Karmadhi

Actually if you want ANY girls you have to work for it. Even "low quality" girls need work. Otherwise we would not have 1/3 of the population as starving incels that never get laid. Every girl has different tastes, if you do not meet HER personal minimum threashhold then yes you will not be able to get her. Move on to a girl that might find you datable. Balding can be fixed, just do a hair transplant. Millions of people have fixed it using this way. If it really bothers you so much it is worth 5000 dollars for a hair transplant. It is not necessary though. I have seen a few people like this, that seem to have everything against them looks wise. They still got a partner though. Idk how but it happened for them so yeah. Stay positive! And people that are born blind will never be able to experience "vision" in their life. Life aint fair. This logic applies to girls also. A girl that is born very ugly will have a shitty romantic life relative to average or hot girls. It is not a gender thing. From my experience the better looking you are the less game you need. Personally sometimes i get jelous of some of my good looking friends who have girls throw themselves at them meanwhile i have to attract them using my personality mostly but it is what it is. I can tell you that if you struggle with something and then finally get results it will feel so good you cannot believe it. The first time i finally made out with a girl i had this euphoria for a couple of minutes that felt better than an orgasm. Insane stuff. What you find difficult and rare is also valuable to you so keep grinding! And lastly i saw your face that you posted. You look quite good to me actually. Good jawline, big eyes, you can grow a good beard, compact face etc. You' re DEFINETLY not ugly so this whole looks discussion is just some bs in this case. You do not need to be a legit CHAD to get results with girls! I have seen much worse looking guys than you get results so yeah stop coping with this bs! I can assure you that looks are not the reason why you are not getting results (if that is the case), it is other factors.

If i can ask, how is your health btw? I remember you were doing a purely meat diet and it made your symptomes go away. You are feeling better thee days?

You need to talk to a lot of hot girls. It actually benefits you to befriend a few of them and just be friends so you can start seeing them as human beings instead of some god figures. You will see that they have the same issues, fears, insecurities etc as any other girl. This will help you unpedestelize them. This should be done while you are talking and flirting with other hot girls. So befriend maybe 10 percent of the hot girls you talk to and hit on the other 90 percent. The deeper solution involves two factors. The first is to actually raise your own PERCIEVED value to the point where it matches a hot girl's value. The second and deepest one is to unhook yourself from stage orange mindset and go towards green. When you go towards green your idea of a "high value" human being will be a lot less materialistic and more internal. A hot superficial girl for example, you will see her as legit below yourself. Yes she is hot but who gives a fuck, she is an emotional mess, i feel bad for her. This is how you will think of it. Hope it helps. Ps: You need to TALK to hot girls, you cannot avoid this no matter what.

Actually you can get away with being like this if your girl is really in love with you or if you come from a more conservative culture. I know because i am originally from such a culture. However, in a feminist country you cannot do this shit or you will get dumped asap

Actually a lot of guys have this view. Even high value guys with LOTS of options. They think that if their girlfriend goes out with male friends, those males secretly want to sleep with her or like her and they will try to steal her from you. Especially if they meet often and if the girl might be in a bit spot at that moment. Tbh i find it quite insecure but it has happened sometimes (not often though, it is more of a outlier thingy). My guess would be because these people only see females as an opportunity for sex and nothing more (they do not have personally female friends), they project this into other guys thinking other guys are just like them. This can be an issue especially if the girl is quite hot and they will assume people are her "friends" but are actually attracted to her. Personally i never had a girlfriend and i doubt my girlfriend will be like super hot so i cannot really say how i would act but knowing myself i would for sure let her hang out with guy friends, especially if i have met them once and felt like they are nice people.

So when Leo talks about economic inequality it means it is an occupational hazard? When people talk about politics in a dinner table it is an occupational hazard? Society issues are always talked and discussed between people regardless of their standings and positions. I doubt rich people do not talk about economics just because they are not rich. I doubt people that have power do not talk about politics just because they have power now. I am personally in a better situation than the average guy but cannot help and feel like average guys are in a hard situation.

I totally agree with you. I was just discussing this on a societial level not on an individual level. It is like saying i work hard and i am well off so i will not care talk about poverty. You can actualize and improve yourself all you want and you should but when you talk about the societal level of things, your personal situation makes little difference. Just because i managed to become rich from poor does not change the economic level and equality of the country. Yes it made my life better, but when we are having a discussion about the issues of the economy of the country and poor people etc my wealth matters little. So please when we talk about society trends do not make it about me personally. It deflects my arguments and defeats the purpose. I am well aware that feeling like a victim does not help, i am aware how this all works and i am actively working on improving it. Just because you are discussing an issue does not mean you feel like a victim or are not taking action on improving your situation.

Look man even though i am relatively an introvert i am a social person and have interactedand befriended dozens and dozens of people during my years. Almost half of them were girls, the rest were guys. I can tell you that i have rarely seen a girl that has not had at least a couple guys liking her at many points of her life but she chose to ignore them and obsess over some super high value guy or just ignore them. I have rarely seen guys have this type of options with girls. The average girl has many many more guys into her than the average guy has girls into him. I am not talking about top 10 percent of attractive people here, i am talking about the average person which is the norm. When you talk about social situations you talk about trends, about the generality not about outliers. It is like calling India a rich country because 10 percent of its population have good money and now India is suddendly rich. You look at what the AVERAGE indian earns to determine if it is a rich or medium or poor country. Same logic here. What are the options of an average girl and what are the options of an average guy? How many guys does an average girl have that are into her and how many girls does the average guy have that are into him? Yes, i know that personally you can increase your value and not be a "average" person but we are talking about social trends here, not about personal problems.

I have a friend that went a bit into Green from very very hard Orange by smoking weed around once a week for couple years. He did not do it as personal development project nor does he even know what Spiral Dynamics are, but when he explained to me how weed affected him both when he was high and sober, i could clearly tell that is made him more Green.

Since this is my 1000th post on this forum, i wanted to upload a picture of myself this as a "mark" as i have left on this forum. Much love to everyone here

Just talk to girls man. You can either do pick up or just meet them in your university campus, social events, social circle, parties etc. Whatever method reasonates with you.

Great video! Thanks for sharing

Boxing and or working out in the gym. Boxing would be best for that.

There is a lot of truth to them, it applies to the majority of people. Of course some nuance is also needed.

Stop hating on daygame so much It is valid and legit since it is done so much.

Exactly! He seems to have great social skills and confidence.

Amaizing shit! Btw isn't 150 a day like 4500 a month, tax free. Looks like a lot of money to me.

It is not about being a PUA or not, it is about doing cold approach or not. If you talk with a girl you do not know randomly then it is technically pick up. What you describe is PUA training which is another thing. There is no need to do that at all in such a planned manner, however a lot of people need to do that in order to practice and improve. Talking to a girl randomly in a caffee and actually doing a good job at it does not come naturally for most guys, especially in the internet and MeeToo era.

Talking to a girl on the street or on a cafe, what is that? Most people do not meet girls that way at all. What you describing is basically pick up lol.

@Yali Well to me being better than average can mean good, depends how you look at it i guess.

I do not know about girls because i am not a girl but as a guy at least this is total bullshit, regardling friendships. As a guy looks do not matter at all regarding making friends and stuff. Maybe they matter like 10 percent max and even then it is not about how handsome your face is but more about things like frame. If you look intimidating and strong you will get more respect even if you are ugly af. Looks as a guy definetly matter regarding attracting girls but when it comes to friends, honestly it is just an excuse people make. I see Incels doing this a lot, is it quite sad imo.

@Yali Exactly what i wrote above

Bro those guys are not many. Keep in account you will not get better with girls unless you talk with a lot of them regardless of your personality type. Yes, some people are very extroverted and social and shit but that will not automatically teach you how to flirt, how to lead, how to close, how to handle logistics etc. These are very specific skills which are independent of everyday life including "social stuff". Yes for some people they might need 100 for some 10.000 given their personality type to get good at this shit i wrote above but all need to talk to girls. And considering how little most guys talk to girls i doubt most have much game.

Because he self-admitted has done like 3000 approaches. Most guys do 50 in their entire lifetimes. Social skills and game are independent variables, you can be very social and still suck with girls. When it comes to game he has more time devoted on improving on it then most guys.

Most hot girls probably are more insecure than a lot of guys out there, especially if their looks decline even a bit.