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18 minutes ago, Mannyb said:@aerox1988 I think @Username means forget about self worth. If she wants you it’ll work out somehow. There’s no price, just an intimate relationship’s possibility. Offer to meet if it don’t happen move on
Aha okej now I get it thanks
9 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:Cut the shit and all the games. Tell her you want to meet her. If she agrees, great. If not, move on to someone else. Don't waste your time and effort on an unsure thing. And more importantly, don't invest in any way in something intangible, especially don't invest emotionally.
So ture. But its hard when she plays games with me aswell. And you know how it works you dont want to appear needy
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Just now, levani said:@aerox1988 Leave the conversation for tonight and tomorrow message her if she wants to go for a date. This is really simple bro, don't procrastinate don't message her any bullshit and no mind games because she's not going to appreciate that and you won't as well in the long run, it will bite you in the ass.
Tomorrow: hey, how are you ? u wanna go for a date this weekend ?
I am going to soeak to her on phone tonight and she levs in an other city so so first decided that I should go there then she hesitated but tonight I guess I just ask her on phone if I should ge there or not otherwise I plan otherthings because I am busy with other stuffs?
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43 minutes ago, Username said:Now it's better If there is a polarity between both of you attraction is naturally mutual. If you try to convince her of your value it will have an opposite effect.
Forget about having value. It will only cause you create a fake "more valuable" persona.
So ture. High self worth and I am the price not she.
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9 minutes ago, Username said:Just assume that she is attracted to you because she should be. If she isn't it's not your problem.
So you mean - Just belive I have the confidence and self worth that I am the price and she should be happy to be with me because I am busy and an important man?
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Hi!
Need all advices regarding this topic. Just speaking to a girl now on voice messages but have not spoken on phone and want to meet with her but she is diffucult. What can I do to make her interested and to be really interested in me. All tips, mindgames etc are welcome but please be concreate.
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HI Leo!
Really appreciate your help. I will do this and focus on other girls meanwhile and educate myself in this topic. Question - I really want her and we connect on phone so there is a cemestry. The problem (I think) is that I have been to pushy regarding to her and when we was gonna meet I sounded a bit stressed a desperate to book this which she then said "You make me feel so stressed" so I changed subjet and said haha ok but I need to know so I can plan my days but no worries lets decide next week. And this week she avoided the question. So my strategy no (Since I have accepted that this can fail but still really want to give it a try) is to back down a bit to not be so needy and chill and just talk with her and have fund for a few days to build connection again and when I feel that the mood is good again approach this question again about when we should meet. What do you say?