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@Knowledge Hoarder Examples of internal ones? @Preety_India I am doing that. Works okay but i live somewhere quite international rn so it is fine. If i have to move in a more local place then i will be surrounded by hot guys and ;(

@Preety_India Trying to look good is not fake. You are not delusional. I got nothing wrong with being confident and loving yourself as shit but if i go in a room and tell myself i am lets say the smartest guy when i am probably not then that is delusional. I am smart- Not delusional. I am the smartest here-Delusional. Difference. To be honest confidence is not a big issue, i am as confident as most guys where i live. Issue is that they fit the "attractive" guy look more than me. Now if they got equally good personality and better looks, i start to feel bit bad.

@Preety_India I know girls that are high consciouss that have great results with guys. It is not true that high consicousness needs to be sacrificed to date. I plan to do what you said regardless. Just the irony is that this will create a chain where some girl here will come crying about how some guy treated her like shit and manipulated her so he could get laid. @Knowledge Hoarder I plan to.

@Preety_India I want to be high consciouss and get great results with girls at the same time One should not compromise the other.

@Bando I hate competition, always have. To me the idea that happiness is derived by others doing worse than me makes me sick to my stomach. I prefer to do my own thing and improve on myself rather than try to outmatch others.@Preety_India Very good point, agreed.

@Preety_India @Emrie Okay i will try to think it in terms of me being more confident, funny and interesting than other guys even though that is probably not true. Deluding myself seems as the only solution. I tend to be very realistic and honest with myself so deluding myself like this is quite fake and annoying for me tbh. I will try regardless.

@Knowledge Hoarder I am not just talking about a club, i dont meet people there. I am talking in general, social circle, house parties etc.

@Preety_India I have yet to reach those level of awakening I will try to block it off my mind though!

Can you be intelligent and still be not that good at hard sciences like math/physics? Personally i am decent at math but nothing special and meh in physics. Ok in stats. Idk why our society equates being good at these things with intelligence. When i grew up in my home country you were called legit stupid if you were bad at math for example.

@Leo Gura All good then, i like the way you talk, similar to mine.

@Leo Gura Basically the way Owen Cook talks on his any of his videos. I cannot be like that. That super energetic way of talking all the time, i can do it for a few minutes and then i get tired and switch to more chill and relaxed. Also the way Tonny Robbins talks and acts, i also find that tiring. If you watch movie reviewers my style would be more Chris Stuckmann versus someone like Jeremy Jahns.

@Leo Gura That is what i have been practicing for years now. What i find most difficult is the energy levels than anything else. Being funny, social, playful, friendly, talkative, emotionally expressive etc are no issues to me anymore. It is being loud and high energy, that is what i struggle with.

I plan to. I tend to be the type of person that is about depth, maturity, understanding, natural curiousity etc but i noticed that these things as great as they are will not be as important as your basic needs getting met. And getting laid as an introvert i find really difficult, MUCH more difficult than making friends and being social. At least recently i ve started going on dates, getting a close call and talking to a lot of girls, so making incremental progress.

Alpha M youtube channel has some decent stuff about grooming. Check him out.

Like for example? Except maybe being more independent and not needing others to recharge i cannot think of anything else.

@Yali INTJ i think (unsure), either that or ISTJ. @hyruga I plan to

@Leo Gura If i may ask, are there any benefits to being an introvert? In what ways do introverts excel in life and in survival? Our society has a huge extrovert bias to the point where being called an introvert is considered an insult by many. It is quite sad imo.

Bro this ain't math Also have you done the things i told you to improve your looks? The more of those you do, the better for you.

@Jacob Morres I think he goes for 8+ not just 10s. Still impressive. @itachi uchiha Before you call yourself a 5.5 tell me, have you done all you can to maximize your looks? What i mean by maximizing looks: -Getting in really good shape (around 12-14% body fat, broud shoulders and muscular in general, no need to be bodybuilder ofc but top 20 percent physique wise) -Good gromming and hair cut -If you wear glasses, wear a good model that suits you. If you look better without glasses then wear contacts if your eyes can handle them. - Good parfume, not cheap shit. -Good clothes that fit well (tailor fit if needed) and that match each other well. -Accessories if you are into that shit so stuff like bracelets, tattoos, sunglasses, watches etc ( this one is optional). -If you have pimples good skin care and diet, if not then skip this step. Bottom line, your skin should be clean af. -Good posture -Straight teeth (wear bracelets if needed) and if teeth are good then also whiten them. -If you are short maybe wear a sheet on your shoe to give yourself 1 inch. -Hair transplant in case of hair loss (optional since some people might look equally good or better when bald, it depends on your head shape). If good hair then skip this one. Before you do all these things do not complain here about looks. If you are a 5.5 AFTERRRR doing all of these then okay. They might seem like a lot but actually it barely takes any time. Arguably the gym will take more time than the rest combined so. Also girls do these and a lot more. Just putting make up takes at least 30 minutes and many girls have to do that shit multiple times a week.

If you cannot make jokes then i think you have bigger problems in life than not getting laid. There is a difference between having a sense of humour which most people have, even if it is somewhat repressed and being charismatic and funny in a sexual way. The latter is what i would consider to be "game", the first is more basic. It is like saying do not be obese or something lol. If you cannot make any jokes you will struggle a lot in life, even in your professional career. True but a "hot girl" is not just looks. The people i have in mind dated above average looking girls but they were not models or anything. Probably 6.5-7s. No reason a guy should not be happy with a 6.5-7/10 looking girl, especially if her personality and values are on point. Do not forget that if you flirt with a girl and get to know her, she will become more attractive to you assuming she matched your looks threashhold to begin with. Happened to me time and time again. An intitial 6 would turn me on more than an 8 once we started vibing and stuff. True. The people i was referring to were somewhat social but they were introverts. Social introverts

@Leo Gura Then how do non player intellectual guys end up with hot girls when they are not rich or high status? I know some of them. They just look nice and are chill. No overly emotional stimulation bs, just talk make some jokes and thats it. Little game in them.

I think it is fundamentally an ego backlash. If you have seen Leo's episode about it then you know what ego backlash is. When you tell people something bad their sense of self feels threatented and ofc the ego reacts in a defensive angry way. Most people are not even aware of this stuff so they just get angry on auto pilot. Someone like you might have done the self-work to be aware when an ego backlash is happening and can stop yourself in the moment. Most people have not and will just act on their emotions (caused by the ego backlash) on autopilot.

So i would like to try to go to a club by myself. I am young, around 23 and look maybe 20-21 (no facial hair). I have been told that usually in my city, bouncers will not let you in if you try to go by yourself. Now i do not know what i should try in order to get let in the night club by myself. A lot of PUAs and Leo also have gotten in into night clubs by themselves, i guess even in some really fancy ones. What tips would you give me to maximize the chances of being let in alone? If the bouncers ask me where is my company (people), what should i say? I assume going earlier (before the club is full), going totally sober and dressing fancy are ways to maximize it. Anything else?

There is nothing worse than seeing a girl taller than you and feeling like you cannot date her because most girls do not date guys shorter than them...

@Leo Gura Asians tend to like white guys for some reason. I am not even that white but i look caucasian and asian girls by far have the highest percentage of physical attraction towards me compared to other races. Type definetly matters but it is very subjective. I have heard all sorts of weird shit. A girl once mentioned how she was attracted to fingers in guys, another cared a lot about ears being cleaned inside (weird i know). Worrying about type is really silly imo. Just improve your appearnce and you re good to go.