kras

This is what i was thinking i hope that is the reason, not what she told me

money and status are not cliché my bro.

Omg thank you you said that, its really funny how people just ignore something and throw it out of the window because they say "Oh that is stupid red pill or black pill ideology". You shouldn't believe anything you hear of course or adapt red pill/black pill ideology, just see wheter these things are true, just be honest with your direct experiance. Stop dismissing something just because its red pill or black pill. Actually when you are honest with yourself now you can do something and improve your situation. If you live in fairyland and coping all the time with your believes how the sexual market works, then good for you.

I have very hard time opening up and talking about myself with basicly everybody, even the close people that i have in my life. I can talk with somebody but about himself just asking questions and making comments. Its very hard for me to share my stories, express my feelings or talk about my personal life. Its quite difficult to connect with new people, once we had our conversation they end up knowing very little about me or nothing. I think that is self esteem issue? What do you think.

Thats true, but its very hard when you dont have anything going on in your life. And when a girl shows a little bit of interest you get attached to the approaval very easly.

Sorry but this is not relevant for guys, i have one very ugly girl friend of mine. She is aroggant and super ugly and she still have options with men and men are hitting on her.

Sure

With this amount of work you better get rich, then you wouldn't need this stupid game.

So much work for what? Atracttive or rich guys could do 30 girls for one month if they want, but it is what it is.

BS

Me too, i am sick of people (especially women) use me for validaiton and acting interested and then disappear. Why should i always take the high road and act cool. And letting people getting away with bs?

Women that i know who has slept with lots of guys are deemed low value and there is no question about it. You could fuck them, but you could never take them seriosly.

Yeah, thats my point!

This is my take on that: The better looking you are, the less work you will need to put in order to get hot women. If you are model looking, you will be able to pull almost any girl you want. The worse looking you are the more you will need to overcompensate for that in order to get hot women. With things like status, money etc. I AM TALKING ABOUT GETTING HOT GIRLS ON REGULAR BASIS. Yeah, you might get lucky and get cute girlfriend even if you don't have anything.

I've been hanging out with a girl for 1 and half month. We already had 6 dates, and we haven't had sex. I pushed her couple of times and she said that its too early and she don't know me yet. She text me, she invites me out, and couple of times she said that she is looking for serious relationship. We could keep hang out, but the problem is that i am very sexually attracted to her and its really hard to not tear her clothes when we make out in my car. We had a conversation and i told her if she is not interested there is no reason to waste our times, and she said that if she wasn't interested she would be hanging out with me. I also told her that, that its really hard for me to do that. She said its too early and i don't know you yet. If i didn't like her i would have had cut contact with her. Is she attention seeker? What could i do?

I will be very interested to hear your opinions about this guy. I didnt know where to create this topic because he is really discussing lots of things from dating to politics. And before you start judging watch few of his videos.

This is what women say but i dont buy that shit..

Women on this forum are virtue signaling so hard..

I like her, its not just the sex, but she make me feel that she uses me just for attention.

I have a backstory with two narcissistic girls who used to jerk me around for couple of months so that is why i am a little frustrated right know. I really don't believe that this girl is like that, but might be a little bit of trauma come on a surface for me..

I am not sure what exactly does emotional unavaliability mean. Could you elaborate on that?

What do you mean?

Yeah, i think that this is my main problem.

Yesterday i had an argument with a girl that i recently start dating i really like her. So i feel like i could lose her. I have some serious trauma related to my codependency, insecurities and seeking validation. I just cant thing straight. I wasnt able to sleep this night. That happens everytime when i interact with a girl and things are not going well. How to deal with that, how to heal it. I am afraid of interacting with girls because of that. My life just become misrable instead of enjoying a girl that i like. I cannot do that anymore, its not healthy and i will lose my mind. Usually when i experiance something like that i close off and dont let people close to me for a long period of time. If i lose this girl, i probably wont interact with any women until i eventually heal myself if its possible.

How the healing process would look like?