Bob Seeker

One thing I want to add is that it’s good to search around a lot so, regardless of what path you are currently taking, you will keep gaining more experience of what is a best fit for you, which will help you correct your course in the best ways.

And what languages would you recommend learning for it?

Probably better to finish college. Unless you have such a good business already that you need to leave college to do that full time. College is a good thing. if you switch to psychology, be prepared to learn about statistics, research methods and have it focused around that. University Psychology will not teach you self-help, not much practical psychology, no spirituality, really it will be not at all like the things you learn about in Actualized.org. I would recommend, whatever you do, that you have a solid skill set that you can market to employers when you graduate. graduating thinking “I will make myself a business when I get out, no problem” is not a good move, unless you’ve already started multiple successful businesses and can bank on your skill. private practices, such as coaching are also businesses, of course. stem fields or other fields with practical employable skills upon graduation, like finanace or something are good because you can get a job (especially if you do summer internships) and don’t have to start from scratch. it’s only too late to switch if it’s actually too late to switch based on what your academic advisor says. Some people do an extra semester, it’s not uncommon. don’t get too caught up on fighting wage slavery. Negative motivation is not good for much. The way out of wage slavery is to earn your way out and that is easier when you have money. If you plan on being a vagabond, you’d better be enlightened af because otherwise that will get old fast. build marketable skills. At this point, just choose something you would like to do, it doesn’t need to be perfect, just something you would be good at, uses your strengths. Take a strengthsfinder test.

@supremeyingyang thanks. I’m just looking into basics rn. I’m still headed towards data analytics career at time being. Maybe some time in the future we could converse when I make more basic progress.

Part of why you are imagining everything is so that you can imagine purpose

I imagine it’s not much different from fingering. What works there would likely work with the D. The issue is you don’t have as much control over the D. Speed and how quickly you allow her to get it ( foreplay) probably is a lot of the equation. Maybe if u have a curved D it can do more things lol (no shame) ” what he does with it” is probably just an expression referring to sex Don’t listen to the Virgin who is procrastinating harder than

Thanks for the answers y’all.

What is the best method for bouncing btw bars/clubs and to home? are we talking Ubering, driving (or is that weird), walking? do you live like right next to the club? do you take her friend(s) to other clubs too or just her?

Look at Jeffrey st Laurent of SellingCoaching. He charges 1200 to coach coaches on building sales funnel, Facebook group, having selling convos, etc. maybe you can find a better price out there if such is the case.

Good thread. maybe your management skill will help you if you decide to start a company in the future in order to break out of wage slavery. I’m thinking straight programming is not the most immediate way to earn good money, but can be if you stick with it

I was gonna post bad news and unethical business practice story but I can see there is not going to be any value in that.

Interestingly, my cousin is against eliminating disabilities in future generations because she equates it with Nazi style eugenics. I wouldn’t say I’m in agreement with her. I honestly don’t think there’s any objective answer, the only real question in my mind is would you want to take care of a disabled child and/or witness their suffering, which may be greater or less than average, depending on their condition. im sure some people’s greatest gift in life has been their being forced to care for a disabled child.

If you post this on Quora maybe you will get more responses

The answer if you go far enough will likely be along the lines of: you wanted to have an experience of x and reality being such that you feel women are physically weaker than men allows you to experience that perfectly

Do you actually want to see any of those girls again. If you’re not even authentic about wanting to hit on them and are just doing it for personal development, it might be harder to produce an attractive vibe from them. if u actually don’t care about getting laid from strangers and just want a gf, you should try to meet a girl who you would actually like to see again, and the vibe may be more natural and she’ll prob like you.

Not sure, but maybe if you go deep enough into awakening you can learn the answer to questions like this. You are God, after all.

You’ll prob have to really feel this one out. I don’t think this is the type of thing people can advise you on. id say learn as much about the options in front of you as you can do you know what to expect and then you gotta find your way in good faith trying to do the best thing for you.

Getting smacked in the face by the reality of wage slavery.

I’m 23, sort of holding out on dating to work on career (after neglecting career for too long), though I never had success with women. I really wasted a lot of time in unfruitful spirituality, tbh part of me thinks dating is better when you are younger for biological reasons, so I feel like it’s sort of a shame. it might also be that dating doesn’t really matter, though. I mean, it’s sort of icing on the cake, probably shouldn’t be your biggest regret if you miss out on it a bit. I prefer to abstain from porn, but masturbation is good. I don’t like how porn desensitizes you to pretty women who aren’t 11/10’s. Other than that so have nothing against it.

Now your challenge will be to have that confidence and be relaxed without drugs

Thanks! Yes. Planning to take everything I’ve learned, even when feeling most stuck and let it help me going forward. I’ve come to believe the universe is interested in us finding our way in life, and by remaining open and sensitive, we will be doing well. good luck!

I’m23. I have done mushrooms like 5 times, 1-3 grams per. it’s easier to start if you take 0.5-1 grams on first couple goes. I find weed to be scarier than that. I have spent a lot of time over the past year and a half since graduating college just thinking about what I want to do with my life. I’m better at searching now but I don’t have clear answers yet. When you question things a lot and really don’t know what to do things seem more meaningless and it Can get depressing. instead of trying to get the perfect life purpose I’m going to start on a smaller project I’m a bit passionate about and take it from there. I also may enter the tech industry to get a decent income. My biggest limiting resource is money rn, so I’m gonna work on that. I honestly think personal development should not be treated as a philosophy. It is a bunch of tools to help you experience what you feel authentically called toward. I think the majority of us may benefit from a lot of searching to find what kind of life really fits us and personal development Can help us get there. i think that in itself is pretty exciting. That we get to discover and create something new, unique, with our lives. It takes bravery to go in an unknown direction, but that is good. so part of my goal now is to be more open when looking at paths to take

Lol, I don’t mean not be kind or just, for the record.

I know that visioning can help motivate us if the vision is inspiring, but I'm headed back into wage slavery that will last god knows how long and I feel like I'm gonna lose so much, and have little time to nurture my soul and do my passions. Anyone have experience creating a motivating vision in a similar situation? I mean I could envision a successful dating life, and that's exciting, but I almost feel like I will be cheating if I do that while I'm a wagie, instead of putting all chips into LP, which seems so elusive. If I don't date though, I will keep on going without any dating life, and I'm 23 and never had a relationship or anything positive in dating really. Seems depressing no-matter how I cut it. idk, maybe I'll just psych myself up for dating and let the chips fall where they may

World needs a shift inward. Also, I think what might help this is universal income or something, cuz if ur a wage slave your soul might be dead so you need to compensate by buying/doing things. Atheistic materialism does this too. religion can leave people with spiritual yearnings feeling empty and thus do this too. Capitalistic marketing teaches people the “more” values as well. Some of those people running low consciousness companies marketing crap are probably half psychopathic, clinically speaking, some are ambitious and some just couldn’t stand wage slavery. maybe se should start testing all children for psychopathy and if they have above 25% we either treat them (new science might be getting better at this in the next decade) or don’t let them in business. The Inuit used to push their psychopaths off an ice sheet while they had their back turned, so it’s not so drastic in comparison. the marketers at the company are sort of just normal people, usually.