Karmadhi

I am not talking about bullying or saying hateful things. Even stuff like "Men are more logical and women are more emotional" will get you labeled as a sexist. Or "Asians are quite hardworking" can get you labeled as a racist. Like these petty things where they take something neutral and make it seem like it is so bad. Of course if you say hateful stuff and insult others then it makes sense.

You can meet people through many ways. Work, social circle, events, conferences, parties, gatherings etc. Just being social makes u meet a lot. I honestly do not think cold approach is needed unless you want to get hot girls in large quantities. It is like entrepreneurship, it helps a ton to become rich but you can still live comfortably with a 9-5 job. If you are not happy with your results give it a shot, otherwise ignore it. Getting a top notch tinder profile (I assume you look at least decent since girls approach you), will help you a ton more than cold approach. I know a guy who did like 300 daygame approaches with barely any results then he tried tinder and is slaying there (he is normal looking too). Just get platinum, good professional pictures where you MUST show good dominant sub communication and improve your texting.

The idea that "if a girl is not your girlfriend until she sleeps with you" is very very western liberal biased. I know MANY girls from conservative countries that only did it with their partner months after they got together. It can lead guys to loose girls if they push sex too much as some girls take it super slowly and have horrible associations with having sex too fast. Some girls dont care. So culture plays a role. I say it because I am someone from a conservative society living in a western city and the difference is enormous.

Hello everyone Today for the first time I took a high dose of magic shrooms and did a guided tour. It was in a dark room with a friend guiding me and helping At the height of the trip I saw butterflies. I focused on the butterfly and the butterfly opened its mouth and got closer to me. I felt strong emotions and I also opened my mouth. Opening the mouth allowed me to feel it deeper. The emotions (I think it was love) was so strong that my mouth could not physically open any more to receive more of it, my whole body felt limited in how much it could take. Then I saw the body get dismantled violently and slowly disappear. Afterwards I was just one with the butterfly and felt insane strong emotions with tears flowing down my face. This lasted for maybe 10 seconds. There was just being, no thinking, no body, just pure emotion. My face was soaking wet after from the tears. I never experienced anything like this before, I did 1 year ago a shroom trip but it was way way weaker. A second time when the butterfly opened its mouth, I saw my body get physically streched and expanded. During the whole trip I was barely thinking, I did not need to think. I just felt and intuitively communicated. My mind was totally shut down, logic was gone. I am trying to make sense of it. I assume the emotion was love because it felt beautiful and powerful. The tears were of happiness not sadness. What did I experience exactly if you guys have spiritual terms for it?

Is there a conversion? So 1 gram of mushrooms is equivalent to X of truffles? What would be 15 grams of truffles worth in mushrooms so I have a vague idea.

I tend to be very harsh and demanding on myself so that would make sense.

I took 15 grams of magic truffles because the first time I took 10 grams and although i felt some stuff, it was not that powerful. I think I have high natural tolerance because also weed barely works on me unless it is a high strong dose. . However it was not traumatizing at all, very beautiful and profound I would say. I feel like I temporarily went outside the matrix Knowing all the theory about this stuff and having some lighter psychedelics experiences helped make sense of it.

It felt like that, I did not know it was possible to experience it with shrooms, though DMT was required to go that deep. Now I feel a lot less insecure, anxious and overall more calm. My goal is to try to integrate what I felt in my daily life and work towards achieving similar things (although way weaker) through my daily meditation practice. We will see in the future. I am reading that butterfly is a spirit animal that is about "transformation", which is interesting because I am trying to expand my personality and work towards finding my true authentic self. I assume this is "been here done that" for you at this point but wanted to thank you for opening me up to the possibility of experiencing these things. Thank you

I always see butterflies, it is a theme with me. However what I felt was so profound I do not have words for it. The emotion was so intense that my body got dismemberer in order be able to feel all of the emotion, it basically transcended the body and even the mind. Face covered with tears, it was beautiful. I am still shocked about it. Was it god s love I experienced? Is that what love with capital L is? Sorry for asking so much but I am still wondering about the whole thing. Could you please elaborate? I am not familiar with the term.

The difference is that guys and society is quite empathetic, understanding and not demonizing of a girl s period. Meanwhile for men sturggles regarding this stuff there is 0 empathy and you get demonized when you try to improve (pickup for example). Why would a girl even be angry if you try to improve yourself by talking to a lot of girls? I did it with some female friends about daygame and they were super supportive about it. Of course if you start explaining them technical details of what attracts them it does indeed not go well. Just the act of going out and talking to girls I think should not be demonized.

Does not that put too much importance into looks? If she talks to you for 2 minutes all she sees is your looks and maybe a bit of your body language, tonality and base confidence. You even said it yourself in one of your old videos that in order to see someone s full personality it takes a bit of time, not possible in 3 minutes.

There are many things here you need to take into account: 1. Have you maximized your appearance? Gym and fashion would be your best friends here alongside good groming and even hair transplant if you need it (cannot tell). Looks are not the most important thing but they definitely make a difference, do not listen to PUA guys that think its just about your game. 2. Do you have hang ups from your past? Deep trauma or inner issues? Limiting beliefs? Work on those on top of going out. 3. Try daygame. Maybe your natural personality is better suited for it. At least that is the case for me and many people I know. Maybe you are a natural fish that is trying to swim in the desert. It does not work as well for him as swimming in the sea does. Maybe daygame is your sea. 4. Try to do social stuff also. Go to meetups, gatherings, events etc and talk to everyone. Social circle is way more powerful than cold approach and it is how most guys get their partners. You will not get laid massively for it but you can defiantly find a partner from it. 5. Persistence of course but you seem to have that in check which is very nice since it is the hardest thing. 6. Getting coaching is not bad per say but first of all I would avoid RSD guys and just focus on learning some basic principles and applying it. Once you have good experience you can hire someone to see you and fine tune details but most of the work is you doing it and self reflecting. Leos videos should be all the theory you need. 7. I have met PUA guys that do get girls sometimes but I ALWAYS notice that the ones that actually do well are really chill, natural and pleasant to talk to even as buddies. Meanwhile the ones that struggle, even if they do get laid have this weird over analytical almost autistic vibe around them which I find weird as fuck to be honest. If that is you try to change it. Just be yourself (cringe but it is mandatory). Final question: Why are you doing pickup? What are your reasons and motivations? Is there a deeper meaning behind it for you?

Thing is whenever someone here complains about not getting girls you say that "guys these days are not getting laid because they are not social". However spam approaching girls is not natural nor has ever been. If just being social would not get you laid then why do you promote it so much? Instead of promoting guys to socialize more you should promote them to approach and flirt with tons of new girls which is very different from socializing. Normally guys dont spam flirt with girls Also I was talking in terms of even dates. Dates not the same as having sex. You might need dates with 5 different girls to have sex with 1. I was talking in terms of dates abundance rather than sex abundance.

I found this video of this guy who has approached over 2000 women living in Germany during the day and gives his thoughts I really like his philosophy which is based on just being himself and following simple social conventions instead of super long overly complicated structures which daygamers love to do. Always found those silly af. I would understand a detailed structure on nightgame which is a highly artificial environment with a lot of noise but a quiet day scenario is as natural as it gets. Also he says he gets pretty good results. Regardless his philosophy is great. Just wanted to share it.

As Adam in Dark says: "Humans are peculiar creatures. All their actions are driven by desire, their character are forged by pain". So yeah, I agree with you.

Enough for it to get all the attention in social media and news. Also most conservatives are not super racist, homophobic backwards people as liberals make them seen. So the argument goes both ways. Just because you see white supremacists and people saying gays should be stonned does not mean most conservatives think like that. It is also shown on news a lot which is even worse than facebook for bommers.

I am quite green myself but when I see some of the extreme stuff like 50 genders, identifying as animals etc then I am not suprised why when trump publicly says " there are 2 genders" only he gets a lot of support. Same with Orban in Hungary. If these progressives want more support they should do the transition slowly and smoothly instead of going overboard with this gender stuff. It gets so bad people vote for whoever is against it, even if that person is not a good choice in general. The enemy of my enemy is my friend kind of thinking. This progressive gender/sexuality stuff, has gone a bit overkill these days, you even mentioned it in your videos.

@Leo Gura Leo recently I have been going out a lot and meeting a bunch of people through common groups and events etc. So heavily socializing and going out etc. However I have noticed that when I go out to just socialize and have fun and meet people I do not get the abundance of girls people claim. There is a big difference for me between going out and have fun and meet some people compared to actually doing pick up and hitting on 10 girls per night. What happens is that I meet maybe 7-8 girls and max 3-4 are is single and the whole vibe is just social and fun. Of course you can flirt if you want, follow them on instagram and meet up but it does not really lead to abundance. Obviously it is better than sitting at home but it lacks the volume pickup gives you. Usually you will not meet 10 girls EVERY time you go out unless you are explicitly hitting on them which is more of a pickup frame rather than a social frame. Because in social frame you also meet guys, some girls are in a couple etc. With me when I did night game I would talk and properly hit on 10 girls per night and the evening was about that rather than just socializing and having fun. How do I find the balance between "social fun mode" and "hitting on girls, flirting" mode. Hope my question is clear.

Do you still have insane stomach pains whenever you eat fruits and veggies or you are just tired a lot? I remember you made a blog video about eating something that caused you immense pain for 2 hours.

You can join Whatsapp groups and meetup events. I have met many people this way. There should be such communities online if you search.

Parts of my game are pretty weak, parts are ok, parts are decent. I do not care about rotation, fucking anything hotter than a 7 nor having a high laycount so I do not care about having a high level. More about improving the lagging parts which I wrote above. A 6/10 decent looking kind girl would make me happy, I am not very ambitious about this domain. I know guys that are extremely boring and lame that manage to get girls. That always baffled me. But ok if this is just for my dating life and no spillover in my case then thanks for telling me. That is the info I wanted to know.

I do struggle with very very specific things like going in for a kiss with a girl, sexual escalation, basically everything very physical that you do from the moment you decide to kiss. However it is not that difficult for me to get a girl to want me to kiss her. Verbally I am happy with myself. I am not this super smooth PUA guy but I am happy with my level, it is not what causes me frustration but the stuff above. Lacking that killer instinct and ruthlessness. Like a hawk. I am weird I know.

My bad, sorry. I will stop.

I say it because outside of hiting on a girl in public, my social skills are quite decent and I am content with them. So in any social situation other than hiting on a girl in a club/street/park I am content with my social skills. I already have humor in any social setting despite the ones I mentioned. Same with vibing and leading, conversation skills etc. I have no issue doing all of those in most social settings outside cold approach. So it is very specific for me. I guess getting over fear of rejection and developing tough skin would be benefits that carry over. The rest of the stuff you mentioned I already have outside of pickup situations. You can in other ways so I was wondering if pickup is specifically worth it JUST to get some more options.

Thank you for your reply. Just to clarify, when I was younger I had issues to vibe in ANY environement. Through hard work and interacting and meeting hundreds of people and pushing myself hard (also doing some self-help work), I managed to become more emotional and charismatic and confident and playful. However the carry over on cold approach is not the best. Also if a girl from cold approach is open and receptive I can vibe with her quite well when in the past I would not have been able to regardless of how open she was. This is the issue I have with cold approach for me, it does not feel like it develops my social skills much at this point unless its a very specific place to approach. Therefore there is no more carryover. For a guy that is not social or does not have good social skills in GENERAL, then I would see the benefit. For me though it is just about developing it on a SPECIFIC place, I do not see any more carry over in other social places. This therefore really limits my motivation because I do not see how this could make me grow as a person outside getting laid. You often talk about the benefits of pickup outside getting laid. Any advice?