Peter Miklis

@At awe I'd like to know who exactly is this "tier 2 women", or just tier 2 person in general. Does that mean that the person stays with you no matter what? Wouldn't that mean less polarity between man and a woman, thus less sexual charge? Carefull what you wish for, cuz you might actually get it. Maybe it's a sign of love to let other person leave once you don't serve their fundamental needs. That goes for both men and women.

Are you sure? If noone was judging them, why would they have to rationalize liking "nice guys" and hide their inclinations towards "bad boys"? I'm pretty sure there's an army of people ready to judge, so keep that in mind. Besides, I'm not really fond of this dichotomy between "nice" and "bad", there's a plenty of grey area in between. It's better to be balanced human being than to fit into stereotype.

All humans have irrational, emotional side to them, even men. Women just tend to lean into it much more. I tend to notice it all the time, even on this forum, when I look into some of the women's journals. It's that chaotic energy. Their thoughts seem all over the place. And yet, you can't say such type of thinking is useless. For example, having a passion is one of the most usefull things in life, if you can harness it and use it to fuel you. Rationality itself cannot be completely separated from emotions.

I think women understand men, to a limited degree. Like, they know what type of guy they'd like to be with, generally. But, how a man is supposed to behave, that's for him to figure out.

No.

I am not a woman, but there are some things apart from looking beautiful that woman can do. For example, if she wants the guy to notice her, she has to give him choosing signals (like hair twirling, looking at him while smiling, trying to get close to him for no reason). Sometimes, if she likes the guy a lot, she can even approach him (happened to me once. When girl does this, it's mostly pretty half-assed approach, she's just trying to get finally noticed). Maybe she can drop subtle hints (like, her parents aren't home, asking what are you doing on weekend, stuff like that). Everything else has to be done by a man. So, probably like 95%. Just my estimation.

Are you really sure you are over this whole Ego thing? Because if you were, you wouldn't mind being alone, at all. Judging by the way you still want sex and companionship, you don't strike me as someone who doesn't need anything and is happy as he is. One important thing I realized (which was confirmed in one of the Leo's videos) is that you can't surpass underdeveloped Ego. First thing you have to do is get a healthy Ego instead of shitty one, and THEN you can transcend it. Sure, you can go from point A to point Z, but that's very very challenging. Have you done enough approaching those few years ago? Were you working on your life purphose long enough? If not, then you should probably do that first, while also mantaining some spiritual practices.

You basically answered yourself. No, there isn't. Think about how many of the male PUA's are actually scammers that won't teach you anything. You think there's a chance woman PUA could teach you something that she hasn't experienced in her life? Like, approaching, chatting up, escalating, getting woman in bed? Even if she was bisexual, it's very unlikely she knows any of these things.

@datamonster if you really think that by creating AI generated pedo porn, pedophiles sexual drives would decrease, you'd be in for a rude awakening. In fact, they would probably increase. You see it everywhere with other sexual fetishes, they don't just dissapear once they find an outlet. That's not how it works. Unless we discover technology needed to perform structural transformation inside the brain, the only sensible solution for now is to put them in jail, for the good of rest of society.

I wouldn't really listen to her if I was you. The girl has a lot of mental problems and traumas (which she admited herself), and they create this overly anti-women bias. Either that, or she's doing it for male attention, I mean, just look at her comment section under her videos. MRA's gravitate towards this type of stuff, because it tells them everything they want to hear, from women's POV.

Aaaaand it's still going. Wow

@Preety_India isn't it pretty obvious though that "nice guys" are manipulators? I mean, all you have to do is type "niceguy" on youtube and hundreds of videos will appear with some dude reading nice guys creepy comments lol. It's not a rocket science to figure that out.

I see. I didn't know. Gotta check that out.

@Preety_India you missunderstood, I meant to say ALMOST noone, you have to admit it is pretty rare. Most people I know would laugh you/me in the face if I told them there are relationships where no one has tanglible benefit. By no means I'm saying that noone is practicing it. Just sayin', it's pretty rare.

No. Type B are people in relationships, who are in them with no survival agenda (so, basically almost no one)

I like how well this type B concept stuck in this forum. It was literaly created by Leo's answer to my comment haha makes you think, how powerfull can butterfly effect be.

Yeah, teasing each other... on a 470 posts long thread? We should be calling it quits by now. I think we all are just horny bastards deep inside, that's why we keep talking about attraction?

I mean I am stage yellow in my mind, but in my everyday actions I am stage orange.

Personally, I couldn't imagine being in type B relationship, I am quite stage orange minded and probably will remain so for the rest of my life (maybe I'll transcend to green, who knows). It's a little pessimistic prediction, but probably not far from truth. If my relationship wasn't sexual, it probably wouldn't last. It's gonna take humanity a long time before it morphs into this kind of relationship system.

@Preety_India I see. There is still an interesting paradox linked with this type of dating, which Leo mentioned: if you are so concious that you don't need anything anymore, why would you be in a relationship? What would be the reason? Being forced into monogamy is one thing, but choosing partner even if you don't need anything is kind of tricky. What would be the higher conciousness values?

Well, considering that B Game has never been practised in entire history of humanity, it's pretty hard to visualise what it would look like. I guess it would be more 50/50 type of relationship, with less polarity and less emphasis on sex? And with more emphasis on higher conciousness values? Idk.

Probably just mind wanting to mantain itself and it's older habits, justifying it with certain thoughts (like, for example, "You've been consistent all this time, why not take a little break?" or "You basically cured yourself already, why not just do it once for fun?" sneaky stuff like that). But, let's not talk about that here, this is a dead thread already lol

It took some years of trial and error. What worked ultimately is observing the urge and letting it go away, being busy thinking about higher conciousness stuff, and (very counterintuitive) accepting porn and not seeing it as something bad. BUT, there is still that itch deep inside. I don't think you can ever get rid of it.

I used to have, but not anymore, I handled it myself, it took couple of years. But, it's very easy to fall into it again, it's a slippery slope. I don't wanna censor anything or anyone, just sayin', these links don't help.

Dude, this was a little bit of an asshole move, don't you think? Some people here are trying to quit porn, not watch it