JJfromSwitzerland

so let me get that clear: you watched a documentary and believe the guy in that documentary is from Switzerland and now you assume I'm a sex tourist in Thailand? It's like saying I heard British ppl are colonizers so you were owning slaves cause you live in London.

Thank you, I am in the travel/tourism sector/business and work at a small company. I'm pretty happy currently with my job.

Cultural differences play a huge role in our conflicts yes but also our characters or the way we handle things play a role. I am still in love with the mother and I try to work it out with her. Love alone is not enough so the bigger motivator is my little daughter.

Yeah Switzerland is a country that works quite well, hence I wanted to move them here. However, only I work, the mother of my child is not allowed to work here yet due to her visa. We are getting married tho and this should change. So since only I work and I have to feet 3 mouths, it's financially challenging, even in Switzerland as Switzerland is one of the most expensive countries in the world. My new life is completely focused on my new family now, it's not about me anymore. Before, I was travelling, saving money, going out, working out (gym and ran marathons). Now there is barely time for any of that but having a child is the greatest love I ever experienced so it's not all bad. I am gaining weight too as there is not much time to work out, however I have to learn to take care of my diet better. What also switched is the ego centric thinking. Before I was just thinking what is best for me, what makes me happy, how do I succeed etc. I now for example see like these social media posts etc. where people take themselves and their problems or their life so seriously and I'm thinking to myself, would you have to take care of someone else or other ppl, you wouldn't see yourself as that important. For example they post their workouts or their trips for likes and followers or here about their silly little pick up stuff and talk about their little problems as they would be the center of it all (maybe they are lol because you know we are god) but I mean it in a relative sense. The biggest life lesson I got from this is: No matter how well you plan everything in your life, be prepared for the unexpected at any times and then adjust to it!

yes, I am from Switzerland, lived in Cape Town for 3.5 years and now back in Switzerland trying to build a life for my little family as I lost all my money in a business investment that fail

@How to be wise no, not from Asia

thank you! it definitely has changed everything. also the relationship with me and the mother remains challenging but we work on it with a therapist

@Butters thanks! Everything has changed. I moved back to Switzerland for a better future for the child. I don't travel at the moment (I used to travel a lot), I convinced the mother to move to Switzerland with the child. I work full time so I can take care of the family and when I get home after work, I help around the house and change nappies, put the little one to bed etc. so the mother has a break or can do her German classes. Before that, I used to go to the gym after work or met friends etc. Yes, I was able to get a Swiss passport for my kid. It was lots of admin and required a lot of patience, perseverance (because in the country that the mother is from, things don't work as smoothly as in Switzerland) but we managed. Financially it's challenging but I have more hope here in Switzerland for the financial future.

Alright, so if we are oneness/god, does it mean each one of us still has do go through all of the suffering each human undergoes (as well as happiness)?

I have a daughter

Lately I have been fascinated by near death experiences and consumed a lot of content about it from people who experienced it. It gives me chills to know how blissfull it is once we leave this physical form based on the experiences I've listeneded to by people who had this experience. @Leo Gura Would you be able to bring in your perspective on that topic? Is it the same experience you are teaching about in your video "what is death?"?

Yes I love this channel. I wonder what happens to people who did real evil stuff e.g. Hitler if they don't feel judged?

I would like to request a video on how people become and are racist nowadays and believe that certain races are superior and what's going on in their minds as well as what is structual racism?

The deleted video on solipsism of Leo is still on youtube on another channel as you probably know. I listened to that video many times and I must say, I love it! It changed my view of life and sometimes I go back and listen to it when I feel like. I also noticed that it summarizes down a lot of other videos about "god" and other videos of Leo but for me that one on "solipsism" was the most clear and accurate one. So Leo, I know you took it down from youtube for good reasons but still my question is, do you feel the same way these days as then when you shot this video?

thank you??

because it answers most of the question about my life and it puts me at ease. I listened to the whole video couple of times and each time I listened to it, everything became more obvious and clear to me as Leo explains it very well and then I realized that most of other Leo's teaching boil down to that exact video, just in other words.

This video actually makes me feel better

I saw this on Twitter - I mean X. What do you think?

@Sucuk Ekmek Yes, but he also made some statements which sound like alt-right propaganda. He made statements along the lines that there is a genocide against white South Africans which isn't true obviously

So soon I am going to have my first DMT trip. I am looking so much forward to it. I wanted to do psychedelics for such a long time but I was too scared. I will prepare properly and will have a trip sitter I trust and a good set and setting. However, I am scared that I will get a panic attack or something during the trip. I am not scared of ego death or something like that. The reason why is that if I smoke weed, I tend to get anxiety and I used to have panic attacks when I was younger which now transformed itself into a milder form of pure OCD. Even when I had MDMA last time I felt anxious and uncomofortable the whole time The main goal I have actually with this trip is to solve my OCD issue. However, I am scared of panicking. Basically I have anxiety of getting anxiety. Can you give me any advice on that? Should I just leave it? But I wanna do it so badly...

Why is it widely accepted to change your gender but not your race? I saw some people in the internet who identify with a different race than their born with and they face a lot of hate whereas people who change gender face support. Isn't it the same thing in a way? You don't wanna be what you are basically.

@Danioover9000 not really as there were too many comments, I didn't even read them

Ok this is actually a quite insightful point.

Didn't he have a skin disease?

So just a little update and summary from me after the trip: It was 3 days ago and an amazing experience. While tripping I experienced a lot of discomfort but also love on another level. My visuals were long arms waiving around me. First in red and black and then in lighter colors after I openend my eyes quickly and then closed again. I felt more discomfort and fear than comfort overall and I wanted that it ends soon, however, when I came back, I felt soo much lighter than before. The next day I felt so present. I was going out on a day market with friends and I felt so present the whole day. So present that girls I talked to for 2 minutes wanted my number and contaced me for example because I was in such a good, calm, peaceful and present state. Then I went to an art musuem with a date. The musuem was amazing, I saw art from a different perspective than before and really enjoyed it. Some of that lightness and present is still here but not as intense as right after the trip. It's time to explore further for me.