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How To Be A Man - Part 2 (Advanced Version) https://youtu.be/PYRg1fQYyzY The key to becoming more of a man is to be more of a woman The alpha stereotype of masculinity is a juvenile and inauthentic portrayal of what it means to be a man Masculinity encompasses a full spectrum, including feminine qualities Embracing both masculine and feminine qualities can be a powerful way to embody true masculinity and be highly attractive to women Techniques for increasing masculinity include: Cultivating emotional intelligence and vulnerability Developing strong boundaries and self-respect Cultivating purpose and drive Being able to express and embrace both aggression and tenderness Being able to be both dominant and receptive Allowing oneself to be influenced by others and admitting when one is wrong Being able to provide and protect for oneself and others Being able to connect with one's own femininity and embrace it Being able to connect with one's own masculinity and embrace it Being able to connect with the divine and embrace it Being authentic and expressing oneself authentically can be attractive to girls Girls are not only attracted to confident, "macho" men Being yourself, even if that includes being emotional or insecure, can be attractive as long as it is done authentically Neediness can repel girls and is generally unattractive To attract girls, it is important to be authentic, but not necessarily to try to be a certain type of person It can be helpful to work on resolving any inauthenticity that may be causing neediness In the short term, it may be helpful to either own and express neediness authentically or to try to hide it, though the latter may not be successful and could actually make the neediness more noticeable.

The Paradox Of Developing Self-Trust https://youtu.be/ypSinz7WB3I Introduction to the concept of self-trust in personal development Paradox of self-trust in personal development: advice to question and doubt oneself, but also to trust oneself completely Two extremes that newbies in personal development may fall into: blindly trusting certain aspects of themselves (e.g. beliefs, emotions, ego) and not trusting enough in other aspects (e.g. intuition, higher self) Importance of understanding fine-grained distinctions and details in order to know what to trust and what to doubt in oneself Four key areas to focus on when developing self-trust: beliefs, emotions, ego, and intuition/higher self Tips for developing self-trust in each of these areas: questioning and examining beliefs, practicing emotional intelligence, recognizing and managing ego, developing and trusting in intuition Conclusion: self-trust is a journey that involves both doubt and faith, and requires ongoing examination and self-awareness To do that, the problem is that the immune system has been corrupted by beliefs and will use those beliefs to attack any possibility for growth and consciousness in the future The issue is not about good or bad beliefs, but about being a slave to beliefs or being free of them Start to doubt every single one of your beliefs, including your mind and thoughts, and the entire structure of the rational mind Trace the justifications for your beliefs down to the bottom and doubt rationality and logic itself Be skeptical of skepticism itself and apply skepticism inward, not just outward Doubt religion and every belief about God, good and evil, and religious texts Do not rely on beliefs to guide your actions and make sure to constantly question and doubt them The speaker suggests that an individual's identity is not necessarily fixed and can be deconstructed and questioned The speaker advises the listener to spend a significant amount of time questioning their beliefs and where they came from, in order to understand their true self The ego is described as being concerned with self-defense, acquisition, and self-aggrandizement, while the higher self is described as being present, open, spontaneous, and playful The speaker advises the listener to look at their child self as a way to understand their original, authentic self The speaker advises the listener to be aware of the influence of traumatic events, other people, and cultural indoctrination on their beliefs and identity The speaker suggests that the original self can be a roadmap for how to improve one's current situation The speaker advises the listener to look at their values, beliefs, and behaviors and consider whether they align with their authentic self The speaker advises the listener to be open to new experiences and perspectives, and to let go of the need to be right or have control The speaker advises the listener to focus on the present moment and to be kind and compassionate towards themselves and others The process of determining what can be trusted involves extensive questioning and evaluation, "sorting the wheat from the chaff" Trusting oneself and one's own experiences, including the creative muse and natural abilities, is important Trusting awareness and direct experience is also important Trust cannot be gained simply by listening to someone else, it must be learned through firsthand experience Trust can be thought of as listening to the "angel on your shoulder" and ignoring the "devil on your shoulder" Waking up one day and fully trusting oneself would be powerful There are many concepts to teach that are important for success on the journey It is important to not just listen and understand, but also to take action on actionable steps Trust level can increase significantly within a couple of years with action and dedication Signing up for the newsletter can help to stay on track and not forget the important concepts People who have followed along and taken action have seen radical changes in their lives It is important to stay tuned and take action to see improvements in one's trust level.

Guided Meditation - The Next Level Of Meditation https://youtu.be/7LscnZCzdak Introduction to guided meditation and importance of practicing meditation, not just learning about it Introduction to the concept of "letting go" and "surrender" in meditation Instructions on how to prepare for the meditation (find a comfortable seated position, set aside time, close eyes) Focus on the present moment and become aware of physical sensations in the body Take deep breaths and focus on the breath Imagine a place of peace and relaxation, and allow the mind to fully enter this place Practice non-attachment by allowing thoughts to come and go without engaging with them Imagine a white light surrounding the body and filling the body with peace and relaxation Return to awareness of the present moment and physical sensations in the body End of meditation and encouragement to make meditation a daily practice

How To Use Psychedelics For Personal Development https://youtu.be/CuOIECQ5zag Introduction to using psychedelics for personal development Warning about the potential dangers of using psychedelics Definition of psychedelics (not including recreational drugs like weed or cocaine) Four ways psychedelics can be used: for fun or escape, naive spirituality, personal exploration, self-actualization work Importance of having a clear intention before using psychedelics Tips for safe use of psychedelics, including finding a trustworthy source, having a sober guide, setting and setting, and starting with a low dose Factors to consider when using psychedelics for self-actualization work, including mental and emotional preparedness, finding the right psychedelic and dose, and integrating the experiences afterwards Conclusion and summary of key points It is important to study non-duality and enlightenment before taking psychedelics in order to better understand and deconstruct the visions that may be experienced Setting up a daily meditation practice and a self inquiry practice can help to ground and enhance the effects of the psychedelics It is important to have a quiet and safe setting when taking psychedelics to avoid distractions and bad trips It is important not to get seduced by the emotions and phenomena of the trip and to see them as reflections of the unconscious mind Leave time after the trip to integrate and process the experience Keep a journal to document and reflect on the trip Work with a guide or therapist who is experienced in working with psychedelics Be cautious with dosage and the type of substance being taken Start with a smaller dose and gradually increase as needed and as comfortable Do not mix psychedelics with other substances, particularly alcohol Make sure to have a sober sitter present when taking psychedelics It is important to be in a good mental and physical state before taking psychedelics Do thorough research on the substance being taken and its potential risks and benefits Set aside an entire day for a psychedelic experience Prepare for the experience by ensuring safety, such as hiding dangerous objects, stocking the fridge with food and drinks, and having a vomit bucket nearby Meditate for half an hour to an hour before consuming the substance Consume the substance on an empty stomach, but not ravenously hungry Avoid rushing the process and take the substance around noontime to allow for a full day of experiencing the trip Have a comfortable, safe, and familiar environment to experience the trip in Have a sober sitter present to assist in case of any emergencies or negative experiences Reflect on the experience afterwards and integrate any insights or insights into daily life Be responsible and mindful in the use of psychedelics, considering personal and societal consequences Importance of being an experienced meditator and studying non-duality for understanding psychedelic experiences Warning against using psychedelics as a shortcut for self-actualization or enlightenment The radical nature of enlightenment and the need for hard self-inquiry in everyday life Potential for delusion with psychedelic experiences Advising against using psychedelic experiences to justify existing beliefs or ideologies Future plans to share research and insights on psychedelics in future episodes Encouragement to like, comment, share, and sign up for the newsletter at actualized.org

The Amazing Power Of Psychedelics - Leo Does Magic Psilocybin Mushrooms! https://youtu.be/ypDRRcMKj7E The speaker, Leo, is discussing the potential of using psychedelic substances for self actualization The information is for educational and harm-reduction purposes only Leo is not responsible or liable for any damage caused while using psychedelics Leo has been doing research on psychedelics and wants to share his experiences and results with the viewer Leo is interested in using psychedelics for self actualization, consciousness work, and enlightenment Leo will talk about his experiences with magic psilocybin mushrooms and the potential for using psychedelics for meaningful growth Leo will also discuss the pitfalls of using psychedelics During his experiences with mushrooms, Leo noticed an increase in his awareness and meditative state Leo compared the effects of mushrooms to the heightened awareness and sensitivity experienced after a ten-day meditation retreat The mushrooms also caused Leo to have a strong sense of unity and connectedness with everything Leo experienced a feeling of having a "higher self" or a "witness consciousness" while on mushrooms Leo believes that psychedelics can be a tool for personal growth and self-discovery, but emphasizes the importance of caution and responsibility when using them. Person feels like they are back in the Amazon, like a "savage" or a child raised by wolves in the Amazon This feeling is not negative, but rather makes the person feel authentic and intoxicated in their body Person starts to move and behave in an animalistic way, feeling disinhibited and authentic Person has an epiphany about the importance of being authentic and using their body in a more natural way Person also experiences delusions and everything becomes funny Person becomes aware of the interconnectedness of everything and the importance of love and compassion Person has a profound realization about the nature of their own consciousness and the nature of reality Person feels a deep sense of unity with the universe and a newfound appreciation for the beauty and complexity of the world around them. The narrator experiences hallucinations while under the influence of mushrooms The narrator's mind becomes "meta" and they are able to see the difference between their everyday reality and their mushroom reality The narrator's mind is able to see the "meta lessons" or deeper meaning behind their mushroom experience The narrator realizes that their life narrative and the idea of being "born" as a human being is a fiction The narrator has an "ontological orgasm" and becomes aware of the distinction between real and unreal as being groundless and not real The narrator's mind is injected with a "firehose of wisdom" and they experience "divine bliss" and "divine love" The narrator sees the infinite nature of existence and is overwhelmed with feelings of love and unity The narrator's mushroom experience gives them a deeper understanding and appreciation of the interconnectedness of all things The narrator is left with a sense of awe and gratitude after their mushroom experience and is able to carry this perspective into their everyday life. The speaker experienced nirvana and was fully conscious of it The speaker felt that there was nothing left to achieve in life and that the idea of achievement is a delusion The speaker had insights about their life purpose and how to be more authentic The speaker regularly has insights, many of which are the source of ideas for their episodes These insights are genuine and come from a deep place, and the speaker is often surprised by them The speaker wants to share their insights with others, but recognizes that it may be difficult or impossible to communicate them effectively The speaker's trip lasted for a few hours and then ended The speaker had an ontological orgasm during the trip The main challenge for humanity has always been ignorance Sages, saints, Zen masters, and Yogis have known the truth about enlightenment for thousands of years, but regular people are too deeply in a trance to comprehend it This has been the case throughout human history and will likely continue unless there is a breakthrough technology to fix the problem Psychedelics can give people a taste of enlightenment, but they can also be misused and cause psychological damage Psychedelics should only be used by responsible people who are already doing self-actualization work and understand that psychedelics do not lead to enlightenment on their own It is important to have a well-prepared mind and to not get lost in the delusions and phenomena that can come with psychedelics

The 3 Levels Of Personal Development Work https://youtu.be/chROpiJaOcw Personal development work can be classified into three levels: newbie, intermediate, and advanced The newbie level involves people who are coming from a place of deficiency and are seeking external solutions to their problems Characteristics of the newbie include: seeking results, blaming the environment for their problems, looking for external solutions, and focusing on surface-level changes The intermediate level involves people who have made some progress but still have some deficiencies and are seeking deeper understanding and internal solutions Characteristics of the intermediate level include: seeking understanding, looking for internal solutions, and focusing on deeper changes The advanced level involves people who have largely overcome their deficiencies and are seeking self-actualization and self-transcendence Characteristics of the advanced level include: seeking self-actualization and self-transcendence, looking for internal solutions, and focusing on the most profound changes. Science has advanced significantly and society has evolved through the Renaissance, the European Enlightenment, and into the 21st century The narrator believes that humanity is currently in the "deep dark ages" in terms of awareness and self-development The "newbie" (a term for someone new to a concept or subject) lacks understanding of spirituality and tends to dismiss it as "fluffy nonsense" or adopt a phony version of it The newbie is also impatient and seeks shortcuts, such as using psychedelics to achieve enlightenment rather than doing the hard work of meditation and self-improvement The newbie values cheap or free knowledge, does not recognize the value of investing in learning, and takes wisdom for granted when it is presented to them for free The newbie has a narrow focus and may not see the value in learning about concepts or subjects outside of their immediate interests The newbie may also be lacking in self-awareness and self-reflection, and may not be aware of their own limitations and limitations of their perspective. The deepest and most advanced wisdom is often simple but can be overlooked by the mind Society is not currently capable of fully understanding or utilizing the deepest wisdom available The journey to understanding the deepest truths involves personal growth and inner work, moving from the beginner to intermediate to advanced stages The transition from intermediate to advanced involves letting go of accumulated knowledge and can be difficult and confusing Characteristics of advanced work include radical open-mindedness and being grounded in reality Advanced work also involves being able to tolerate and utilize advanced ideas and concepts, and being able to integrate them into one's understanding of the world The ultimate goal of advanced work is to reach a state of enlightenment or understanding of the true nature of reality. Two characters discussed: the newbie and the advanced student Most people are intermediate or closer to the newbie stage Being a newbie is not bad, but it's important to be aware of where you are and where you're going Advice for newbies: focus on satisfying deep needs, install basic habits, cut out distractions and addictions, and be open-minded Advanced topics may not be immediately relevant for newbies, but can be previewed for future reference Newbies should focus on practical issues before tackling advanced concepts It's important to find the right balance between practicality and idealism Don't get too caught up in the search for enlightenment or personal development, but do seek to improve yourself in meaningful ways Remember that personal development is a journey and it's okay to take your time and make mistakes along the way.

You're Not Happy Because You Don't Really Want To Be https://youtu.be/5a9q6yPiwP0 Introduction to the question of why some people are not happy Possibility that people may not actually want to be happy Distinction between conditional and unconditional happiness Factors that contribute to conditional happiness and its limitations Unconditional happiness as a state of being happy no matter what circumstances arise How to cultivate unconditional happiness through mindset and personal development work Conclusion and encouragement to consider the possibility of wanting unconditional happiness. The speaker believes that the listener's motivation is based on the premise of "carrots and sticks" (rewards and punishments) The listener has a hard time believing that they could be happy while their child is being tortured and raped because their motivation is based on this premise The speaker suggests that the listener's emotional triggers and motivations are connected and changing the way they use emotions could be dangerous The ultimate solution is to change the listener's foundation for motivation and accept unconditional happiness The listener has assimilated certain actions and behaviors into their identity, making it difficult to change them even if they are not making the listener happy The listener is afraid of letting go of things that are part of their identity because they fear losing their sense of self The speaker suggests that the listener's motivations and behaviors are not producing the desired result of happiness and that they need to be willing to let go of their identity in order to achieve happiness The speaker advises the listener to consider what they truly value and prioritize their actions accordingly, rather than trying to conform to societal expectations or their own self-image. Person imagines being locked in a small, solitary confinement style box for the rest of their life Most people would say it would be impossible to be happy in this situation due to lacking basic needs and social interaction However, the speaker argues that highly developed, self-actualized individuals do not need these things to be happy The process of becoming self-actualized involves purifying oneself of needs, including basic needs like food and air Overcoming the fear of death is a key part of this process Being detached from needs does not mean abstaining from them, but rather not being attached to them The key to happiness in this hypothetical situation is realizing the extraordinary nature of consciousness The universe is infinite, and the experience of consciousness is a tiny, but essential, part of it Attachment to physical needs and external circumstances hinders one's ability to fully appreciate and enjoy this experience True happiness comes from within and does not depend on external circumstances The idea that external circumstances are necessary for happiness is a societal construct and a form of self-imposed suffering

10 Important Things You Don't Know You Want https://youtu.be/iwE4NhPv8aQ The speaker discusses the idea that there are things that people really want deep down, but are not aware of These things can create problems in people's lives because they are not pursuing what they truly want, and may be misguided in their self-improvement efforts The speaker suggests that many people do not know what they truly want and the things they think they want are not genuine The speaker argues that if a person were given the opportunity to make wishes, they would likely choose things that would not bring them true satisfaction because their mind is tricking them and they are far off track from what they truly want The speaker discusses 10 specific things that people may not realize they want, but would bring them true fulfillment and satisfaction if they pursued them These things include: becoming a self-actualized person, becoming a master of personal development, developing a deep and meaningful relationship, becoming a master of personal finance, developing a sense of personal meaning and purpose, developing a sense of personal identity, becoming a master of personal health, developing a sense of personal creativity, developing a sense of personal leadership, and developing a sense of personal spirituality The speaker encourages people to consider these things and to question their current wants and goals to see if they align with their true desires. Inauthentic desires can stand in the way of authentic desires Strategizing towards specific goals is important A dispassionate mind is desirable, meaning it is detached and treats everything in reality evenly This kind of mind is rare and may be feared or misunderstood A dispassionate mind is also unattached from any ideology and is open-minded Most people have the opposite of a dispassionate mind, with a lot of pet theories and ideas that they love to defend It is desirable to stop fighting and debating pet ideas, but it can be hard to let go of them Achieving a dispassionate mind takes work and discipline Authentic desires often come from a place of vulnerability and insecurity In order to fulfill authentic desires, it is important to embrace vulnerability and insecurity and not let them hold you back It is also important to be honest with oneself about what one really wants It is common to avoid examining or acknowledging certain desires because they may be uncomfortable or scary It is important to embrace and work through discomfort and fear in order to fulfill authentic desires Fulfilling authentic desires may require making changes in one's life or taking risks It is important to be patient and trust that the process of fulfilling authentic desires will unfold in its own time. The speaker has discovered something new that they didn't know existed before The speaker believes that one reason they weren't told about this new discovery is because the listener is closed-minded and resistant to learning about it The listener is also not willing to put in the work to learn and grow in order to gain this new knowledge The speaker believes that the listener wants truth, but doesn't realize it The listener is currently pursuing things like survival, comfort, security, and success, but the speaker believes that their ultimate goal is to live a life committed to truth The listener has no idea what truth is and will need to discover it for themselves The speaker warns that the listener may try to set conditions on their pursuit of truth, such as not wanting to leave their current job or relationship The speaker encourages the listener to be open to learning and growing, and to be willing to let go of their current beliefs and ideologies in order to find truth The speaker suggests that the listener may benefit from practices like meditation, retreats, and reading books in order to find truth The speaker believes that finding truth will cure the listener of their current problems and desires, and will lead to a more fulfilling life. Being lost plus layers of denial and delusion is a challenging position to be in True self development requires acknowledging that goals may be immature, neurotic, and leading in the wrong direction Society and even spiritual teachers often avoid confronting individuals about their misguided actions or goals The speaker believes they understand the individual better than the individual understands themselves and that the individual's problems and choices are predictable and not unique The speaker believes they can help the individual by interrupting their patterns and questioning their actions and goals The individual may resist change because they are attached to their ego and their self-image The individual may be resistant to the truth because it requires them to confront their own inadequacies and to let go of their ego The process of self-discovery and personal growth involves facing and working through these challenges.

The Psychology Of Small Business Success - Top 5 Errors Of Aspiring Entrepreneurs https://youtu.be/ME50xt3ONuQ Introduction to the psychology of small business success Top five errors that aspiring entrepreneurs make Explanation that real entrepreneurship is creating something from scratch Personal experiences of watching friends and family try and fail at starting businesses Importance of understanding the psychological factors that contribute to business success or failure Error #1: Not being practical enough about marketplace realities Error #2: Underestimating the time and effort required to succeed in business Error #3: Failing to validate business ideas before committing to them Error #4: Not understanding or addressing the competition Error #5: Not having the right mindset for entrepreneurship Conclusion and encouragement to keep learning and improving in order to succeed in business Starting a new car company involves overcoming practical obstacles such as financing, competition, and regulation To succeed, you need to be more nuanced and flexible than the problems you face To find success in your specific business idea, you need to identify a unique angle or leverage point within your market niche This could be based on factors such as price, quality, unique features, being first to market, or your personal style and brand It's important to identify the mechanism by which cash flow will be generated to sustain business activities Business is a process of trial and error, and it's important to be open to learning and adapting as you go To build a successful business, it's important to have a clear vision and be able to communicate it effectively to others It's also important to be able to execute on your vision and turn it into reality through hard work and persistence. Starting a business can be isolating and lonely Being a successful entrepreneur requires self-governance and the ability to handle emotional labor Self-governance and emotional labor are developable skills Many people struggle with self-governance and emotional labor, which can hold them back in their careers Actualized.org is a resource for developing self-governance and handling emotional labor Themes that come up frequently in entrepreneurship include: self-governance, emotional labor, loneliness, and the need to clarify and develop ideas before bringing on team members Being a CEO or top executive requires a high degree of self-governance and emotional labor, which is why they are often paid well Technical skills and physical labor are not as important for success as self-governance and emotional labor Self-governance and emotional labor can be developed through practice and self-reflection Do tons of research on your marketplace Test out different ideas in small, experimental forms Look for ideas that have practical value to people Prove at least one marketing avenue Generate at least one or two sales to prove cash flow Work on cultivating self governance and taking responsibility for your actions Focus on learning and improving, rather than making money Be open to a range of ideas and be willing to discard those that don't work Find a way to test out your big ideas in a short period of time Look for problems that people have in their lives and use those as the basis for new ideas Make sure your ideas have a practical fit with the needs of the marketplace Evolution requires organisms to develop consciousness in order to thrive Opposite of awareness is mechanical behavior Mechanical behavior is deeply unsatisfying for humans because it goes against their conscious core To be a successful dreamer, one must grow and understand how their mind works The speaker's life purpose course is designed to help people find and articulate their life purpose and use it to fuel their business The course is practical and includes exercises to help people figure out their life purpose More content will be released to newsletter subscribers, including information on self governance Speaker encourages viewers to like, comment, share the episode, and visit the website for more information.

Be Fucking Patient! - How To Deal With Lack Of Results https://youtu.be/Ie8olvmaZug Introduction to the concept of patience in achieving goals Importance of reminding oneself to be patient on the journey of self-actualization Reasons for lack of results: bad technique/method, unrealistic expectations, sabotaging oneself Mindset of underestimating what can be accomplished in the long term and overestimating in the short term Example of Tony Robbins and his journey to success Importance of persistence and resilience in achieving goals The "one step back, two steps forward" mentality The role of hard work and consistent effort in achieving success The benefits of patience, including increased resilience, the ability to handle setbacks, and the ability to make better decisions The dangers of impatience, including negative emotions and self-sabotage Strategies for developing patience, including setting realistic goals and timelines, focusing on the present moment, and practicing gratitude The importance of self-reflection in developing patience and overcoming setbacks. The book mentioned in the text is a real research project and is therefore world-changing The author believes that starting a business, even if it takes longer than expected, is worth it for those who enjoy being their own boss and setting their own schedule The same goes for those looking for a relationship and a marriage; it is worth the wait, even if it takes longer than expected Patience is especially important for those who are new to a project or starting at a place of deficiency, such as being depressed or struggling with finances These individuals should visualize patience as an ointment and use it liberally to hold them over until they start seeing results Newbies may often be in a rush to see results, but this can actually keep them stuck in the "newbie" phase for most of their lives Instead, they should focus on the process and trust that the results will come eventually. The key to losing weight is to start by going to the gym for 30 minutes every day, rather than trying to do a long workout all at once It's important to be patient and not try to rush the process, as some things need time to develop Self-sabotage and impatience can hinder progress Patience only works when taking action, it's not about sitting around and waiting for a miracle An example of needing to take action and be patient is if you were stranded in the Sahara desert and needed to find water, you would need to try different strategies and be patient in the process It's important to focus on the journey rather than the destination It's important to have a clear vision and specific goals Break down big goals into smaller, actionable steps Focus on taking consistent action and making progress, rather than obsessing over the end result Avoid comparison to others, as everyone's journey is different Don't be too hard on yourself and remember to celebrate progress and accomplishments.

Awareness Alone Is Curative - How To Auto-Correct Unwanted Behaviors https://youtu.be/qy_INVm_Pw0 Awareness alone can cure unwanted behaviors Neurosis can be defined as excessive use of force to change behaviors, leading to self-sabotaging patterns Alternative to actively changing behaviors is to shine the light of awareness on the problem, trusting that with sufficient awareness the problem will dissolve It is not possible to engage in unhealthy behaviors while fully conscious To apply this principle, practice mindfulness and self-observation to bring awareness to unhealthy behaviors Practice self-inquiry to identify and understand the underlying causes and motivations for the behaviors Use affirmations to reinforce positive behaviors and beliefs Surround yourself with supportive people who can help you to develop healthier habits and behaviors Remember that change happens gradually and may require patience and persistence. Doing something unhealthy to distract from the fact that it is unhealthy Surrendering to an activity to avoid being fully conscious of it Awareness is different than logical knowing Awareness is an in-the-moment observation Developing an awareness muscle through consistent observation Eliminating neurotic needs by shining a light of awareness on them Being aware is not the same as being judgmental Being aware allows for the opportunity to change behavior The power of observation can lead to understanding patterns and becoming familiar with things Self-awareness is the first step in personal growth and development. The system (our thoughts and beliefs) tries to maintain homeostasis and resists change To create real change, we must raise awareness The web of beliefs exists within a sea of awareness Change comes from awareness, not by applying force within the system Self-sabotage occurs when parts of the web of beliefs turn against each other To create change, we must let go of the effort to force it and work on raising awareness A new way of thinking is required to grasp that there is something beyond our beliefs and thoughts We can start to trigger awareness by feeding the right kinds of thoughts and beliefs into our network, leading to an "aha" moment.

Meditation For Beginners https://youtu.be/fXmG1x1ih1U Meditation is the most important self-improvement habit Meditation is a gold mine, not just a single nugget Introduction to the concept of thinking vs. awareness How to make the distinction between thinking and awareness through meditation Importance of practicing this distinction Benefits of meditating consistently How to make meditation a consistent habit Tips for overcoming common obstacles to meditating Advising to continue learning about meditation through various techniques Meditation is important for dealing with negative emotions and self-doubt The goal is to sit for 20 minutes a day, gradually increasing to 60 minutes over the course of a year The key is to just do it, and not worry about whether it's "perfect" or not Don't worry about the details, just focus on sitting for the designated time each day Many people neglect this important self-improvement habit The speaker used to struggle with meditation but has seen significant improvements over time

How To Stop Moralizing - Removing The SHOULDs From Your Life https://youtu.be/eg7us76XBEQ Introduction to the topic of should statements and how they negatively impact our lives Personal story about ex-girlfriend who was raised with strict moralistic beliefs and how it affected her ability to function as an adult Definition of should statements: any time someone tells you what you should or should not do, think, or feel Should statements often lead to guilt, shame, bitterness, and blaming The power of realizing and eliminating should statements from our lives Steps to stop moralizing and remove should statements from our lives: Identify and recognize should statements in your life Reframe the should statement as a preference or desire Consider the consequences of following or not following the should statement Make a conscious choice based on your own values and goals Practice self-acceptance and give yourself permission to make mistakes Conclusion: the benefits of eliminating should statements and living a more authentic and fulfilling life Rules and expectations can be arbitrarily created and not necessarily based in fact or truth It is important to question where rules and expectations come from and whether they are truly valid or necessary Certain cultures, such as Confucian and Islamic cultures, are particularly moralistic and may not acknowledge that their values and norms are arbitrarily created It is important to question and challenge dogmas and cultural norms, especially if they come from a moralistic culture The process of questioning should statements (e.g. "I should go to the gym") can help to identify and challenge arbitrary rules or expectations The speaker suggests that it is natural to feel frustrated when meditating and that accepting this reality can make the practice easier The speaker advises letting go of "should" statements and accepting reality as it is "Should" statements create an idealized picture of perfection and can lead to feelings of obligation, conflict, and resistance The gap between an idealized picture of reality and actual reality can cause frustration and suffering It can be helpful to redefine perfection as reality and to strive for a one-to-one correspondence between the two The speaker advises acknowledging and accepting genuine desires, even if they may be considered "bad" by societal standards It can be helpful to let go of expectations and to cultivate a beginner's mind when approaching meditation and other practices It can be scary to let go of resistance, but it can also be liberating. The speaker will address objections to this idea later in the text. The idea of being "good" is artificial and part of the old paradigm Following one's natural desires will lead to being good Being lazy is a function of the old paradigm Following one's passions leads to authentic motivation and effortless productivity To follow one's passions, one must let go of the rules and accept all natural desires The point is not to never make negative statements again, but to change paradigms and accept oneself more Accepting everything does not mean accepting harmful or oppressive beliefs or actions To make reality better, one must first accept it as it is and then take action from a place of consciousness and acceptance rather than resistance The goal is to be in a state of flow and to align with the present moment To achieve this state, one must let go of the ego and attachment to outcomes The ego resists the present moment and tries to control it, leading to suffering Letting go of the ego allows one to be present and to act in alignment with one's values and desires without resistance Consequences exist Justification should not be used to excuse actions Authentic desire and motives are important Total freedom can be achieved by following desires and doing what you want This technique is advanced and may not be suitable for everyone If the only thing preventing harmful actions is a rule, it may be best to continue following that rule Basic therapy work may be necessary to address harmful desires Take responsibility for desires and actions Slowly question and evaluate rules in your life Be mindful of "should" statements and whether they align with your authentic desires Trust your intuition and do what feels right for you

A Rant Against Morality - Very Foundational https://youtu.be/RLqFrF-QTCI Rant against morality and how it can negatively impact personal growth and well-being Developmental psychologist Lawrence Kohlberg identified three stages of morality: preconventional, conventional, and post-conventional Preconventional morality includes acting to avoid punishment and doing good for rewards Conventional morality includes conformity to social norms and following the rules of a higher authority Post-conventional morality includes considering the social contract and universal ethical principles Most people remain stuck at the preconventional or conventional stages of morality Morality based on punishment, reward, conformity, and authority can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, blame, victim mentality, righteousness, and anger To move beyond these negative consequences of morality, one must evolve to the post-conventional stage and consider universal ethical principles This requires introspection, self-awareness, and personal growth The goal is to move beyond rigid moral systems and embrace ethical principles that allow for flexibility and adaptability in different situations This can lead to increased well-being, fulfillment, and personal potential. The speaker discusses the concept of moralism and the rules people set for themselves and others Moralism is not just a religious problem, it is a broader issue of "mechanical illness" and blindly following rules The problem with moralism is that it can lead to mechanically following rules that don't fit real life situations and can even lead to acting immorally The rules people set for themselves are driven by fear and an insecure ego that needs to protect itself and its model of reality People's identities are incomplete and their ego tries to defend this identity This can lead to a lack of awareness and consciousness in decision making The speaker encourages the listener to investigate these concepts for themselves to see how they play out in their own lives. The ego's main goal is to feel powerful and alive The ego's illusion of self is maintained through constant fighting The problem with moralizing is that it leads to hypocrisy and intractable vices Moralizing also leads to feelings of guilt, shame, hatred, and judgment To cure these negative feelings, one should drop their moralism Moralism includes not just preaching to others, but also subtle ways in which one judges themselves and others Text is about the idea of "should statements" and how they can be problematic People often have ideas about what should or shouldn't exist in the world (e.g. thieves, Nazis, rapists, materialism, spirituality) These ideas are based on the ego's arrogance and do not reflect reality To reach "transcendent morality," one must accept and understand that reality is exactly as it should be This realization means that it is no longer possible to judge others, even those who may be considered "evil" The only other option is to deny the reality of these individuals or situations, which requires mental gymnastics and denial To reach transcendent morality, it is necessary to surrender to reality and let go of judgment Development of consciousness is necessary for understanding reality This process takes significant time and effort It is not a belief system or set of rules, but rather a self-actualization process It is threatening to the ego and counterintuitive Requires commitment to truth and reality, rather than personal agenda True religion is this process, but mainstream society and religion often do not reflect this Society is not as advanced as we may think Deep ideas may not be reflected in mainstream society Evil does not truly exist, it is a mental label Integration of the "shadow" self minimizes the appearance of evil Hypocrisy may be present when reacting to harm caused by others Ego-based reactions are understandable but not helpful in the long term The ultimate goal is to transcend the ego and reach a state of pure love and understanding

How To Stop Being A Victim - Part 2 - What All Victims Fail To Understand https://youtu.be/cIeQ2a8WmTc Introduction to episode on how to stop being a victim, part 2 Request for listener to identify an area in their life where they feel like a victim Definition of a victim: someone who thinks the external world is a greater obstacle than they are to themselves Explanation that the only obstacle to a person is themselves Objections and counter examples that may come up when hearing this truth Importance of understanding and internalizing this truth to move past a victim mindset Analysis of the role of responsibility and accountability in victimhood Explanation that victims blame external circumstances or other people for their problems Discussion of the dangers and consequences of a victim mindset Importance of taking responsibility for one's own life and well-being Steps to take to move past a victim mindset, including recognizing and accepting responsibility, setting boundaries, and developing a proactive attitude Recap of key points and call to action to start working on moving past a victim mindset. The speaker believes that problems in the outer world can be traced back to issues in the inner world The speaker encourages the listener to consider the idea that the inner world is more important than the outer world as a thought experiment The speaker suggests that the listener may be stuck in a pattern of trying to fix problems in the outer world without addressing the root issues in the inner world The speaker compares the projection of inner issues onto the outer world to a dust particle on a movie projector lens causing a smudge on the screen The speaker advises the listener to do the "deeper work" of addressing inner issues in order to truly solve problems and improve their circumstances The speaker mentions having more advanced resources to help the listener do this deeper work, but notes that the listener must first understand and accept the ideas presented in this conversation.

Lifestyle Minimalism - Renouncing Your Busy Stupid Life https://youtu.be/XR7mjtoAdpM Introduction to the concept of lifestyle minimalism Explanation of how the pace of life can affect the quality of life Suggestion to slow down life by 25-50% Introduction to the idea of material minimalism Personal experience with material minimalism Shift to discussing spiritual minimalism Explanation of spiritual minimalism as renouncing unnecessary activities and commitments Examples of unnecessary activities and commitments Importance of slowing down and simplifying in order to achieve self-actualization Tips for implementing spiritual minimalism Conclusion and encouragement to try out the lifestyle minimalism approach The speaker suggests that people often return to their fast-paced lifestyles after a retreat or vacation, forgetting about the sense of fulfillment and peace they experienced during that time The speaker proposes flipping the typical dynamic of a fast-paced life with short intervals of relaxation, to a slower-paced life with short intervals of busyness The speaker asks the listener to visualize what their life would be like if it was slowed down by 50% and to consider how this would impact their fulfillment levels, mood, and the quality of their life The speaker notes that some people may have negative reactions to the idea of slowing down, indicating that they are addicted to stimulation and success The speaker suggests that true success cannot be achieved without fulfillment and suggests incorporating mindfulness and being present into one's daily life The speaker encourages the listener to take small steps to slow down their pace of life, such as taking time to meditate or go for a walk. The speaker suggests that people often achieve material success but are not fulfilled The speaker believes that materialistic pursuits are ultimately pointless The speaker recommends focusing on a limited number of key things in life, including meditation, enlightenment, one's life purpose, learning and education, slow deliberate mindful action, contemplation, and "being" The speaker advises minimizing other commitments and activities in order to focus on these key things The speaker claims that following this strategy for a long period of time will lead to an extraordinary and satisfying life The speaker cautions against taking this advice to an extreme and becoming a recluse The speaker acknowledges that following this advice may be difficult due to fear of sabotage to existing success, guilt about social obligations, and difficulty in imagining the long-term benefits of this strategy. The speaker believes that there is a turning point that can lead to a meaningful and enriching life or a mundane and unfulfilling life The choice is up to the listener The speaker has been consistently releasing videos for a few years and people have been implementing the advice and seeing positive results The speaker's advice is practical and directly applicable for increasing fulfillment The listener should test out the advice for themselves and see the results in their own life The speaker has a newsletter and a life purpose course that may be helpful for the listener The speaker will see the listener again soon.

Grasping The Illusory Nature Of Thought https://youtu.be/BEQTk75XFjU Introduction to the topic of grasping the illusory nature of thought Importance of understanding the true nature of thoughts Thoughts are not physical objects and their nature is illusory The difference between having and lacking awareness of the nature of thoughts Thoughts are real, but can be deceptive and attributed with more meaning than they actually have The process of becoming aware of the nature of thoughts through direct experience Thoughts as patterns and habits in the brain The role of emotions in shaping and reinforcing thoughts The impact of external factors on thoughts and behavior The power of mindfulness and self-awareness in changing thought patterns and habits The value of developing a practice of introspection and self-inquiry Conclusion and encouragement to explore the nature of thoughts for self-actualization and freedom. Meaning is acquired over time and the human brain is capable of creating connections and meanings between symbols Meaning is arbitrary and an illusion Negative emotional reactions and suffering are often caused by the meanings we assign to things Becoming mindful of our thoughts and understanding the illusory nature of meaning can help reduce suffering and improve self-improvement Technique called "flattening the illusion" can be used to become more aware of the literal nature of things and break free from the meanings our mind assigns to them Example of looking at a picture and perceiving it as a three-dimensional cube, but recognizing that it is just flat markings on a flat surface Exercise of listing the literal characteristics of a chair, rather than the meanings or associations we have with it Applying the technique to more meaningful and personal concepts, such as relationships, money, and career Recognizing that the meanings we assign to things are just stories and narratives created by our minds, rather than inherent truths The importance of becoming aware of the arbitrary nature of meaning and letting go of the meanings we assign to things in order to reduce suffering and improve well-being. The topic is mindfulness and the power it has to shape our thoughts and meanings in life Mindfulness can be applied to thoughts, feelings, sensations, emotions, sights, and sounds Thoughts are particularly important because they construct the meanings in our lives Problems in life come from the meanings we assign to situations When we are overrun by thoughts and lost in a sea of them, we can start to believe that our reality is defined by those thoughts and live in an "augmented reality" Gaining mastery over how we assign meaning to things can be powerful, but it requires practice Unraveling the web of meanings we have created can take time, but with practice we can develop the ability to become the master of our own minds and meanings With this ability, we can dissolve problems and become more resilient in the face of challenges The key is to practice regularly and consistently, and to be patient with ourselves as we learn to control our thoughts and meanings. The speaker believes that to create the life you want, you must first master your mind The speaker will show the listener how to master their mind to the deepest possible extent If the listener sticks with the speaker for a period of time, they will experience significant changes in their perspective and what they believe is possible in life The listener should sign up for the newsletter to stay updated and continue learning with the speaker.

Enlightenment Guided Inquiry - The Neti Neti Method https://youtu.be/Oq4NDMNDzSs Introduction to enlightenment guided inquiry using the neti neti method from Advaita Vedanta Neti neti means "not this, not that" and is a process of elimination towards enlightenment This method is not for those new to the concept of enlightenment, but can be effective for those who are clueless about it The goal of enlightenment is to discover one's true self Most people think they already know who they are, but there is often ignorance about this and a lack of consideration for the possibility of being something other than what is already believed The purpose of this exercise is to create the possibility of being something other than what has been believed the entire life This requires an openness that most people cannot stomach The goal is to have a direct experience of one's true nature, not to change beliefs It is important to understand that the words being used do not have a connection to the experience itself The goal is to use the words as a springboard for the direct experience It is important to relax and let go of the ego, as the ego is the barrier to enlightenment The ego is the idea of being a separate individual It is important to let go of the ego in order to experience the unity of all things The ego is also the source of suffering It is important to let go of attachments and identification with the ego The process of neti neti involves repeating "not this, not that" to eliminate all possibilities of what one is not The goal is to reach a state of pure consciousness or "I am" In this state, there is no ego and no separation It is a state of pure bliss and unity with all things This can be a difficult process, but it is worth it for the benefits of enlightenment. The speaker asks the listener to close their eyes and notice the darkness that appears The speaker then asks the listener to open their eyes and observe the colors and shapes that appear The speaker then asks the listener to close their eyes again and notice that the colors and shapes have changed The speaker points out that sight, or visual experience, is constantly changing and therefore cannot be what the listener fundamentally is The speaker then asks the listener to consider if they are a sound, but points out that sounds also constantly change and therefore cannot be what the listener fundamentally is The speaker then asks the listener to consider if they are a taste, but points out that taste also constantly changes and therefore cannot be what the listener fundamentally is The speaker then asks the listener to consider if they are a smell, but points out that smell also constantly changes and therefore cannot be what the listener fundamentally is The speaker then asks the listener to consider if they are a touch or sensation, but points out that touch and sensation also constantly change and therefore cannot be what the listener fundamentally is The speaker concludes that the listener cannot be any of these senses or experiences, and asks the listener to consider what they are if not these things. The "I thought" is not constantly active, so it cannot be the "self" The "body" is a combination of feelings and thoughts and is not constantly active, so it cannot be the "self" The "intuition" is a feeling or thought and is not constantly active, so it cannot be the "self" The "perceiver" or "source self" is not an experience and cannot be found through examination The self is not a body, mind, brain, neurons, feeling, intuition, thought, or experience The self is a question mark and the true nature of the self is unknown The speaker has completed a guided visualization and is now discussing the potential outcomes One outcome is that the listener had a direct experience of nothingness This experience is rare and may take a lot of work to achieve Most people's minds are too closed to have this experience If the listener had a direct experience of nothingness, it may be scary but is ultimately positive If the listener did not have this experience, they should keep questioning their assumptions about reality and locate themselves in space The speaker claims that this practice is profound and can be done repeatedly to eventually "discover empirically that you are nothing" The speaker encourages the listener to be open-minded and continue this practice until they have a breakthrough The speaker's theory is not just a personal belief, but something that can be empirically proven through this practice The speaker encourages the listener to share their experiences and continue exploring the nature of reality

How Your Mind Distorts Reality - Needy vs Non-Needy Perception https://youtu.be/8_E9KOBEmMw Introduction to the concept of how the mind distorts reality Definition of deficiency cognition versus being cognition Importance of developing accurate perception Characteristics of self-actualized people, including having being cognition or being perception Examples of deficiency cognition and how it leads to distorted perception and idolization Examples of being cognition and how it leads to accurate perception and independence How to start developing being cognition or being perception Conclusion and summary of the importance of developing accurate perception for personal growth and self-actualization. Perception of reality is compromised by egoic deficiencies and mental health Abstractions (such as classification and evaluation) can distort perception Self-actualizing people can perceive both abstractly and concretely Egoic deficiencies lead to significant distortion in perception and can cause recurring problems in life Developing being cognition (fully disinterested, desireless, objective perception) can improve perception of reality Improving mental health and emotional maturity can improve accuracy of perception. Objects in the world have infinite relationships with everything else in the universe The human mind focuses on specific relationships, like with a spouse or a lamp, and adds emotions and judgments to those relationships This web of relationships extends far and deep into a person's life and can be difficult to untangle Psychological problems, like depression or low self-esteem, may be the result of this web of relationships and beliefs projected onto reality Separations and boundaries between objects are creations of the mind The human mind perceives the world in a subjective and individual way, which can cause problems when trying to communicate or understand others The ultimate goal of understanding and consciousness is to understand and transcend the limitations of the mind, and to become more aware of the interconnectedness of all things It is possible to improve perception without having an enlightening experience Enhancing perception can be achieved by addressing and fixing neuroses and emotional dysfunction People with a negative, pessimistic outlook may have "deficiency cognition," which distorts their perception of reality Rationalism, or the belief in the superiority of reason and logic, has its limits and can fail to recognize its own flaws Thinking and awareness are distinct and thoughts can distort perception The ego can prevent people from recognizing their own deficiency cognition It is important to be aware of one's own thought patterns and to try to see things objectively It is possible to improve perception by becoming more aware and present in the moment.

Overcoming Addiction - The Root Cause Of Every Addiction https://youtu.be/G5ZYV-IMIUU Addiction is a common problem in modern society Addictions can include drugs, food, pornography, tobacco, alcohol, TV, internet, videogames, socialization, shopping, work, gossip, and thinking The root cause of all addictions is fear of emptiness, which arises when one is alone with nothing to do Addictions are distractions and escapes from this fear of emptiness The way to overcome an addiction is to face the fear of emptiness head-on through mindfulness and self-inquiry This involves becoming aware of and accepting one's emotions, rather than suppressing them or distracting oneself from them It also involves examining and questioning one's beliefs, values, and assumptions about oneself and the world This process can be difficult and may require support from others, such as a therapist or a support group It may also involve changing one's environment and the people one surrounds oneself with Ultimately, the goal is to find meaning and purpose in life, rather than relying on external sources of pleasure and distraction to fill the void. The emptiness that exists after death also exists in the present moment of being If you sit and do nothing, you have raw experience and realize that everything is constantly changing and ultimately meaningless This can lead to depression and an existential crisis To conquer addiction sustainably, you must face and accept the void To do this, you must sit with emptiness and do nothing, and not distract yourself As you do this, cravings and suffering will come up, and you must face your inner demons The purifying fire of emptiness will burn out these inner demons over time If you don't do this, you will only find a short-term solution to your addiction and fall back into it eventually The catch-22 of addiction recovery is that most people don't want to do the emotionally challenging work of facing the void and their inner demons However, this is the only way to permanently conquer addiction To do this work, you need to cultivate the willingness to suffer and the courage to face your inner demons This requires discipline and perseverance, and the support of others can be helpful The reward for facing the void and inner demons is finding peace and freedom from addiction. 12-step program techniques can be used to become self actualized and reach one's full potential as a human being Self-actualization is about living life to the fullest, rather than just fixing problems The speaker releases new content through a newsletter and YouTube channel on self-improvement The newsletter can help keep readers on track with self-actualization Transformation, rather than just change, is possible with dedication to learning and applying concepts and techniques The speaker offers a book list and plans to release more resources and paid courses in the future

3 Step Formula To Be Ruthlessly Effective At Anything https://youtu.be/s_LoxHQWT5Q 3 step formula for being ruthlessly effective at anything Select your domain: find and set a specific, clear intention for what you want to be effective at Notice one exceptionally effective, high yield technique: find a technique that generates tangible results and has been proven to work Set up a daily habit to use the technique: incorporate the technique into your daily routine and consistently use it to achieve your desired results Examples given: becoming a farmer, growing corn effectively by adding the right fertilizer every day Importance of focus and consistency in achieving success To be effective, look for high-yield techniques that provide incremental increases when multiplied over time To improve relationships: Make the intention to have a more loving relationship Find a high-yield technique, such as expressing appreciation for three things about your partner every day Plan and commit to using the technique every day for an extended period of time To be effective in school: Set the intention to do well in school Find a high-yield technique, such as reading and taking notes on the textbook every day, or using a specific note-taking or memorization method Plan and commit to using the technique every day for an extended period of time To improve confidence: Set the intention to improve confidence Find a high-yield technique, such as holding strong eye contact with people Plan and commit to using the technique every day for an extended period of time

The Benefits Of Enlightenment https://youtu.be/YfMqtrbjiMs Leo from actualised.org discusses the benefits of enlightenment Enlightenment is the realization of one's existential nature Most people believe they are their physical body or their mind, but enlightenment teaches that this is not true Enlightenment is a state of union with all of reality, and is a field of pure awareness that is omnipresent and outside of time The process of becoming enlightened is long and involves reducing suffering and negative emotions Benefits of enlightenment include: Reduction in suffering and negative emotions Increased sense of peace and contentment Greater sense of purpose and meaning in life Greater ability to handle difficult situations and challenges Improved relationships with others Greater appreciation for the present moment Improved physical and mental health Greater sense of creativity and inspiration Increased ability to achieve goals and make positive changes in life Greater sense of connection with others and the world around you Use enlightenment as a master strategy in life by using it to guide decision-making and prioritize values The speaker believes that enlightenment can reduce the amount of sleep needed and eliminate stress and worry Enlightenment is the foundation for self-actualization work and allows for greater understanding and implementation of personal development techniques Enlightenment is a journey that continues throughout one's life and allows for transformation in various aspects such as personality, career, and relationships Enlightenment dissolves one's identity, which can be limiting Enlightenment can be used to deal with chronic pain and disasters, allowing for a more effortless and resourceful handling of these challenges Enlightenment allows for a greater understanding and acceptance of death Enlightenment can lead to increased creativity and increased ability to manifest desires The speaker suggests that enlightenment can lead to a state of effortless living and a sense of liberation Enlightenment can improve the world and prevent potential species-wide annihilation Problems in the world often stem from unconscious egos Enlightenment can lead to satisfaction and a sense of being "in the zone" Enlightenment can bring about unconditional happiness and peace of mind People currently exist who have achieved enlightenment The cost of enlightenment is giving up one's ego and identity This requires a willingness to let go of one's current way of life The process of enlightenment involves letting go of the ego and ego-driven desires It involves seeing through the illusion of the ego and becoming aware of one's true nature This can involve spiritual practices such as meditation and self-inquiry The end goal of enlightenment is to become fully awakened and live in a state of constant realization of one's true nature. The speaker is encouraging the listener to make a significant change in their way of life and thinking This change involves replacing their current habits and beliefs with a new, foreign way of being The listener may not have enough wisdom to make this change and may be too influenced by their "stupidity function" The current state of the world and society is bleak and the listener is on a path towards hell unless they make a change The speaker's goal is to help the listener reach their highest potential and create a satisfying life through self-actualization The speaker encourages the listener to sign up for their newsletter and check out their resources, including a course and book list, to learn more about self-actualization The listener must have a commitment to improving their own life in order for any techniques or advice to be effective

The Power Of Self Acceptance - How To Stop Beating Yourself Up https://youtu.be/GcNGtZPPSS8 Introduction to the concept of self-acceptance and how it is often neglected in personal development Explanation of how self-acceptance can produce significant inner growth results Discussion of how people often resist or hide negative aspects of their personality, leading to a fragmented or disintegrated self Introduction to the concept of "sins," or negative aspects of one's personality, and how self-acceptance can help to integrate these parts of the self Introduction to the guided visualization exercise and its purpose of helping the listener to practice self-acceptance and integrate different parts of their personality Step-by-step instructions for the guided visualization exercise Encouragement to practice the visualization regularly and notice the positive effects on overall well-being and personal growth Conclusion and reiteration of the importance of self-acceptance in personal development. Bring to mind the part of you that is afraid, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that is needy, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that is hypocritical, and give it love and acceptance Bring to mind the part of you that hates physical appearance, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that feels lost in life, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that is sexually frustrated, and give it unconditional love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that has career or work problems, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that has relationship problems, and give it love and compassion Bring to mind the part of you that has family problems, and give it love and compassion Bring to mind the part of you that has addictions or bad habits, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that lacks confidence and feels shy, and give it love and compassion Bring to mind the part of you that has bad luck or misfortune, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that gets jealous or envious easily, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that likes to overeat, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that gets dogmatic or defensive about beliefs, and give it love and understanding Bring to mind the part of you that is selfish or narcissistic, and give it unconditional love Take a moment to sit with these feelings and give them all love and compassion.

Why Rationality Is WRONG! - A Critique Of Rationalism https://youtu.be/iaV6S45AD1w Introduction to the critique of rationalism Explanation of the current cultural stage (stage orange) and the success of science and technology The limitations and blind spots of rationalism and science The failure of religion in the last 500 years The existence of something beyond the two poles of religious and scientific ways of thinking Definition of rationalism and naive realism Critique of the standard scientific model and its assumptions about the nature of reality The limitations of the scientific method and its inability to answer certain types of questions Alternative ways of understanding and exploring reality, including spiritual and mystical experiences The importance of acknowledging and exploring the limits of rationality in order to fully understand the nature of reality. Technology can be used for good or bad Thinking and logic rely on language, which is complex and tricky Language uses symbols to represent things, but the symbol is not the same as the thing it represents When we create many symbols and string them together into theories, concepts, and models, it is easy to get lost in a "labyrinth of the mind" and confuse it with reality The danger is mistaking the map (our mental representation) for the territory (actual reality) This mistake can lead to problems in various areas of life, including personal relationships, beliefs about politics, and more There is a "sickness in the mind" when maps conflict or have inherent limitations, but we cannot see them because we have mistaken the map for the territory To avoid this mistake, we need to be aware of the limitations of our mental maps and strive to improve them This requires being open to new information and constantly questioning and updating our beliefs We also need to recognize that our mental maps are just one way of representing reality and that there may be other valid ways of understanding the world. Premises are more important than logic in reaching conclusions Premises are taken on faith and assumption, and most of them are wrong Rationality itself is based on irrational premises Rationalists overvalue reason and ignore the role of emotion in everyday life Most behavior is informed by emotion, not logic High levels of rationality may indicate a disconnection from emotions and low emotional intelligence Emotions and instincts play a significant role in life and can lead to better results than purely rational thinking It's important to balance reason with emotion and recognize their respective roles in decision-making and understanding reality. The mechanism of converting others to a religion is similar to the way scientists prove their theories This mechanism is present in everyone, not just scientists and religious individuals Awareness is important in understanding the limitations of our beliefs and understanding The metaphor of living in the Matrix illustrates the concept of awareness A scientist may understand the laws of the Matrix, but may not understand that they are living in the Matrix Lack of awareness cannot be replaced with anything else Most people are stuck in the prison of their own minds due to low awareness Thinking must lose its primary status in order for individuals to increase their awareness Rationalists place a high value on thinking and may struggle to let go of this belief in order to increase their awareness Emotions and feelings are important in understanding and increasing awareness Pain can be a catalyst for increasing awareness The process of increasing awareness involves letting go of preconceived notions and being open to new ideas and experiences. Reality is the most accurate representation of itself Models are useful for simplifying and helping with practical tasks, but are not true It is important to think about these concepts and build awareness, but thinking too much can be dangerous Using language is a tool for communication, but it can be limiting Post rationalism involves getting in touch with emotions, raising awareness, and understanding that the self and thoughts are illusions Moving towards post rationalism may feel like a step backwards, but it involves transcending rationality, not abandoning it The goal of post rationalism and spiritual work is enlightenment, or the realization that external physical reality is just a concept The process of moving from rational to post rational involves a lot of work and is ongoing

How To Be A Strategic Motherfucker - The 7 Pillars Of Strategic Thinking https://youtu.be/4oVrMpvtU8c Introduction to the concept of strategic thinking Importance of strategic thinking in personal success Comparison of strategic thinking to military, business, and sports strategy Explanation of how strategic thinking principles can be applied to personal life Lack of strategic thinking in most people's lives leads to struggle and dissatisfaction Successful people engage in a methodical process of questioning, evaluation, investigation, information gathering, analysis, planning, and action Overview of the 7 pillars of strategic thinking: vision, values, goals, objectives, tactics, resources, and execution Detailed explanation of each pillar of strategic thinking Conclusion emphasizing the importance of understanding and implementing strategic thinking in personal and professional endeavors Developing intelligence and gathering information from multiple sources is important for making long-range strategic decisions Lack of self-knowledge and neurotically overcompensating for problems can lead to strategic problems Chasing small prizes rather than large prizes is a strategic mistake People often overlook social and business traps Businesses and social organizations may be parasitic and aim to serve themselves at the expense of others Good strategy involves analyzing the landscape and evaluating outcomes and priorities People should be proactive and plan their own strategy, rather than just reacting to problems It is important to question the necessity and bigger picture of one's actions People should be aware of the level of consciousness of society and organizations, and aim to improve it Strategic analysis involves assessing strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats in order to use resources effectively and efficiently Anticipating and incorporating competitor responses is a key part of strategic analysis The "competitor" in self-actualization is the ego and lower self, which can resist change and trick the individual Strategic preparation involves thorough training, hard work, discipline, sound planning, and the development of unique capabilities Strategic preparation also involves building up strategic reserves through preparation and attention to basic needs The importance of developing a unique and differentiated identity in order to stand out in the marketplace The final pillar of strategic action involves making decisive and timely moves, adapting to changing circumstances, and using all available resources in order to achieve the desired outcome It is important to continuously reassess and adjust the strategy as needed in order to stay on track and achieve success. The speaker talks about the importance of strategic thinking and self-actualization In order to truly understand and master principles, one should take extensive notes, study them, and contemplate them deeply To make a real study of principles, one should not just accept information, but instead integrate it into their own worldview and cross-reference with multiple sources The speaker encourages the listener to make a lifelong study of self-actualization and to be strategic in their thinking and actions The speaker has been thinking about their career, future, and legacy since they were seven years old The speaker takes action on their strategic thinking and planning The speaker advises the listener to consider their strengths and weaknesses, as well as the resources they will need in order to achieve their goals The speaker talks about the importance of understanding and leveraging power dynamics in relationships and situations The speaker encourages the listener to take ownership of their own life and not just be a passive spectator The speaker talks about the importance of being flexible and adaptable in order to achieve success.