant Forum users likely make up a significant portion of his customers who pay for his course and book list, so from a business perspective it makes sense to engage with people on the forum a lot To satisfy your pedantry maybe I should have worded it as "It's literally part of his job" or "It's fundamental to his business"

I'm pretty sure Kratom is super addictive. I haven't heard great things about it

I mean it's literally his job. Forum users are most likely to buy his products so it makes sense for him to engage with them pretty heavily.

I don't really give that much credibility to MBTI, but the ENFP personality type seems to pretty accurately describe my ideal personality in a girl. Bubbly, confident, slightly clumsy and messy but in a cute way, creative, open minded. In terms of appearance I like really short girls with a nice figure. I care more about body than facial aesthetics. Not too fussed about hair colour. Ginger girls definitely have a unique appeal though. I also really like girls who have eyes with a strong positive canthal tilt. Eyes that look really mysterious and intriguing.

For some people. I get that. People have different needs. I want a girl who is attracted to me and knows it, and in my experience that can definitely happen through a single date. A lot of girls have this idea that they need to make guys wait to like, test their worthiness, or something. I'm curious, where does this idea come from? Why do you think it's necessary? IMO it's silly but it seems very common Sounds more like the dude was just inexperienced more than it being your fault, but either way it's an anomaly. Don't be afraid of making the first move every now and then. The vast majority of guys will respond well to it

Trust me, most of us do appreciate it when girls are sexual with us first. Though girls seem to be naturally good at bringing up sex in a way that's smooth and sexy when they do want to bring it up, unlike many of us guys who often try to ram it into the conversation I would probably be weirded out if a girl was asking me lots of sex questions in a very sterile manner on a first date, but almost no girl would ever do that And guys don't really give a fuck about being sexually objectified, it isn't even something that crosses our mind. Hell, we probably enjoy it most of the time if it happens Not if you do it right, man or woman. If you do it right it can be hot as fuck Each to their own, but honestly I can't ever imagine waiting a week before making a move I'd rather know after one date whether a girl is sexually attracted to me or not. If she hasn't decided by then, I'm moving on Why in the fuck do you care what kind of porn she watches, or what her favourite sex position is? The answer is because you want to sleep with her and she knows this immediately, because otherwise you wouldn't give a fuck about any of these questions. So it comes across as desperate. In her mind she's thinking "oh here's another random dude who just wants to fuck me, boring, eww, please get away from me" It's about the framing. You could definitely talk about these things really quickly with a girl, but you gotta do it in a way that's playful, flirty, entertaining and shows off some personality

I don’t think anyone disagrees. However you can’t change much about your looks, so you may as well focus on the most cost effective way to make yourself more attractive to women which is lots of exposure and developing an attractive personality Weirdly it actually serves you better to believe that women don’t give a fuck about looks even if that isn’t true. Delusional levels of self confidence help you a lot with girls

@Phil777 I agree with you, anyone can do more or less whatever they want online. However given that this particular space of content creators and forum users has an above average tendency to randomly go off the rails, and in some cases commit suicide, spontaneous changes in behaviour can be worrying It’s better to err on the side of caution and check in with people who suddenly change their behaviour in general, but in particular in this space on the internet I certainly don’t think it was unwarranted to at least be slightly confused or concerned that something had happened

Pretty sure he said he has used a DMT vape when he's out before.

It's not very emotionally stimulating for girls because it removes a lot of the mystery and excitement. You've made it painfully obvious what you want, instead of creating any tension, build-up or excitement. It also looks very desperate. It's not far off going up to a girl and saying "I want to have sex with you, will you please have sex with me" However, it's definitely possible. You just have to be playful, use innuendos, be more implicit and teasing about it. Show some personality. Build up chemistry with the girl at the same time as making sexual hints/jokes Some girls will also appreciate you being really direct, but on average, they won't. So it's better to just be more subtle about it.

It's self destructive in the sense that it has the potential to damage the brand of actualized.org quite heavily

The comments on the gun pic surprised me in particular. Most of them are encouraging and not at all concerned or confused, which seems strange to me Idk tbh. I'm curious to see how this plays out. Gives me a weird feeling in my gut though, that's for sure

If you don't think there is something off and weird about these posts you're basically gaslighting yourself. It's very strange, very out of character, and very self-destructive. Framing this as a positive thing is really silly. It clearly isn't

Do your research, basically. Sometimes Google and Reddit won’t recommend the trendiest clubs though, especially if you’re younger. A lot of the recommendations on these sites are coming from late twenties early thirties people who aren’t going to recommend the best clubs for a student or 18-23 year old. At least in my experience. My two best nights at clubs with the most hot girls were at clubs that I didn’t see recommended on Reddit at all. And the club I see recommended most often on my cities’ subreddit has been a sausage fest multiple times I’ve been there. I suppose that figures Maybe try looking at instagram for some recommendations And make friends with people in the queue. Generally the best clubs won’t let you in solo if you just show up on a random night. A lot of places are skeptical about letting solo guys (or girls for that matter) inside Also, go to clubs where you buy tickets in advance. In my city you can find events in clubs on the site ra.co (Resident Adviser) and if you show up with a ticket you’ll usually get in To get an idea of dress code, look at the clubs instagram/Facebook feed and see what kind of clothes people are wearing in their photo reels from past nights

Depends. Anywhere between 2 to 10 drinks depending on where I am and what I'm doing. If it's on the higher side of that scale it's because I've been out from like 5pm til 4am It's not great for your body but hey, it's a lot of fun. Not to be a bad influence or anything, lol. I wanna get all the crazy partying out of my system while I'm young and my body can handle it

It's just basic inference. You can tell from the way he is talking about her. He has no regard for her as a human being with her own standards, desires and emotions. "fat ugly indian girl"

Alcohol is prob your best bet really. It turns me from total introvert to total extrovert I've heard Phenibut is also supposed to be good for it, but I've done very little research into that so please take that with a grain of salt and do your own research. In particular I've heard the comedown is super rough MDMA is another one, but you can't take that more than like once a month without fucking up your brain chemistry so maybe stay away from that except from special occasions.

Honestly you sound like a bit of a dickhead in the way that you write this and she probably felt that same energy from you Focus on being an enjoyable person to be around first, sounds like that’s what you gotta do You’ll get rejected by all sorts of girls as a guy, you gotta build up the balls to take rejection like a man and keep going

In relation to making money, I can’t really give you any advice. You could possibly try getting into something low effort high reward like programming But if you have like $20 spare a week you can go to a club ever weekend, have a great night and speak to tons of new people. If it’s girls you want look for girls who have their own place, they don’t even need to know you still live w your parents Otherwise just look for an after party of some kind and you’ll meet tons of people that way

Again you aren't an impartial judge. Your perception of it will be a lot worse than reality because you're insecure about it

Yea, absolutely

I suspect that's your best option

You aren't really looking for sluts. You're looking for liberal girls who aren't super nailed down by their families' values. You get rebellious people everywhere, in all cultures.