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I also think I suffer from Pure O, basically all my life if I think back. Here or some examples I used to have: - I had one thought that whenever somebody said something, I had to rhyme the last word of what the person said in my head. It was freaking me out. This one is gone. - I had one thought that I couldn't stop paying attention to blinking my eyes. I couldn't do it subconsciously anymore. It was annoying as hell. It is gone now. The same thing I had with breathing after I did some meditations. This one is also gone now. I had many more things like that and only one is sticking to me to this day and my goal is to conquer this one for good now: - I always have to think in and about accents (dialects). It is exhausting, you can probably imagine. How do I deal with it: I just do all my things no matter what. I go to work, I go out, I go running, I go the gym, I go on dates, I meet friends. Basically I don't lock my self indoors and let the OCD dictating my life. I do whatever I have to and live my life, even though the OCD is there and it is annoying as hell and nothing seems to help. I basically just accepted it and let it there and I won't let it stop doing me from ANYTHING! I think it is OCD, right? Let me know what you guys think.

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I am turning 30 years very soon. One of my deepest desires in life is to become a father and I don't want to be a too old dad. I find now would be the perfect age for that. I have a girlfriend again since 7 months. She matches exactly what I wished for in terms of looks (she is pretty), the way she treats me, her idea of the future, the way she is there for me but... Our sex life is boring, I often don't even want to have sex anymore with her (but I am still attracted to other girls I see at the gym, in the street and so on) and sometimes she wants too much attention. I am doubting the relationship even though everything matches and is perfect. As I had my doubts, I wanted to have break from it so this is what we are in now. A 2 weeks break with no contact. I want to see how much I will miss her. It was very bad for her and I feel so sorry to hurt her but I need it to figure out what I want and I still don't know if I really want to be with her or not. I find it is too bad to just throw this great relationship away. Basically the fire is missing in my eyes and I don't know what I want. We already planned a future together. Has someone experienced something similar and can share some inputs? That would be nice.

I don't think that I am disconnected from my feelings as I am able to feel many things in life. Don't you also think if you are planning to have a serious relationship with a future and spend much time together, you also need to consider that some "practical things" need to match and you can not only go by your feelings? See the "practical things" do match but I am unsure about my feelings towards her...

@integral yes

Best advice!

This is a serious question, please answer it seriousely. As a hetero sexual male, I only experienced dating in male to female interaction. How does dating and attraction work with lesbians? If women are into status, what about lesbian women? That also must mean, that not all the hetero sexual women are into status. Also in my experience men are mostly active in approaching, kissing first, leading to sex and so on. What about for two women, how does that work? And then as well for homosexual men? I have a few gay friends and it usually goes very quickly towards sex and not much playing around and game and so on. So I'd appreciate the answer of homosexual people on the forum, just out of curiousity.

What about lesbians, what are they attracted to?

Since the how to get laid is the latest video series of Leo and he talks a lot about going into clubs, I am wondering how can you get laid by going in clubs? The dates I get come from online game, approaching women in daytime in the city and social circle. I am pretty happy with my results in these areas but in the club, I almost never got laid all the years I went there. I made out a couple of times in a club but that was the exception when I went there and I really suck at pulling a woman from a club. Most of the times when I go in a club, I'm having fun dancing. Yesterday I went to a club again but there were more men than women and only a handful women I am attracted to but these women already had 10 guys before me hitting on them. That's almost all the time the case. So what is the secret of "club game"? Having fun only is one point but not all of it....

No problem at all, me and my friends did it

I did not complete the task correct, it says pick a single thing. my bad, but I can't delete my post

sure because you won't have sex with her in a public space but you can make a move by kissing and touching so she realizes your intentions

yes that's correct, try to forget her, she most likely will not come back but if she ever would, you don't go cold on her anymore. I don't know if this helps you but I want to add something: I had so many fucking dates in my life and I see patterns now. I failed so often, got rejected in every possible way and the more you get rejected, the less you care and also you get better and better and the women start to love you when you know how to handle their behaviour. the question is just do you have the willpower to go through all that to be successfull...

It seems like she ignores you now cause you didn't make a move when you could. Even if you failed at least she would recognize that you tried. I would go cold on her as well and focus on other things and other women until she will invest in you.

and then? you go out into the real world, you think the real world is a safer place than a forum on which everything is so fake and adjusted so you can't make jokes? what benefits do you have from that?

Anyways, I didn't except that reaction and I didn't want to hurt your feelings Preety, I'm sorry for that and that you took it that way. Don't take stuff that personal. All the best, peace

maybe I get banned, maybe not, I don't really care. I watch Leo's videos to learn and try to have an open mind that's why I went to this forum but I have a lot of stuff going on in my job, will move to another country, gym, friends, women, self-development an then I make one comment and people doubt their whole existence, wtf? Now you want some pity cause I said mofugga. Shiiiit That seems to me you have a lot of issues in your life, how can one be so offended about one funny comment.

I made one comment and wrote: " Marcel is a beta mofugga" or something like that and this is the reaction and I was playing around a lil bit? guys get yourself a life pls, you don't seem in a healthy place at all then Marcel made post that more ppl needed to be banned and so on and on Because of one sentence I made ppl freak out. How can you survive in the real world if you are that fucking sensitive like a little cry baby? This is some real kindergarten stuff

ey relax I got a warning and a even a post was made to ban members of this forum because I made one funny comment, you take stuff way too seriously, you hang out on this forum all day long, don't you have shit to do in your life? whatever you can ban me if you want, I just say my opinion hehehe Enjoy your day?

I'm just playing?

@Marcel you are the ultimate beta mofugga

This guy claims he hasn't eaten for 19 years: I can't really believe this, can this be true?

Out of context but why the fuck would somebody wanna bang 1300 women? It's not even fun and I guarantee this sex is often boring and not worthy. Your whole life is fucked up because all you do is looking for pussy???

Of course it's not a sin