Natasha Tori Maru

Skippy mate, she loves the school roo ride 🤣

Yep, exactly! Which almost makes the whole thing worse. It just builds another layer of nuance to the farce. The whole 'art critic' thing plays into your point also. Art critic my arse. Bullshit job. Art critics propel/start half the 'value' tends by defining 'great art'. Big players.

If you think about it, Andy Warhol was giving the finger to the fine arts crew. The critics and moment. The hype. By using their own medium against them; creating performative art and shoving it in their faces. He recognised the farse and hype 🙃

Additionally some artist were performing a completely different role; Andy Warhol for instance. His work was a calling to all the art and creativity that lies within design and marketing. He painted things like the Campbell soup can to highlight 'This is art. Work & creativity went into this' precisely as a revolt against the fine arts movement. Because they would not recognise an expert typeface songwriter, or the designer behind the Campbell soup can, as an artist. He fundamentally disagreed with their narrow view of 'art'. This was in part a personal vandetta, as he faced this discrimination in his early career. Much of his work was a statement highlighting the creativity and art behind everyday items. Many people covet art, and artists, without even recognising what they did. Why they did it. And how.

Indeed - I wasn't necessarily disagreeing with your premise. It is the trend-following effect that comes after that I would consider the group think/hype. Similar to following a style trend originating from a couture fashion runway. Avante garde tends to mean, within the art world, new or experimental ideas in art. What breaks the precedent. Pioneering. It is hard to generate something new without it being slapped with 'avante garde'. The finer distinction would be differentiating the artist, their craft & skill from the movement itself. The hype and elevation to legendary status some of the bigger names receive. Removed from the simple craft itself. There are many artists of greater skill within movements that were simply never recognised as much as some of the famous names.

Usually the top fine artists that are highly valued were done so for being pioneers of a 'movement' prior to the style becoming mainstream.

It has the propensity to bypass rational filters & boundaries. I enjoy charisma from others, but I test the claims. And then watch the behaviour over time. Normally it masks a lack of integrity & substance, as the power of charisma lies in its seduction. Wielders of this trait typically float on by on its wings, which can mean large domains of a persons integrity remain underdeveloped. They never had to develop. I wouldn't say charisma isn't bad per se - but it is POWERFUL. Power without resistance is dangerous, and charisma can bypass our internal resistance. Just my personal view though. As you can guess, I have seen this shit as a repeated pattern in life. I place caution flaggies all around charismatic people.

I agree. I would proceed to gut out all inconsistencies 'not that'. Negate.

Well, the more specific words 'self-deception' were used, which can overlap as bias (although, more precise) so I will not punch you with my noodly girl-arms

You need to value both health and money. It is not one or the other. In some cases even, you won't have health without money. This is a symbiotic wholistic concept. In addition - you WILL need medical assistance at some point in your life. These systems need us to contribute back so we can benefit from them through integrating with society. Give and take. You need to find your own balance. Compromise 🙏

I think of situations like this as domain related intelligence. Someone can be outstanding in a field, and then reveal the most absurd, irrational and unfounded opinion (in a different domain), I am left open-mouthed. I know the person I am speaking to knows how to operate effectively on a few levels. But there is always some aspect that is so crazy, the only thing you CAN do is laugh. You cannot control them. Anger could be the friction felt internally due to this lack of control. It is also prudent to note - you opinions change. One day you might wake up angry at yourself

You have revealed a lot of your circumstances on the forum. I go by what you, yourself, have admitted to. You aren't this fragile little snowflake that will dissolve into uselessness with the hint of a warm breeze. Sorry to be so harsh and blunt, but you need to consider that if you didn't have these concepts running around in your head, they would not be placing extraneous stress on top of your current issues (whatever they may be). The placebo effect is real. Your mind is creating stress through these ideas. You want your circumstances to be not your responsibility - you want to blame everything external. Forget all that and simply focus on what you have the power to change. If you were taking care of everything you need to, you would not be having the experience you are currently. This wild contradiction is at the heart of your repeated cognitive dissonance. I won't bother you any longer with my replies, as I can see the futility of this. Only know, that I want the best for you. And these hard words are a form of compassion and care. x

Those little fuckers are weird. Macropods that have NO fear of humans. Just rock up say hello mode Not like kangaroos, which really terrify me. Half the clips of them look like AI. It is those huge back hunches that give me the fear - when they do that shit standing on their tail, and kick with their legs to gut you? Nightmare fuel.... And their upper bodies are jacked as fuck...

Sorta feeds into Kubrick's sudden death a few days after showing Eyes Wide Shut to Warner Bro's. NB Eyes Wide Shut is about a satanist sex cult

I'm not talking about chronic physical stress, I am talking about life tasks in general. Wholistically taking care of the things you should attend to. Don't overthink it. Forget about glucocorticoid hormones. You don't need to know any of that stuff. Psychosomatic stuff is real. Consider some of this could be mind generated.

@SQAAD keep challenging yourself to increase your capacity to deal with pressure. Small things every day. One extra thing for a week. Slowly. This is how you increase your threshold for stress. Upping your resilience. Don't just give up when you feel stress. This is a natural response of the body pushing you towards something.

You can do it. For sure. I do the above, maybe more exercise and I have to care for my grandmother (97) and run a construction business also. If I can - YOU can 🙏 Do it enough that it becomes a habit. Repeat repeat repeat until you beat it into your nervous system and becomes a habit. A reflex. You won't even think. You will wake up and engage. Practice makes perfect. That's it ! One thing I find powerful; always chain tasks. Never say 'i will do this' it is always 'i will do this, then this'. Slowly chain more and more. Twos go well initially so you aren't overwhelmed.

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Never trust a charming person. Charisma is a form of seduction. Immediate red flag for me in business relationships and interpersonal.

I am with you, absolutely. Negation in dyads in particular - great operation to arrive closer to a true/false state. 'Not that' really stops the mind from prematurely closing the loop with a nice sounding concept - which we want to avoid totally. For this reason I enjoy negation type interactions, as I view it as an act of care to prevent me from settling on a false landing! I am mindful not to claim my thoughts with an attachment as well, so I do not feel provoked egoic-ally 'This is my statement, my claim' rather than 'A claim, a statement'.

@Ramasta9 My old man goes there twice a year to relax and reset. But less off beat and more touristy areas. He wants me to go with him, but 'I need you to run the business while I am gone'. Bastard! I love him. It is a lot of responsibility. I only do it so he can relax. If I were to visit, it would be to explore and not for comfort

Even the language he uses - the incel slang - is conformity. Htb, ltb, jester, mog, htn, mtn, chad. All conformity.

I think that is his core issue, but he states otherwise. Over and over again he states he just wants to chad-mode mog. Chasing girls is jester mode etc. A waste of time. He even says it is a form of cope. His favourite word. You have to hate yourself to do the shit he does imo 😂

He is conforming to an entire beauty standard via ratios of facial balance etc (one of many things be is confirming to)

He is not doing it to get girls. He states himself, if you watch his videos, he does this to mog. His aim is to be at the top of the dominance hierarchy via looks, because he argues this is easier than producing something useful to gain wealth/money.