Miguel1

Here in Finland, citizens do not have permission and access to guns. We have one of the least, if not the least corrupted governments.

Why is this in the dating and relationship section? If you want to use dancing to attract opponent sex, pure & freestyle dancing is where it’s at. Choreographed dancing in clubs is cringe and try-hard. Couple dances like salsa and bachata are freestyle based.

Keep in mind that 50% of the community disagrees with him on various topics, especially spirituality.

Dude, calm down. Keep your dense ego in check. It unnecessarily often runs amok.

I agree that most women are not attracted to character. But to say that no woman is, is wrong in my opinion. Also, the other side of the coin is that a man with good character, leads to good integrity, leads to strong frame and reality, and thus, leading to attractive traits. For example, my integrity makes me see girls’ bullshit. It leads me to not put up with their BS. Or at least have boundaries. It makes me stand my ground. It makes me have high standards. All these are very charming traits. And when I look them directly in their eyes with my grounded look, what do you think is generated? Starts with an A, and something we have discussed for 10 pages. My character leads me to having a good, happy life. What do you think this does, when meeting girls? —- The more developed a person is, the more they are drawn to high character. Isn’t this what this whole work is about? We want to push human development further because we resonate with it, and it calls for our souls. All that being said, most people are tribal monkeys and full of traumas.

Yeah. Certainly girls coming from all over the world to Las Vegas are not going there with ”I’m looking for a good character type of man” first in mind. Quite the opposite.

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You make a solid point.

I live in a stage green socialist-capitalist society. Perhaps the most developed nation in the world. At least the happiest. I behave and treat girls very well here. I do balance it with lots of teasing, fun, playfulness, wittyness & charisma. I also have a lot of social proof here. I am naturally very good at emotionally connecting with people, and I authentically care about them due to my deep empathetic nature. If a girl behaves like a selfish entitled idiot, I call them out, give them shit and move on, cuz poor behaviour pisses me off. Oftentimes I laugh at their face and move on. I do not have an issue with supply of girls being attracted to me. Honestly, I feel like the worse I treat girls, the less success I get. But maybe that’s because it’s just very incongruent and fake of me to treat people poorly. Unless they deserve it. The more developed an individual and collective is, the more turned off they are by bad character. I havent read all of @Emerald’s posts but I am leaning more with her. It’s been like that I believe ever since I joined this forum back in 2021. There was also Ethereal Cat being more active back then. Same issue, same discussion, different year. All that being said, Leo is not completely off either. A middle ground to what ya’ll are fighting about is where it’s at, I believe.

I’m at a point in life, where I’ve exhausted my sex karma so deeply that I get proportionally more turned off the more someone behaves like a selfish moron. And I can see right through all their unconscious bullshits.

You are talking about completely different level than what the thread is about. In the thread, we are discussing initial stages of meeting people, initial stages of attraction. Not deep emotionally bonded monogamous relationship. The deeper a relationship is, the more character affects. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t be drawn to good character in the beginning - especially if you deeply value it yourself. — And if you are self-aware enough, you will be able to see your bias that you are pointing out here, thus distinguishing it from what really is the case. By definition.

Just because character can make someone more attractive, doesn’t mean that it’s the only and biggest trigger.

If I had to pick her over a bombshell but is a fucking psycho? What are you betting on?

Yes, when you are not self-aware enough to distinguish them.

I’m drawn to anyone be it male or female, if they have good character - because it’s so rare, and I value it so much. Now, whether it’s sexual or not, that’s a different story.

Can you become demi later on in life? I’ve started to contemplate deeper that I’ve become a demi or something similar. Wasn’t like this in my younger years. Or maybe I just matured lol.

I am definitely attracted to character in girls. But perhaps that’s due to my own high character development.

The key is to meet so many women with your love balanced with charisma that you are in deep abundance of girls. When you are in such abundance, naturally you won’t be able to give the time of the day to all the girls, unless she really deserves it - in which case, she will greatly appreciate it, since she has had to work for it.

Yes, absolutely. There are many great ways to use the money to promote conscious stuff, if we just spend time contenplating them. I gave the easiest one on top of my head.

Yes, I am aware

”If you give these as a gift people will love you. Buy Now (affiliate link)” —— Ahahah, I couldn’t help but laugh imagining Leo turning into a master marketer after all his serious integrity & truth work

Got it. I think the joke didn’t fit as well as you intended it to fit. It’s like a highly integrous person making a joke of him being a manipulative narcissist - doesnt quite sit well. But hey, no biggie!

I’ve gotten quite classy vibes from you. At least the mature & grown-up adulthood version of you.

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Leo, you are very wrong here. By far. Speaking from experience. @Recursoinominado is more correct. Way more than 100 is also possible. That being said, I have the looks, probably the best personality type for this, rock-solid inner game, 20 years of dancing skills, pretty lovely IG, live in Finland (stage green, sexual liberty, income & status equality) & I went out 3 nights a week, did daygame & online game - while working part-time, like 20h a week (work was in the evenings). I didn’t really add social circle game to all that tho, which would have made all this dramatically even easier. I was 24-25 & it was 2019. Did this for a while and then got bored to death of it. Started feeling really off about it all, the same old cycles over and over, the superficiality of it... Burning through karma in effect, and it worked, eh? Sometimes I was having sex with 3 girls within the same day. 1 in the morning (from last day date or pull from club), 1 from evening date & 1 from pulling in the same night. Or 1 in the morning, and went to 2 dates in a row in the evening etc. Got to a point I couldnt get erection due to it just becoming ego & performance than connecting and enjoying. Went to the doctor to see if I had some erection issues lol. Anyway, this was right before I ”re”-bumped into your content so I was probably selfish and manipulative as hell (relative to now - the growth has been immense - even tho I’ve done spiritual and self-help work ever since 15). But yeah, I am perhaps more of an exception. But isn’t all the best PUAs an exception? I have no idea, don’t really know anyone to compare myself to, other than my then #1 wingman (& probably the only other dead serious PUA here lol), who did as well as I did. He had to eventually change his whole identity 180 to a low-key one tho, since his reputation started to get him in serious trouble (he did it like 10X longer than I). The guy went to the show Bachelor after approaching half the country 🤦‍♀️ - moral of the story: if you have a reputation of a player, don’t rub it in the face of the whole country. I promise you, you will suffer immensely for it. Side point: all that being said, if I were to be single now (havent for 4 years), I wouldnt make it so structurally performative and would have more fun and spontaneus - and so, I wonder if my game & results would be even better. Probably not as I wouldnt be nearly as hungry for MORE & results all the time. But who knows.