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@Leo Gura I am talking about behavior here not looks. I am not saying how ruthlessly guys get treated for being short for example because i did not want to go to the looks department. I was saying behavior that makes females attractive to males is rewarded by society and it is aligned with the social standards while behavior that makes males attractive to females is not often rewarded and it is considered ruthless, dickish etc. So this whole conversation is strictly about behavior. And yes an average looking girl can be very successful with guys if her behavior is on point. Some of the girls with the most guys that liked her that i have seen with my own eyes were not that attractive physical wise.

@Leo Gura Of course i care about it, but i did not think of it. Just normally it seemed like they get extra points by society for being in line with what makes them attractive to guys behavior wise. I did not know all the counter intuitive stuff like the thing you mentioned. If i did i would not watch your content, you are wiser, older than me. I am just a kid

@BornToBoil According to Leo girls like a guy to be ruthless killer guy. I was replying to him. Maybe you disagree and i respect your opinion.

@BornToBoil That is not what Leo was referring to. He was referring to legit being a ruthless detached dick. Go tell people that guys should be detached from the girl and see how they respond. "You must do everything for love and treat her like a queen" will be their response.

@onacloudynight Date masculine women. Polarities attract.

@Leo Gura I do not see girls being told to do stuff that hinders their survival value. Being nice kind caring and sweet is rewarded by society. Meanwhile the stuff that raises my survival value is criticized and demonized. Seems a bit fucked up to me even though it makes logical sense. No wonder guys these days are so sexless and confused when the society narrative goes against their survival value while it does not for women.

@How to be wise The video says otherwise. If i am shy serious not emotional and not confident then i will not get shit so yeah. Only works for rich super handsome or famous people which i am none.

@Leo Gura So a guy should be ruthless and a girl should be nice and kind. No wonder guys are having issues dating when society in general rewards nice and kindness behavior and shames ruthless strong behavior. By society i mean the way people are taught, media, culture etc. Would you mind explaining why society punishes men for being strong and ruthless and tells them to be nice and kind when it hurts their survival value? Why videos like this which are very good and accurate would be called sexist, inaccurate and turned down by a lot of people these days. Why when you ask people how you should act they say nice and kind instead of strong?

@Leo Gura They reward kind and sweet girls more than bitchy girls. A girl that is very friendly helpful sweet is very attractive to guys. Some of the kindest most pure hearted girls i have met were very attractive to guys even with just decent looks. I think guys are attracted to that kind of behavior so kindness is rewarded.

@Hardkill I think USA crazy university prices have to do with Reagan policies also (not sure)

@Leo Gura So females reward pure strenght more than human decency?

Why should being a INPT be something bad? Just find other INTP people and you will vibe just fine. INTP is not exclusive to males you know. Plus you can learn to be social and cool while doing it in a INPT way. For example i tend to have more "intellectual" type of humor full of puns, irony and stuff that you might need to have some knowledge of stuff to understand. It works just fine with people that read for once. Smiling, good body language and eye contact and confidence and self esteem have nothing to do with INTP. At least INTP tend to enjoy their company more so they will be less likely to be clingy, needy and annoying. So yeah each personality type as long as it develops specific traits like confidence, humor and good body language/eye contact is good to go. The idea that specific personality is more humerus or confident is just silly. Each person has their own style of humor and overall "coolness".

@Leo Gura What if you really love the person and you want to be with them? You cannot just leave someone when something goes wrong. You stay together even when things get hard. This idea of "leaving someone as soon as there is a small issue" is the reason why USA divorce rate is so high. In my culture people rarely divorced because they were willing to work together if there were issues. It made families stronger, happier and less bullshit for kids to go through aka divorce of parents.

@Hello from Russia Tell that to Leo who did something similar to online dating to find a girlfriend instead of pick up. And please do not use top 0.5 percent of skills in game as the example. Use normal people. I am sure Ronaldo can kick ass in football blindfolded but most people do not have that skill and they suck dick if blindfolded. And the example is plain bad because noone there is wearing masks. Where i live you get fined 300 euros if you do not wear a mask and 99 percent of people wear one

@Preety_India Wtf this is not the video i meant to send Hope it is not the same video, idk weird youtube bug. The guy btw is against red pill, teaches men to treat women all and is overall very very conscious person. Even talked about spiral dynamics a few times. Do not judge a book by it's cover but in this case it was just the wrong video i sent

@Preety_India Why so angry lol i am trying to help.

@Preety_India Other women are doing fine do not worry about them. Focus on yourself! If you are happy then that is all that matters.

"The female species, such an enigma"- Vegeta from Dragon Ball Z

Pardon me but didn't you say you were in a happy relationship now with a good guy. Why are you frustrated? You do not have to give details of your personal life here of course but if it is about stuff from the past then honestly there is no reason to care so much about it. Especially if you did nothing wrong. We all have been hurt in the past, it is part of life. I challenge you to grow so much from anything that hurts you that in the future you will be thankful that it happened since it allowed you go grow so much.

@Verg0 Do not assume stuff for others please. I am in university (all online for now), i am part of a student organisation (all online for now), all bars and clubs are closed. Bars and restaurants are closed. Gyms are closed. It is winter and people do not go outside a lot. I also come from a country (not originally from this country just studying here) where people are VERY VERY cold normally. Talking on the street to them is not at all like it is in USA. I have met people from USA and they are COMPLETELY different. Much more open and outgoing. You cannot even do day game since people are scared of covid and all wear masks. When nightclubs and bars open again then you can that i am being lazy. If you have any suggestions for me then i would love to hear them.

@Leo Gura The thing is most people in the world cannot do offline game due to Covid. So they resort to online game. You yourself did this and when asked you said : "Covid killed pickup". Therefore the "you are lazy" argument will not work until this covid thing ends and life goes back to normal.

@Ghost @Striving for more Girls will not make you any happier in the end anyway, focus on the process. It is like wealth, useless in the grand scheme of things. As long as your basic needs for love and sex are met then you re halfway there

@Leo Gura In theory yes but the price to pay for that is too immense. Years and years of going out consently just for pussy is too high in my opinion. Unless you are a natural it ain't worth it. Boost yourself up to like an 8 and you are good to go. You did like 1.5 year of solid pick up lifestyle, 5000 approaches or something and still you said you are not even that good. How long would it have taken you to become that 10/10 you claim?

@Preety_India That is main thing. Online dating is like passive income. Real life is the actual job

@Leo Gura If you exchange value for value then an 8/10 guy can get a 7.5/10 girl, a 6/10 guy can boost himself to a 7.5 and get a 7/10 girl. @Striving for more Online game i was talking about. In real life you need serious game to date a 9/10 btw. Do not except to do 100 cold approaches and be all good, unless you are a natural you will need couple thousands to become good at it enough to attract 8-10/10s regularly. Also you do not need a super hot girl to be happy. Above 6/10 personality tends to matter A LOT more in the quality of the girl. At least in my opinion.