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@Strangeloop ???

@tatsumaru Hi You are in a difficult position emotionaly and after thinking about how to reply to you, to be honest i don't know what to say to make you feel better. But i will try... We all have some childhood traumas. And later experiences in our lives can and do serve as a trigger and as a result of that the pain comes on the surface to be seen and to be healed. If we can not process that, then we block the pain again even more. The result is a feeling or a state of being empthy shell. The only solution, as i see it ( and i believe you already know that) is to accept the rejected painful parts of our (relative) selves. Now i know this is very hard and sometimes we need the help of others. My sugestion to you would be that you look up for a professional psyhotherapist. I am certainly not competent to help you in that way. And you are not a coward! You are only unable to look at your wounds becose it hurts so much. Many of us are trying to avoid them. But unhealed wounds are like a "bleedthrough" and there comes a time we have to face it. I think that time is almost here for you ( and for many of us). You are not alone in this and i hope that by knowing this you find some consolation... ?

There are books out there about lives between the lives writen by Dr. Michael Newton. Journey of Souls Destiny of Souls Maybe you should check it out.

@Husseinisdoingfine In that case it would be a smart move to shut down the comment section.

@SoonHei I am so sorry, SoonHei!

@Strangeloop Hugs.

@mandyjw Well said!

@Thought Art Beautifuly said...

@Shin You twisted my words.

@soos_mite_ah The advanced spiritual teachings are out there if we want it or not. I've read Sri Aurobindo's teachings and also A Course in Miracles, which are really "advanced" imo. So what should we do? Ban the books and YouTube channels about advanced teachings? Certainly not. I don't see any solution to that other then to say to people they shouldn't believe any of it blindly,but to experience this by themselves.

@kinesin Please don't gaslight me with these statement of yours. I was just expresing my opinions. And i will continue to do that.

@kinesin Leo did not talk about physical death and did not advocate suicide. To many people misinterpret his words and then blame him for their own misinterpretations.

I sugest you should try a CT scan of your head to exclude any physical causes for your problems. The other thing is that in meditation or after it many unconscious repressed content emerges on the surface to be seen and healed. But many people don't know that or they can't handle it. So maybe you should try with some competent psychotherapist whos specialisation is depth psychotherapy and who has some knowledge of the transpersonal domain.

@Strangeloop I understand. But the eternity can shine HERE, in this physical life, when the Light penetrates the darkness. I will ask you directly... Are you planing to complete suicide? PLEASE?? DON'T do it! There is the way to be happy in this life.

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@Preety_India And yet you ARE WORTHY! Worthy of love and peace and happiness. Life is difficult yes, but death is NOT better. My intuition is telling me that we are here to deal with our problems in this physical shape and form...

Hi. Please remember, you are a worthy human being. You are loved and respected in many ways. Sometimes we all feel like this. But there is a Light in us that is much stronger then our darkness. Our wounds are bleeding and we are in pain. But there IS hope! There IS healing and there IS Peace! You don't deserve hell, no matter what your mind mind is telling you, there is the solution. You are NOT weakling, you are vulnerable. We all are. The solution can and does come in many different ways. Sometimes in the form of a friend, a family member, a stranger, or in the form of a professional therapist. Please understand, death is NOT a solution! You are never alone, my friend! Love is in your heart?...

I have a question... Who is using SoonHei's account now? Becose I've seen it is active right now.

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish all the best to his wife and kids. May he rest in peace??...

I would say: "No thanks." Until i have an ego, i would abuse it one way or another.

.@blackchair Well you certainly affected me?!

The only Christians i know are Roman-Catholics and they are homophobic, racist and dogmatic. I also know one Muslim guy. He thinks Jews are the worse people in the world and that Roma people(gypsys) should be killed. He refered to them with "it" word. This is horrible to hear. So i would really like to know some loving Christians and Muslims who wouldn't want to kill me and send me in hell becose i am gay.@blackchair How do you navigate between being a Christian and gay? I am half Croat and i know that many catholics are homophobic.

@Preety_India What kind of books? If it is not a secret...

Actualy i barely knew his grandfather and his mother becose we were not in touch, but didn't know the boy at all so it didn't affect me personaly. But still it made me thinking about how unresolved pathological family patterns are transmited from generation to generation... Until somebody can't take it anymore...

@Preety_India Long time ago, when i started my spiritual journey, there was one magazine for spiritual growth here in Slovenia. And in it one clinical psychologist and psychotherapist wrote many articles about psycho-spiritual dilemas on the spiritual journey. His writings about spirituality was so good, that i never came accros anything like it in any other places. Many times he mentioned how very important it is to face and embrace the repressed unconscious aspects of ourselves and to overcome the alienations of the socialization process. He and some other writers in that magazine introduced us, the readers, with the mystics of old times. The european mystics described their spiritual journey and every one of them experienced something called "the purification". And this "purification" is nothing else then the process of coming out of our shadow material on the surface to be seen and to be healed. So even do the seekers and mystics of old ages didn't have the knowledge of human psychodynamics, becose at that times that type of knowledge didn't exist, they still went through the same process of confronting their "demons", like we all do one way or another. So in some way they did have some kind of knowledge of psychology, but not as advanced as we have today. In the examples you gave above it is ilustrated a shallow american approach toward spirituality. But sooner or later every spiritual aspirant will have to deal with some psychological issues and then they will be very willing to learn more about psychology.