Karmadhi

So for a girl to get an expensive dangerous surgery is ok if it makes her boobs better but for a guy it is "bad" if he wears some basic heels that makes him 2 inches taller. I doubt 2 inches will change his dating life but if you can improve slightly something you are insecure about then might as well do it. And i can assure you height for a guy is as important as boobs are for a girl. I know you will mention your pick up friends that get laid a lot even though they might be very short but also there are girls with very small or meh looking boobs that still get a shit lot of male attention and are considered super hot (most models). Also just like many girls dont care about a guy's height much, also i know guys that barely care about boobs (they care mostly ass and face). Lastly, maybe those 3 inches he will get from the shoes might push him to initially start approaching girls and develop some basic confidence. In time he might realize they are not that useful and stop using them. Just like a lot of guys start using canned routines at first because their social skills are horrible and once they get better they start using them. Same logic here.

Found this funny prank video on Youtube. Whoever says girls are stuck with the guys that approach them will probably change their minds after this video. Just look at how many numbers she got with just speaking chinese, some of the guys were good looking too. Insanly impressive. Wish i had that success ratio from a daygame approach session

Why dont you suggest surgery also for guys when they have physical insecurities but instead just tell them to love themselves as they are and to improve themselves. Bit double standardish or is it because you are a guy yourself?

May i ask, if you get attention from guys anyway why does it matter to you this boob thing? Looks only purpose is to get attraction of guys, if that is handled why care?

Not really. Most guys do not care. Some guys have a boob fetish but i can assure u most will not care. But if you are really insecure i know exercises can help you elevate it a bit.

Most guys would not care about your boobs at all. Plenty of girls have really small boobs and are still considered extremly attractive. You look quite nice from the picture so yeah do not worry about it Your boobs are such a small part of your overall physical appearance anyway.

Sometimes we simply dont have other options. I am 172 cm in a country where most girls, especially if include shoes (they love to wear elevator stuff) are like 175 cm. What am i supposed to do? Not talk to any of them? Maximum 15-20 percent of girls are legit shorter than me, most are either my height or slightly taller. The ones that are legit taller than me 5cm+ i do not try anything with. Stop looking at it from the pov of a tall guy, not all guys are tall.

May i ask then why you almost never see couples where the girl is 2 inches taller or more than the guy on the streets? It demotivates me a lot if like 99.9 percent of couples the women is not 2 inches or more taller than the man. Celebreties dont count ofc.

As long as there is not sexual attraction from either part then yes. I have really really good female friends that i love just as much as my guy friends. However guys make the mistake of being stuck in a friendship with a girl they like, that is a huge mistake which i have personally made in the past and it is not a good choice in my opinion. But if you started as just friends from the start, then super doable.

Either INTJ or ISTJ(not sure yet)

How to find wings???????????????????????????? RSD forums are shut down and there is basically barely any online forumn to find wings, let alone good wings.

Ok guys so i will give you a short report and a situation i have which i find really confusing. So i met this girl from a friend, we all went to do an activity together. We vibed a bit and talked and stuff but nothing crazy. We also touched hands a bit because of the nature of the activity but again, all relatively innocent stuff. Afterwards, i added her on instagram and we texted a bit back and forth, mostly replying to each other stories. After exams ended (we are university students), i told her to meet up and she happily agreed. We met up (just me and her) and we went on this bar in the center and sat on these chairs where u can touch the person but it is not really a couch. We spent there like 3 hours, talking about different things, making jokes, having fun etc. I paid the first round of drinks (a 0.33 litter beer (around 5% alcohol)) and she paid for the second round. Towards the last hour or so i started touching her hand and stuff and we got comfortable with touching each other hands. I would say i hit state during the last 45 minutes or so, i sexualized a bit and at one moment we were both holding hands and she did not remove it. At that moment i kissed her, a small make out. After that, she leaned on and she kissed me. She told me my lips were a bit rough because it is quite cold these days and said "next time you go out with a girl apply some product to make your lips softer". Afterwards we left, she said "that was fun" when we were leaving. Then i walked her to the train station (she lives in a nearby city) and went home. Considering this girl was quite pretty and cool i am very happy with myself that i had the balls to make the first move because usually i chickened out and this costed me like 4 girls so far. Now things get weird and bad. I reply to her story like 3 days after we meet and we text a bit, then i suggest to meet later on the week (sunday and this texting is on tuesday). She says she is busy that weekend but suggests to meet me next wendsday (so 1 week exactly from the moment this texting is happening). I agree and we pick a time and place. I do not really text her after because i was busy with my stuff and partially because i did not want to mess up anything with bad texts (i am not that good in texting atm). So today (wendsday) i go the place we arranged to meet but she is nowhere to be found. I text her "where are you" and 20 minutes later she tells me that she forgot and was sorry and shit. I got super pissed but refraimed myself for saying anything nasty, i just told her not to do it again and lets find a time again to meet and stick to it. She suggests friday after class and says she is also meeting some other friends. I get bit confused and tell her if we can meet on the weekend because on friday i am busy. She tells me okay but i am not sure yet and then says something weird to me. She asks me "if this is a friendly meeting because things got a bit weird towards the end of our previous meeting". I am like WTF to myslef, you legit kissed me, said it was fun and we even made jokes after when i walked you to your destination and now "it was weird"????????? I text her like "Is it really friendly tho" and "What was weird about last time" She says something like "yes very friendly" and "haha nevermind, beer in empty stomach i guess". I am really really confused with this shit. Most of my friends are not thatttt experienced with girls so i feel like asking here for advice because i really want some good advice. We talked for like 4 hours almost before i kissed her and it was mutual, she accepted it and even kissed me back. We did not even drink much, she never said she was tipsy or drunk and seemed perfectly mine to me. I am really confused. Any advice would help. Sorry for the super long thread but i wanted to give you guys a clear assesment of the situation.

I would say like half the guys are totally clueless about this stuff, they have not bothered learning it or improving it. Sure some are naturals but i doubt every single guy is.

I was being sarcastic because they are first to tell guys how to act but when someone does what they say and makes a thread needing help they cannot help him so they just ignore it . Just FYI because i forgot to mention, if i text a girl and she constantly takes multiple hour if not a full day to reply then personally i find it bit degrating to keep doing it when she is not putting any effort. If i did that to her you would prolly tell me its bad behaviour.

@K Ghoul @Etherial Cat Since you girls are so fond of giving opinions and advices how about giving me your 2 cents on the thread i made which should be in the first 5 that appear in this forumn sub-section. Would like to hear it.

If this is typical girl behaviour then i genuenlly do not understand how basically every guy has been in many relationships during his life. Have they all went through this shit?

Practicing your sense of humour i see

@Antor8188 You are fine then. As long as a girl is your height or shorter then you can get her.

LOL this shit again... Of course heights matters, if someone saying it does not matter is just retarted. The thing is that it is not the only thing that matters even regarding purely physical appearance. Your face matters 10x more than your height. How tall are you if i may ask @Antor8188

How do you make it clear? I met her from someone and asked her to meet me. Nowhere was it obvious it was a date. It could have been a friendly meeting just as much. Maybe touch without kissing? Otherwise it seems as a friendly meeting to me. Depends also on girl i guess. This one was 25 so i assumed she expected a kiss if she bothered to go on a date with someone. I did what you told me and got ghosted after for being too passive in the past multiple times so yeah... Kissing for 10 seconds is not hard physically, it is a date not a friendly meeting. Pulling a girl and kissing her are totally different ball parks. Kissing aint much for most girls, just see how easy it is for a girl to kiss u on a club versus sleeping with you.

Bro please do not assume a 3 hour interaction based on that. I did joke about it, that is not the point. The point is she doesnt have as many options as u guys might wronglly assume and i have to clarify it.

I said that as proof that she did not have 20 guys orbiting her as you might have assumed. I said she is pretty but not hot. Maybe a 6.5/10. Also we had good chemistry, we had fun and she was into the stuff i am. She was also very fun and we had a ton of good laughs and shit. Pleasent person overall (if i dont count the dumb af games). She is cute but not as attractive as you might think. Keep in mind i have very low standards for what i find attractive.

This one does not, she barely knows people and is cute but not like a 8/10 or anything like that. Just cute/pretty but still normie girl. I should have clarified that. Most importantly she is new in town and does not know a lot of people. She legit complained to me during our date that her life here is still a bit boring and she does not know that many people. So the chances of me being outcompeted or replaced by someone else, at least until today are quite low. I think she just lost attraction or was not attracted to me but i managed to seduce her successfully during our date and when she went back into logical mode she had buyer's remorse or something.

Also not knowing what you did wrong. This makes you think about it over and over again and just you more and more attached. That is what i plan to do anyway. I wouldnt have time to go out with 3 girls at the same time though. Dating takes time, i have a busy life. 1 date a week is more than enough for me. Maybe 2 max . It is rigged against normal guys. Scumbags i know in real life have no issues with girls. But i do not want to get into that rant again here. Honestly man it is the only thing that keeps me going, this exact thought. Just like i foget how hard it was for me to make friends in the past because now it is almost effortless for me due to all the work i did on myself regarding socializing, being interesting, funny and developing a keen sense of social intelligence. I kinda take it for granted now Thank you for your motivational words Roy, appreciate it!

For the first 22 years of my life i did exactly that. You have no idea for well put the rest of my life is relative to relationships and dating. I workout, i meditate, i am learning a new language, i am doing a masters degree, i am read self development books, i have a wide circle of diverse and interesting friends, i learn new things about the world and i also love travelling. So tbh choosing to date is something i kind of forced myself to do because my skills were lacking rather than doing it because i had nothing to do. However once you go through the hole you get invested. Kind of like doing heroin even ifyour life is well put together, yes it will not consume you but will still affect your life somewhat. This girl was arguably a very very good fit for me, if it was the typical girl i would not care that much. I lost like 3 girls in a month like that and barely cared. You have no idea for much less detached i get from girls now relative to 2 years ago. Each "heartbreak" incrementally makes me more detached. The main reason i am upset outside of the girl being a high quality girl is the fact that i geniounly dont understand what i did so wrong, if i knew exactly what went wrong it would be a good closure.