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How To Exploit People To Grow Yourself - An Advanced Technique https://youtu.be/XQewAOgoxCE Leo from actualised.org explains how exploiting others can be a powerful personal development technique Exploitation in this context means using conflicts and clashes with others as opportunities to grow and improve self-understanding and self-control People often behave in negative ways because they don't understand fundamental principles of success and happiness As a student of self-mastery, you may feel bad for those who don't understand these principles and try to help them However, people often reject or become angry at attempts to show them their own flaws Instead of trying to directly teach these principles to others, use the opportunity to grow and improve yourself Practice detachment and non-judgment to avoid getting caught up in other people's negative behavior Use these situations as opportunities to practice self-control and self-mastery This will ultimately lead to greater success and happiness for yourself and potentially for those around you as well. Personal development is important to avoid behaving in negative or unconscious ways Seeing others behave negatively can be motivating to continue personal development efforts Negative examples of others can be used to identify and work on flaws in oneself Signing up for a newsletter or other resources can provide ongoing reminders and support for personal growth.

Positive Attitude - The 3 Pillars To Cultivating Positivity https://youtu.be/2_18oWkVq08 Positive attitude is a very advanced topic Few people have a true positive attitude Genetics and upbringing can play a role in one's happiness and mood set point External circumstances will not make someone a positive thinker True positive attitude means being positive no matter what To cultivate a positive attitude, it takes time and inner work Three pillars of cultivating a positive attitude: Self-love and self-acceptance Gratitude and appreciation Being present and mindful It's important to work on all three pillars, not just one or two To work on these pillars, it's important to have a daily practice Practice gratitude by writing down three things to be grateful for every day Practice mindfulness by focusing on the present moment and not getting lost in negative thoughts Practice self-love and self-acceptance by being kind to oneself and accepting flaws and imperfections It's important to be patient and consistent with these practices Positive attitude is not something that can be achieved overnight, but with time and effort, it is possible to cultivate a true positive attitude. Some people think that if their strategy leads to a positive result, it was correct, and if it leads to a negative result, it was incorrect This is not the right way to approach strategy Proper strategy is correct regardless of the outcome Poker is an example where there are clear do's and don'ts for what hands to play Sometimes players rebel against the odds and win, but this is just luck, not a proper strategy Being cheerful is the best strategy, even in tough situations like someone close to you dying This takes self-control and discipline to execute Positive thinking is an advanced idea because very few people truly have a positive attitude in life Objection: positive thinking is just pretending everything is okay, and avoiding negative emotions is unhealthy This is not true, it's about choosing to focus on the good things in life and finding ways to make the best of a situation This can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life Conclusion: positive thinking is an advanced strategy that can lead to a better life, but it takes discipline and training to implement it successfully.

How To Make A Girl Squirt - Give Your Girl An Explosive Orgasm https://youtu.be/7FmAHDECFsY Introduction to topic of how to make a girl squirt Definition of squirting as an explosive orgasm with ejaculation Emphasis on the importance of mindset and emotions in the process, rather than just technique Recommendation to only try this with a girlfriend or wife, rather than a new sexual partner Tips for setting the mood, including relaxation and intimacy Description of the technique for stimulating the G-spot and causing a squirting orgasm Caution against using too much pressure or going too fast Advice to communicate with the partner and pay attention to their reactions Conclusion and encouragement to try and experiment with the technique to find what works best for both partners. Old trick for faking confidence Explanation that squirt and pee are different and woman may be self-conscious about this Telling the woman to push with her vaginal muscles to release juices Fingering technique for making the woman squirt Lying on bed with legs spread and pillow under head for support Positioning oneself next to the woman, almost hugging her Using middle and ring fingers to stimulate the upper wall of the vagina Curling fingers and applying pressure to the G-spot Telling the woman to push and continuing to stimulate the G-spot until she squirts Importance of building physical strength and stamina to perform the fingering technique Positive impact on the woman's enjoyment and intimacy in the relationship Potential for the woman to become "hooked" on the man Suggestion to practice the technique with a girlfriend rather than a first-time partner Encouragement to share experiences and ask questions on the topic Invitation to sign up for a newsletter for more tips on relationships and self-improvement

What Women Want In A Man - 5 Factors That Hook Women Like Crack https://youtu.be/JoRlb6xcymA Introduction to topic of what women want in a man Personal story of learning about relationships and understanding opposite sex Importance of understanding what women want in order to attract and keep them First point: never listen to a woman about what she wants in a man, as a woman's understanding of her own psychology is different from what a man needs to understand Women want deep emotional intimacy Women want a man who is confident and can lead and make decisions Women want a man who is emotionally intelligent and can communicate effectively Women want a man who is masculine and can protect and provide for her Women want a man who is driven and purposeful Conclusion emphasizing the importance of understanding and fulfilling these desires in order to have a successful and fulfilling relationship with a woman. Women enjoy a range of emotions, including some negative ones, and appreciate men who can make them laugh and be playful Detachment is important for men in a relationship; this means being grounded and confident and having a purpose outside of the relationship, but also being loyal and nice to their partner Women are attracted to men who are edgy, adventurous, and a little bit dangerous; they want to be challenged and stimulated emotionally Intimate, dirty sex is important in a relationship and can help to keep the spark alive Communication and being able to express oneself is crucial for both men and women in a relationship Trust and loyalty are important for both men and women in a relationship Respect and appreciation for one's partner are also important for both men and women in a relationship.

Whatever Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger - True or False https://youtu.be/zxMTekwz1HM The speaker is discussing the adage "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger" and whether or not it is true The speaker has recently been through a difficult legal trial and has been questioning whether going through difficult experiences makes one stronger or weaker It is possible to get oneself into a situation that is so bad that it leaves one emotionally crippled It is important to be careful with the decisions one makes and the things one gets involved in, as they can have a significant impact on one's life Some people have made mistakes or experienced difficult events that have greatly affected their lives in negative ways On the other hand, some people have gone through difficult experiences and come out stronger and more resilient The speaker's opinion is that in the long term, difficult experiences can make one stronger, but in the short term they can be very detrimental The key is to find the silver lining in difficult situations and use them as an opportunity to grow and become stronger One should also be mindful of the types of challenges one takes on and make sure they are manageable and within one's capabilities It is important to have a healthy balance between taking on challenges and taking care of oneself.

Profound Quotes 003 - Children Want Candy; The Intelligent Want Self-Control - Rumi https://youtu.be/RCrM6jC-fXg Rumi quote: "The intelligent want self-control; children want candy" Most people behave like children and seek stimulation/excitement (candy) instead of self-control Examples of seeking candy: drug addiction, partying, video games, TV, food, relationships, exercise for vanity, material possessions, fame, power True intelligence is seeking self-control and understanding the root causes of seeking candy Self-control allows for true happiness and fulfillment, rather than temporary pleasure from candy Practice mindfulness and self-awareness to improve self-control Take control of your thoughts and actions, rather than letting them control you.

Judgment - How You Ruin Your Own Happiness https://youtu.be/6RaA5eQlCsU Judgment is when the mind splits the world into arbitrary divisions of good and bad Judgment can be applied to people, objects, situations, or oneself Judgment is a survival mechanism used by the mind to maximize fitness Good and bad do not exist in reality, they are created by the mind Constant judgment can lead to unhappiness and suffering because it creates mental divisions and conflict To stop being overly judgmental, one can practice mindfulness, acceptance, and compassion Mindfulness involves being aware of one's thoughts and feelings without reacting to them Acceptance involves accepting things as they are, rather than trying to change them Compassion involves understanding and feeling empathy for the suffering of others By practicing these three things, one can reduce judgment and increase happiness and peace of mind. People who are self-actualized derive strength and happiness from being in reality and accepting it as it is People frequently make micro judgments about people, situations, and objects on a subconscious level Making these judgments can lead to neurosis and a lack of satisfaction An example of dropping judgments is experiencing a beautiful sunset and feeling a sense of peace and connection to reality In order to become more self-actualized, it is important to notice and let go of these micro judgments A way to practice this is to observe your surroundings and let go of the need for anything to be different Another way is to practice mindfulness and bring attention to the present moment without judgment It is also important to work on accepting and loving oneself, as well as developing a sense of purpose and meaning in life.

Self Esteem - Understanding & Fixing Low Self-Esteem https://youtu.be/FeLpvgAVtU8 Self-esteem is a combination of self-efficacy (confidence in one's ability to handle challenges and create a good life) and self-respect (belief in one's inherent value and right to happiness) Low self-esteem can be influenced by past experiences, negative self-talk, and social comparisons Nathaniel Brandon's "six pillars of self-esteem" include: self-acceptance, self-responsibility, self-assertiveness, living consciously, living purposely, and personal integrity Strategies for improving self-esteem include: setting and achieving goals, practicing self-care and self-compassion, reframing negative thoughts, and seeking support from others It is important to maintain healthy self-esteem in order to live a fulfilling and successful life. Childhood or traumatic events can contribute to low self-esteem Self-esteem can be improved through personal development, therapy, coaching, and introspection Nathaniel Branden's six pillars of self-esteem: Practice of living consciously Practice of self-acceptance Practice of self-responsibility Practice of self-assertiveness Practice of purposeful living Practice of personal integrity

How To Become A Millionaire - The Truth No One Tells You https://youtu.be/LOPqhcH7dDc How to become a millionaire is not about luck or shortcuts, but about following certain principles The first principle is the importance of self growth and being in control of your own mind and actions Coming from a background of poverty or middle class means that you will need radical self growth to become a millionaire Personal growth is the core of becoming a millionaire, but there are also important business aspects to consider Successful people have a different mindset and approach to money than the average person Millionaires take risks and are not afraid of failure It is important to set goals, have a plan, and be willing to work hard to achieve them Diversifying income streams and building wealth through investing are key strategies for becoming a millionaire Surrounding yourself with the right people, learning from mentors, and staying focused and motivated are also important for achieving financial success. The mindset and philosophy behind earning a lot of money The limited potential for earning a lot of money in a 9-5 job, unless in a high-level management position The option of becoming self-employed or starting a business to become a millionaire The potential for earning a lot of money as a self-employed celebrity, artist, musician, blogger, or internet business owner The challenges of transitioning from a stable job to being self-employed and facing the risks of not having a consistent paycheck The importance of value when self-employed and the various business issues that come into play, including economics, legal issues, marketing, logistics, employment, and more The benefits of owning a business, including the ability to scale and increase income and the potential for passive income The importance of learning new skills, seeking mentors, and being open to new opportunities in order to increase income and become a millionaire.

Relationship Advice - The Master Plan For Creating An Amazing Relationship https://youtu.be/Ixc0PkkYkHA Introduction to the topic of relationships and the purpose of the video The high divorce rate and prevalence of unhappy relationships as evidence of a problem in how people approach relationships The speaker's personal experience with learning about relationships through the pickup community The importance of personal development in creating a successful relationship The role of self-awareness and self-improvement in creating a successful relationship The importance of communication and honesty in a relationship The role of vulnerability and openness in building trust and intimacy in a relationship The need to set healthy boundaries and respect each other's boundaries in a relationship The importance of giving and receiving love in a relationship The need to continuously work on and improve the relationship The importance of forgiveness and letting go of resentment in a relationship The role of attraction and maintaining a strong physical and emotional connection in a relationship The need to let go of ego and focus on the well-being of the relationship The importance of taking responsibility for one's own happiness and not relying on the relationship to fulfill all of one's needs The need to find a balance between independence and togetherness in a relationship The importance of setting clear goals and expectations for the relationship Conclusion: relationships require work and effort, but can be deeply fulfilling if approached in the right way Money and financial stability are important in a relationship Health (nutrition and fitness) is important in a relationship Psychology (including limiting beliefs, anxiety, anger, childhood issues, irrational behavior, and neurotic behavior) is important in a relationship Personal development and self-improvement are important for maintaining a healthy relationship Successful relationships require effort and work It is important to understand the opposite sex in order to maintain a successful relationship

Staying Hungry - How To Use Pain For Growth https://youtu.be/CKpY8ksL1UE Introduction to the video and setting in Toronto, Canada Background information on the legal case the speaker is involved in and the stress it has caused Speaker's memories of past experiences that were emotionally difficult and required a "do or die" mentality The importance of remembering and drawing on past struggles for motivation and determination in difficult situations The concept of "staying hungry" and not becoming complacent or satisfied with current success Personal story of the speaker's own journey to success and the struggles and sacrifices they faced along the way The importance of taking ownership of one's life and not relying on external circumstances or other people for happiness The idea that pain and struggle can be used as a tool for growth and self-improvement Conclusion and encouragement to continue pushing through difficult times and using them as opportunities for growth. Sometimes, making a bold, radical decision can help get out of a rut Examples of these decisions include: Moving to a new location Changing careers or quitting a job Ending a relationship or getting a divorce It's important to be strategic and well-planned when making these decisions If you've been in a rut for a long time, sometimes external stimuli or help from others is necessary to get out of it It's better to have lofty goals and a killer instinct than to be stuck in a rut If you're already in a difficult situation, it's important to push through and trust that there is something better ahead

How Your Subconscious Holds You Back From Greatness https://youtu.be/glOobHQndJA The speaker's girlfriend visited for a week and during that time, he was cooking and dropped a small piece of mushroom on the floor He picked the mushroom up and put it back in the pan, but his girlfriend saw and asked if he put it back in The speaker realized that this was a sign of a deeper issue, specifically a scarcity mindset around not wanting to waste things like food or money The speaker reflects on his past and how money was a source of conflict in his family growing up, which led to a scarcity mindset around money The speaker realizes that this scarcity mindset is holding him back in various areas of his life, such as with his business and relationships The speaker discusses the concept of the "subconscious" and how it can hold us back by running automatic programs and responses that we are not aware of The speaker suggests that by becoming aware of these automatic programs, we can start to rewrite them and make different choices The speaker encourages others to pay attention to their own subconscious thoughts and actions in order to identify and change any limiting beliefs or behaviors.

How To Start A Business - Bootstrapping A Successful Business https://youtu.be/iIVM772cL6k Introduction to the topic of starting a business Personal experience with starting a business Two main obstacles to starting a business: motivation and finding the time Importance of finding a business that aligns with personal values and interests Capital as a third obstacle to starting a business Importance of marketing and understanding finances when starting a business Understanding competition in the market Planning and execution as crucial steps in starting a business Importance of seeking support and guidance when starting a business The importance of researching and understanding your target audience when starting a business The need to create a product or service that is uniquely tailored to your audience's needs and desires The importance of marketability, especially when bootstrapping a business The need for a business to start paying for itself as soon as possible when bootstrapping The benefits of using an iterative business model to test the waters and gather feedback before fully committing to a product or service The potential pitfalls of not paying attention to the market and investing time and resources into a product or service that does not resonate with the market The importance of trial and error in finding a profitable niche for a business The possibility of using small tests and proofs of concept to gather feedback and improve a product or service before fully launching it

Life Coaching - The Powerful Benefits Of Working With A Life Coach https://youtu.be/8EYYp-sx1AU Introduction to the topic of life coaching and the speaker's background as a professional life coach Definition of life coaching as a way to improve an aspect of one's life with the help of a third party, objective perspective and accountability Difference between therapy and life coaching (therapy focuses on more severe dysfunction while coaching focuses on improving a functional life to an optimal level) Practical details of life coaching, such as frequency (once a week), medium (usually over the phone), duration (30 minutes to 15 minutes per call), and process (coach asks questions to help client clarify their problem and create a plan to address it) Benefits of life coaching, including increased self-awareness, personal growth, improved communication skills, increased productivity, and goal achievement Tips for finding a good life coach, including looking for someone with experience and qualifications, having a good fit with the coach's personality and style, and finding a coach who provides a clear plan and process Conclusion that life coaching can be a powerful tool for personal growth and improvement Communication skills and emotional intelligence can be powerful tools for personal development Coaching can help individuals see their own potential and provide a new perspective Coaching can help individuals make progress in their personal development more quickly Coaching requires proactive effort from the individual being coached One idea applied consistently at the right time can have a significant impact on personal development Coaching can help individuals identify their goals and create a plan to achieve them Coaching can help individuals learn new skills and techniques Coaching can provide accountability to help individuals follow through on their goals Coaching can help individuals overcome obstacles and challenges Coaching can help individuals find balance in their lives Coaching can help individuals become more self-aware and self-confident

The Power Of Routines - How Your Daily Routine Holds You Back From Your Dreams https://youtu.be/FoYs1YqQI7w The importance of daily routines in achieving success and personal growth Choosing to follow a productive routine or falling back into comfort The feeling of accomplishment and meeting one's potential through a productive daily routine The negative feelings that come from not living up to one's potential and values The connection between meeting basic needs and self-actualization The role of discipline in maintaining a productive daily routine The benefits of having a morning routine, including setting the tone for the day and getting a head start on tasks The importance of reviewing and adjusting one's routine as needed The role of personal development in improving one's daily routine and achieving success The importance of momentum and patience in building a routine The dangers of jumping back into a routine too quickly, such as going to the gym after a long break or trying to tackle a large workload all at once The benefits of slowly ramping up and training the body and mind through a gradual process The value of positive routines in achieving goals and moving towards a vision The challenges of creating and maintaining a positive routine The importance of small, daily tasks in building a strong routine The benefits of consistency in executing a routine over a long period of time The initial investment of energy and effort needed to build a new routine The importance of accountability and commitment in maintaining a routine The benefits of a strong routine for productivity and quality of life.

True Value - How To Create Success Out Of Nowhere https://youtu.be/svS_P7mBhf4 Definition of true value Potential and opportunity can be squandered by not seeing true value in things or tasks True value is different from apparent value or the value society or others put on something Example of a video game designer who didn't realize the value of the GDC vault, a resource for learning about his craft Importance of always learning and improving in any field Value can be found in unexpected places and can be difficult to see at first True value often requires effort or sacrifice to attain The value of any given task or project can change over time True value is subjective and depends on an individual's goals and values The value of something should be reevaluated periodically to ensure it aligns with current goals and values The concept of true value can be applied to any area of life, including relationships, hobbies, and career choices The speaker is discussing the concept of "real value" versus "apparent value" "Real value" refers to things that are truly valuable and improve one's life, while "apparent value" refers to things that are perceived as valuable but do not actually improve one's life To determine real value, the speaker suggests using the filter of well-being, including factors such as health, fulfillment, happiness, peace of mind, and finances The speaker suggests that often, people get caught up in apparent value, especially if it is promoted by mainstream society or popular culture Examples of apparent value include buying a fancy car to impress others or participating in activities that are not fulfilling but are perceived as important The speaker suggests that in order to break free from apparent value and focus on real value, it may be necessary to go against the grain and do things that are not necessarily popular or accepted by others The speaker encourages the listener to take time to think about and analyze the various aspects of their life, including their routines, relationships, and activities, to determine what is truly valuable and worth investing time and energy into.

How To Be Yourself - Become Your Authentic Self Right Now https://youtu.be/w1JzhhDMcpw How to become authentic self Reasons for acting for others and being a people pleaser Turning it around and expressing authentic self Negative beliefs and limiting beliefs cover authentic self Lack of authenticity leads to lack of success, fulfillment, and happiness Mental image of self from others' point of view Fear of rejection and judgment Lack of self-acceptance and self-love Steps to becoming authentic self: self-observation, self-acceptance, self-love, and self-expression Importance of finding purpose and living authentically Benefits of living authentically The speaker believes that people often lack assertiveness and confidence and sacrifice their own values and souls in order to seek approval, love, sex, money, or assistance from others The speaker suggests that this behavior is not fulfilling and that seeking fulfillment from external sources (such as approval, love, sex, money, or assistance) is shallow and ultimately not satisfying The speaker advises that there are costs to being true to oneself, but also notes that it is not necessary or possible to make everyone like you The speaker suggests that the best strategy for success and fulfillment is to be oneself, as authenticity can be attractive and magnetic to others The speaker notes that it may be necessary to make sacrifices and incur costs in order to be true to oneself and suggests that it may be necessary to "pay off" social debts (relationships or commitments) in order to be authentic The speaker advises that it is important to recognize and understand these costs and to make decisions based on what is truly fulfilling and important to oneself, rather than seeking external validation or approval

Self Help - How Self-Help Can Revolutionize Your Entire Life https://youtu.be/M3szqVVeNzw Introduction to self-help and the speaker's passion for it Personal experience with the transformative power of self-help Comparison of average person's life to the potential for a much better quality of life Mention of resources (books, seminars, etc.) that can help improve various areas of life The idea that self-help can revolutionize a person's entire life Mention of the speaker's belief that self-help can change a person's model of reality The idea that self-help can make a person successful and improve relationships, health, and other areas The concept of self-improvement as a continuous process The importance of taking action and not just consuming self-help information The potential for self-help to help a person achieve their full potential The concept of building up critical mass in self-help and how it leads to disproportionate returns on investment The idea that the first year or two of self-help might be slow, but with dedication and practice, it becomes extremely powerful and effective Summary of various ways to practice self-help, including reading books, attending seminars, listening to audio and video products, introspection, journaling, meditation, and coaching The benefits of forming good habits in self-help, including increased self-control, ability to tackle and solve problems, and overall success in life The importance of taking action and being proactive in self-help, rather than just learning and consuming information The concept of "compound interest" in self-help, where small improvements can lead to significant long-term gains The value of seeking out mentors or role models in self-help and learning from their experiences The importance of taking care of oneself physically, mentally, and emotionally in the self-help process The idea that self-help is a continuous journey and not a destination, and the importance of staying motivated and committed to personal growth

Id, Ego, Superego - Understanding An Old School Psychology Concept https://youtu.be/GC7KNAyDt4I Introduction to the concepts of id, ego, and superego Origins of these concepts in the work of Sigmund Freud Analogy of id as horses, ego as rider, and superego as father in carriage Definition and role of the id as the unconscious, base instincts seeking pleasure Definition and role of the ego as the conscious, rational, and strategic part of the psyche Definition and role of the superego as the moral and ethical component of the psyche, representing societal and cultural values How these concepts can be applied in practical personal development to improve self-control and happiness Criticisms of Freud's theories and the importance of modern, practical approaches to personal growth The idea of the ego, id, and superego in psychology The ego is the conscious, rational part of the mind that mediates between the desires of the id and the demands of the superego The id is the unconscious, primal part of the mind that is driven by pleasure and seeks immediate gratification of desires The superego is the moral part of the mind that represents the values and standards of society and strives for perfection Criticizing oneself can be motivated by the ego or superego Being attached to results and outcomes is neurotic Personal development involves introspection and understanding the distinction between the lower self (ego, id) and the higher self (superego) Self-actualization is when the healthy choices for oneself become natural and effortless Personal development work can lead to a clear distinction between the lower and higher selves and allow for easier discipline and a naturally flowing, healthy lifestyle

How To Feel Good - Re-Designing Your Life To Feel Amazing https://youtu.be/JAXrO2NiX_w How to feel good Living a good life leads to feeling good, living a bad life leads to feeling bad Two terms: preah (pleasure, immediate gratification) and shreya (doing the right thing, long-term benefit) Most people focus on preah and not enough on shreya Preah can give temporary pleasure but ultimately leads to suffering Shreya requires effort and discipline, but leads to lasting happiness and fulfillment Re-designing your life to prioritize shreya involves identifying your values and aligning your actions with them Steps to re-designing your life: Identify your values and priorities Set goals and create a plan to achieve them Take action and make progress towards your goals Reflect and adjust as needed Importance of self-awareness and self-inquiry in the process of re-designing your life The role of mindfulness in living a good life and feeling good The power of positive thinking and gratitude Finding balance and not getting too caught up in either preah or shreya How to feel good Classic ancient wisdom with modern spin Cut out things that make you feel bad Align with living a good life in an exciting and adventurous way Work hard, experiment, read, meditate, etc. to feel good Sign up for newsletter to get more practical techniques and exclusive bonuses Bonuses include 19-part video series on busting limiting beliefs and chance to win 2 hours of free coaching with the speaker.

How To Love Yourself - How To Like Who You Are Right Now https://youtu.be/ufNOWvcfrE4 Introduction to the topic of self-love Definition of self-love, not referring to romantic love Insecurity and self-criticism common among people Focus on one aspect of ourselves can be harmful Recognize that we are more than just one aspect or imperfection Choose to focus on positive aspects and accomplishments Practice self-acceptance and self-compassion Seek to improve ourselves for our own happiness, not for the approval of others Remember that perfection does not exist and that flaws are a natural part of being human Surround ourselves with supportive and accepting people Take care of ourselves physically and mentally Practice gratitude and forgiveness towards ourselves and others Conclusion and encouragement to continue working on self-love. The speaker asks the listener to consider what they think they are, suggesting that they may be something greater or more spiritual than their body or their imperfections The speaker suggests that the listener can completely love and accept themselves exactly as they are, and that this decision is within the listener's control The speaker suggests that self-hatred or self-criticism can prevent the listener from being resourceful and sharing their gifts with others The speaker suggests that a lack of self-love may be caused by limiting beliefs, a lack of awareness, or problems with control and awareness of one's own mind and emotions The speaker suggests that loving oneself and overcoming mental blocks is key to living an extraordinary life and achieving one's dreams The speaker invites the listener to visit their website and sign up for their newsletter for exclusive content and to stay updated on their work on personal development.

Personal Development Plan - The Essentials Of Getting Results https://youtu.be/NwLGHCZTQt4 Personal development plan is a way to improve oneself and achieve desired results Some people struggle to get results from self-development techniques and products To get transformational results, it is important to understand the big picture of personal development The speaker has spent five years researching personal development and has processed over $100,000 worth of material on the topic It is recommended to watch all of the speaker's content on the topic and follow their methods for achieving personal development success Personal development involves setting goals, taking action, and constantly learning and growing The first step in a personal development plan is to identify areas of your life that you want to improve It is important to set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals After setting goals, it is important to create a plan to achieve them, including taking small steps and seeking support and accountability Personal development also involves learning new skills and knowledge, which can be done through books, courses, and other resources It is important to take care of oneself physically, mentally, and emotionally to facilitate personal development It is also important to have a positive attitude and mindset to achieve success in personal development Personal development is an ongoing process, and it is important to regularly review and adjust your plan to stay on track and achieve your goals. Personal moment plan should involve journaling every day for a short time Journaling allows you to reflect and refer back to your thoughts Meditation is an important part of a personal moment plan, and can be done for various lengths of time Reprogramming your subconscious mind is a critical element of personal development This involves identifying and changing negative beliefs, using techniques like affirmations and visualizations A personal moment plan should also include learning the big picture, setting goals, minimizing distractions, building positive habits, and finding a life purpose Following a personal development plan can lead to significant changes in your life and can improve your business, career, and personal relationships Consider seeking coaching for additional guidance and action plans on implementing a personal moment plan.

How To Be A Man - The Deep Core Of Being Masculine https://youtu.be/X6YM_WUP5ik Introduction to topic of masculinity Personal background and experience in studying relationships and male/female dynamics Definition of masculinity: authenticity, honesty, self-expression, emotional stability, groundedness, leadership, purpose and vision Importance of finding and living one's own purpose and vision Role of masculine and feminine energies in relationships and how to balance them Importance of being a good man and treating others with respect and kindness Conclusion and encouragement to tap into masculinity and live authentically. Importance of casting aside obstacles and living one's own purpose and vision Definition of a man as someone who has discovered their identity and knows how to penetrate the world Development of masculinity typically occurs in a man's 20s to 30s Suggestion to have sex with multiple partners to develop masculinity and understanding of relationships Importance of learning how to have amazing sex Importance of finding and pursuing a fulfilling career or creating something powerful in one's life Encouragement to take this information seriously and apply it to become more masculine Suggestion to develop a strong physical body through exercise and healthy habits Suggestion to cultivate deep, meaningful relationships with other men Conclusion and encouragement to embrace masculinity and live a fulfilling life.

Positive vs Negative Motivation https://youtu.be/blI9D8ZeC38 Positive and negative motivation Negative motivation gets results, but can only take you so far Negative motivation is avoiding pain or discomfort Positive motivation is being drawn to something, moving towards something fulfilling Examples of positive motivation: passion for art, desire for physical fitness, desire to contribute and provide value, enjoyment of hobbies or activities, desire for personal growth Positive motivation is more sustainable and leads to lasting change Negative motivation can lead to short-term results, but can also lead to burnout, resentment, and a lack of fulfillment Positive motivation leads to happiness and fulfillment Importance of finding and cultivating positive motivation in your life Motivation driven by avoiding pain or discomfort is not as effective as motivation driven by a positive vision or goal Negative motivation leads to demotivation as the gap between the current situation and the goal narrows, whereas positive motivation leads to increasing excitement and motivation as the gap closes Positive motivation allows for unlimited potential and leads to ongoing growth and expansion Great achievements, like building the pyramids or starting innovative companies, require a positive motivation and drive to pursue a vision Transitioning from negative to positive motivation requires setting a clear vision that aligns with values and inspires motivation Positive motivation leads to ongoing progress and expansion of the vision Introduction to the concept of the "yo yo effect" in weight maintenance Personal story of losing 65 pounds in 5 months, driven by a positive vision of being fit and healthy Struggling to maintain weight after reaching target weight of 170 pounds Falling back into unhealthy habits and seeing weight fluctuate up and down Negative motivation kicks in when weight goes up, leading to dieting and exercise to bring weight back down Realization that maintaining weight requires consistent effort, not just reacting to fluctuations Need to establish a sustainable routine and mindset to maintain weight long-term Conclusion that the "yo yo effect" can be avoided by finding a positive, sustainable approach to weight maintenance. Going to the gym and exercising can be motivated by a fear of premature death This can lead to a constant struggle and difficulty in maintaining healthy habits It is important to shift the motivation for healthy habits to a positive vision, such as feeling healthy and full of energy This positive vision should be aligned with personal values and reviewed regularly Negative motivation, such as avoiding negative reactions or situations, can lead to a plateau in progress Positive motivation, such as a clear vision, can lead to overcoming plateaus and reaching new levels of success It is important to identify the motivation behind actions and consider shifting to a positive motivation It can be helpful to write out a positive vision for an area of improvement in one's life. Personal development allows individuals to become whoever they want to be Negative emotions and motivation can limit personal growth It is possible to shift from negative to positive motivation Creating a vision and focusing on desired outcomes can lead to progress Faking positivity until it becomes internalized can lead to a change in brain chemistry and the formation of a new identity Taking actions to shift towards positive motivation can lead to a better overall experience It is possible to commit to only considering desired outcomes, rather than dwelling on negative or unwanted outcomes.

How You Must Think About Failure https://youtu.be/wrOJS8sdh_0 Failure is often equated with being bad, but the alternative model is to think that failure is good Failure can be a way to gain understanding and build a mental model of how something works Focusing on success to the exclusion of failure is not realistic and can be detrimental We tend to think that failure is bad because of social conditioning and fear of failure Failure can lead to learning and growth, and can be a necessary step on the path to success It is important to embrace and learn from failure rather than trying to avoid it Successful people often attribute their success to their failures and the lessons they learned from them To shift your mindset about failure, it can be helpful to reframe your thinking, accept and embrace failure, and take action to learn from it Failure can be beneficial because it can help you develop a more robust understanding and improve your problem-solving skills When you fail, you can learn about the properties and characteristics of different materials or techniques Even if a project or experiment doesn't work out, the knowledge gained can be applied to other areas or future projects Failure can also build emotional leverage and motivate you to try harder or approach a problem differently When you experience repeated failures, you may start to dig deeper and identify underlying issues or beliefs that are hindering your progress Emotional leverage from failure can be a turning point and lead to significant changes or improvements in your life It's important to recognize that failure is a normal and necessary part of the learning and growth process Instead of avoiding or fearing failure, it's helpful to reframe your perspective and view failure as a valuable opportunity for learning and growth To make the most of failure, it's important to reflect on what happened and try to identify what can be learned from the experience It's also helpful to have a growth mindset, which means seeing challenges and failures as opportunities for growth and development, rather than fixed limitations or setbacks. Exploring and trying new things can lead to unexpected success Making mistakes and adjusting based on them is important for growth Thinking long-term and having a broad understanding leads to robust success Starting multiple businesses and trying different industries can lead to a deeper understanding of what works Focusing on becoming a good entrepreneur or businessman, rather than just one successful business, can lead to more sustainable success Even if you luck out and have initial success in one business, it may not be as fulfilling as having a deeper understanding and multiple successes It's important to be flexible and open to change in order to adapt and grow in business Having an explorer mindset allows you to be open to new opportunities and ideas, rather than being closed minded and only seeing what confirms or denies your existing beliefs Reference experiences are emotionally charged events from the past that shape future behavior and decision-making Hard-won lessons and reference experiences can come from severe events such as near-death experiences or regretful actions in relationships The more reference experiences a person has, the more successful they are likely to be Proactively seeking reference experiences, especially those specific to a skill or goal, can be valuable for learning and growth However, it can be difficult to internalize the mindset of actively seeking failure or reference experiences Personal development and awareness can help with this mindset shift Failing on purpose can involve setting aside time and resources to try new things, experiment, and learn from mistakes It is important to recognize and manage fear of failure or fear of making decisions Seeking guidance and mentorship from others can also be helpful in proactively seeking reference experiences Building up a tolerance for risk and discomfort can also be beneficial in seeking reference experiences and failing on purpose Failing on purpose can ultimately lead to more success and resilience in the long run