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How To Unleash Your Ambition - Must-Watch For Ambitious People https://youtu.be/QkS1XKAoNqY The theme of the video is how to unleash and realize your ambition The speaker's personal struggle with taking their ambition and turning it into something tangible in the real world The importance of being ambitious and playing big in society The challenges of turning ambition into a reality, including practical considerations such as knowledge, skills, and resources The speaker's experience in their first job and noticing a difference in ambition among their coworkers The idea that society often discourages ambition and promotes mediocrity The importance of finding like-minded people to support and encourage your ambition The need to be proactive in turning your ambition into reality, rather than waiting for opportunities to come to you The importance of having a clear and specific vision for what you want to accomplish Tips for taking action on your ambition, including setting goals, taking small steps, and learning from failure. The speaker is discussing the importance of taking risks and being ambitious The speaker encourages the listener to stop waiting for permission and to stop being modest about their ideas The speaker advises the listener to go their own way and not be limited by the "corporate system" The speaker emphasizes that pursuing their goals will not be easy and will require a fight The speaker advises the listener to share their gifts with the world and to position themselves to do so The speaker acknowledges that the specific actions required to achieve this will vary for each person, but encourages the listener to focus on this abstract idea. The speaker is discussing how to take abstract ideas and turn them into action The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-sufficiency and a strong mindset in pursuing goals The speaker talks about the principles that can help develop these qualities, which may not be taught in traditional systems The speaker encourages the listener to make the choice to pursue their goals and to work towards achieving their full potential The speaker mentions a course that can help with this process and provides links for more information The speaker concludes by encouraging the listener to share the video and to leave comments.
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How To Create Your Dream Career - The Ultimate Life Purpose Course https://youtu.be/QtUxnmneK50 The speaker tells a story about a woman who was naturally talented in art and music but didn't pursue her passions because she got married, had kids, and had to get a regular job After her marriage broke apart, she struggled to find a fulfilling job and ended up working in low-paying, meaningless retail jobs She becomes bitter and frustrated at her lack of recognition and feeling stuck in her career The speaker suggests that the woman's lack of psychological tools and understanding of victim psychology is holding her back from pursuing her dreams The speaker promotes a course on finding and pursuing one's life purpose to help people overcome this issue The course covers topics such as discovering one's passions, setting goals, and building a career around those passions The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking action and not waiting for a "magic cure" to solve career issues Speaker has been searching for their passion and life purpose from a young age Initially thought they found it in a video game design career, but quickly discovered it was not aligned with their values Tried starting a business, but it was the wrong business for them Tried other business ideas, but they were also dead ends Started learning from books, seminars, smart people, coaching, and training to see patterns and common mistakes in finding one's passion and purpose Discovered that living congruently aligned with one's values and strengths leads to a sense of gratitude and a beautiful, joyous life Few people live this way and are often miserable and frustrated Speaker is offering a course to help others discover their passion and purpose, which includes more information than they could share in one-on-one coaching sessions The course includes video lectures, exercises, and a community forum Speaker has a limited time offer for the course The course includes exercises, worksheets, and guided visualizations to work with the subconscious mind The course is practical, not just theoretical It is available online and can be streamed through a web browser The course is a paid course because of the effort that went into developing it The course is affordable and will be worth the investment It is not a magic pill and requires time and effort to work The course aims to help individuals live their passion The course includes 90 videos The course will be updated and improvements will be made for free for those who sign up The course will be worth hundreds of times more than the cost in terms of shaping the trajectory of an individual's life The course is better than investing in stocks The course will be worth it for those who are serious about living a powerful life
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Science vs Religion - The Absurdity Revealed! https://youtu.be/wh5hAUP68d8 Introduction to the topic of science versus religion Mention of a book called "A Universe from Nothing" by Lawrence Krauss, which discusses the potential origins of the universe and attempts to reconcile scientific and religious viewpoints Introduction to the concept of the "pre rational post rational fallacy," as identified by Ken Wilber, which occurs when pre-rational and post-rational thinking are conflated or confused Example of Martin Seligman, a PhD and founding father of positive psychology, also struggling with the reconciliation of science and religion Discussion of the three stages of human development: pre-rational, rational, and post-rational Explanation of pre-rational thinking as being based on myth and tradition, with a focus on the collective rather than the individual Explanation of rational thinking as being based on reason and analysis, with a focus on the individual rather than the collective Explanation of post-rational thinking as being based on integration and transcendence, with a balance between the individual and the collective Discussion of the dangers of conflating post-rational thinking with pre-rational or rational thinking, and the importance of understanding the differences between the three stages Conclusion and call to action to gain a deeper understanding of spirituality and the true nature of the universe Reductionism is the belief that all phenomena can be reduced to physical matters, such as atoms and molecules Reductionism is often used to explain the mind and consciousness, but this creates a problem as science has not yet reconciled how matter and mind function together Rationality is a perspective with limitations, and other perspectives, such as religious or pre-rational thinking, also exist Research has been done on the stages of development of the human psyche, which can help to explain why people behave the way they do and how societies evolve The Graves model of psychic evolution suggests that what a person values depends on their level of development, and that human development is not just physical but also includes psychological and spiritual development The Graves model includes eight levels of development, each with its own values and worldview Understanding the Graves model can help people to understand their place in the world and how they fit into society. There is a spectrum of development for the psyche and society Each stage on the spectrum has a different perspective and understanding of the world People at lower stages may not even recognize that there are higher stages Moving from one stage to the next involves fully integrating and transcending the current stage This process of evolution through stages can be seen throughout human history in various conflicts and struggles When people reach the yellow stage, they gain a new level of self-consciousness and can understand the model and conflicts between stages This model can be used to understand where individuals and societies are on the spectrum and can guide personal and social evolution to higher stages This model can also be used to understand and resolve conflicts between people and societies at different stages Reality is all of existence and is subjective to the individual experiencing it Developing consciousness and understanding reality is difficult and requires passing through various stages The "pre rational post rational fallacy" occurs when a person ignores or denies the post rational stages of understanding reality This fallacy is committed by those who value rationality and cling to it, and can be observed in debates between religious and atheist individuals Both sides may be dogmatic in their beliefs and try to spread their beliefs to others, confusing their beliefs or "maps" of reality for the actual reality or "territory" Ego and self image may be threatened when confronted with ideas that challenge one's beliefs, leading to a defensive reaction and projection of negative traits onto others Dogmatism and the need to win arguments through "lawyering" (manipulating words and information) can create tension and fear in the body To avoid committing the pre rational post rational fallacy, it is important to be aware of and transcend one's ego and attachment to beliefs and models of reality. The rational mind often misconstrues higher spiritual truths because they are beyond current awareness Awareness is the biggest bottleneck in life because everything that is called life has to come through it The Pythagorean Theorem is an analogy for understanding higher spiritual truths: it requires learning and understanding math to grasp the concept, just like it requires personal growth and evolution to understand spiritual truths Many people have had insights into higher spiritual truths, but it requires effort and openness to reach that level of understanding It may take serious introspection, contemplation, and meditation to reach the highest stages of enlightenment, where the distinction between the self and reality is removed This work is difficult and scary, and life is designed to prevent people from doing it The ego is afraid of this work because it means letting go of the "lie" that is the self as it is currently understood
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How To Meditate Deeper https://youtu.be/FRUeG9wOaCs Leo from actualized.org discusses how to meditate deeper Provides three phases/stages for meditation, starting with beginner techniques and moving to more advanced techniques Stage 1: Simple observation - sit in a meditative posture and allow everything to happen, just observe it without trying to control it Stage 2: Focused attention - choose a specific object or concept to focus on and bring your mind back to it when it wanders Stage 3: Open monitoring - observe everything that arises in your mind without attachment or judgment Discusses common problems that people have when meditating, including wanting to control their mind and getting frustrated Gives a schedule for how to meditate Stage 3 of meditation involves focusing on the fact that content is arising and trying to maintain awareness without getting sucked into the content It is normal for the mind to wander off course, and when this happens, bring the focus back to awareness Over time and with practice, this discipline will improve While meditating, one can also consider the question of what awareness is, but not try to logically think through it Common mistakes in meditation include: feeling panicked or frustrated when unable to control thoughts, expecting meditation to be calm and peaceful, not using a timer, and getting caught up in trying to control the breath To avoid these mistakes, leave the possibility open that thoughts cannot be controlled, expect meditation to be frustrating at first, use a timer and keep it out of sight, and let the breath control itself
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How To Stop Being A Workaholic https://youtu.be/TyDoJThWvAw Introduction to the topic of workaholism and confession of being a workaholic Definition of workaholism: working over 8 hours a day and 40 hours a week, taking work personally, working weekends and holidays, not taking vacations Problems with workaholism: creates needless suffering, creativity suffers, risk of burnout, health problems, prevents self-actualization and personal development, neglects relationships and outside interests Causes of workaholism: fear of failure, fear of not being good enough, fear of rejection, lack of meaning in life, perfectionism, lack of boundaries, cultural expectations Steps to overcome workaholism: identifying and acknowledging the problem, setting boundaries, finding meaning and purpose in life, learning to relax and enjoy leisure time, seeking support from others, seeking therapy if necessary Nobel Prize can be a symbol of recognition for work or achievement Recognition and accomplishment may not ultimately matter because everything will eventually be destroyed Motivation for work may be driven by a desire to express oneself or to fill an internal void or sense of worthlessness Ego tries to create a sense of self by pretending to be something, but it is actually a void Suggestion to confront the fact that life is meaningless and get comfortable with the idea Doing this can lead to a sense of freedom and a more authentic life The point is not to stop working or being ambitious, but to understand the motivations behind one's actions The goal is to live in the present moment rather than seeking external validation or trying to avoid facing internal issues.
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How To Be A Leader - Leadership Secrets Revealed! https://youtu.be/I0GDMX6rixk Leadership is a necessary aspect of living a full life Leadership is not just for CEOs or corporate bigwigs, it is relevant for everyone, including individuals leading themselves, small business owners, people in social circles and marriages/intimate relationships, and those wanting to impact their community Modern leadership is about consensus building, not fighting for power or control Leadership starts with dissatisfaction with the status quo To be a successful leader, one must have a clear vision and be able to communicate it effectively to others A leader must also be able to inspire and motivate those around them Emotional intelligence and self-awareness are important qualities for a leader to possess A leader must be able to adapt to change and be willing to learn and grow A leader must also be able to take risks and make tough decisions Ethics and integrity are crucial for a leader to uphold It is important for a leader to be able to delegate and empower their team A leader should also strive for balance and prioritize self-care. Being a leader requires practice and development A leader's job is to create and champion a vision, and act as a pillar in times of chaos Being a leader involves balancing competing responsibilities and staying outside of one's comfort zone All leadership begins with self-leadership, which involves managing fears, self-talk, and influences, and studying systems and niche-specific knowledge Eben Pagan's 8 key roles of a leader include: visionary, aligner, conflict resolver, creator, motivator, conscious role model, decision-maker, and servant leader A leader needs to know their own strengths and weaknesses and be able to delegate tasks appropriately A leader needs to be able to communicate effectively and foster a positive team culture The speaker wants to help the audience find a cause worth fighting for The speaker references the hero's journey concept from Joseph Campbell Most people are living shallow, petty lives and are wasting their one opportunity in life The speaker encourages the audience to find something outside themselves to live for and to work on developing themselves The ultimate goal is to become a fully realized leader who can make change in the world The speaker compares this journey to climbing a mountain and achieving a God's eye view of the world The journey involves conquering oneself and achieving a high level of consciousness The speaker encourages the audience to take on the hero's journey and make their lives meaningful.
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How To Become Enlightened - The Exact Step By Step Process Revealed! https://youtu.be/GfqLdOgoB98 Introduction to the topic of enlightenment Definition of enlightenment: not an entity inside the body, but the field of awareness itself Warning against taking enlightenment as a philosophy or belief system Objective: to attain enlightenment as fast as possible Overview of the process of enlightenment: disidentification, purification, realization Step 1: disidentification: breaking the illusion of being a separate self Step 2: purification: removing psychological blockages and negative patterns Step 3: realization: achieving the direct experience of enlightenment Importance of a guru or mentor in the enlightenment process Importance of consistency and discipline in following the process Recap of the steps to enlightenment: disidentification, purification, realization The speaker believes that there is a point "behind the eyes between the ears back there somewhere" that is the convergence of all sensations The listener must go inside themselves and find this point for themselves to see the truth of what the speaker is saying To find this point, the listener should ask themselves three key questions: Who is aware? Who is perceiving? Who am I? The answer to these questions is not a logical answer, but an experience of the listener's true existential being The "voice," or internal dialogue in the listener's mind, will try to supply a ready-made logical answer to these questions, but the voice is not the listener's true self The listener should become aware of the fact that they are not their thoughts, and instead observe their thoughts as they occur The ultimate goal is to become aware of the thing that the listener actually is, not to think or philosophize about it This process takes time and effort, but if the listener persists, they will eventually have a direct experience of their true nature The speaker introduces the concept of "looking," which is a more focused form of meditation There is a distinction between thinking and looking, with thinking being more familiar and looking being the application of pure awareness to a situation through observation Thoughts are tricky and can be compared to a movie, with both a reality and a story or content that can absorb a person The speaker asks the listener to close their eyes and think about having $1 million in their bank account, then asks if that thought is reality or a story The idea is to become aware of the difference between thoughts and reality and to observe thoughts without getting lost in them The speaker suggests that the listener try this exercise with various thoughts and to notice when they get lost in a thought story The point is to become more aware and present in the moment, rather than getting lost in thought stories This can lead to a deeper understanding of the nature of thoughts and the self The speaker tells the listener that everything they are saying is not the truth with a capital T The value of the speaker's words is to help the listener discover the truth for themselves Scientific and religious explanations will not help and will actually hurt the listener's progress The speaker advises the listener to forget about concepts such as the Big Bang Theory, string theory, quarks, atoms, molecules, chemistry, evolutionary theory, God, the soul, spirits, heaven and hell, energy, and love The speaker cautions the listener against trying to conceptualize enlightenment or themselves, as it is not possible The speaker compares the listener's attempts to understand enlightenment to a dog trying to learn calculus To advance past this limited understanding, the listener must raise awareness by looking and observing, not by thinking The speaker advises the listener to observe their thoughts and emotions without getting caught up in them The goal is to see that thoughts and emotions are just transient experiences, not the truth with a capital T The speaker advises the listener to practice non-attachment and surrender The speaker advises the listener to be in the present moment and to let go of their ego The speaker advises the listener to let go of their idea of a self The speaker advises the listener to not get caught up in spiritual practices or enlightenment techniques The speaker advises the listener to not get caught up in ideas about past lives or future lives The speaker advises the listener to not get caught up in trying to control their thoughts or emotions The speaker advises the listener to just be and to let go of all their ideas and beliefs
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How To Stop Backsliding - How To Stop Procrastinating https://youtu.be/rBq-EPieRwU The concept of homeostasis is the reason why people keep backsliding in their lives Backsliding is when you try to make a change in your life and it initially works, but eventually you return to your old ways This process can be frustrating and make people pessimistic about their ability to create change in their lives George Leonard's book "Mastery" discusses homeostasis and offers solutions for dealing with backsliding Homeostasis is the place that a system likes to gravitate towards and stay at because it is the safest place for it to be Homeostasis occurs in the body in the form of various processes that keep the body's systems in balance, such as regulating body temperature, pH, and blood sugar levels Homeostasis also occurs in our thoughts and behaviors, as we tend to gravitate towards habits and patterns that are familiar and comfortable, even if they are not healthy or productive To stop backsliding and create lasting change, it is necessary to push beyond homeostasis and create new habits and patterns that become the new normal This can be achieved through consistent and persistent effort, as well as by finding support and accountability in others There is a concept called homeostasis that applies to various systems, including government and nonprofit organizations Homeostasis can be both positive and negative It is important to be aware of homeostasis when trying to make changes in order to increase the chances of success Set realistic and pragmatic expectations for oneself and be prepared for resistance from the mind, body, and others when trying to make a change Use visualization and affirmations to help overcome resistance and stay motivated Find a support system to help keep you accountable and motivated Take small, incremental steps towards the desired change rather than trying to make a drastic shift all at once Celebrate small victories and accomplishments along the way to maintain motivation and momentum Be willing to adapt and make adjustments as needed to stay on track and achieve the desired change. The speaker recommends 100% commitment to a habit, even if it is difficult or inconvenient Failing at a task or habit can make it easier to try again in the future People often overestimate how many times they have tried to make a change or accomplish a goal One powerful change can make a significant impact on a person's life Choosing the right habit to focus on is important The benefits of a consistent meditation practice can be life-changing Telling someone about the benefits of a habit does not necessarily motivate them to start the habit It is important to find personal motivation for building a habit The speaker has had success sticking to their daily meditation practice and recommends it to others.
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Feminine vs Masculine Compassion https://youtu.be/IUO8J-igiuE Introduction to the concept of feminine vs masculine compassion Story of the mother horse and baby horse as an illustration of the two sides of compassion Feminine compassion as soft and hopeful, masculine compassion as harsh and realistic Personal examples of understanding when to use each approach in helping others Importance of judgment and wisdom in determining the appropriate approach The importance of balance between the two approaches in compassion Conclusion reiterating the value of both feminine and masculine compassion and the need to find balance between the two Compassion comes from expanding one's field of awareness Enlightenment experience involves total expansion of awareness Compassion for everything, not just due to moral standards Identification with all of nature, humanity, animals, etc. leads to different treatment of physical objects True compassion comes from feeling what others are going through as if it happened to oneself Higher states of consciousness can be pursued and experienced Low consciousness assumes that it is all there is Exploration and experimentation with higher consciousness can lead to realization of a vast ocean of consciousness to expand into
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Understanding Emotions - Part 1 https://youtu.be/0j7dwG1cXc4 In this video, the speaker is discussing the importance of mastering and understanding emotions Many people have poor emotional vocabulary and are unaware of how emotions function in their lives The speaker is focusing on the concept of emotional intelligence (EQ) and how it relates to success and fulfillment Emotions play a major role in shaping a person's behaviors and can lead to problematic behavior loops Many people are not able to properly identify and label emotions, or understand the messages behind them Part two of this series will focus on understanding the messages behind common emotions People may struggle to get coaching or therapy because they cannot express their emotions effectively The speaker will be covering various techniques for improving emotional intelligence and understanding emotions in this series. Introduction to exploring and identifying different emotions First emotion category: apathy Emotions within this category include: depression, defeat, boredom, and laziness Second emotion category: grief Emotions within this category include: sadness, hurt, betrayal, disappointment, and guilt Third emotion category: fear Emotions within this category include: anxious, nervous, scared, terrified, and panic Fourth emotion category: anger Emotions within this category include: mad, irritated, frustrated, and rage Fifth emotion category: acceptance Emotions within this category include: content, satisfied, and grateful Encouragement to take time to fully experience and identify each emotion, practice mindfulness Emotions are important and valuable because they give us information about ourselves and the world around us Emotions can change and evolve over time It is important to practice being present with and understanding our emotions in order to better manage and regulate them Emotions serve as a baseline operating system that keep us alive and reproducing Negative emotions are strong and well-tuned to survival If the goal is simply to survive and reproduce, relying on emotions is sufficient However, if the goal is to thrive and achieve fulfillment and happiness, it may be necessary to "unwire" severe negative emotional reactions and build healthier, conscious reactions Transitioning from lower-level emotions like depression, anger, and fear to higher-level emotions like peace, acceptance, creativity, confidence, and security can lead to greater happiness and fulfillment Ultimately, what people really want is peace, acceptance, and wholeness, rather than material possessions or external accomplishments Recognizing this and charting a more direct course in life towards these emotions can lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying life.
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How To Have Amazing Sex - Part 2 - Increasing Intimacy & Dominance https://youtu.be/325ka9OLMlo Tips for increasing intimacy in the bedroom Focus on emotional connection rather than mechanics of sex Emphasize tenderness and vulnerability Make eye contact and use affectionate touch Talk about fantasies and desires openly Practice deep intimacy techniques such as tantric sex or the "Intimacy Game" Use positive reinforcement to create a safe and supportive environment Tips for increasing dominance in the bedroom Set boundaries and communicate openly about desires and limits Take control of the sexual experience and lead your partner Use physical touch to assert dominance, such as pinning down or restraining your partner Use dirty talk and verbal commands to assert dominance Experiment with role play and power dynamics Practice assertiveness and confidence in daily life to carry over into the bedroom Intimacy can be increased through subtle actions and behaviors Missionary position is intimate because of eye contact, physical contact, and the ability to whisper in each other's ears Saying "I love you" during sex can increase intimacy Having sex without condoms and coming inside a partner can increase intimacy Holding and cuddling with a partner after sex can increase intimacy Learning how to make a partner squirt can increase intimacy Dominance in a relationship can be a turn-on for some people Being dominant in bed can involve taking control, being assertive, and knowing what a partner wants Asking for consent and respecting boundaries is important in maintaining a healthy dynamic of dominance in a relationship Making a partner orgasm multiple times can be a form of dominance Using dirty talk and telling a partner what to do can be a form of dominance Role-playing can involve acts of dominance Giving and receiving rough sex can be a form of dominance Using restraints and tie-ups can be a form of dominance in the bedroom Restraining hands above the head or behind the back while engaging in sexual activities Ripping off panties in a non-harmful way Tying up using neckties or tying to a bed or door Slamming body against a wall or door with caution Spanking or slapping the buttocks during sexual activity Choking or holding the throat during sexual activity Using blindfolds or masks to restrict vision Role-playing or acting out power dynamics or fantasies Verbal commands or dirty talk during sexual activity Using props or toys such as handcuffs or paddles during sexual activity. Tips for being dominant in the bedroom Importance of creating a "sweet and sour combo" of intimate and dominant behaviors Variety, surprise, and adventure are key to keeping sex exciting Basic formula for sex can be customized and varied Responsibility of the man to lead and set the pace in the bedroom Importance of communication with partner Experimentation and trying new things is encouraged Advice to not try everything at once and to spread out trying new things Reminder to always prioritize and respect partner's boundaries and consent
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All Of Religion Explained In One Video https://youtu.be/X_xZcD4veGc Introduction to the topic of religion and the speaker's personal perspective on the subject The speaker's background in philosophy, personal development, and consciousness The speaker's recent attendance at an enlightenment workshop The speaker's curiosity about religion, including how it can have such a strong hold on culture and society despite being seemingly unsupported by science The speaker's warning that the video may not be well-received by rationally-minded individuals The speaker's intention to not defend religion, but to ultimately encourage dropping religious beliefs The idea that religions are not necessarily wrong, but that they may not be complete or fully understood The importance of exploring personal experiences and consciousness in understanding religion The speaker's belief that enlightenment is the ultimate goal of religion, and that religions are essentially paths towards enlightenment The concept of God and how it has been understood and described in various religions The idea that religions may be attempting to describe the same ultimate reality or truth, but using different language and symbolism The possibility that religions may have evolved or changed over time The speaker's suggestion that it is important to question and critically examine one's own beliefs, including religious beliefs The importance of finding and living one's own truth, rather than blindly adhering to religious doctrine Conclusion and invitation to continue the discussion on the topic. The sense of self is an illusion It is possible to "jailbreak" the mind from the brain and discover the true self, which is nothingness This realization is called enlightenment Existence arises from nothingness, and this nothingness is also referred to as God Other people are also nothingness, and therefore identical to the self at an existential level The absolute truth is that existence arises from nothingness There are multiple levels of enlightenment that can be experienced After enlightenment, the ego and the sense of self may still exist, but they are seen through and no longer identified with Enlightenment allows for a deeper understanding and connection with the world and others The process of enlightenment involves letting go of attachments and desires The ultimate goal of enlightenment is liberation from suffering. The concept of the psyche and the subconscious mind is relatively new In the past, people used mythology and storytelling to explain the concept of "no self" Some people (mystics, yogis, sages, etc.) were able to achieve enlightenment and see the truth of "no self" There was no reliable process for helping others achieve enlightenment To share the truth of "no self," it had to be tailored to the culture and era in which it was discovered Religion tries to explain the truth of "no self" in a way that is palatable to the limited minds of dogmatic and close-minded people There are many different religions and each one explains the truth of "no self" in a different way The ultimate goal of religion is to help people achieve enlightenment and see the truth of "no self" The truth of "no self" is universal, but the way it is explained and understood may differ from culture to culture Hell refers to one's current existence and identification with their body, which leads to suffering Heaven is the disidentification with the body and becoming absolute nothingness, in which nothing can harm you and nothingness exists forever Faith is the ability to open one's mind to the third possibility and the willingness to take a leap of faith to experience it directly Good and evil are relative and metaphorical terms, with good being selfless actions and evil being selfish actions and identification with the ego The afterlife is understanding the absolute truth of nothingness and being untouchable Salvation is being saved from one's wicked state and understanding the truth of one's being Enlightenment is the realization of the truth of one's being and understanding that everything is interconnected and one is everything Karma is the concept that actions have consequences, both positive and negative, and that one reaps what they sow The ego is the identification with the body and mind and the belief in separation from everything else The self is the realization of one's true being as interconnected and everything, beyond the ego and identification with the body and mind
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Enlightenment FAQ - Part 2 https://youtu.be/wmGWDBUNuts Leo introduces the second part of the enlightenment FAQ series The purpose of the series is to answer common questions about spiritual enlightenment and dispel myths and misconceptions One important question is: What are the benefits of enlightenment? Some benefits of enlightenment include: breaking free of mental prison, achieving a deep and meaningful tranquility, and gaining a deeper understanding of reality and truth While enlightenment does not guarantee constant happiness, it allows for a different relationship to emotions so that they do not cause suffering Other benefits include relief from self-image problems, an increase in creativity and intelligence, and improved relationships with others It is important to note that enlightenment is not a one-time event, but a continuous process of growth and self-discovery Another question is: How do I know if I'm enlightened? There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question as enlightenment experiences can vary greatly Some common signs of enlightenment include a shift in perspective, an increase in self-awareness and self-realization, and a feeling of unity with all things It is important to be cautious of seeking enlightenment for egoistic or superficial reasons, as true enlightenment involves letting go of the ego It is also important to not get attached to the idea of enlightenment or to the labels and identities associated with it The journey towards enlightenment involves a lot of hard work and dedication, but the rewards are well worth it. It is important to evaluate which goals in life are authentic and which are not Going to the gym may be an example of a goal that is not authentic, as it may be motivated by the desire to uphold a certain self-image Enlightenment is not dangerous, but the egoic paradigm is the source of all evil in the world The process of enlightenment involves letting go of the belief in the self and the need to be defended, which can be threatening to traditional worldviews and cultural assumptions However, this process leads to the silencing of monkey chatter and a state of calm and present happiness, making the individual the least dangerous to themselves and others The journey towards enlightenment involves a lot of hard work and dedication, but the rewards are well worth it. Enlightenment experiences can be induced through the use of drugs or meditation, but these experiences are temporary and do not lead to permanent enlightenment Permanent enlightenment involves the complete removal of clouds and the constant presence of light, and can be achieved through dedicated work and practice It is important to continue working towards enlightenment even after having temporary enlightenment experiences through drugs or meditation Enlightenment does not necessarily lead to a detachment from friends and family, as the individual's relationships may change and evolve in new and positive ways It is important to let go of the ego and attachments in order to achieve enlightenment, but this does not mean abandoning one's values or relationships The journey towards enlightenment involves a lot of hard work and dedication, but the rewards are well worth it. It is important to evaluate one's own level of development and whether or not the pursuit of enlightenment is necessary for them at this point in their life The speaker is not yet fully enlightened, but has been on the journey for a couple of years and can share valuable insights and experiences from the early stages of the process It is important to recognize that enlightenment is a long journey and there is always more to learn and discover about consciousness The speaker is a normal person who can be easily identified with, and is not a guru or spiritual leader The journey towards enlightenment involves a lot of hard work and dedication, but the rewards are well worth it.
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Enlightenment FAQ - Part 1 - All Your Questions Answered https://youtu.be/H0GbcGMar_E Introduction to the series of videos discussing spiritual alignment and enlightenment The importance of understanding the journey and implications of pursuing spiritual alignment The concept that understanding the truth of no self intellectually does not equate to actually experiencing it The difference between understanding the concept of spiritual enlightenment and actually living it The process of achieving spiritual enlightenment involves personal exploration and inner work The concept of ego death and how it relates to spiritual enlightenment The idea that spiritual enlightenment is a journey, not a destination The potential challenges and difficulties that may arise during the process of spiritual enlightenment The importance of finding a teacher or mentor to guide the process of spiritual enlightenment The idea that spiritual enlightenment is not a one-size-fits-all experience and may look different for different people The role of spiritual practices, such as meditation and self-inquiry, in the process of spiritual enlightenment The concept of awakening and how it relates to spiritual enlightenment The potential benefits of achieving spiritual enlightenment, including increased awareness and understanding of the true nature of reality. The speaker has to be careful about what they say in their enlightenment videos to avoid being thought of as a philosophy, theory, or religion The ego tends to theorize about reality rather than simply observing it objectively The process of enlightenment involves removing filters, beliefs, and preconceived notions about reality so that one can "melt into reality" and become reality itself Nihilism is not enlightenment because nihilism is a philosophical system that suggests life is pointless and everything is neutral and meaningless, while enlightenment is a realization that life has no meaning, but this is a positive and beautiful realization The speaker's story is just one way of communicating the idea of enlightenment, and the goal is not for the listener to accept their story but to understand the concept they are trying to hint at through the story Enlightenment involves breaking free from the mental prison of thought and observing reality directly, beyond the limitations of language and thought The speaker is not trying to convince the listener of anything, but rather pointing them in the direction of enlightenment so that they can discover it for themselves. The concept of the ego and its need for a sense of purpose The idea that life has no inherent meaning or purpose The potential negative reaction to this concept, including the desire to end one's own life The concept of the self being an illusion and the idea that there is no self to kill The pointlessness of various human endeavors and actions in the grand scheme of things The idea that accepting the meaninglessness of life can be a positive and freeing experience The ego's resistance to accepting this truth and its desire to maintain the illusion of the self The ultimate futility of all existence in the long run, according to various models of reality. Santa Claus not responsible for Christmas gifts Good things in life not created by individual Enlightenment may affect motivation levels Enlightenment clears away neurotic sense of obligation to certain things in life False motivations may disappear with enlightenment Motivation levels may shift regardless of enlightenment Enlightenment does not necessarily contradict self-actualization or self-help Enlightenment does not mean the end of personal growth or self-improvement Individual's true self will continue to evolve and grow even after enlightenment
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Enlightenment - Part 3 - Creating An Experience Of No-Self https://youtu.be/NXd8ojx_jOY Introduction to spiritual enlightenment and the concept of no self Explanation that no self is an empirical fact that can be experienced, not just a philosophy or theory The objective of the video is to guide the viewer through a meditation to experience a taste of no self Recap of previous videos: no self is the illusion of the mind that is the root of all personal problems Emphasis on the importance of experiencing no self, rather than just believing in it Introduction of the principle that only what exists in the present moment is real Explanation that the sense of self is created by the mind, through thoughts and memories Guidance on how to let go of thoughts and focus on the present moment during the meditation Begin the meditation, focusing on the present moment and letting go of thoughts about the past or future Conclusion and encouragement to continue practicing the meditation to further experience no self. Introduction to meditation process Mention of inspiration from Peter Ralston Instructions for finding a comfortable seated position and closing eyes Suggestion to relax and focus on present moment sensations Idea of accepting the present moment as it is, letting go of worries Focus on physical sensations in the body, starting with feet and working up Notice thoughts and emotions as they arise, but do not get caught up in them Begin to focus on breath, noticing the sensation of it moving in and out of the body Allow the breath to be the main focus of attention, letting go of other thoughts and sensations After a while, begin to expand awareness to include the whole body, then the room or environment End with a return to the present moment and a sense of gratitude. The concept of "free-floating experiences" as raw fabric of existence, occurring without an observer or experiencing entity The idea that a person is not a particular aspect of their experiences (e.g. body, mind), but the entirety of the raw sensations being felt at the moment Stripping away all personal possessions, relationships, cultural influences, and self-image to explore the most fundamental and essential nature of the self The importance of accepting and being present with raw experience, without any filters or assumptions The possibility of feeling calm, peaceful, and happy simply by existing and being present in the present moment, without needing anything else The idea that mere existence may be enough to bring happiness, and that enlightenment is not necessarily required The suggestion to continue exploring this concept and to continue practicing being present with raw experience.
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How To Have Amazing Sex (For Women) - Drive Your Man Wild In Bed https://youtu.be/B2OlnBbXI8U How to have amazing sex for women Importance of sex for a strong relationship Men are "dirty sexual" creatures Women's role in the bedroom is to be feminine, girly, dirty, and surrendering Man is responsible for most of what happens in the bedroom, woman is responsible for about 10-20% Feminine and masculine dynamics create exciting, passionate sex Good nutrition and exercise important for woman's sex drive Having a positive attitude and being confident in bed Being open and adventurous in trying new things Communication with partner about desires and boundaries Paying attention to nonverbal cues and responding to them Techniques for oral sex and hand stimulation Using dirty talk and role play Using props and costumes to spice things up Importance of aftercare and cuddling after sex The speaker is encouraging people to be more open and adventurous in their sexual relationships Ways to be more open and adventurous include: Pushing one's own sexual comfort zone and trying new things Being open and playful with one's partner Initiating sex and being more active and assertive in the bedroom Using one's hands and voice in a sensual and seductive way Being open to exploring different positions and role-playing Incorporating toys, porn, and other forms of media into the sexual experience Being open to exploring different locations for sex, such as outdoors or in public Being open to trying new activities, such as BDSM or threesomes Being open to exploring one's own desires and communicating them to one's partner Men cannot hide their frustration when they do not orgasm during sex Women can be satisfied without orgasming, but this is not the case for men There are various reasons why a man might not orgasm during sex, including anxiety about performance or condom use It is important for a woman to be patient with her partner and try to help him orgasm, such as by taking a break or giving him oral sex Being more "feisty and active" in the bedroom can help a man orgasm A man might want to give a woman multiple orgasms and may want to try making her squirt Squirting can be a bonding and intimate experience and can also be seen as sexy and dirty A woman should communicate with her partner and be open to trying new things in the bedroom It is important for a woman to feel confident and sexy in the bedroom, which can help a man orgasm A woman should also be open to trying new positions and trying out different techniques, such as edging, to help her partner orgasm.
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The Secret Curse Of Being Human + Bonus A True Spiritual Exercise! https://youtu.be/Umt4ocxvnw0 The speaker, Leo, discusses the regret that many people have at the end of their lives: not stopping to enjoy and appreciate life He relates a personal experience of not noticing the beauty around him until he specifically focused on it He refers to this as the "grand illusion" or "curse of being human" Leo mentions working with a client who is struggling in her marriage and has a strong desire for love and intimacy in a relationship Leo and the client discover that the key to having a healthy, powerful relationship is to let go of the need to have a relationship at all and genuinely be happy without one The client asks if this means she should end her current relationship, and Leo advises her to try to find a way to genuinely let go of the need for the relationship rather than simply ending it Leo suggests that this concept of not needing anything to be happy applies to all aspects of life, not just relationships He advises viewers to try a spiritual exercise to help them let go of the need for certain things and find happiness within themselves The exercise involves focusing on one thing that the viewer feels they need in their life and trying to let go of that need, noticing any emotions or thoughts that come up and letting them pass Leo emphasizes the importance of practicing this exercise regularly in order to truly let go of the need for external things and find true happiness within oneself The idea that we need to perfect reality to be happy is a grand illusion We focus on imperfections and miss out on what is already awesome in front of us Enlightenment is simply allowing the voice in our head to be quiet and being present in the moment This changes our perspective on everything and allows us to appreciate even the simple and ugly things in life Changing our environment will not bring lasting happiness, it is our perspective that truly matters We can't win the game of trying to constantly improve our environment, but we can learn to be content with what we have Accepting reality as it is and being present in the moment allows us to be more compassionate towards others and find joy in the present moment.
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Spiritual Enlightenment - Part 2 - Understanding The Conceptualized Self https://youtu.be/IX-oeoOqaYU Introduction to concept of spiritual enlightenment Concept of "no self" as an illusion Importance of empirical investigation to understand truth of no self Three fundamental questions to consider in investigation: Who am I, What is the truth, What is reality or existence Notion that current beliefs about self are not necessarily true and may be hiding a deeper truth Importance of questioning and examining beliefs about self Three basic distinctions to consider: conceptualized self, non-conceptual self, and emptiness Conceptualized self as a construction of the mind Non-conceptual self as a more immediate, direct experience of self Emptiness as the absence of a fixed, independent self Importance of understanding emptiness and how it relates to the concept of no self Steps to take in investigating truth of no self, including introspection and mindfulness practices Importance of finding a guide or teacher to help in this process Conclusion and encouragement to continue investigating truth of no self. The speaker discusses the concept of subatomic particles and how they are tiny compared to a human being The speaker raises the question of whether the universe could be made up of many smaller universes, like a molecule within something larger The speaker discusses the problem of explaining the ultimate truth of existence and the origin of the universe The speaker introduces three distinctions made by philosopher Immanuel Kant: phenomenon (sensations of reality), noumenon (the underlying reality behind the phenomenon), and the Ding an sich (the thing in itself, the ultimate reality beyond our ability to perceive) The speaker discusses the idea that the Ding an sich is unknowable and that our understanding of reality is limited to our perceptions and understanding of the phenomenon The speaker discusses the role of consciousness in shaping our perception of reality The speaker concludes by stating that while we may not be able to fully understand the ultimate nature of reality, we can still seek to understand and explore it as much as possible within the limits of our understanding. The voice in our head (the one that talks and talks and talks) creates a web of concepts that we call reality, as well as a self-image (our ideas about ourselves and how we behave) The self-image is made up of concepts, so what is the true self? Can we break out of the self-image? Concepts may be a smokescreen that prevent us from seeing our true selves (something very real and beyond the self-image) Our identification with our body (thinking we are our body) may be conceptually constructed by the voice, and we automatically believe it without questioning it The voice can create concepts that are not true (e.g. Santa Claus, a horse with two heads), so what about our identification with our body? Could it be just as fictional as imagining ourselves on a tropical beach? When we start to understand that our identification with our body and self-image may be fictional, we may have a "Wow" moment and start to see things in a different way This new way of seeing things may bring about a feeling of peace and freedom, as we are no longer bound to the self-image and identification with the body However, the voice may resist this new understanding and try to maintain control by coming up with more concepts and stories to keep us trapped in the self-image The key is to observe the voice and not get caught up in its stories, so that we can start to see things as they really are (beyond the concepts and self-image) Mindfulness or awareness can be developed and expanded Perception and concepts exist in our understanding of the world Distinction between inner and outer world may be a concept that can be broken down If this concept is broken down, perception and things in themselves merge into one reality To see the truth and merge with it, a serious, deep disillusionment of self and life is necessary Most people are stuck in a delusion and believe the excuses of the "voice" in their head The question of the perceiver in relation to the perceived (e.g. an orange) is explored The concept of a separate self or ego may need to be dissolved This process of disillusionment and merging with the truth is difficult, but leads to a profound realization and understanding of the world This realization can be described as "enlightenment" Psychological problems stem from a false sense of self This false self is a voice that tells us we have problems and causes emotional triggers By getting rid of this false self, we can gain insight into reality and be released from our mental prison This process also involves practical personal development The possibilities of this process are profound and exciting Pursuing this process can lead to enlightenment and release from mental prison Encouraged to follow along on this journey and discover for oneself
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Paradoxes Of Personal Development https://youtu.be/oEtJcOZmxjI Introduction to the importance of embracing paradoxes in self-actualization journey Explanation of what is meant by paradoxes and how they are not a problem, but rather a helpful asset Discussion of how ego can block personal development by avoiding or rejecting contradictions The value of having a big picture understanding of reality and how it allows for creating a desired life and living a virtuous life The process of piecing together a big picture understanding, including encountering pieces that do not fit and having to set them aside until more of the puzzle is complete Examples of paradoxes in personal development, including the idea that one must first let go in order to gain, and the idea that one must embrace their flaws in order to improve The importance of using paradoxes to question and challenge one's beliefs and assumptions Conclusion emphasizing the importance of embracing paradoxes in personal development journey Contradictions in worldview may come from insecurity and the desire to feel certain Cognitive dissonance is a result of the ego and can be caused by paradoxes Building a mental model is an ongoing process and can be compared to assembling an infinite jigsaw puzzle Paradoxes do not exist in reality, but rather in language and the brain's attempts to conceptualize and model reality Reality is too complex to be simulated and can never be fully understood or modeled by the brain The brain simplifies and filters information to create a model of reality, but this model is incomplete and may contain contradictions It is important to be aware of the limitations of the brain's model of reality and to continue learning and growing in order to better understand the world.
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The Happiness Spectrum - The Best & Worst Kinds Of Happiness https://youtu.be/pxyJiN4Z2Ds The Happiness Spectrum is a video discussing different types of happiness Distinction is made between hedonic happiness (pleasure) and eudaimonic happiness (gratification) Hedonic happiness is about seeking pleasure through the senses and emotions, while eudaimonic happiness is about living a virtuous and purposeful life with higher consciousness and wisdom Personal development involves increasing the ratio of eudaimonic happiness and decreasing the ratio of hedonic happiness The Happiness Spectrum is a list of categories of happiness ranked from lowest quality to highest quality The highest quality happiness is achieved through activities that provide both pleasure and gratification Examples of activities that provide both pleasure and gratification include creativity, personal growth, relationships, and contribution to the world The lowest quality happiness comes from activities that provide only pleasure, such as drugs, overindulgence, and thrill-seeking It is important to strive for a balance between pleasure and gratification in order to achieve true happiness. People who watch a lot of TV tend to have mild depression Gossip and idle socialization can seem rewarding but are actually hollow Pursuing fame, public image, and success does not lead to internal fulfillment Seeking validation from others is a waste of time Porn and sex can be a distraction from important goals Romantic infatuation is not sustainable and can lead to addiction Hobbies and physical exercise are good for personal growth Education and learning new skills can lead to personal fulfillment Creating and producing things brings long-term satisfaction Helping others and making a positive impact in the world leads to fulfillment The greatest source of satisfaction in life comes from being present in the moment, rather than seeking stimulation from external sources such as books, personal development, or helping others Meditation is an important practice for many wise sages because it helps them be present in the moment Some of the most satisfying moments in life are moments of being, rather than doing Most people struggle to be present and fulfilled in the moment without external assistance Seeking peace and fulfillment through external sources, such as a beautiful sunset, requires effort and can be difficult The transition from seeking pleasure to seeking meaning and purpose (eudaimonia) requires an acquired taste and can be challenging due to addiction to pleasure and lack of training in mindfulness and presence Learning, education, excellent work, personal development, living with integrity, and contributing to the world can be difficult and challenging, but they lead to a sense of meaning and purpose Meditation can be one of the most difficult things to do because it requires sitting and doing nothing for an extended period of time The eudaimonic life requires effort and discipline, but it leads to a sense of peace and fulfillment that is not dependent on external circumstances.
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What To Do Next After Learning About Enlightenment https://youtu.be/PgJmngka9io Introduction to the video Purpose of the video is to address what to do next after learning about enlightenment Emotional reactions to learning about enlightenment (sadness, depression, feeling of emptiness, feeling like life is pointless) are natural and should be allowed to pass Ego's defense mechanism is to jump to assumptions and conclusions about what to do next, but these may not necessarily be accurate Consider that the speaker (Leo) could be lying or wrong about spiritual enlightenment Take time to process and understand the new information before making any major life changes Don't be rash or overreact, but also don't ignore the new information or continue living in ignorance Engage in self-inquiry and self-reflection to better understand the new information and how it fits into your life Seek guidance from trusted sources, such as a spiritual teacher or mentor Don't be afraid to take risks and step out of your comfort zone in order to grow and learn more about enlightenment Continue learning and growing, and remember that enlightenment is a journey, not a destination Don't worry about achieving enlightenment right away, focus on making positive changes in your life and living in alignment with your values and goals Understanding that your ordinary life still needs to be maintained while pursuing spiritual alignment Potential desire to improve other aspects of life, such as relationships or career The importance of addressing fundamental personal development in order to be emotionally resilient and focused on spiritual alignment The need for a stable and calm environment to pursue spiritual alignment The potential for spiritual alignment to bring about positive changes in other areas of life The importance of maintaining balance and not becoming too focused on spiritual pursuits to the detriment of other aspects of life The potential for spiritual alignment to bring about a sense of peace and inner fulfillment The idea that spiritual alignment is a journey and a process, not a destination The main takeaway from this text is that getting rid of distractions in your life can lead to enlightenment Getting rid of distractions can be healthy for you, even if you don't reach enlightenment These distractions can include things like TV, internet, and unhealthy relationships or attachments The ego may try to push back and make you want to pursue fame, money, and relationships even more after becoming aware of enlightenment This reaction may be motivated by a desire for fulfillment and significance Chasing these things may temporarily give you a sense of happiness, but it may not last and you may end up wasting time and effort Personal development work may help you realize that these things do not bring lasting happiness The ultimate goal should be inner peace and contentment, rather than external validation or material possessions To achieve this, it may be necessary to let go of ego and attachments, and embrace a more spiritual or mindful approach to life
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Spiritual Enlightenment - The Most SHOCKING Truth You'll Ever Hear https://youtu.be/Bsyplaii9p4 Spiritual enlightenment is a profound and important concept that few people understand This truth is fundamental to happiness and well-being, but it is also nuanced and delicate To understand this truth requires extraordinary open-mindedness, self honesty, and commitment The truth is not something that can be learned through a video or book, but this video will provide guidance on how to discover it for oneself The speaker will start by showing an optical illusion to demonstrate that people may not be able to see something that is right in front of them due to their limited understanding or perception The optical illusion is a spinning dancer; people may initially see the dancer spinning one way, but with practice and focus, they may be able to see the dancer spinning the other way as well This demonstrates that perception can be changed and that there may be multiple valid perspectives on a given subject The same concept applies to spiritual enlightenment; people may not initially be able to see or understand it, but with practice and an open mind, they may be able to gain a deeper understanding The speaker will then provide a definition of spiritual enlightenment and explain how it differs from more commonly understood concepts such as happiness, self-improvement, and enlightenment in Eastern religion The speaker will also discuss some common misconceptions and myths about spiritual enlightenment The journey towards spiritual enlightenment requires a commitment to self-inquiry and a willingness to challenge one's beliefs and assumptions The speaker will provide guidance on how to begin this journey, including suggestions for practices such as meditation and self-inquiry The journey towards spiritual enlightenment is not easy, but it can bring great benefits in terms of increased self-awareness, happiness, and well-being. The purpose of the text is to challenge assumptions and question mental models of reality The speaker will be discussing the concept of "you" and asking the listener to observe their emotional reactions The listener is asked to focus on the present moment, their thoughts and inner dialogue, and their sense of self as the center of their own life The speaker will then present a truth that may challenge the listener's assumptions about themselves and their reality The truth is that the sense of self and individual identity is an illusion and not a true reflection of reality The speaker will provide evidence for this claim through examples and explanations The listener is encouraged to continue the investigation and be open to the possibility that their mental models of reality may need to be dissolved in order to truly understand the nature of reality. The psyche must be constructed in a certain way to sustain one's current way of living All religions, philosophies, and schools of thought are just stories, not necessarily true Spiritual alignment involves an insight into the truth of reality This insight is not an emotional state or high, but rather a permanent realization of the truth The psyche must dissolve in order to fully understand and be the truth The true self is both nothing and everything, and this can be discovered through empirical investigation Spiritual stories often point to this truth, but can be confusing due to their use of metaphor and stories It is important to notice one's emotional reactions as this information is being processed. The idea that the picture of circles with stuff carved out of them is not actually a cube, but rather a projection of the viewer's mind The implications of believing in something that is not real and basing actions and decisions on that belief The reasons why society may not be buzzing about this idea, including groupthink, societal distractions, and the distortion of religious teachings The difficulty in understanding and communicating this truth The importance of personal investigation and exploration to understand this truth The concept of the ego and how it can obscure the truth The idea that the world is a projection of the mind and that it can be changed through understanding and changing one's own perception. Doing this work (unspecified) leads to several rewards: Access to the "ultimate truth" Lasting happiness and peace of mind Instant elimination of self-image problems Emotional mastery Improved relationships Increased abundance in all areas of life An end to suffering The ultimate truth is important for those who value it, and can be appealing to scientific, philosophical, or religious people seeking truth. True happiness cannot be achieved through external circumstances or traditional self-help methods. It requires spiritual alignment. Self-image problems and the need to control emotions and thoughts can be eliminated by realizing that there is no "self" at the center of the experience. Improved relationships and abundance in all areas of life are possible as a result of enlightenment. Suffering ends when enlightenment is achieved. The speaker outlines the dangers of starting a journey of self-discovery: forgetting about it, becoming lost again, and getting caught up in distractions. The speaker offers to help guide others through the process of self-discovery. The process involves destroying beliefs and ego, and requires work and perseverance. The speaker has personally been on this journey for a year and a half and has experienced pitfalls and traps along the way. The speaker wants to share practical techniques and no-nonsense information about self-discovery. The speaker encourages viewers to sign up for a newsletter, stick around for more videos, like and share the current video, and get exclusive content. The journey of self-discovery is like training for a marathon and requires dedication and effort.
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Stop Demonizing People! - Why You Are Wrong For Calling Terrorists Evil https://youtu.be/3hHqnzaF-TI Stop Demonizing People: Why You Are Wrong For Calling Terrorists Evil Exercise: Write down three people you despise and one quality you dislike about each person Demonizing others is ugly and something that everyone does Story about a teacher asking students what the ugliest thing they've ever seen is Most students answer with external things, but one student says the ugliest thing is hate Hate is the root of demonization Hate is a choice and it can be unlearned Everyone has the capacity to hate, but it's up to them to choose not to People demonize others to feel better about themselves It's important to be self-aware and recognize when you are demonizing others Exercise: Reflect on the people and qualities you wrote down and ask yourself why you despise them -It's important to have compassion for others, even those you may dislike By choosing not to hate, you can improve your relationships and your own well-being Use the exercise as a way to practice self-reflection and work on compassion towards others. There is a problem with people not wanting to confront their own cognitive dissonance and not learning from others' examples This behavior keeps people's ego alive and creates problems for them in the future Demonization vs. judgment: demonization is when someone or their ideas are called evil, while judgment is making casual everyday evaluations Acceptance is the acceptance of reality as it is without adding one's own labels or delusions When someone is in acceptance, they don't resist things they don't like and instead try to understand them Being in acceptance allows for a greater ability to learn and grow, and allows for a more peaceful and content life The speaker's worldview is based on the idea that they are separate from the rest of reality, which is false The ego is constantly in motion, like a shark that needs to swim to survive This constant motion creates separation, enemies, and problems Reality is the way it is, regardless of whether it is favorable or not Reality includes both positive and negative aspects, such as poverty and abundance, scientific advancement and ignorance, etc. People often try to live in a fantasy where reality is different from how it actually is This inability to accept reality as it is prevents people from being happy in the moment People create enemies out of their loved ones, political figures, etc. because they are unable to accept reality as it is The speaker suggests that the way to happiness is to accept reality as it is and to let go of the ego's constant need for motion and separation
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What Is Karma - The No-Bullshit Explanation Of How Karma Works https://youtu.be/2At8kzrwdNc Karma is a concept that originates from Buddhist and Indian yogi traditions Western understanding of karma is often oversimplified, viewing it as a universal law of justice that punishes those who do bad things More accurate understanding of karma is that every action has a consequence, and bad actions have natural bad consequences, often coming from within rather than externally Karma means "action" in Sanskrit and can be understood as the law of cause and effect in life Recognizing and understanding karma can help a person understand why they are suffering in life and not achieving the results they desire Negative karma can be caused by negative thoughts, words, and actions, and can be overcome through positive thoughts, words, and actions Positive karma can be accumulated through positive thoughts, words, and actions and can lead to positive consequences in the future It is important to understand that karma is not punishment or reward, but simply the natural consequences of actions The ultimate goal of understanding karma is to reach a state of enlightenment, in which a person is no longer bound by the cycle of karma and suffering Someone engages in selfish behavior, which becomes a habit and causes problems in relationships and other aspects of life This selfishness stems from a lack of conscious awareness and a focus on self-protection and self-aggrandizement This type of behavior is not limited to extreme examples, but is also present in everyday actions such as jealousy, criticism, and manipulation To break this cycle, it is necessary to apply conscious awareness and recognize when one is acting selfishly This can be difficult, especially in more subtle cases, but it is important for personal growth and well-being. The text discusses the concept of "hell" and "paradise" Hell is described as being in a state of constant fear and unhappiness Paradise, or heaven, is described as a state of spiritual being, having no thoughts, and being selfless The idea of karma is mentioned, with the suggestion that negative karma can lead to suffering and a cycle of hell, but positive karma can lead to paradise and peace of mind The text advises becoming aware of how karma works and behaving in a selfless way in order to build up positive karma and experience paradise The text also mentions the importance of continuing to learn and understand oneself in order to live a fulfilling life The text encourages the reader to sign up for a newsletter to receive guidance and stay on track with personal development.
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Beware Of False Prophets - Stop Worshipping Human Personality https://youtu.be/nEJn03OSjFg The dangers of being swayed by eloquence and charisma, rather than relying on direct experience and reason The human brain's programming to follow strong leaders The cult of human personality, which can persuade intelligent and educated people through likeability and charisma The importance of questioning authority and not blindly following a person or group The value of critical thinking and being open to multiple perspectives The dangers of dogmatic thinking and the importance of being willing to change one's beliefs The importance of being aware of one's own biases and limitations The role of personal responsibility in avoiding the pitfalls of the cult of personality Jesus would be "appalled" by how his teachings have been twisted after 2,000 years People who influence others often have authority, but real Authority is truth (capital T) Real Authority is direct personal experience, not hearsay or persuasion Language does not carry truth well, and relies on hearsay Comparing and studying different ideas and philosophies is a passion for the speaker The speaker has spent years studying religion and philosophy Some people are influenced by charismatic leaders and their "personality" It is egotistical to want to be a prophet and be put on a pedestal It is important to be intellectually honest and not be swayed by charisma or authority People should seek personal direct experience rather than relying on hearsay or persuasion No one is truly authoritative No one is special No one is better than you No one is unbiased No one is a genius It is important to stay vigilant and avoid falling into the "cult of personality" Everyone has biases influenced by their culture, environment, and groupthink It is important to recognize and be aware of these biases It is possible to develop and improve oneself through dedication and hard work Do not fall into the trap of thinking certain individuals are untouchable or infallible It is important to stay vigilant and be aware of the influence of personality cults It is important to take the good information from people and apply it in one's own life, rather than blindly following them