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@OBEler

I don't quite agree. I think it's more accurately fearful/insecure energy that requires validation, regardless of gender. For example, an insecure masculine man would try to persuade others with his logically sound views, just to feel safe and validated. And a confident feminine woman would express how she is feeling without the need for anyone's validation. How? Sure. Tech jobs require more logical linear ways of thinking/reasoning. However, truth and logic are not the same, and they are not mutually exclusive. A logic/reason is not always true, and sometimes it can be false, example: "I met two people from City X, and both were rude. Therefore, everyone from City X must be rude.". And needless to say that a feeling can be true sometimes.

@OBEler Oh, I think I understand your point better now. And I think there are two things to consider here: The truthfulness of a statement. How it feels to someone. She is saying that 1 is independent of 2 in this particular context, and you're suggesting that it's not. So she is saying that her primary concern is truthfulness regardless of how it may feel, even though in this particular case the truth feels good. And you're saying that since it feels good to her, then that's the main (maybe even the only) reason why she sees its truthfulness in the first place, and that otherwise she would probably not. And while I agree that this could be the case, I don't know if it is, as I rarely come here. However, it seems like you're using a circular logic presupposing the verdict without examining the context carefully. However, my view is that this behaviour that you're suggesting is not exclusive to feminine women. A very masculine man like Trump can lie to protect himself. So a masculine man can deny the truth to suit his feelings and agendas. Or he can be delusional. It doesn't really matter. The point is that gender and masculinity/femininity are not strictly tied with lying. It all depends on context, and making a final judgement can be difficult.

@Flowerfaeiry Thank you for speaking up. Sounds like it truly changed you and turned your life around.

@OBEler An easier argument would be that the mere thanking of the other user for his observation implies appreciation and approval, which is a facet of harmony, which is feminine. I know you didn't tag me intentionally , but I thought I might drop by and give my opinion that it seems you're misinterpreting things just to defend your initial argument. Natasha is clearly stating that she thanked him for speaking the truth, which is quite fair. What makes you feel that she might be untruthful about that?

"Femininity" is a word. It means different things to different people. It is typically associated with nature, creativity, and cycles. In harmonious human relationships, femininity tends to be on the receptive end in the beginning, so it takes before it can give. With a feminine person, you reap whatever you sow. They mirror your energy and give you back what you've given them amplified.

In the field of epistemology, relativistic versions of nihilism assert that knowledge, truth, or meaning are relative to the perspectives of specific individuals or cultural contexts, implying that there is no independent framework to assess which opinion is ultimately correct. Skeptical interpretations go further by denying the existence of knowledge or truth altogether.

Nihilism: is a philosophical belief that life has no inherent meaning, purpose, or value. It often involves a rejection of traditional values, moral principles, and religious beliefs. Nihilism can encompass a range of views, from skepticism about knowledge and communication to a belief in the meaninglessness of existence and even a call for destruction.

In my case, they keep losing wisdom as they age

Personally, I mostly flow with my daily routine intuitively and based on feelings, given that I already have most of my schedule planned ahead of time. So, every night before I sleep, I have a rough estimate of how my next day would look like. Based on that estimation, I try to regulate my feelings accordingly. However, the estimation also depends on the current day and how much effort I've put in during it, physically and otherwise. This requires high awareness, which you acquire with time and intention. Just keep your eyes on the big goals, and let the details be sorted out intuitively.

@Flowerfaeiry Okay, so a little background about my ex... Motherless (ex was 3), father almost always abroad, step-mother, one step-sister, no other siblings. She grew up very religious (Christian), and still lives in a heavily Christian environment, even though she was mostly into new-age when we were together. She has a traumatic childhood and teenage and even adulthood (she was molested sexually), with many fears and neuroses, mostly related to socialization. She'd been constantly looking for protection, certainty, the truth, and answers about life, which she eventually claimed to have finally found them. Are there similarities? And what would you like to discuss?

Alright, good to know! I'll continue watching your YouTube testimony and come back.

Are you absolutely sure you want to discuss? My ex went through a very similar experience only without psychedelics. She broke up with me because I suggested discussing her experiences. She told me that Jesus has saved her and healed her, and that He is coming again and will save me too, even though I'm unworthy of being with her.

Real enlightenment is extremely rare. It requires extra special effort and dedication. This shouldn't be a surprise. 3-4 hours of spiritual practice per day is nowhere near serious enough, it's child's play. You cannot expect to find extraordinary results from that kind of effort. What you see is people lost in materialism running away from a past and towards a future in an infinite chase, living in constant fear with spikes of panic and brief moments of what may be called "happiness". And that's still not counting those with hard addictions who are lost in hedonism.

Here, I will try to process, simplify, and understand the complexities of human interactions, connection, intimacy, bonding, and emotions such as love, lust, disgust, fear, anger, etc. in an attempt to understand the human psyche, mainly from the social aspect, but also from the subjective personal aspect, and on the deepest levels possible. It may be ugly sometimes, and that's no problem. The intention is that this will be an honest and diverse exploration of my own self and of others as I view them from my own lens and point of view, so I will try my best to remain objective, multi-perspectival and unbiased, and most obviously, I will try my best to be wary of psychological projection and defense mechanisms, and work through any of them if/when noticed. I am willing to work on myself and improve. The aim is to help me expand my understanding of this human experience to the max. And so, during this process, I intend to read a few books that I will probably name later that will add to my knowledge and awareness. I'm not well-versed in this topic, and I'm not a psychologist, a social scientist, or a specialist of any kind. I don't even have an academic certificate in my own field yet. In general, this will be a place for my personal ramblings, that may be insightful to some or no one at all. I intend to write about my own feelings as I go through this, on an irregular basis, i.e. intuitively. This could result in brief realizations, but the goal is to go as deep as possible, so I'll try to integrate the mind as well in this and elaborate as much as possible. Hopefully, I will be able to see myself change and develop emotionally and ultimately grow and become more whole and integrated. And as I like to greet my colleagues at work for no particular reason: Hi, hi!

Mainly because they crucified Jesus. That's where "the hate" started. Another reason is their uniquely narcissistic ideology, "The Chosen People, and Their Promised Land", Judaism can only be attributed by birth, etc... Miscellaneous malicious deeds and hostility with other tribes/nations around them throughout history. Modern Israel is the easiest example.

Yes. Through extreme minimalism. The more you have to follow, the more chaotic your life will be, the less in control you will feel, and the less happier you will be. Disease & Chaos === Suffering. Focus & Order === Happiness.

The answer is literally in the question.

I have learned that it is possible to deliver truth to women gracefully in most cases, it just requires extraordinary patience and selflessness. The wrapping is normally like this: "You know that I love you and care about you deeply, and you know that I have your best interests at heart. Can we discuss this topic sometime in the near future?". This, and a few more phrases with the same energy should help loosen their minds up a bit and make them a bit more receptive. Always check receptiveness first before even thinking about confronting others with some harsh truth, especially women, especially the more feminine they are. If there is trust, there will be receptiveness. Although, as I have experienced, sometimes it seems nothing can create that receptiveness, and you just gotta wait it out or slap them in the face, depending on how much danger they're in.

And the opposite is just as true!

Oh, yeah, absolutely! A "beta" guy can be quite toxic too in the context of a long-term relationship. I am not suggesting otherwise. However, an "alpha" guy does not even qualify for a ltr, as he is generally not interested and cannot commit, or at best would cheat at the first opportunity. A long term relationship is not an easy thing. It's a serious commitment that requires huge dedication and effort and responsibility. And most humans are nowhere near the "ideal partner" who knows how to communicate and compromise and has the willingness to set their ego aside and focus on the relationship instead of their own agendas. It's not easy at all.

Women may prefer Betas. Yet, often times, they are gullible and get easily manipulated by Alphas. (loose usage of this terminology). It's the same phenomenon as a good product that doesn't have great marketing or packaging against a toxic product that's the opposite. Most women fall into the trap of the toxic man and they can't help it. No human is immune to deception by appearances, more so the normie guys, and even more so normie women (cuz they lack experience and insight), as they are just regular low consciousness human beings who mainly operate on autopilot and knee-jerk reactions with the same retarded lizard brain motivation system.

Worship literally means extreme love. What do you love the most? That's "your God", and you already know how to worship it.

The point of spirituality is to: Pause from the material chase. Reconnect with one's essence. Ultimately, maintain mental health.