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@Hardkill I think USA crazy university prices have to do with Reagan policies also (not sure)

@Leo Gura So females reward pure strenght more than human decency?

Why should being a INPT be something bad? Just find other INTP people and you will vibe just fine. INTP is not exclusive to males you know. Plus you can learn to be social and cool while doing it in a INPT way. For example i tend to have more "intellectual" type of humor full of puns, irony and stuff that you might need to have some knowledge of stuff to understand. It works just fine with people that read for once. Smiling, good body language and eye contact and confidence and self esteem have nothing to do with INTP. At least INTP tend to enjoy their company more so they will be less likely to be clingy, needy and annoying. So yeah each personality type as long as it develops specific traits like confidence, humor and good body language/eye contact is good to go. The idea that specific personality is more humerus or confident is just silly. Each person has their own style of humor and overall "coolness".

@Leo Gura What if you really love the person and you want to be with them? You cannot just leave someone when something goes wrong. You stay together even when things get hard. This idea of "leaving someone as soon as there is a small issue" is the reason why USA divorce rate is so high. In my culture people rarely divorced because they were willing to work together if there were issues. It made families stronger, happier and less bullshit for kids to go through aka divorce of parents.

@Hello from Russia Tell that to Leo who did something similar to online dating to find a girlfriend instead of pick up. And please do not use top 0.5 percent of skills in game as the example. Use normal people. I am sure Ronaldo can kick ass in football blindfolded but most people do not have that skill and they suck dick if blindfolded. And the example is plain bad because noone there is wearing masks. Where i live you get fined 300 euros if you do not wear a mask and 99 percent of people wear one

@Preety_India Wtf this is not the video i meant to send Hope it is not the same video, idk weird youtube bug. The guy btw is against red pill, teaches men to treat women all and is overall very very conscious person. Even talked about spiral dynamics a few times. Do not judge a book by it's cover but in this case it was just the wrong video i sent

@Preety_India Why so angry lol i am trying to help.

@Preety_India Other women are doing fine do not worry about them. Focus on yourself! If you are happy then that is all that matters.

"The female species, such an enigma"- Vegeta from Dragon Ball Z

Pardon me but didn't you say you were in a happy relationship now with a good guy. Why are you frustrated? You do not have to give details of your personal life here of course but if it is about stuff from the past then honestly there is no reason to care so much about it. Especially if you did nothing wrong. We all have been hurt in the past, it is part of life. I challenge you to grow so much from anything that hurts you that in the future you will be thankful that it happened since it allowed you go grow so much.

@Verg0 Do not assume stuff for others please. I am in university (all online for now), i am part of a student organisation (all online for now), all bars and clubs are closed. Bars and restaurants are closed. Gyms are closed. It is winter and people do not go outside a lot. I also come from a country (not originally from this country just studying here) where people are VERY VERY cold normally. Talking on the street to them is not at all like it is in USA. I have met people from USA and they are COMPLETELY different. Much more open and outgoing. You cannot even do day game since people are scared of covid and all wear masks. When nightclubs and bars open again then you can that i am being lazy. If you have any suggestions for me then i would love to hear them.

@Leo Gura The thing is most people in the world cannot do offline game due to Covid. So they resort to online game. You yourself did this and when asked you said : "Covid killed pickup". Therefore the "you are lazy" argument will not work until this covid thing ends and life goes back to normal.

@Ghost @Striving for more Girls will not make you any happier in the end anyway, focus on the process. It is like wealth, useless in the grand scheme of things. As long as your basic needs for love and sex are met then you re halfway there

@Leo Gura In theory yes but the price to pay for that is too immense. Years and years of going out consently just for pussy is too high in my opinion. Unless you are a natural it ain't worth it. Boost yourself up to like an 8 and you are good to go. You did like 1.5 year of solid pick up lifestyle, 5000 approaches or something and still you said you are not even that good. How long would it have taken you to become that 10/10 you claim?

@Preety_India That is main thing. Online dating is like passive income. Real life is the actual job

@Leo Gura If you exchange value for value then an 8/10 guy can get a 7.5/10 girl, a 6/10 guy can boost himself to a 7.5 and get a 7/10 girl. @Striving for more Online game i was talking about. In real life you need serious game to date a 9/10 btw. Do not except to do 100 cold approaches and be all good, unless you are a natural you will need couple thousands to become good at it enough to attract 8-10/10s regularly. Also you do not need a super hot girl to be happy. Above 6/10 personality tends to matter A LOT more in the quality of the girl. At least in my opinion.

@Striving for more Decent looking is not enough if you use shitty pictures. Use high quality pictures that show you at your best, add some photoshop to make yourself pop more and you can easily add 1-2 points in looks. How do you think girls or models do it? Do not underestimate the power that photoshop and professional photography has on the way pictures portray someone. Also do not except to sleep with super hot girls anyway. I would say around 7-7.5/10 is where you will end up with. Yeah, if you look like a model then you can get away with shitty pictures. If you are not then either do not use online dating or do the things i wrote above. You do not even need professional pictures anymore honestly just a good phone camera and someone that KNOWS how to make you look nice. I have pictures where i look MUCH more attractive than i actually am thanks to good camera and angles.

@Leo Gura That is so fucked man. No wonder the blackpill and incels are rising so much if it is like this. I still think IF you are decent looking and with some effort you can get results in it but yeah you will not get a super hot girl. The good thing with online dating is that once you put in the work at first then you do not have to do much. I see it as passive income while approaching in real life would be like the actual "job".

@Leo Gura By personality i mean showing a cool lifestyle, your hobbies, social life etc.

@Forestluv Just get good pictures, if you can some photoshop and professional photographer and you should be at least decent looking. That is all you need. Professional pics and photoshop can bring you from a 6/10 to an 8/10 easily. Also keep in mind MOST tinder accounts SUCK DICK. It is the equivalent of those wasted creepy guys hitting on girls on clubs, yes they are competition but it is such bad competition it is not worth considering. At least half of Tinder accounts are not worth considering at all given how bad they are, at least where i live.

@Leo Gura I just thought she would not smash that easily in an not emotionally stimulated state. Of course she would pick the hottest guy but i assumed that personality mattered to, like how your pictures convey you and stuff. Most importantly i thought they would go out with you for coffee first (like a few of the girls there suggested) before fucking. I thought girls would not casually fuck a guy unless they were emotionally stimulated in the moment (girls do shit based on emotions). Those girls were acting like legit horny guys. What happened to "girls loose their value if they are perceived as sluts". Apparently that is not an issue anymore in these countries so slut shaming seems irrelevant.

@Recursoinominado Actually you look like that guy in the article so you do not need to do that stuff to get some action hahahahah. But i am not saying i will not talk to girls in person or anything like that. Just showed it since it surprised me and the views i had about women caring about personality mostly. I do not like the concept of cold approach though unless it is in a social setting like nightclub bar party festival etc. I am still in uni so i can still approach in class anyway.

@Preety_India I know that you can work around it, just found it interesting since i did not expect girls to do such stuff.

@RendHeaven This girl here has clearly been hurt in the past and now has created this reality where most men are bad selfish men and pick up is responsible for that. In reality pick up is used by shy weak men to become stronger. The asshole jerks that hurt women are usually not involved with pick up at all. Most of the audience in this forum falls into the shy nerd that cant get laid hence the shit load of posts regarding sexual frustration and pick up advice. I do not think a sociopath would use this forum.

I found this and it is very interesting. It seems a lot more similar to what Leo says regarding genders and it seems overall a very mature outlook. Would love to hear your comments, if you know this guy tell me what you think of him as a coach