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Build Your Infrastructure For Success https://youtu.be/TwuutU9yUGE Building the infrastructure for success in life, or the practical structures necessary to live a high consciousness life The importance of constructing an environment that supports living your values and makes it easy and automatic The relationship between spirituality and the environment in which you live The need to identify and prioritize your top values, and then put in place processes, mechanisms, and objects that make it easy to follow those values Examples of simple infrastructure from the speaker's life, including routines, physical objects, and habits The importance of not getting too spiritual or idealistic and forgetting about the practical requirements of life The value of strategic thinking and planning in building the right infrastructure for success The need to be proactive in building and maintaining your infrastructure, rather than waiting for things to happen to you The role of focus and discipline in building and maintaining a strong infrastructure The benefits of building a strong infrastructure, including greater effectiveness, efficiency, and alignment with your values and purpose The importance of being open to learning and adapting your infrastructure as you grow and change. The speaker has been working to optimize and streamline various aspects of their life, including their computer setup and infrastructure, in order to effectively fulfill their life purpose Building infrastructure, both hard (tangible, material items such as technology and equipment) and soft (intangible skills such as speaking and creativity), is essential for the speaker to be able to share their insights and fulfill their purpose The speaker has worked on improving their speaking ability and creativity, and plans to create a course on the techniques they have used to build up their creative ability It is important to identify and work on one's own life purpose and the infrastructure needed to fulfill it Building infrastructure (e.g. career, business, material possessions) can be a way to achieve material success and create a comfortable life, but it is not the ultimate source of happiness It is important to balance "doing" (building infrastructure) with "being" (connecting with one's values and purpose) There is a danger of becoming too focused on building infrastructure, which can lead to feelings of emptiness and disconnection from one's values and purpose Another danger is identifying too closely with the infrastructure one has built, leading to a belief that one's happiness is tied to the success of that infrastructure It is important to remember that infrastructure is just a tool to help us live out our values, and it is not the only way to do so Building the right infrastructure takes time and consistent effort over the course of one's lifetime It is important to be proactive in building the right infrastructure in order to support one's values and purpose in life.

Dropping The Roles You Play https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLIwNF_JTJg The speaker, Leo, is discussing the concept of "roles" that people often play in their lives These roles can be personal, cultural, related to career or family life, etc. and can be seen in various stereotypes and subcultures in society The speaker provides a list of several examples of roles that people may play, including: The perfectionist The rebel or iconoclast Mr. macho or the alpha male Mr. cool or the hipster The victim or the martyr The caregiver or the nurturer The intellectual or the know-it-all The clown or the jester The sexual seductress or the playboy The sedated or the numb person The aggressive or the passive-aggressive person The workaholic or the overachiever The people-pleaser or the chameleon The speaker encourages listeners to consider which roles they may be playing in their own lives and to consider the possibility of dropping these roles in order to live more authentically.

The Role Of Balance In Personal Development https://youtu.be/a0B_StY__Bg Introduction to the topic of balance in personal development Story of a boy seeking the secret to happiness from a wise man Wise man tells the boy to walk around the palace and come back in two hours with the spoon and oil Boy focuses on not spilling the oil and misses out on all the beauty in the palace Wise man tells the boy to walk around the palace and look at all the beauty, then come back Boy sees all the beauty in the palace but forgets about the oil in the spoon Wise man explains that the spoon and oil represent balance in life The importance of balancing the important and the urgent in life Examples of how balance can be achieved in different areas of life The benefits of balance in personal development The dangers of imbalance in personal development Conclusion on the importance of balance in personal development Importance of finding balance in various situations Examples of finding balance: Beliefs that may be true in some situations but not others Being gentle vs. harsh with oneself or others Left brain vs. right brain Suppressing emotions vs. expressing emotions Having standards vs. being too lenient Believing in oneself vs. being realistic Flexibility and context sensitivity are important in finding balance Balance can be cultivated through development and growth The speaker discusses the importance of finding balance in different aspects of life Examples of balance include: Following one's ideals while also being able to succeed in the real world Finding balance between being too pragmatic and too idealistic Contemplating death without becoming nihilistic or depressed Being scientifically minded without being overly materialistic Finding balance between personal growth and social responsibility Striking a balance between individuality and community The speaker has personally worked on finding balance in some areas, but still has more work to do in others Personal development and enlightenment can be approached in an eclectic way or by focusing on one technique Both approaches have dangers and pitfalls Nuance and balance is required in order to avoid falling into traps This concept applies to personal life, business, and government Ideological positions can be dangerous because they often lack nuance and balance It is important to be aware of the traps and dangers in any approach or ideology Criticism itself can be a trap It is important to be open to new ideas and to be able to adapt one's beliefs and approaches as necessary People's beliefs and behaviors can be influenced by their life experiences and past traumas These beliefs and behaviors can become set in cement by their mid 20s People may become ideological and resistant to change in their beliefs It is important to be understanding and accepting of the fact that different people may need to go through different processes in order to grow and develop Debates, including those within personal development or politics, often arise from differences in balance and perspective rather than fundamental disagreements People's life experiences and backgrounds can influence their perspective and the balance they feel is necessary It is important to recognize that these differences in balance and perspective do not make one person's beliefs or behaviors inherently right or wrong, but rather a result of their unique experiences and needs.

The Launch Of Infinite Insights - Leo's Blog! https://youtu.be/JXz-C3HT_6Q Leo is announcing the launch of Actualized.org Insights, a blog where he posts quick insights throughout the week These insights are less formal than the weekly episodes and videos and are in a text format The blog will include miscellaneous insights that don't warrant a full video and also allow Leo to practice writing and be more precise with his language The blog posts will be short and designed to be "half-baked," allowing readers to take the seeds of thought and run with them The blog will also allow for more philosophical and speculative discussion, as well as practical advice 15 posts are already up on the blog, which can be found at Actualized.org/insights or on the Actualized.org home page In addition to the blog, the weekly episodes will continue to be released Leo encourages readers to check out the blog and give him feedback on it.

How I Do Research & Develop Big Picture Understanding https://youtu.be/TVPzXaHMifw The speaker's secret to developing a big picture understanding of life is having the right epistemic foundation The speaker became interested in philosophy and epistemology in high school and college The speaker started doing "meta philosophy," or thinking about the nature of philosophy and how it works The speaker became aware of the role of psychology in philosophy and how it can influence how we seek understanding and truth The speaker began to study the history of philosophy and how different philosophers approached seeking truth and understanding The speaker identified common traps and pitfalls that people fall into when trying to develop a big picture understanding of life, such as confirmation bias and the illusion of certainty The speaker recommends following a certain process for doing research and seeking understanding, including: asking good questions, being open-minded, being willing to change your mind, and being willing to explore a wide range of sources and ideas The speaker also recommends developing a clear and consistent methodology for organizing and synthesizing information and ideas Hidden assumptions are important to identify and clarify All perspectives are partial and cannot provide a complete understanding of a subject Models are not reality and cannot be substituted for it A person's web of beliefs, or their collection of beliefs about the world, is under constrained and can vary greatly from person to person Foundationalism, the idea that certain theories about reality can be taken as true without questioning, is false Reality is constantly changing and our understanding of it should also be adaptable It is important to remain open to new information and be willing to revise or update beliefs based on that information There is a difference between certainty and truth, and it is important to recognize that certainty does not necessarily equate to truth It is important to remain open to the possibility that one's own beliefs could be wrong and to be willing to revise them based on new information Confirmation bias, the tendency to seek out information that confirms one's preexisting beliefs, should be avoided It is important to strive for objectivity and to consider multiple viewpoints and perspectives when forming beliefs about the world Empathy and understanding the perspectives of others is important in communication and conflict resolution. The speaker is not interested in debating, proving their point, or recruiting followers for their cause They are more interested in understanding what life is and how to live it They believe that seeking understanding is more important than seeking truth, which is often thought of as a tangible object like the Holy Grail Understanding is a "loose" concept and involves seeing how all the parts of a subject are moving and why The speaker values holism, or the desire to integrate everything, rather than becoming hyper specialized in one academic area The goal is to understand all of life, not just one specific field The speaker advises to not get caught up in the details and instead try to see the big picture They recommend examining different viewpoints and being open to changing your perspective if new information is presented The speaker believes that the goal of understanding is not to be right or wrong, but to improve your understanding of life and how to live it. The speaker discusses three approaches to gaining knowledge: relying on direct experience, cutting oneself off from outside influences, and studying lots of perspectives and sources The first approach, relying on direct experience, can be problematic because it is easy to deceive oneself and miss out on a larger picture The second approach, cutting oneself off from outside influences, may lead to a lack of perspective and a narrow understanding of the world The third approach, studying lots of perspectives and sources, can provide a broad understanding but may not lead to deep personal understanding without also incorporating direct experience The speaker ultimately advocates for a combination of all three approaches: incorporating direct experience, learning from the lessons and perspectives of others, and studying various sources Making a choice is better than doing nothing Do not become loyal to any one teaching or tradition Reality may be absurd, outrageous, irrational, shocking, and counterintuitive Don't worry too much about lack of immediate utility in investigations This investigation should be a lifelong pursuit Do not be attached to any particular outcome Be open to revising your beliefs based on new evidence Don't be afraid to ask for help Keep in mind that this work is difficult and requires effort and dedication Be prepared to face challenges and obstacles along the way Don't let setbacks discourage you Keep in mind that the rewards of this work are worth the effort Process for minimizing belief in silly things Researching involves going down dead ends Trust that things will gel in the long run Risk of believing silly things can't be avoided, but this process can minimize it Process involves sampling different perspectives, but not taking all perspectives equally Need to be able to critically evaluate perspectives and arguments Importance of being self-aware and recognizing when you are being swayed by confirmation bias or other biases Need to be willing to change your mind when faced with new evidence or better arguments Process of continually questioning and seeking out new perspectives is ongoing and never-ending

How To Control Anger - Part 2 - Understanding Evil To Death https://youtu.be/iF1q76Eiio4 Introduction to the topic of anger control and the importance of understanding anger Acknowledgement that there are different levels of anger, including mild annoyances and hardwired anger resulting from childhood trauma The main claim that anger comes from a lack of holistic understanding and that if we understand situations and people holistically, we cannot become angry at them The importance of developing holism and radical open-mindedness in order to understand the world and be at peace Examples of how a lack of holistic understanding leads to anger, including a lack of understanding of cause and effect, a lack of understanding of other people's motivations and emotions, and a lack of understanding of our own emotions and the role they play in our lives The importance of self-knowledge and self-awareness in developing holistic understanding The role of emotions in our lives and how they can be used as signals to guide our actions and decisions The importance of developing emotional intelligence and being able to recognize and understand our own emotions and the emotions of others The role of mindfulness in helping us to become aware of our emotions and to choose how we respond to them Tips for developing mindfulness and managing anger, including learning to recognize the early warning signs of anger, finding healthy ways to express and release anger, and practicing relaxation techniques The importance of seeking help if necessary, whether through therapy, self-help resources, or support from friends and family. Lying is a complex and multifaceted behavior Lying can be sneaky and people may not realize they are lying to themselves To stop being angry about lying, it can be helpful to try to understand the larger mechanism of why lying exists and how it functions in the world This approach can also be applied to understanding other complex and negative phenomena, such as relationship problems, unfairness in business, war, religious fanaticism, and rape Holistic understanding of these issues can nullify anger and help people to move past difficult situations This approach requires personal development work and consciousness-raising, and may be difficult for some people to accept Some people feel threatened by the idea that evil does not exist This is because they have developed an identity centered around fighting evil From their perspective, things that do not serve them may appear evil However, this perspective is just one of an infinite number of possible perspectives within reality The best way to stop evil is to accept it and not be triggered by it This can lead to understanding evil "to death" and a capacity to radiate love and happiness that makes it difficult for others to do evil to you It is not always possible to follow this ideal, but it is something to work towards Personal development is about working towards this ideal and increasing understanding and acceptance Reality is infinite degrees of freedom and the goal is to make peace with it Often, people resist reality and the test of whether they can stomach truth and reality is when difficult situations arise Reality is not personal and the suffering that comes from resistance to it is optional The goal is to be able to experience reality directly and not through the filter of the ego This requires letting go of the ego and its desire to control reality The ego wants to make everything personal and to make everything about itself By letting go of the ego and making peace with reality, one can find freedom and happiness

The Pre-mortem Technique - The Trick To Avoiding Project Failure https://youtu.be/zdA_8xjFcqc The pre-mortem technique is a project management technique that involves considering what could go wrong with a project before beginning it The pre-mortem is the opposite of a post-mortem, which is done after a project is complete to identify what was done right and wrong The purpose of the pre-mortem is to avoid project failure by identifying potential problems before they occur To use the pre-mortem technique, choose a project or goal and imagine that it has failed spectacularly After visualizing the failure, list every potential cause of failure that you can foresee Bring together a group of people to brainstorm potential problems and causes of failure Identify the most likely causes of failure and create a plan to prevent or mitigate them The pre-mortem technique can be applied to personal goals, as well as work projects The pre-mortem is an example of strategic thinking, which involves considering long-term goals and planning to achieve them. Starting a business with a great vision, but lacking certain technical skills Losing sight of the big vision due to competing visions from others Business ultimately failing due to getting distracted by shiny new ideas, getting wrapped up in relationships, burning out from working too hard, or financial insecurity Pre-mortem being applicable to quitting a job, starting a relationship, or making any other major life change Identifying potential causes of failure and coming up with realistic solutions Using the pre-mortem to increase the chances of success in any venture

Uncovering Your Childhood Vows - Unwire Your Neurotic Personality https://youtu.be/_mqv0qQPElw Introduction and holiday greeting Explanation of topic: uncovering childhood vows Definition of childhood as birth to 25 years old Role of social conditioning in shaping beliefs and attitudes Role of individual in shaping their own beliefs and attitudes Discussion of childhood vows as negative attitudes and behaviors cemented in childhood and teenage years Examples of childhood vows, including vows of poverty, unworthiness, powerlessness, and victimhood Effects of childhood vows on adult life and relationships Importance of uncovering and addressing childhood vows in personal growth and development Steps for uncovering and addressing childhood vows Conclusion and encouragement to work on uncovering and addressing childhood vows. Vows can lead to neurotic behavior and conflict in relationships An example of a vow: "I will never be like Darth Vader and join the dark side" This vow can lead to guilt and a need for therapy An example of a vow: "I will defend atheism and rationality" This vow can lead to a lack of connection with people with different beliefs Vows can be based on past events or experiences It is important to be mindful of the vows we make and not overgeneralize or overreact to one specific circumstance It is important to be open to new experiences and perspectives It is important to be flexible and not rigid in our thinking and beliefs Black and white thinking is not helpful and is based on limited experience As an adult, you have more life experience and can make less extreme decisions Children can misinterpret things due to their lack of experience Emotional problems can come from black and white thinking, leading to feelings of guilt, stress, and conflict This can also lead to judgmental and rationalizing behavior, causing people to become stuck in their thinking and lacking flexibility and creativity The goal of self-actualization and consciousness work is to achieve liberation from rules and to be flexible and not reactive This requires awareness and understanding, and can be achieved through a practice of forgiveness An exercise to try is setting aside 30-60 minutes in silence to recall decisive moments in your life and reflect on how you could have responded differently

Becoming A Zen Devil - The Dangers Of Half-Assing Enlightenment https://youtu.be/z2B_e24UJi8 The dangers of taking spiritual techniques and practices from various traditions and stripping them of their cultural and belief systems The example of Mount Hiei, a monastic order in Japan with a strict and hardcore approach to Zen Buddhism The dangers of becoming a "Zen devil" or someone who is only interested in the superficial aspects of spiritual practice, rather than the transformation of the whole person The importance of balancing intellectual understanding and study with personal transformation and integration of spiritual principles into one's life The dangers of becoming attached to spiritual experiences and using them as a way to avoid personal growth and self-inquiry The need for humility, honesty, and the willingness to let go of ego in spiritual practice The importance of finding a teacher or mentor who can guide and support one's spiritual development, rather than relying solely on self-study. There is wisdom in tradition and it is important not to throw it all away It is important to have strong principles, ethics, and emotional development in addition to seeking existential insights Non-duality can be divided into "small" and "big" non-duality Small non-duality pits itself against other schools and is not fully integrated with duality Big non-duality is humble, integrates non-duality and duality, and is generous towards other schools of thought A master embodies big non-duality and can be recognized by their skill and excellence Small non-duality practitioners may try to use non-dual teachings to make others feel inferior It is important to have a balance of the non-dual and the mundane in one's life A master does not need to have all the answers, but rather can guide others towards their own insights and understanding Education and understanding are important for practical success in the world Being a good citizen and contributing to the community are important Having an ethical career that positively impacts the world and community is important Transcending culture and ideologies can be a part of enlightenment Physical health, good character, and concern for the environment and other beings are also important aspects of enlightenment Developing spiritual powers and achieving self-mastery are also potential components of enlightenment The ultimate goal of enlightenment may be to achieve unity with the divine or ultimate reality There are two groups of people: those who are enlightened but lack common sense and goodness, and those who are common sense and decent but know nothing about enlightenment Engaging in personal development, such as taking care of finances, relationships, and finding a life purpose, is important even if you are not yet enlightened It is possible to practice compassion and goodness in daily life, even if you are not yet enlightened, and doing so will bring benefits in terms of suffering, emotions, success, and the people you attract The path to enlightenment is narrow and has many traps, which is why true masters are rare The speaker is on this journey with the audience and shares their experiences of falling into traps to help others navigate them

Mystical Traditions Around The World - Nonduality Goes Cosmopolitan! https://youtu.be/iAE055eH7yQ Introduction to the topic of mystical traditions around the world and their focus on enlightenment Explanation that the work of sages and mystics has been happening for at least 5,000 years Importance of understanding the mystical cores at the center of every religion, despite negative views of religion in modern times Commonalities between mystical traditions around the world, including the search for existential truth and the belief that existence is a unity, formlessness, and singularity Distinction between mysticism and religion, with mysticism being focused on personal experience and religion being focused on beliefs and rituals Overview of various mystical traditions from different parts of the world, including Eastern traditions (such as Hinduism, Buddhism, Taoism, and Zen) and Western traditions (such as Gnosticism, Kabbalah, and Sufism) Discussion of the concept of nonduality, which refers to the idea that there is no separation between the individual self and the universe Conclusion emphasizing the importance of understanding the historical context of mystical traditions and the value of exploring and learning from multiple traditions. Theosophy teachings by Aleister Crowley and others Perennial interest in nature of existence Convergence among different traditions and cultures Different names for enlightenment and God across traditions Love-hate relationship with word "God" God is another word for reality or existence, including the whole world Understanding or direct experience of nature of existence or reality Contemplative and meditative practices can help discover true nature of existence List of over 50 names for enlightenment and God, including: Enlightenment God Truth Absolute Infinity Consciousness Awareness Presence No self True self Oneness Nothingness Non duality Ego death Self transcendence Self realization Some traditions focus on devotion to a deity or guru Other traditions focus on self-inquiry All traditions ultimately point to the same fundamental understanding or experience of the nature of reality Resources available for further study and exploration of these concepts and traditions. The real, ultimate truth is not hidden or veiled, but rather it is the individual who is unable to see it The goal is to become fluent in non-duality, understanding the interconnectedness of all spiritual traditions and how they ultimately point to the same thing It is important to have a holistic, integrated understanding of this field in order to be able to converse with people from different traditions and cultures Some enlightened people may have a narrow, sectarian view and only understand their own tradition, lacking a true understanding of the interconnections between all traditions A truly enlightened master does not claim to have a monopoly on the truth, but rather has the most integrated, biggest picture perspective possible It is important to avoid the trap of thinking that one's own way or tradition is the only way, as this speaks to ignorance Enlightenment is not just about enlightenment itself, but also about understanding and integrating all spiritual traditions and being able to share this understanding with others The goal is to become a sage, someone who is knowledgeable and wise in this field of non-duality To become a sage, it is important to study and understand the various traditions, as well as their differences and similarities It is also important to practice and integrate the teachings and principles of non-duality into one's life Finally, a sage should be able to share their understanding and insights with others, helping to guide and inspire them on their own spiritual journeys. The speaker encourages the listener to research specific mystical traditions Look for commonalities among these traditions when doing research This will create a foundation for pursuing enlightenment in a personal way The field of non-duality is a rich and meaningful area to study It is important to combine theoretical understanding with practical application for the most effective results The speaker will be releasing more in-depth content on becoming a sage in the future This content will include both abstract and practical information It is important to stick with the speaker for success on the spiritual path and in life

Becoming A Sage - A New Vision For Actualized.org & You! https://youtu.be/z2wNbLO02Wg Actualized.org is a website that focuses on self-improvement and self-actualization The owner, Leo, has been researching and studying various subjects such as psychology, philosophy, and biographies to understand what the best life possible for a human being is The greatest human beings in history were not celebrities, athletes, or politicians, but rather sages and mystics Leo wants Actualized.org to focus on helping people become sages, rather than just self-improvement A sage is someone who has a deep understanding of life and reality, and can guide others towards enlightenment Leo believes that becoming a sage is the ultimate goal in life and that it is possible for anyone to achieve The goal of Actualized.org will be to provide resources for people to become sages, including videos, articles, and courses Leo believes that becoming a sage requires a combination of personal growth, spiritual development, and practical wisdom Leo encourages people to question their current beliefs and seek out new insights and perspectives to help them on their journey towards becoming a sage The goal is to become a modern mystic sage, combining Eastern non-duality with Western philosophical thinking A sage is someone who is a master of consciousness and has a deep conceptual understanding It is important to balance left brain and right brain thinking and apply this understanding to real world problems A sage is not an academic or ideological Crusader, but someone who has self-mastery, compassion, and understanding The focus should be on the vision, not the specific steps of how to become a sage The path to becoming a sage involves self-inquiry, self-mastery, and living an authentic life This process may involve letting go of attachments and ego, and developing a beginner's mind A sage is someone who is able to navigate the world with wisdom and grace, and is able to use their understanding to help others. The concept of truth, falsehood, illusion, society, and politics are important for one to understand in order to become a sage Exploring non-ordinary states of consciousness is important for a sage, as it distinguishes them from academics and intellectuals who only operate in ordinary consciousness Creativity is important for a sage, and can be developed through various methods To become a sage, one must be a big-picture thinker and have holistic understanding of life Unconditional love and compassion, especially for human suffering, is important for a sage Helping others raise their awareness may be part of a sage's life purpose A sage should be able to embody and take in all aspects of life, rather than getting triggered or ideological about them A sage should be able to find their own path and not rely on external guidance or approval A sage should be able to see the interconnectedness of all things and have a deep understanding of how the world works A sage should be able to hold multiple perspectives and understand that there is not just one "right" way to see things A sage should be able to find meaning and purpose in life, and not just chase external goals or achievements The speaker wants to focus on personal growth from a historical perspective The focus will be more abstract and philosophical, with less practical guidance and "hand-holding" The emphasis will be on understanding rather than success The topics will be more spiritually oriented and advanced, rather than mainstream and materialistic The speaker has a long-term plan for their content and will gradually transition over the next six to twelve months The speaker has outgrown certain topics and has a better understanding of the big picture The goal is to help the listener understand the big picture and not rely on external guidance The speaker is excited to share their knowledge and help the listener grow.

How To Deal With Confusion https://youtu.be/lRipeQ_lcN8 The speaker, Leo, discusses how to deal with confusion that can arise when pursuing self-actualization Confusion can manifest in different ways, such as deciding between different paths or understanding new concepts Understanding is something that needs to be developed, and it is a challenge to reconcile new information with what one already knows and believes The speaker's content is about teaching the understanding needed to guide oneself towards a high consciousness life Confusion and uncertainty are a normal part of the learning process, but most people give up when they encounter them Instead of giving up, it is important to embrace confusion as a sign that one is learning and growing To deal with confusion, one can ask for clarification, seek out new information, reflect on one's current understanding, and take breaks to rest and recharge It is also important to have a growth mindset and not be attached to being right all the time Ultimately, the goal is to turn confusion into clarity by building understanding through experience and practice. Confusion is okay and can be a better strategy for enlightenment work than trying to force an answer Confusion can also apply to practical choices in life, such as career or diet decisions Embracing confusion and acknowledging uncertainty can lead to deeper insights and knowledge through revelation, rather than trying to push for an answer Curiosity is different from neurotic need to know and clinginess A better approach to decision making is to acknowledge that you don't know and let reconciliation happen organically This will lead to a more authentic and deeper answer from a higher self, divine source, or something else Confusion can also be an indication that you are moving beyond your current model of reality and into a deeper understanding It is important to be patient and trust the process when facing confusion Learning to be comfortable with confusion can lead to greater personal growth and development The speaker was told that they need to pay more attention to something because it will "screw them up" in their life The speaker reevaluated their thinking and realized that they were being neurotic in their search for enlightenment and that the right move was to surrender and let go of their need to know The speaker used to pride themselves on always getting the right answer, but realized that this does not work well in the pursuit of enlightenment Zen masters and non-duality teachers often do not give ready-made answers and try to force confusion in order to get students to surrender to and become comfortable with it The speaker wants the listener to embrace confusion, surrender to it, and open themselves up to a lifelong process of learning and discovery The speaker challenges the listener to find examples of confusion in their life and then surrender to it rather than trying to avoid it or find an answer

Money Psychology - The Inner Game of Mastering Money https://youtu.be/1Mpir4KE4qE Introduction to topic of money psychology Personal story of the speaker's father and their family's financial situation Key insight that money problems are primarily psychological, not economic or business problems Counterintuitive idea that infusions of cash do not solve psychological money problems Comparison of money problems to dysfunctional relationships Money as a hot-button emotional issue Three psychological obstacles to mastering money: fear, greed, and powerlessness Explanation of fear as an obstacle to mastering money, including examples of types of fear and ways to overcome it Explanation of greed as an obstacle to mastering money, including the dangers of greed and ways to overcome it Explanation of powerlessness as an obstacle to mastering money, including the importance of taking control and agency in financial matters and ways to overcome feelings of powerlessness Conclusion and encouragement to consider the psychological aspects of money problems in order to overcome them Artist struggles with money because they believe it's hard to make money in their field due to competition Belief that there isn't enough money to go around because of the large population Struggles with money because they don't have the capital to start a business Struggles with money because their boss or company is stingy or the corporate culture is problematic Belief that money is difficult to make, possibly due to family influences Belief that money is evil or corrupting Belief that certain things are too expensive and therefore unattainable Belief that they are not worthy or deserving of financial success Belief that they need to work hard and sacrifice their time and happiness in order to make money Belief that they are not smart or capable enough to make money Belief that they need to have a certain level of education or experience in order to make money Money is a big part of life that cannot be ignored Dysfunctional views on money can lead to disaster Healthy money psychology includes: Understanding the trap of materialism and that money cannot solve all problems Identifying and being aware of emotional triggers and hot buttons related to money Not holding ideological beliefs about money (good vs. evil) Educating oneself on money traps and avoiding temptation to fall into them Developing an abundance mindset and believing in the possibility of creating abundance Taking responsibility for one's own money situation and not making excuses Using money strategically and investing it in a way that aligns with one's values and goals Having good money management skills and budgeting effectively Seeking out education and resources to improve one's money situation Creating a positive and healthy relationship with money

A Rant Against Culture https://youtu.be/TRgLWFzGodg Introduction to the topic of culture and the speaker's suspicion of it Explanation that culture is artificial, limited, and stifles consciousness Description of how culture is connected to the collective ego Discussion of how people often have a blind spot towards their own culture Description of how culture is used as a tool to manipulate and control people Explanation of how culture is created and perpetuated Discussion of the dangers of identification with culture Call to action to become aware of the influence of culture and to transcend it in order to live authentically and fully actualize oneself Culture is like a big cult that people are often not aware of Culture can be thought of as a "bubble of delusion" that is created for the purpose of survival and reproduction Culture helps individuals bond and share common values and beliefs Culture can be arbitrary and is often denied or not recognized as such Culture serves as a lens through which reality is viewed and can shape individuals' perceptions and behaviors Culture can be a source of conflict and competition with other cultures Culture can be limiting or constraining for individuals, but it also provides a sense of belonging and identity It is important to be aware of and examine one's own culture and how it shapes one's beliefs and actions. Cut back on media consumption (TV, Netflix, magazines, websites, books) as it reinforces cultural beliefs and values that may not align with personal values Be less social as it feeds into cultural norms and ideas Question and become a skeptic of cultural beliefs and values Have a life purpose or goal to focus on, which may require breaking cultural conventions Experiment with psychedelics to challenge cultural beliefs and ideas Practice meditation regularly to extricate oneself from culture Spend time in nature to see reality stripped of cultural constructs Reflect on and contemplate one's own values and beliefs to determine which ones align with personal goals and values, and which ones are influenced by culture

The Trap Of Projection, Especially Onto Teachers & Mentors https://youtu.be/NAbh5E0v20g The concept of projection, where individuals attribute their own thoughts, feelings, or beliefs onto others Tendency to project onto teachers and mentors, especially for those who seek self-improvement through self-help books, seminars, retreats, etc. Example of a student who searches for a guru and finds that the guru is living a materialistic lifestyle, but the student ignores this and continues to view the guru as enlightened Personal experience of projecting onto teachers at retreats, including intellectual nitpicking and personal criticisms Importance of acknowledging and working through projections in order to fully benefit from the teachings of teachers and mentors Strategies for dealing with projection, including acknowledging and accepting one's own thoughts and feelings, being open and receptive to new ideas, and looking for the underlying message or lesson in the teachings of the teacher or mentor Self-help books and other sources of personal development advice can be valuable for helping people transform their lives The ego may resist change and self-actualization, and may try to tarnish the messenger or source of new information in order to maintain the status quo It is important to be open to learning from a variety of sources and to be aware of the judgments we make about these sources Constructing a map or understanding of where you want to go in life is a necessary first step in the process of self-actualization Reading comments and interacting with an audience can provide valuable insights and understanding of people's problems It is important to be aware of the projections and judgments we make about others and to try to let go of these in order to more fully benefit from the information they have to offer. The importance of taking responsibility for one's own expectations, assumptions, and stories about other people in relationships Projection (making assumptions about others based on one's own thoughts, feelings, and experiences) is a common occurrence in interactions with others Exercise: looking at someone without any assumptions or projections for 30 seconds The importance of listening to others without an agenda or biases Examining one's own needs, values, ideals, fears, and insecurities when listening to a teacher or learning new information The benefits of turning criticism and adjustments back on oneself rather than projecting them onto others The importance of being open to learning from others and being present in the moment with them. There is a lot more to learn about oneself and self-actualization The speaker has many ideas for videos and could easily generate more The challenge is how to share all this content Self-actualization can radically transform one's life and has many benefits, but it takes time and commitment to see results The speaker recommends watching one video per week to start building a big picture understanding of how to grow and what the potential is for oneself To further transform one's life, the speaker recommends doing worksheets, exercises, reading books, attending seminars, meditating, and building habits The speaker will continue to provide more content and encourages the listener to stick with the process.

How To Harness Your Intuition https://youtu.be/v1yA9KbPzQ0 Intuition is important for self-actualization Intuition is key to big-picture thinking, motivation, purpose, and strategy Modern Western culture has a left-brain bias and does not value intuition in decision-making Intuition is more powerful than logic Intuition is important for making high-quality decisions and having wisdom Intuition is processed by the subconscious mind, which can crunch a lot of data and provide spontaneous insights Western culture is stuck in left-brain thinking, but Eastern culture values both left and right brain thinking The right brain is more intuitive, creative, and holistic, while the left brain is more logical, linear, and analytical To harness your intuition, you need to cultivate a balance between left and right brain thinking Techniques to cultivate intuition include meditation, journaling, creative pursuits, and spending time in nature Trusting your intuition will allow you to make better decisions and live a more fulfilling life Minimizing one's lifestyle is important for allowing intuition to come through Contemplating death can help realign priorities and move away from materialism Getting clear on what you really want in life, not just success, sex, money, or marriage, is important Meditation can help still the mind and strengthen intuition Ego, cravings, fears, traumas, and dogmas can distort intuition Having benevolent motives and spiritual purification can help clear these impurities Listening to and trusting your intuition can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life. The speaker has a habit of making radical changes in various aspects of their life, including their job, relationships, hobbies, and business Following one's intuition can require mustering the courage to make difficult changes, even if it means dismantling something that has been built up over time It is important to create an "intuition incubator" in one's life by: Removing impurities Journaling about and articulating one's intuitions Contemplating and creating action plans for those intuitions Being strategic and persistent in following through on those intuitions The speaker has personally experienced the process of following their intuition to find their life purpose, which took many years and required multiple attempts and changes in location It is important to prioritize following one's intuition over personal comfort and security.

The Mechanics Of Belief https://youtu.be/1FtVLnmuJzg Introduction to the topic of belief and its importance in terms of raising consciousness and avoiding distorted perceptions Beliefs can be a major obstacle to raising consciousness Most people do not understand how beliefs work or how they come to hold certain things as true or false Rational and scientifically minded people can also hold irrational beliefs, or a belief that their rationality is not grounded in irrational beliefs Fundamental challenge in life is to distinguish between what is true and false, which is not easy to do People often blindly accept what is presented to them and end up believing false things Beliefs can take hold of a person, rather than the person controlling their beliefs Beliefs can come from various sources such as culture, family, media, and personal experiences It is important to be aware of the origins and limitations of one's beliefs Beliefs can be revised or updated based on new evidence or reasoning Conclusion reiterating the importance of understanding the mechanics of belief in order to raise consciousness and avoid being held back by false beliefs Beliefs feel true once they are held People tend to latch onto the first belief that comes their way that feels true, without questioning it This process starts when a person is a child and their mind is like a sponge, soaking up everything without questioning it There is a phenomenon called imprinting where a young animal or person will latch onto the first thing they encounter as their "mother" or source of truth This process of adopting beliefs without questioning them can lead to a web of beliefs that a person uses to evaluate new beliefs, rather than evaluating them based on their truth This can be dangerous because a person's early beliefs may have been adopted without questioning and may not be based on solid evidence or logic It is important to constantly question and evaluate one's beliefs in order to accurately distinguish what is true from what is false The idea that what is possible or impossible is based on beliefs Examples of things that may be considered possible or impossible based on beliefs, including flying, surviving a jump out of an airplane, contact with aliens, becoming rich, attracting a dream spouse, achieving enlightenment, and being happy and at peace The practical implications of these beliefs, including not trying new things or activities because they are believed to be impossible The concept of "meta beliefs," or beliefs about beliefs Examples of dangerous meta beliefs, including believing that one does not hold any beliefs, most of one's beliefs are accurate, certain beliefs are good to hold, and the belief that beliefs cannot be changed The idea that the way to challenge and change limiting beliefs is to challenge the meta beliefs that support them Beliefs can be dangerous because they can create emotional reactivity, arrogance, and inflexibility Beliefs have caused wars and conflict throughout history The solution is not to find the one right belief system and spread it, but rather to recognize that the entire belief system is a farce and to change attitudes towards beliefs There are three stages of attitudes towards beliefs: defending beliefs, refining and expanding beliefs, and recognizing that reality lies outside of belief The final stage requires the most consciousness and involves letting go of the need to believe in anything and instead seeing things as they are without the filter of belief This allows for flexibility and adaptability, and helps to prevent the negative consequences of holding onto beliefs too strongly It is important to be open to disconfirming evidence and to be willing to let go of beliefs when they are proven to be untrue or harmful The speaker believes that their number one advantage in life is their ability to question every belief, without exception This willingness to question beliefs has allowed the speaker to grow quickly and explore outside of their family and cultural background The speaker advises the listener to adopt this attitude towards life, but warns that it may not be understood or supported by friends, family, or society Society is an artificial bubble or matrix that allows people to avoid direct experience and protect their ego The speaker encourages the listener to be open to powerful, shocking, and unbelievable experiences in life The speaker has a worksheet with exercises to help the listener dismantle their beliefs and stop participating in the artificial game society plays

The Dark Side Of Meditation https://youtu.be/uZpIvU6ny_M The speaker recommends that listeners have a daily meditation practice As meditation becomes more advanced, unexpected and sometimes negative things may arise These can include: Hyper annoyance and crankiness Hyper judgmentalism Wild mood swings Changes in energy levels Changes in appetite and sleep patterns Uncomfortable physical sensations Dark and disturbing thoughts or images Insights about past traumas or negative experiences A sense of loneliness or disconnection from others These experiences are normal and should not discourage the continuation of a meditation practice It is important to approach these experiences with a non-judgmental and curious attitude, and to seek guidance if necessary Meditation can lead to spiritual arrogance This happens when someone thinks they have reached a high stage of spiritual development, but in reality they are just at an intermediate stage It is common for negative experiences to arise during long term meditation, such as mood swings and emotional reactions These negative experiences are a result of the mind "defragmenting" and purging old patterns, beliefs, and thought patterns This process is similar to therapy, but it happens automatically and unconsciously during meditation It is important to be aware of this process and to see it as a form of spiritual purification, rather than being discouraged by the negative experiences The key to overcoming these challenges is to be vigilant and conscious, and to always keep the bigger picture in mind Trust in the process and have patience, as purification takes time and can be difficult It is also important to have a supportive community or teacher to help guide you through this process Remember that these challenges are a normal part of the spiritual journey and are ultimately for your benefit. Step 1 for dealing with negative experiences during meditation: relax Step 2: remember that the ego is trying to maintain control and may resist spiritual growth Step 3: keep meditating and do not let the ego distract you Advanced practitioners know that growth can be tough and requires emotional labor Depression and seeing strange entities during meditation is a phase that will pass Meditation should be a process of self-love, not self-flagellation If needed, take a short break from meditation, but always come back to it Be mindful and non-resistant during meditation Remember the bigger picture and that you have no control over negative emotions or meditation experiences Meditation is about cutting through ego and fear to reach enlightenment

Low Quality vs High Quality Consciousness https://youtu.be/Hg8JDHlkIrM The main goal in life is to increase the quality of consciousness Quality of consciousness is defined as the degree of accurate perception All actions and interactions in life are opportunities to either increase or decrease consciousness Low consciousness leads to problems and ultimately death High consciousness allows for accurate perception and success in life The quality of consciousness can be improved through taking advantage of opportunities and making the right decisions The ultimate goal is to reach extremely high levels of consciousness Emotions can be thought of as a "fuel gauge" or "barometer" that tells us what is happening in our lives People who have low quality consciousness often suppress their emotions and are not aware of them Motivations can also be used to gauge a person's level of consciousness Look at motivations on a micro level (hourly or 15 minutes) to get a better understanding of your own level of consciousness Apply this concept to yourself and others to get a better understanding of where people are at in terms of their consciousness People who have high quality consciousness are more aware of their emotions and motivations and make choices that reflect this It is important to be aware of and listen to your emotions and motivations to make positive changes in your life and follow the "prime directive of living" Low quality consciousness can lead to disaster in one's life The prime directive of living is to constantly strive for higher levels of consciousness It is possible to increase your level of consciousness by becoming more aware of your emotions and motivations and making choices that reflect this Raising consciousness is the "prime directive" of being human Career can be an expression of deep values and a way to be creative The purpose of the course is to help people figure out their career and life purpose Personal purpose is to raise consciousness every day Increase capacity to love, be happy, and be intellectually open to increase consciousness Increase capacity to feel and express emotions Increase capacity to think for oneself and not be swayed by external influence Increase capacity to be present and mindful in the moment Increase capacity to connect with others and build deep relationships Increase capacity to contribute to the world and make a positive impact Taking action is important for self actualization and raising consciousness Implementing concepts from videos is important for understanding their depth and power Continuing to learn and take action over time leads to personal growth and accomplishment of the "prime directive" Quality of life and emotions will reflect progress made in personal growth Encouragement to continue learning and taking action.

5-MeO-DMT - The Magic Pill To Enlightenment & God https://youtu.be/rH1bfZ1p6sg 5-MeO-DMT is a powerful psychedelic drug It is different from regular DMT and is 10-20 times more potent 5-MeO-DMT can be used to achieve permanent enlightenment, according to the speaker's theory There is an individual who has successfully attained permanent enlightenment through the use of 5-MeO-DMT Magic pills, or technologies, can be effective and save time and energy Many people have negative views towards magic pills in the realm of spirituality because they hold dogmatic beliefs The speaker believes that 5-MeO-DMT is a genuinely effective magic pill for spiritual development The speaker's own experience with 5-MeO-DMT was a genuine enlightenment experience and led to lasting positive changes The speaker advises caution when using 5-MeO-DMT and to approach it with respect and an open mind 5-MeO-DMT can be dangerous and should not be misused The speaker encourages others to do their own research and come to their own conclusions about the use of 5-MeO-DMT for spiritual development. Enlightenment requires multiple experiences before it "sticks" Genetic component to enlightenment 5-MeO is a natural substance in the brain and may be related to enlightenment 5-MeO comes from the Colorado River toad and can be smoked Synthetic form of 5-MeO can be created in a laboratory Dosing and administration of 5-MeO can be difficult and risks are involved 5-MeO can cause a range of effects, including spiritual experiences There is little scientific research on 5-MeO and more research is needed 5meo is a powerful substance that can produce profound and life-changing experiences It has been used to successfully treat addiction to substances such as heroin The effects of 5meo can be so powerful that they can change a person's entire life in one experience It is not widely known about or used, partly due to ignorance and partly due to legal restrictions Some people may be too closed-minded to consider using it or may not be emotionally or psychologically ready to handle the effects The ego may resist the experience of 5meo because it threatens its sense of self It is important to be prepared and to have a trusted guide or facilitator when using 5meo The effects of 5meo can include spiritual experiences and feelings of unity with the universe It can also produce physical effects such as increased heart rate and changes in body temperature The experience of 5meo can be intense and challenging, but it can also bring a sense of clarity and understanding It is important to be in a safe and supportive environment when using 5meo and to have a plan for integration afterwards. 5-meo may have a strong impact on your perceptions and understanding of reality It may cause you to confront your inner demons and do emotional work It is not physically addictive, but it is possible to develop a psychological dependence It is recommended to wait at least a week between doses and not to take it more often than once a week There may not be negative health effects for a healthy, psychologically mature adult, but there is still risk involved 5-meo is a neurotransmitter that naturally occurs in the brain Overdosing can be dangerous The risk is on the user to take responsibility for their own health 5-meo can potentiate the effects of other psychedelics when taken after 5-meo It is recommended to start with small doses and gradually increase if desired

What Is God - Leo Becomes Absolute Infinity (Aka God) - All Of Reality Explained https://youtu.be/4VNoe5tn3tg Author is Leo from Actualized.org Discussing experience of becoming absolute infinity, also known as God Substance creates 100% ego death, allowing for full clarity of thoughts but no sense of ego This substance is more powerful than traditional psychedelics such as LSD, DMT, ayahuasca, mushrooms, mescaline, MDMA, salvia, and ketamine Author previously an atheist, but this experience changed their perspective on the concept of God Ego death allows for a shift in perspective and understanding of reality Author's experience of becoming God involved feeling connected to everything and understanding the true nature of reality Will discuss in next episode how to achieve this insight in 15 minutes or less The concept of "absolute infinity" is used to describe the vastness of everything that exists and everything that could potentially exist, including alternate universes and every moment in time The idea of "absolute infinity" includes the concept of "God" The speaker had a personal experience of awakening to the realization of their own existence as "absolute infinity" This awakening caused the speaker to see their previous understanding of reality and the ego as an illusion The ego is the separate sense of self that people often identify with, but from the perspective of "absolute infinity," the ego is seen as an artificial construct The ego is often driven by fear and the desire for survival, but from the perspective of "absolute infinity," these fears and desires are seen as unnecessary because "absolute infinity" is all-inclusive and eternal The speaker suggests that the experience of awakening to "absolute infinity" can be shocking and transformative, causing a shift in perspective and understanding of the true nature of reality. The speaker believes that life is a game that means nothing They had an experience where they realized they were infinite and had everything they needed The speaker suggests that this realization is the quintessential experience of life and everything else is a distraction The speaker describes feeling like God while sleeping, even weeks after taking a chemical substance They suggest that God is both beautiful and terrifying, and that it is not something to experience every day The speaker encourages the reader to have this experience for themselves, rather than believing their account of it The speaker describes their current struggle to understand what they saw during their experience The speaker suggests that beliefs and thoughts are irrelevant and that the reader should have their own experience rather than relying on the speaker's account of it.

What's Wrong With Ego https://youtu.be/2dYF6Lf144U Ego is a concept that refers to the beliefs you have about your own self and identity Ego is often portrayed as a negative thing in personal development because it can lead to unhappiness and self-deception Ego operates through selfishness and can lead to negative consequences that are spread out over time Ego is not just about arrogance, but also includes the very existence of a person as a separate, individual entity Ego can cause problems in relationships, as it leads people to prioritize their own desires and needs over those of others Ego can also cause people to become attached to their beliefs and ideas, leading to a lack of flexibility and openness to change Personal development involves taming and transcending the ego, in order to become more self-aware and compassionate towards others. Not liking oneself may be related to one's identity or ego Suffering, boredom, loneliness, neediness, stress, chronic fatigue, addictions, sexual misconduct, lying, dishonesty, exploitative and manipulative behaviors, relationship problems, self-sabotaging behaviors, money problems, motivation problems, indecisiveness, confusion about gender identity, working the wrong job or career, inability to realize dreams, inability to experience deep spiritual experiences, inability to love others, commitment issues, lack of kindness and compassion, and lack of benevolence may be caused by ego Ego may be an obstacle to living a fulfilling and happy life The concept of Karma and how it can be observed in one's personal life and the collective problem The model of Spiral Dynamics, which explains the evolution of the psyche individually and collectively The pendulum swings between different stages of Spiral Dynamics: red, blue, orange, etc. The ego becomes more self-aware and recognizes the problems with its actions The importance of recognizing and taking responsibility for one's actions and their consequences The solution is to work on the problem rather than denying it The ego may resist change because it is associated with survival, but change is necessary for growth and escaping problems The concept of "identity versus essence" and how the ego holds onto identity to maintain control The need to let go of the ego and embrace essence in order to grow and experience true happiness

The 64 Most Fascinating Questions A Human Can Ask https://youtu.be/S3FE9_204Yg Introduction to deep interest in existential truth and importance of questioning 64 most profound and fascinating questions a human can ask, divided into four categories: metaphysical, epistemic, self, and consciousness First category: metaphysical questions about the structure and physics of reality How come existence exists at all What is existence and how does it relate to non-existence Why is reality structured as it is and are there other possible structures Is there a fundamental nature of reality Is there a grand unifying theory of everything Second category: epistemic questions about knowledge and understanding What is truth and how do we know it What is the nature of consciousness and how does it relate to the brain Is free will an illusion What is the nature of time Is there a meaning to life Third category: questions about the self What is the self Is the self an illusion What is the relationship between the self and the ego What is the nature of personal identity What is the relationship between the self and the body Fourth category: questions about consciousness What is consciousness How is it possible for consciousness to exist What is the relationship between consciousness and the brain Is there a fundamental difference between the mind and the brain Can artificial intelligence have consciousness Conclusion: importance of thinking about these questions in personal development and happiness Evolution: process of increasing complexity and intelligence in the universe, starting from hot gases and molecules, leading to stars, planets, complex organic molecules, life forms, human civilization, and possibly self-aware universe External reality: idea that there is an objective reality beyond our personal experiences, though all we have is our own experiences God: concept of a higher power, existence and nature of which is difficult to understand or define Thoughts: internal mental experiences that are hard to define or understand Origin of life: how life began, potentially a random or lucky phenomenon Epistemic category: study of knowledge, includes questions about how we can know things and how certain we can be about what we know Ethics: system of moral principles, how to determine what is right or wrong, and how to live a good life Art: expression of emotions and ideas through various mediums Meaning of life: reason for existence, purpose or significance of life Happiness: feeling of contentment or joy, how to achieve it in life Understanding reality and truth is a complex and multifaceted topic Different cultures and species may have different ways of understanding the world, and these may be equally valid or different but still lead to similar or higher truths Evaluating and identifying biases and blind spots in human understanding is important, but it is rarely considered Humans often view their own understanding as the ultimate and only way to arrive at truth, but other animals and creatures may have different ways of understanding reality There are many experts in various fields, and it can be difficult to determine which one is most trustworthy Different models of reality exist, including scientific and religious models, but it can be difficult to determine which one is most accurate Truth and understanding are distinct concepts, and understanding can come from various sources There is a distinction between minor truths and ultimate truths, and it is important to consider what the ultimate truth might be Consciousness may be a fundamental element of the universe, similar to matter, energy, time, and space Physics currently does not include any variables for consciousness Qualia (sensations, colors, sounds, and other subjective experiences) have laws and orders, but we do not currently know what these laws are or how they arise Devoting time to thinking about and answering existential questions can lead to personal growth and a more meaningful life Ancient philosophers were not just intellectuals, but also focused on personal growth and self-actualization through the exploration of philosophical questions The quality of a person's life is proportional to the quality of the questions they think about The pursuit of answering existential questions can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself, relationships, and the world.

How To Be A Man - Part 2 (Advanced Version) https://youtu.be/PYRg1fQYyzY The key to becoming more of a man is to be more of a woman The alpha stereotype of masculinity is a juvenile and inauthentic portrayal of what it means to be a man Masculinity encompasses a full spectrum, including feminine qualities Embracing both masculine and feminine qualities can be a powerful way to embody true masculinity and be highly attractive to women Techniques for increasing masculinity include: Cultivating emotional intelligence and vulnerability Developing strong boundaries and self-respect Cultivating purpose and drive Being able to express and embrace both aggression and tenderness Being able to be both dominant and receptive Allowing oneself to be influenced by others and admitting when one is wrong Being able to provide and protect for oneself and others Being able to connect with one's own femininity and embrace it Being able to connect with one's own masculinity and embrace it Being able to connect with the divine and embrace it Being authentic and expressing oneself authentically can be attractive to girls Girls are not only attracted to confident, "macho" men Being yourself, even if that includes being emotional or insecure, can be attractive as long as it is done authentically Neediness can repel girls and is generally unattractive To attract girls, it is important to be authentic, but not necessarily to try to be a certain type of person It can be helpful to work on resolving any inauthenticity that may be causing neediness In the short term, it may be helpful to either own and express neediness authentically or to try to hide it, though the latter may not be successful and could actually make the neediness more noticeable.

The Paradox Of Developing Self-Trust https://youtu.be/ypSinz7WB3I Introduction to the concept of self-trust in personal development Paradox of self-trust in personal development: advice to question and doubt oneself, but also to trust oneself completely Two extremes that newbies in personal development may fall into: blindly trusting certain aspects of themselves (e.g. beliefs, emotions, ego) and not trusting enough in other aspects (e.g. intuition, higher self) Importance of understanding fine-grained distinctions and details in order to know what to trust and what to doubt in oneself Four key areas to focus on when developing self-trust: beliefs, emotions, ego, and intuition/higher self Tips for developing self-trust in each of these areas: questioning and examining beliefs, practicing emotional intelligence, recognizing and managing ego, developing and trusting in intuition Conclusion: self-trust is a journey that involves both doubt and faith, and requires ongoing examination and self-awareness To do that, the problem is that the immune system has been corrupted by beliefs and will use those beliefs to attack any possibility for growth and consciousness in the future The issue is not about good or bad beliefs, but about being a slave to beliefs or being free of them Start to doubt every single one of your beliefs, including your mind and thoughts, and the entire structure of the rational mind Trace the justifications for your beliefs down to the bottom and doubt rationality and logic itself Be skeptical of skepticism itself and apply skepticism inward, not just outward Doubt religion and every belief about God, good and evil, and religious texts Do not rely on beliefs to guide your actions and make sure to constantly question and doubt them The speaker suggests that an individual's identity is not necessarily fixed and can be deconstructed and questioned The speaker advises the listener to spend a significant amount of time questioning their beliefs and where they came from, in order to understand their true self The ego is described as being concerned with self-defense, acquisition, and self-aggrandizement, while the higher self is described as being present, open, spontaneous, and playful The speaker advises the listener to look at their child self as a way to understand their original, authentic self The speaker advises the listener to be aware of the influence of traumatic events, other people, and cultural indoctrination on their beliefs and identity The speaker suggests that the original self can be a roadmap for how to improve one's current situation The speaker advises the listener to look at their values, beliefs, and behaviors and consider whether they align with their authentic self The speaker advises the listener to be open to new experiences and perspectives, and to let go of the need to be right or have control The speaker advises the listener to focus on the present moment and to be kind and compassionate towards themselves and others The process of determining what can be trusted involves extensive questioning and evaluation, "sorting the wheat from the chaff" Trusting oneself and one's own experiences, including the creative muse and natural abilities, is important Trusting awareness and direct experience is also important Trust cannot be gained simply by listening to someone else, it must be learned through firsthand experience Trust can be thought of as listening to the "angel on your shoulder" and ignoring the "devil on your shoulder" Waking up one day and fully trusting oneself would be powerful There are many concepts to teach that are important for success on the journey It is important to not just listen and understand, but also to take action on actionable steps Trust level can increase significantly within a couple of years with action and dedication Signing up for the newsletter can help to stay on track and not forget the important concepts People who have followed along and taken action have seen radical changes in their lives It is important to stay tuned and take action to see improvements in one's trust level.