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The how is easy. It doesn't require special abilities or privileges. You can say it. Anyone can say it. I think your real question is why.

Yeah, this works because there's no obvious/immediate agenda behind it. It seems innocent, until it isn't 😈

The main difference between empathy and sympathy is that empathy is the capacity to hold and experience emotions, positive or negative, in relation with other beings. While sympathy is mostly the ability to experience grief and sadness for the misfortune of others. So empathy is a capacity, like a cup that can be empty or filled with positive or negative emotions. And sympathy is just the small portion of negative emotions that can fill the cup of empathy. So one's sympathy is directly proportional to their empathy. For example, a narcissist lacks sympathy not because he can't experience sadness, but because he lacks empathy that's required for him to experience sadness for others.

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Spirituality is universal. Dating and career are local. They differ in different environments. You should seek advice on these matters from people who have had success in your environment or similar.

It's definitely not always a happy experience. Growth is often a big part of relationships, and it usually doesn't feel so great in the moment. But it's also worth it in retrospect. What's stopping you from having a relationship with an attractive girl? You seem decent looking and if you have a stable income, you shouldn't have problems attracting girls.

You can question sanity and insanity. Both are questionable states. More than once I had people asking me if they were hallucinating. They were questioning their own state of mind, whatever it was at the time. It's a horrible experience to doubt one's own self like that.

Brain color is beige. We're all retarded.

He is awake by every definition of the word. I have no doubts. But degree matters too, and there are others who are probably more awake in some areas.

Also keep in mind that earlier human societies were operating from scarcity and desperation. They had to cling to magical thinking because there wasn't rationality. No rain this season meant starvation for the next year. They had to believe in magical entities like some God that controls the rain, and since they needed the rain so bad, they thought if they sucked up harder to that God through crazy means like worship, that God would grant them mercy. So when things happened the way they wished, they thought God responded positively to their prayers and sacrifices.

She's not a gold digger. She's just a woman who learned how bad poverty is the hard way. She is a wise woman with high integrity and appropriate self-esteem. Gold diggers only purely care about money, and not just normal amounts. They require sugar daddy type of men.

Whatever guys. You don't have to justify yourselves to me. I'm not the arbiter of your maturity. I only stated my opinion. It's your life. Do what seems right for you.

Not blocking is not an act. It is the default. It doesn't signal anything.

Blocking would be an impulse. A response to pain. Maturity is having control over your impulsive behaviors, even if it hurts. And it's not about being twisted and not sending a message to your ex. It's about your own growth. Learning to control yourself is a major part of maturity. And you don't learn it by indulging. You learn it by accepting the pain and integrating the loss. Pain can be a catalyst for many things, but trauma is often crippling. Most people don't know what trauma is like. The word is thrown around a lot, it lost its meaning.

Immaturity seeking maturity. Yes, obviously. Trauma often hinders growth and maturity. It gets you stuck in loops.

Because ideally independence demands you to be free from them, even if you're still attached. You don't watch their stories or read their updates. Or if you do, you don't read between the lines and overthink and interpret everything as a signal. That's the ideal, which means maturity. You're more focused on your goals and life than on one person who passed through it. You're not defined by that person.

Nothing wrong with that. It's just not ideal, therefore immature.

If they're not contacting you, i.e. not interrupting your healing, then what's the point of blocking them? Do you need to murder someone just so you don't have to visit them at their home?

Less mature maybe 🤫 Just kidding. I went extreme in this case, but blocking is a reasonable choice. They tried contacting me from a different number and reached out through my family too. My answer was still the same. Ignore 🤣

I can't relate to these reasons. Except maybe spam or harassment. And even those can be ignored. I had someone calling me for the past month nonstop multiple times day and night. I never answered once 😂. They stopped eventually.

Funny thing is that blocking didn't even exist before social media. We were literally forced to face our exes and there was almost nothing we could do about it. You literally can't erase people from real life. Unless you kill them. And well, in this case blocking would be digital murder.

Blocking is about indirectly sending a message to the other person. It often signals hurt and attachment. It's not a clean exit. Especially if they're not contacting you anymore. It's like saying: "I am over you, I don't need you anymore. I hate you." It's mostly childish.

@Leo Gura

Normies call it insanity and they are freaked out by it. I've been called crazy for understanding things most people don't. These things feel very mundane to me. And that somehow makes me the crazy one 😂

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