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I have learned that it is possible to deliver truth to women gracefully in most cases, it just requires extraordinary patience and selflessness. The wrapping is normally like this: "You know that I love you and care about you deeply, and you know that I have your best interests at heart. Can we discuss this topic sometime in the near future?". This, and a few more phrases with the same energy should help loosen their minds up a bit and make them a bit more receptive. Always check receptiveness first before even thinking about confronting others with some harsh truth, especially women, especially the more feminine they are. If there is trust, there will be receptiveness. Although, as I have experienced, sometimes it seems nothing can create that receptiveness, and you just gotta wait it out or slap them in the face, depending on how much danger they're in.

And the opposite is just as true!

Oh, yeah, absolutely! A "beta" guy can be quite toxic too in the context of a long-term relationship. I am not suggesting otherwise. However, an "alpha" guy does not even qualify for a ltr, as he is generally not interested and cannot commit, or at best would cheat at the first opportunity. A long term relationship is not an easy thing. It's a serious commitment that requires huge dedication and effort and responsibility. And most humans are nowhere near the "ideal partner" who knows how to communicate and compromise and has the willingness to set their ego aside and focus on the relationship instead of their own agendas. It's not easy at all.

Women may prefer Betas. Yet, often times, they are gullible and get easily manipulated by Alphas. (loose usage of this terminology). It's the same phenomenon as a good product that doesn't have great marketing or packaging against a toxic product that's the opposite. Most women fall into the trap of the toxic man and they can't help it. No human is immune to deception by appearances, more so the normie guys, and even more so normie women (cuz they lack experience and insight), as they are just regular low consciousness human beings who mainly operate on autopilot and knee-jerk reactions with the same retarded lizard brain motivation system.

Worship literally means extreme love. What do you love the most? That's "your God", and you already know how to worship it.

The point of spirituality is to: Pause from the material chase. Reconnect with one's essence. Ultimately, maintain mental health.

Yeah, I agree. But generally, wearing generic make up like eyeliners, mascaras, lipsticks, perfumes, etc... gets women validation, attention, and ultimately better sexual options, which is why most women do it and it's so popular. Surely, piercings and nose rings are not as popular, but I would suppose some men find them attractive too.

Both health and appearance are important for survival. There is no difference in principle for why anyone would choose to pursue either or both or none. Health is not an altruistic motive. It's just a motive, like physical appearance.

If solipsism is true, chop wood and carry water. If solipsism is not true, chop wood and carry water.

In theory, yes. In practice, no.

@Princess Arabia This makes much sense! Thank you. Yes, I've noticed this too recently. Women generally require much more than just visual stimulation to get sexually excited, unless they're ovulating. And still, even when they are ovulating, they don't easily find an attractive guy to want to have sex with. Now what makes a guy attractive is a whole other discussion, but essentially it requires some kind of emotional connection to occur inside a woman's perception in order to tick off the specific attraction criteria for a woman that makes her want to have sex. So yeah, I agree.

Are there any safe natural places in your area that you can go to during the day? Like a quiet beautiful park that's not too crowded. I usually find solace in that kind of place when it gets too tough sometimes. A grey/blue sky, a park bench and a few green trees is all that it takes for me to relax. You're not alone in this, and it will be alright.

What you're basically asking about is mainly modern day identity, who you should be in this modern world. You can go post-modern and bypass this problem altogether, or you can stick to modernism and unapologetically choose any way of being. It doesn't really matter in any case, because life doesn't generally mainly depend on political opinions.