Elton

Man I really struggle with this topic. In theory .. ok I need to write down the thing I feel jealous about and achieve that and put it in my vision board. In practice I feel really anxious, If someone is earning 100 percent more than me I can definitely have a vision to attain that but how long will it take to reach there? How do I control my emotions until that point? It's bullshit to see the people you grew up with having massive success and you not. I sometimes make myself happy by telling myself I am going self actualization and I am the captain of self actualization but the results speak for themselves. Need to be more result oriented need to be more stage orange more of the expert stage. Cause at the moment this matters the most money matters the most peace of mind happiness sex doesn't appeal to me so much now as much as money. I feel that the biggest factor for me of comparison with others is money or career achievement. How you guys deal with such comparison or jealously ? Should I use this as fuel to drive me to success. Or do yoh know any technic to stop comparing myself to others some affirmation or subconscious technique ?

@Leo Gura this sounds like orange to me, health.. socialisation... personal development... Why do you think green population is required ?

@integral great idea I always wanted something like this ...

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRtnt1sXy6s&feature=share You will feel the sadness to your bones in this song!

Funk Roberts

So today I have got little bit more clarity on my vision, The insight about this vision which is different from the earlier visions I had is that this is highly dynamic and really really broad and wide, the vision of transformation in all areas, it took me so many years to actually form this grandiose vision cause it's not just about one aspect it's about the good life, about emotions, success travel, life purpose, understanding the psychological evolution and using it to understand the people I deal with, life skills like charisma, leadership, funniness... fuck this is totally a vision I could spent my entire life working on, things in my vision are things where I can work on each aspect every day for many years. It's scary cause it's so broad like I can just take 1 subset of a subset and it may take so many years to master it. It's totally worth it, I guess this is more of a meta vision but it's scary, it so big, it's so dynamic I created a notebook called vision on one note and it has so many aspects to it, it is like brining it all together maybe it not a 10 year vision maybe 30 years but I so want this to be achieved in the next 10 years, fuck how! ? can't connect the dots at the moment. is it possible to master life in 10 years having collected the theory little by little in the last 8 years? it took me so much time to realize and connect the dots at least document it, will it ever happen, I want to achieve it as early as possible I wish I stared doing all this when I was 13 years old, i would have definitely been at a different place. Maybe I must follow the one thing strategy on each of these and keep doing it for the next 10 years. going small is the key to going big.

@Vision wake up 4 am Meditate 4 30 to 6 30 pm Breakfast Break upto 8 00 am Meditate 8 00 to 10 00 am Break upto 10 30 Meditate 10 30 to 12 30 pm Lunch Break upto 2 00 pm Meditate 2 00 to 4 00 pm Tea Break upto 5 pm Meditate 5 00 to 7 00 pm Break upto 8 00 pm Meditate upto 9 00 pm Sleep Notice dinner is missing

When we self actualize we often tend to believe that we have the potential to become diamonds. But what about luck and destiny ? What if like the worker ants we too are ment to be where we are and remain there till we die and serve the qeen ant ?? And only a few are meant to be the qeen ants or the qeen bee ?

@Leo Gura hey Leo I am in this situation I can't even really describe it properly but could you try and give me some advice please? I'm in this heartbreak kind of state but I don't want to let it go ? I am kind of liking this state. This is what is making it confusing , I have never seen anyone so far saying that they like being in the pain state...I say this because I can let go but I won't, I don't want to let go. Why ? Why did you say that every trauma is imagined by you to keep you asleep ?

@Leo Gura wait a minute, what !?

@Dany Balan hi bro, I have suffered through it and come out strong.. can you have a look at my past post ? it's a long process but it is worth it.. definitely read it.

@puporing :-)

Why doesn't God give me gifts ? Because you gotta give it to yourself! Your hands are God's hands ! If you don't do the work you will be the most depressed as you will be seeing Leo living to his whole potential and not you. Push yourself before life pushes you. Investing 1 hour in meditation for 10 years straight how are you going to spend that 1 hour ? @Leo Gurawhy didn't you make this vedio 5 years ago ? I would have been somewhere else I guess.. Really great vedio I am going to practice this on a daily basis and I think this will change my life ! I will go all the exercises mentioned in it.

@puporing okay it really hit me this episode. I think the style for making this vedio was the newbie style or intermediate style, because the more advanced vedios doesn't hit me so much... this one thing for me could really change my life. Maybe it stood out so much because I have been so indecisive and maybe this one decision of being decisive could be the master key. So I have made the decision of being a decisive motherfucker...

@puporing are you making fun of me ? I'm expressing my deepest gratitude here and you think its funny, I have been with actualized since 7 years and I know what content has been shared !

Another 4 bad weeks passed by without the balancing act, the balance was shifted towards academics and final exams. But time to come back now its been 1 week after exams but still not on the right track yet. The power of decision making is huge and I will really take this very seriously. This is the most foundational and I must be highly decisive, I see this as a huge step towards my personal growth. Thanks @Leo Gura for the latest episode I want to show my gratitude by being highly decisive in future.

In my personal development journey what I have realised is that it is very difficult for me to maintain balance. Work, education, health and fitness, nutrition, finance, relationships, family and mental health are way too difficult to balance. I have realised the only way to do it is through adaptability, flexibility and patience. 2022 will be result oriented and thinking about death on daily basis will be the motivating factor. Journals will be the key. Strength and focus will unite.

@Leo Gura ohh if it is not the allergy type of cold try having 2 tbs honey and cinnamon powder 3 times a day.. it will pass in 3 days.. You might know better, but if not given a try you could try this out too.. Get well soon..

@Leo Gura with all this crash and all taking up a lot of your time, will you still be releasing a vedio this week ?

@Leo Gura the same can be applied to friendships aahhaa!

I realised that the need to have friendships is just an issue with loneliness and people pleasing. Maybe because of alot of time at home this week I was feeling like this. When I'm working, and doing all my self actualization activities I don't have time for loneliness and people pleasing. I feel not needing anyone while doing nothing not even self actualization activities will be a great thing to achieve.

Hello friends, In Leo's last vedio I came across the concept of conscious relationships, and I had a deep realisation which I was pondering about since many years actually, however I will bring this to light and work on this now. I have been always wondering why I always have issues with people and don't really get along forever. I have lost many people along the way in a sense like at some point they were so close to me but now are Indifferent. I don't have an issue with intimate relationships as I spent a lot of time and energy working on that but the boat got a bit off-balance with friendships I'm talking about friends here. I feel that I want to have really deep and rewarding friendships and maintain them. Please help me build realtionships and maintaining them by sharing various techniques, I will research and share some techniques too. For starting this journey im journaling on my one note journal, I have made a new section of relationships and made a subpage friends and another one as colleagues. I will be writing certain notes or key points to each and every person here. Would this be a good idea ?

@Jan Trautwein hi Jan welcome to the forum... I liked to see your point of view. Hope to see many more posts from you. This is a personal development community where we help each other grow and share resources as well as our personal development difficulties and also act as a support system for those who need it. :-)

https://youtu.be/rlbjfvcJrz8

@Razard86 taking the example of Buddha I feel like you have to really undergo spiritual purification before you can truly connect with people... But Buddha would connect even before spiritual purification I guess.. I Don't know but I intute at the moment that just say fuck all ! And do your stuff and let life happen to you let those who want to come come those who want to stay stay and those who want to leave leave ..