Karmadhi

This is not about me or you. This is about how SOCIETY as a whole, what it values. Of course people in a super advanced self development forum would not just care about girls looks. But this is about society not members of this forum.

@Leo Gura Agreed. Pure James Bond only works if you are very good looking or/and famous. Otherwise a mix between playful and badass is better. Btw i thought non-neediness and confidence were the most important thing in game. How would you rank them from most to least important, so non neediness, confidence and playfulness.

@Leo Gura I think when they say James Bond attitude they mean how icy and nonreactive he is. Girls can throw 1000 shit tests on him and he will pass them in a witty relaxed way. He is the epitome of relaxed, i don't give a fuck whether you like me or not attitude. You can take those elements of him and incorporate more laughing, silliness, more expressive, funny etc. You do not have to imitate him 100 percent, just take what works and add it to your own stuff. I mean can you imagine James Bond being hinged if a girl rejects him? He will give 0 fucks. That attitude is what every guy needs.

Because women are supposed to lock 1 high quality guy while guys are supposed to fuck as many girls as possible and spread their quality genes. If guy sleeps around a lot be is considered successful in his survival mission. If a girl sleeps around a lot she is failing at her survival mission. Her job is to grow the kids of the high quality guy while the high quality guy makes as many babies as possible and protects them and the mothers from threats. This is the natural state of humans and it became also cultural. It has been cultural for thousands of years and it worked just fine due to the nature of society. These days we no longer live in those difficult times and therefore that strategy became obsolete. No longer needed for survival. However, culture and biology have not evolved fast enough to catch up. It is fucked up, i know but that is how it is. Hope this clarifies it.

@Leo Gura How is your health after the 14 day fast that you did? Did it help in any way?

@Rilles And the politics section brings out all the toxic Blue AND Orange of the forum hahahahahah

@Preety_India Thing is that guys are willing to settle for a lot less than they claim to if you talk with them. So even though IN THEORY guys want to bang hot girls, most of them will fuck an average one and that is the end of it. What guys say and do in this case is very different, they will fuck girls that they act like "oh this is not my type, i can do better than that" all the time. Plus since guys have to approach but hate doing it (lots of them at least) they will basically settle for anything they can get. So do not really trust what guys say and think girl needs to look like a model to find a partner. A 5/10 looking girl will have more choices that she can capitalize on as long as she is actually talking to people.

They do it partially to look good and partially because it is expected of them. If you go out in a social place without make up you will stand out and often in a not positive way.

@Preety_India Good in paper but does not work in the real life, already have these traits. Thank you though for replying. @Chew211 Good advice , thank you. @universe Hmmm makes sense, thank you.

Therefore things like being an asshole, assertive, dominant, not empathetic and kind are discounted. So how to be a high value developed person, not some PUA sociopath.

@EnlightenmentBlog Most people profiles suck that is why.

@Enlightenment Use photoshop and it is all good as long as it does not appear to be photo shopped. Most good looking guys on Tinder use it to some extent to give themselves an edge. So use it to go from a 6.5 to a 7 for example. Do not try to become a 10 with it, the gap is too big and will create issues once you meet in person. @EnlightenmentBlog Why you all hate online dating so much LOL. Everyone should try it and if it works then stick with it, if not then talk in person more. If you are social person (as you should be) you will encounter girls anyway in your everyday life so you will not even need to go out specifically for pick up.

@Leo Gura Can't you do both at the same time? I mean no matter how busy you are dealing with survival, you can have 30 minutes each day to meditate for example and read some books. Yes you will not become enlightened but doing these things for years will make you more developed than most people out there. The PUA community actually supports meditation and reading books.

@intotheblack hahahahahaah nah just online dating is enough. It makes people too lazy to go out when free pussy is promised to them

What do you expect to happen when most of dating in developed countries is done via online dating which is fundamentally fucked if you are NOT an attractive guy and all behavior that makes guys attractive is demonized and criticized. Remove online dating, force people to go out and act like strong men (not sjw pussies) and see how that rate will plumit fast.

As long as no one feels hurt or offended is all good. Same for mom jokes for example that people make in high school. No need to be so oversensitive as people have become these days, what matters is the intention/context not the words themselves. Of course, i am not saying to overdo it. Anything gets corrupted and becomes toxic once overdone.

LOL so basically be an asshole businessman or you will be alone. Fucked up shit PS: thanks for the other advice, i appreciate it :). PS2: Thing is that girls at my league still get guys after them, i am talking about a cute cool girl not a supermodel with 200K followers or anything like that. A 7/10 looking, decent personality girl i would be happy with

@Arcangelo Yes but i was referring to real life. Thing is that if you are just flirty and sexual as people here suggest that will make you plain vanilla. Most guys do that and you will just be another guy hitting on her, nothing more than that. How do you differentiate yourself?

The thing is that cute girls have tons of guys hitting them up in real life and approaching them so if you come aggressive that will make you just another desperate guy for her. How do you differentiate yourself from all the guys flirting with her with the intention of fucking her?

Same for "Understanding Relativism Part 2". Really looking forward to that one if you ever plan to release it, the part 1 is arguably on my top 3 favorite and most profound videos you have.

Let me clarify this for you: There are MULTIPLE factors that if in HIGH amount will result in you getting girls. Looks are one of them :Good looks with shit game will allow to you get laid Game is another: Good game with shit looks with allow you to get laid ETC ETC for other things like money, high social status etc. Just like passing an exam there are many ways of doing it: You can be super smart, you can study hard, you can bribe the professor, you can cheat from someone's else paper etc etc. What you are saying is basically: "You need to study to pass an exam otherwise you will not. "Oh yeah? Well i know someone who did not study and passed because he is smart af". "How do you know he did not study?" ETC ETC: see how dumb this whole discussion is. If you have good looks then you do not have to do much unless you are socially restarted. If you do NOT have good looks then you have to learn game. If you have both of course it is a killer combination but 1 will be enough mostly. So see what you have and try to work with it.

@RendHeaven You have a very simple view of how attraction works for guys. Just like most bros and PUAS do. I personally know plenty of guys that would date an okay looking girl if her personality was great. The hot girl will just get guys wanting to fuck her, nothing more. The feminine girl will get guys wanting to be with her. That is what she wants, not just pump and dump.

@RendHeaven Well i also know average looking girls with feminine behavior that get more guys than almost all hotties. You are making it seem like guy=personality and girl=looks. There is some truth to that but it is not so binary. Personality and looks matter for both genders, the only question is how much. Personality matters for girls too and if you interact with enough girls you will easily see that sometimes the girls with most guys crushing on them are not the hottest ones always. A hot girl will just get guys wanting to pump and dump her which is not what she wants. A feminine girl will get guys crushing and wanting to be with her which is what she actually wants. Do not confuse good/cool girl with feminine girl. Feminine girl is pure feminine energy and that is insanely attractive just like pure masculine energy is attractive to girls.

@RendHeaven The best PUAs in the world still get rejected. Of course game can help you a lot but i am not talking if she finds you ok looking. If she finds you a 2/10 then i doubt game will help you, even if it does it is game at a level that 99 percent of people do not have. Russell Brand kind of game. There is nothing wrong with it, just talk to a lot of girls, at least half of them will find you at least ok/meh looking and you can get those with game. A few will find you legit attractive and with those you need basic game but those are a bit rare to count on. Same logic for everyone tbh, its all a numbers game

@RendHeaven And this does not happen for guys lol? A LOT of girls you like will not like you back simply due to physical reasons. Why do you think Leo and most PUAs promote to approach 20 girls per night? Because at least half of those will be blown up by you not being her type. If a girl finds you a 2/10 she will not date you regardless of what you do. These things happen to both genders tbh