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@UpperMaster that's like saying i wonder what's the point of all this work if a car can hit me and take all the effect of the work away

i feel like i want to travel the world and explore cultures and people, i just do not know how i can design a life around that. leo's teaching are a lot about living a sedentary life, i wonder how can you manage working and traveling at the same time. it's hard to live a life of travel when you have to work everyday. but anyways your insights will be appreciated. if you have any book recommendation on the topic it would be great too. by the way i currently live in lebanon which maybe makes it a little harder to actualize this but yeah give me your opinions

so i was doing pick up as usual and a few minutes ago, i got kicked out of the mall and the guy said that i can never come back. what do you think i should do ?

@Leo Gura will actualize that but first i need to get a programming degree and start generating an income then invest the money in my music career until it take off. by the way how do you musicians make money ? is it album sales or concerts or maybe donations i don't know. probably a combination of some kind.

@something_else can i do that with a programming degree ? or what kind of degree do you need ?

@Leo Gura i imagine my life purpose to be around making songs and rap music, that's what i've fallen in love with. but at the same time another part of me wants to travel and explore. so maybe becoming a successful musician and traveling around the globe. but thanks for your recommendation i'll check him out

@Leo Gura a man that follows actualized.org

@Leo Gura actually in my case, i gotta fixe my financial problems, as well as my health problems first. does your health issues affect your game ? because mine certainly do lol. i went vegan when i couldn't afford it for like a year and 4 months, my muscles starved. right now i've been recovering for six months and the process is quite slow. but yeah i would say the root issue is my finances that's why i got my health issues in the first place. that's why i wasn't very successful at pick up too, i was doing pick up without a car and a house to bang girls in. anyways now my goal is putting my finances in order and moving to a better country.

@Leo Gura the thing is in lebanon we only have 2 decent malls, but anyways i'm gonna pause pick up to focus on my schooling and start making money, then i'll come back doing pick up in different locations maybe also traveling to a better country. part of the problem is bars and clubs are quite expensive when you live with your parents and have not much money to spend on pick up, that's why i was milking that place lol

@Leo Gura actually i was gaming in this mall for a year and nothing very crazy happened with the security until today

@Leo Gura actually they asked for my name and i gave it to them, and they told me that if i ever come back they're gonna do something bad to me, but yeah as you said i will come back a few months later to test the waters. actually a noticeable reason is that today the mall wasn't very crowded so i was noticeable

@Leo Gura i meant if the security guard tells you to never come back is it the same as a perma ban ? and if so is it okay to come back a few months later testing the waters ?

@Leo Gura btw how do you know when someone is perma banned ?

@Leo Gura alright thanks for your wisdom

@Leo Gurahave you been kicked out from a place before forever while doing pick up ?

@Javfly33 i wasn't even going that hard but anyway do you think i should take the threats of the guy seriously ? after all it's ridiculous to ban someone from a mall just for approaching girls

other than using spiral dynamics, how do you assess the character of someone ?

@Leo Gura leo is it adequate to pause pick up to build a solid survival foundation then come back ?

it will be great if we can compare and contrast the dietary difference in individuals at different levels of consciousness. obviously the higher your development the more interested you are in food and nutrition.

@Leo Gura do you think tate is more stage red or orange ?

@Leo Gura at which stage of ego development is red pill ? and what you are saying is accurate however swan's audience is at least around green and so this video is similar in essence to your video on when does the left go too far. basically moving people to a more nuanced non ideological tier 2 viewpoint.

just to understand the difference in values and worldviews of the working class vs the bourgeoisie. it'll be a great epistemological video.

@Hardkill 3 lays is still a lot for your first 500 approaches, like i said usually people get 1 lay from the first 500 approaches. find a way to move to a big city, you still have your 30s an 40s and you wanna get laid as much as possible. You're not gonna miss out on all the abundance of potential lays and sexual partners just because you don't live in a big city, you can always find a way to move, people do it all the time. by the way, you only got one life, so you better figure out a way to move cities.

@Hardkill approach more and more consistently, 10 girls for 500 approaches is A LOT. usually the first 500 approaches since you're still learning and inexperienced, you only get laid once. anyways, but seriously, 500 approaches could be done in like 5 months if you were serious. go out more and hit on more girls, this Asperger thing is mostly a limiting belief in that you haven't even approached a significant number of women. rewatch leo's series to understand how it works. but yeah 35, it's not too late at all. approach thousands of women and see what will happen.

@Hardkill how many approaches have you done ? pick up is much more difficult to learn that it seems, takes thousands of approaches and momentum. so if you stopped pick up for years, you're gonna almost come back at point 0 because you lost the momentum.