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@nerdspeak Great, thanks for sharing! Which country you live in? I live in Finland.

I’d argue very low as well for someone truly attractive to have similar values to us here in the community. Especially as they have not had to develop themselves too much, precisely due to their looks. Especially when they are young, and mostly they are young. Also, I have been spoiled with really attractive girls due to years in game, so that makes it extra hard to settle with ”less attractive” girls.

@nerdspeak You make great points. I am getting quite tired of the general approach style as well, and I’m looking to niche down more and more. How do you do that, other than via apps? How would one go about niching down in real life? Clubs are probably mostly out of the question for people like us?

Until one day you go missing

Aka, majority of people

The other side of the this conversation is that I have been with countless girls cheating on their partners. It happens far more often than you would believe. Dating is also different in 2026 vs 2016 and 2006.

Instagram / Vertical version out now. Go show some love to your boy https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUD8U-2ApI5/?igsh=eXgzeXVoemt3NWR5

Great thread. Hardest decision in my life in a bigger picture has got to be the decision of accepting the reality of humanity and how unconcious they really are. How hard it is to become more conscious, and how impossible this work can be for majority. With this decision, majority of my dreams and identity died. This accepting has been happening the past 5 years and only perhaps since a year ago I have started to develop a new identity with new dreams based on my new accepted reality. Fucking painful.

Remember guys, as moderators we have a responsibility to show the rest of the community how to behave and communicate, and how not to.

Probably my best one yet! It is just so majestically beautiful. Wow. Makes me jump from joy and excitement, and shed some tears thinking what is the potential here if I invest years and decades into this. Subliminal. Need to turn your screen to horizontal. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DT8MAiAAo-W/?igsh=dWUwMGplMG96Zjlu

Same

I agree with the other mods here. It’s getting out of control with all these new threads.

This is key.

Push-pull should be natural in the sense that there are things you don’t like about the girl, so you tease her about them or even push her harder away, depending on the things. Then there are things you like about her, which then will make you pull towards you. This is not a technique. It’s called being a high-quality human with standards and values.

There seems to be a lot of repressed anger coming out, which is understandable. I recommend giving that part much more attention. Perhaps you already are. I notice there are still gamey stuff in your list of no gamey steps. Things like seeding, consciously getting her to qualify herself to you, and to invest in you. Texting 2-3 days and testing the waters etc — all these are part of game. I am not saying not to qualify. But qualifying happens naturally when you have standards and are looking for a specific, higher quality woman. Vibe and feel her for 15 mins. If good, take number, with the premise of hanging out. After number, chat couple messages, then go for the date setting. It doesnt have to be more complicated than that. In fact, you could also set the date sometimes while talking to the girl, right there and then. Time and day.

In order to invite people into your events and circle, you still need to approach.

Today I learned a new concept in Aesthetic Intellignece: Aesthetic Sensitivity. https://share.google/aimode/Msdqj9LHoLQqCA2Nj - - - - - While we are at it, there is also Aesthetic Coherence. https://share.google/aimode/4kiieK5qw5va9HVu7

A few tears dropped reading this. But I am listening to quite emotional music as well. Anyway, solid first post. Everything you said is pretty spot on. I have been doing this transition as well. To the point where I don’t know if I should even meet women in nightclubs anymore. Seems like there’s just too much trash there. What would be a place where higher quality woman go to? Museums? Art events? @Natasha Tori Maru @Emerald where do people like you go to in the evenings after your free time (except trolling on the internet 😉). And I totally agree on the point that if a girl is attracted to all the gamey bs and asshole behaviour, this girl is not a high quality person (is not mentally stable, cannot self-regulate and is not psychologically developed) — and someone who I have never been able to build anything meaningful and deep with. As of now, they feel like completely waste of time and instead of wasting shit ton of valuavle time on them, it’s better to, as you said, focus on finding the few higher quality leads. Man its crazy how accurate our transitions away from game is, and the timing. I’ve also been privately talking to couple other members who are having same realizations but yours is just all the way. I resonate all the way. I realized we need to connect. Let me pm you. At the end of the day, I feel fucking awful and misaligned doing all the pickup bullshit. It served me until my mid twenties but its been 5 years. I was in a relationship since then, where we dedicated ourselves to developing integrity, truth and consciousness. Now that we separated and I have gone back to unconscious sexual marketplace, the contrast is disgusting.

This is beautifully made.

Wow, what a lovely thread. In my own experience, the more mature and conscious I become, the more graceful, aesthetic and beautiful my dancing becomes — and original! I started off as a hip hop dancer which is foundationally kinda aggressive and ugly, but nowadays I have developed my own style which has a hip hop foundation but is completely beyond it. And my music taste has totally transformed. From hip hop songs to majestic ones. One could call my dancing style ’Majestic’ nowadays. I still visit my foundations from time to time as it has its own beauty and its where my roots are from, but my developed style is just a completely different phenomena in its level of beauty. This thread gave me a bunch of clarity into understanding all this change. Thanks guys!

What can you expect from monkeys?

Leo is correct here. Women are generally more interested in feel good vibes and emotions, whereas men are more interested in hard facts and truths. Doesnt mean that neither are full of shit.

That’s how intelligent God is in hiding from itself.

I cant with your 7400 posts while using that profile picture

Wait until you realize that even in a community like this, theres too many people interested in crap. Also, go tell people in this thread how it is: