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I recently posted about how me and this girl won’t see each other for 4 months because of summer break. I asked advice about if I should date this girl. Leo said I was behind too meek with her and If I wanted her I needed to claim her. Long story short we took shrooms together, she admitted she loved me. I told her I wanted her to be my girlfriend. After this she said she still wants to see other men. I told her that’s fine but that we are done. She says fine but 10 minutes later she says we will se how it goes and can be exclusive for now, and if she has interest in other guys she will let me know and we will end it. She wants to be my girlfriend but she is just indecisive and unclear. Should I make her make a decision? Should I just play it cool for now? I don’t wanna waste my time just for her to leave me for someone else. I want to gain the upper hand and not feel like I’m chasing her while at the same time not letting her keep seeing me on these wierd terms The thing is when we’re together she’s all over me. The problem is she’s never been with another man before so she has nothing to compare it to. She’s just curious what other men are like.

I get what your mean. Personally I think your overreacting cuz it’s over anyways and that why I did it. I only just told her about it, over the phone once it was over almost as a joke and she admitted she did the same thing, talking to friends and on Reddit. I wouldn’t have showed her it I thought it was going anywhere more. As for the picture I understand what you mean but it’s not like I said her name or anything else about her so I don’t really understand why you took it down. plus compared to how she has disrespected the privacy of the relationship this is nothing.

It’s not a desperate move. The desperate thing for me to do is for me to give her my love and attention when she’s looking for other guys. It’s not desperate to have boundaries for your feelings. She actually thought the thread was funny then she showed me all the Reddit posts she’s been viewing about it. Also you don’t know what your talking about, me telling her I wanted to date her did not cause her to want to see other guys. It’s called Simple’s being honest about how you feel. There is no reason it is the females responsibility to do that

I talked to her. All her friends think she should date me but she said she’s not 100% about it, and if she’s not 100% then it’s not fair to me. She said if she would have met me junior year is would have been a lot different. She loves me but is not in love with me. She feels there is something missing. This has me curious what that something is, and what I can do to change that

I just showed her this entire thread. I ended things. We’ll see if she comes running back later

Yeah there is no way I would be comfortable with that. I naturally a jealous person and maybe ide grow from it but it’s just now worth the emotional turmoil for me at this point.

@egoeimai cleaning up my diet is definitely helping! deep down i feel you guys are right. We have gotten extremely close, and spent so much time together over the past 4 months. Learning to let go of someone I really love will be the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but does loads for my self esteem and for my growth. I don’t know why it feels like I won’t find another girl like her. The way she kissed me, the way she held me, the cute feminine sounds she would make. I feel a bit of a disinterest towards other girls at this point. I really hope this is just me being blind, and that someone who is really meant for me is on the way

@JonasVE12 there is no forcing going on here. I am not taking any thing away from her. I’m simply telling her she needs to make a decision. Even tho we look very younge we are both almost 20.

I have been seeing this girl for the past 4 months. She sleeps over in my dorm at least twice a week, I hang out with her almost every day and we have gotten super close. We are not officially dating, but by every standard of what dating is, we are. The issue is that we leave for summer break in 4 days. This means I will not see her for 4 months. Our initial plan was to just let it die out over these 4 months, but now she said “we’ll see how we feel after summer break”. My fear is if we don't talk over the summer, we will just naturally grow apart and it will die out. The other option is we continue to talk through the summer. It is at the point where it either goes forward or it ends. Either we end up dating next school year, or we completely cut things off. The problem is we are both inexperienced, and she says “she is curious what other guys are like”. I think we both just have this fear of missing out. Part of me would we could just have a sort of open relationship, but I can be a jealous person, and the thought of her with another guy does not sit well with me. This is why I cannot continue seeing her unless we are exclusive unless I get over my jealousy. I really do like this girl. She is pretty, intelligent, and sweet and I have never had a girlfriend before and I want to experience that. At the same time, we both know we aren’t going to marry each other. Part of me wants to continue my approaching journey, and talk to the girls who I never thought I could, but at the same time I feel lucky to have found this girl. I feel like it won't be so easy to find another girl who is as good as her. Should I say fuck it and date this girl, should I completely end it, should I do this weird ambiguous in between where we arent bf and gf but still seeing each other? Any thought are helpful.

@Leo Gura on the one hand I want to date her, but the idea of committing to something gives me cold feet

I have been dealing with acne for a couple of years now. Although it's not the end of the world, I'm sick of people thinking I'm a strawberry. I have multiple friends who went on Accutane for their acne and had it pretty much cleared within 6 months. I have also had friends try curology and have that pretty much clear their acne. I am very hesitant to introduce medication or chemicals. IM not sure if my skin could become reliant, which could cause a lot of issues. I'm wondering if anyone has experience with either of these things or any advice in general. I included picks of my skin just for referance

@soos_mite_ah I have tea tree face wash and tea tree lotion every morning and night

@Leo Gura Yes usually I notice new pimples any time I eat a lot of greasy junk food

@Michael569 Thanks man I think going for a more diet and lifestyle based approach is best!

I am in college and have a campus meal plan. It's usually not the best, a lot of carbs cheese, bread, eggs, but I also eat veggies fruit and chicken a lot. The food definitely isn't the best, and there is a limited amount of healthy options. It will be a lot easier next semester when I'm making my own food. I could definitely drink a lot more. I cant say for sure how much. some days I drink a lot, other days not much.

@Etherial Cat No I have not @Matthew85 Ill look into it

Me and my friends recently purchased an ounce of shrooms. I have previously done 3 trips and had nothing but overwhelmingly positive results. Long story short, me and this girl I approached hit it off really well, we've went out 5+ times, and I invited her to do shrooms with me. My main concern is she has never done psychedelics before and I don't want to be responsible for her having a bad experience. She really wants to try it with me and I think it would be an amazing experience. I was planning on giving us both a small dose so we can just have a good time. Do you think its a good idea to have sex on shrooms? For me it would be incredible but im more just looking out for her because we both lost our virginity together, and I don't know if there could be any anxiety around it that could cause her to have a bad trip. I think it could be a great oppurtunity to explore our sexuality, and gain a deep connection.

I've seen some ugly-looking dudes with some really good-looking women. I've also had girls flirt with me who i perceived to be way more attractive than me. As long as you have solid energy and confidence. A girl would take a very confident dude whos ugly over an attractive guy who acts like a doormat any day.

I had this same thought. After I received all of the supplements in the mail last week I wasn't sure if I should start at a better time when I'm not out trying to go to parties and game. I'm guessing it might be a thing to test out. I personally will try around and see how harsh the effects are. Going out and talking to girls doesn't seem like it would be that disruptive. If you think about it, it isn't any different than talking to your friend or your grandma.

Recently I have gained an opportunity to take shrooms. I have taken 1 gram in the past. I didn't get any visuals, but it was such an incredible experience. My heart opened for the first time in my life, and I really saw how unconscious I was for the first time. Everything around me just amazed, to the point of tears. All of this only off of 1 gram, when most of my friends took 3. This left me wanting to go deeper. Leo mentions not to do psychedelics if you are under 21, and I'm 19, but I feel that I am a pretty stable person, not to mention that everyone around me does shrooms, and I have a much more solid background to back me up. It's true that I'm not going for enlightenment at the moment, I'm focusing on my grades in college and dating at the moment. Lately, I've been on a hot streak with taking action, going out socializing, talking to girls. On the one hand, I don't want to skrew that up, but on the other hand, I feel like it could help take me to the next level, help me overcome some insecurities, help me connect to my emotions, help me develope a deeper connection to my body. That is my main intention, to deepen my Qi gong practice and develop a greater connection to my body. Do you think it's a bad idea to go deeper? Whats the worst that could happen?

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thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to read and answer my questions!! 1. I just received my first urine test. Is it really nessisary to do a baseline test or can I just go right to the test with DMsa, I’m on a very tight budget 2. Leo recommended taking DMsa and ala, then mentioned Andy cutler recommended starting with just dmsa. Is there any downside to starting with both. I would rather do both to speed it up 3. I figured I’d have to detox because I have diagnosed adhd, acne, anxiety, brain fog, and a shitty memory . Because of this I just wanna order 10 rounds worth so I can get right into it. The thing is I don’t wanna buy 400$ worth of dmsa just to find out I’m not toxic, or to find out I should really be taking dmps, but i don’t want to wait 2 months after my urine test to order supplements for my rounds either. Should I order just DMsa and ala, and should I just order the bulk amount 4. I like on a college campus and they prepare all our food. Becuase of this I really don’t know all of the thing that are in the food. And I can’t afford to get a water filter so I’m drinking tap water. Is it still safe and beneficial to detox even if I’m under the exposure from the food and water? overall although i may just be a little impatient with the whole process, it’s just very important to me to do the detox ASAP because It’s hard for me to focus in school.

I recently attended a three day workshop from the fearless man in Miami. We did social exercises like 100 hi’s where you say hi to 100 people without skipping, then stopping people asking for time, once your comfortable you can ask “what is your favorite color”, then you can just go direct. The idea is you are desensitizing yourself. I’m I’m now at a college of 40k students and am worried that if I do these exercises I will build a bad reputation. Even forgetting all the exercises, I feel like approaching girls on campus could cause me to gain a bad reputation. I’m a freshman so I can’t really get into parties to game

I bought one or John Anthony’s products. It really turned me away from the pickup community. I recommends lying to girls and saying stuff like “it’s my birthday today” or just making shut up. He also uses sales terms and treats girls like numbers

This guy john Anthony constantly talks about own cook and how he's a scam artist. Dont know if its true or not but he sure provides alot of evidence.